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RomanceRe: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by samuelngbede(m): 9:24pm On Sep 05, 2020
Lalas247:
Does he have a beard ? If not you know wht to do ....
Pls don’t @ me
Sipping Rum kiss


Jokes aside if you find him boring then just decline ... trust me you will tnk me later
Trying to change a man is extremely difficult
. I can only jump into that conclusion only if she had served him some couple of good p**sy... only then you will know a guy's true nature...

forget all these blabbing about been boring, once they see each other's unclothedness and have a good f**k..it's settled

cool
RomanceRe: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by samuelngbede(m): 9:13pm On Sep 05, 2020
seekingop:
no sex yet, thanks
. that's not wise in my opinion...
if you really have any iota of feelings for this guy as u claimed, give him a round of your p**sy and you will see a different man...

I am speaking as a guy and perhaps you won't understand

good luck
RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by samuelngbede(m): 10:52am On Sep 02, 2020
Iceyjayzz:
Wow! do you know only my car can feed your family for years? keep messing with someone that can feed your lineages, lazy coon.
. that's abuja nigeria

RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by samuelngbede(m): 10:30am On Sep 02, 2020
TMKsouth:
How can u even have a car when the Arabs are using you as a camel in Libya and the UAE?! Next we'll hear you died building a world cup stadium in Qatar for just a dollar a day. Talk about being a slave grin grin grin

Nigerians why do you live like this mara huh Have you no shame? grin grin grin

Here's my view right now in Johannesburg while Libyans have u locked in cages cool cool cool

RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by samuelngbede(m): 10:27am On Sep 02, 2020
TMKsouth:
How can u even have a car when the Arabs are using you as a camel in Libya and the UAE?! Next we'll hear you died building a world cup stadium in Qatar for just a dollar a day. Talk about being a slave grin grin grin

Nigerians why do you live like this mara huh Have you no shame? grin grin grin

Here's my view right now in Johannesburg while Libyans have u locked in cages cool cool cool
. be broad minded dude

RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by samuelngbede(m): 10:23am On Sep 02, 2020
if u can see

RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by samuelngbede(m): 10:21am On Sep 02, 2020
TMKsouth:
Akere they're incapable of collecting their own stats. They are on SA case because we have the best data collection in all of Africa.

It's only recently that they are able to collect reliable unemployment data and it shows their situation is similar to ours. And yet they'll say we are jobless people.

Have you ever heard of their crime stats, by the way? grin They don't have the capacity to put them together and yet they shout Giant of Africa everyday.

They don't even know their exact population size.

The United Nations should help them out, this is no longer funny. grin grin grin

RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by samuelngbede(m): 10:19am On Sep 02, 2020
TMKsouth:
Your bad leaders are not space aliens, they are your mom's and dad's, brothers and sisters. So that says a lot about ALL OF YOU as a bunch - fantastically corrupt. The minute u protest they shut u the hell up with a food parcel - shows how damn hungry your lot are while you bragging to me (a whole South African cool) about your cheap 2nd hand car rejected by the Japanese. grin grin grin

Which SA president said South Africans are irredeemably lazy? Will await the answer and proof.

And then there was the white people this, white people that dribble. BORING and FALSE. Rather talk bout Chinese masters man, I hear you borrowing like crazy from them. They gonna repossess that shabby Lagos airport soon. Nigga u is in trouble! grin grin grin
. I will post few things to shot the fool in u up

RomanceRe: To Ubunja, Martinez And The 'simp' Callers by samuelngbede(m): 10:01pm On Aug 21, 2020
elantraceey:
These ideologies doesn't always work. I started pounding yam when I was 9 because I'm the first child and my mum developed waist pain and my dad was the 'man of the house' and would never enter the kitchen but his pounded yam must be served every evening no matter what. You don't use what works for you to compare others, things are no longer the same. You can as well wish things returned to how things were at the thing of your parents now in terms of technology and all. A man cooking while his wife is resting doesn't make him less a man. Cooking should be a husband's duty as much as the wife because it's the both of them and their children that eats the food not just one person and they both should contribute to the home. Now, this can work for one person and not another, so find what works for you and don't judge another man for doing what works for him.
. next time you will tell a woman to go and hunt bush meat because is her and her children that will eat... or the man should make the bed because she also slept on it with the wife... or he should be mopping the ground because he also walk on the ground... or he should tell his wife everything he wants to do.... bla bla bla. ..

a man's nature is to dominate and exude masculinity... he only ''act''weak when the need arise but he is not to be weak

a real man don't always have this ''I don't want to hurt her'' mentality
RomanceRe: To Ubunja, Martinez And The 'simp' Callers by samuelngbede(m): 9:44pm On Aug 21, 2020
elantraceey:
But if it's the woman doing always and he's sitting watching football, it's okay ba?
. u are getting the whole thing wrong... Men don't bow to women , the nature of a man is to dominate... Men love their wife and their wife are to be submissive

you will understand it better when u visit your brother and see his wife (a fellow woman) tells him what to do or manipulate him into doing degrading chores all in the name of love...

because he sleep on a bed , he should make the bed abi... or because he ate from a plate he should wash it... or because he...
when he comes home late you lock him outside, before he do anything he must tell you

a weak man is no man... a man can decide to play weak just so u can have your way ''when he choose'' but know he does that intentionally and to give a woman a sense of influence... to make her feel she is important and have a saying as well.....

no matter what u do , don't put up with a weakling
RomanceRe: Can A Woman Loose Her Virginity Without Having Sex? by samuelngbede(m): 9:05pm On Aug 20, 2020
look closely

RomanceRe: Can A Woman Loose Her Virginity Without Having Sex? by samuelngbede(m): 9:02pm On Aug 20, 2020
the word virginity implies sexual Intercourse in which there must be penetration of penis into the vagina....

in case of a man, if he has never insert his penis into a woman's vagina or ..... he is still a Virgin . likewise a woman whose vagina has never been penetrated by a penis is still a Virgin

hymen is just part of body anatomy and doesn't reflect virginity....
RomanceRe: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by samuelngbede(m): 4:35pm On Aug 15, 2020
I don't know what is wrong with some men, it
not even a case of ''my friend's wife is desiring me'' it's your sorry ass lusting after her .

she has already told you no and gave her reasons yet u cannot respect her decision, her u are taking advantage of her because with little pressure she will definitely yield to ur selfish desire

women are weak and u know that... u are already in the act I don't see the need for any advice. ......

my candid advice even though u don't deserve it... leave that lady alone
RomanceRe: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by samuelngbede(m): 4:51pm On Aug 12, 2020
some people have it in them, they flow with women naturally while others have to learn.... in other words people react to life differently

your alpha male approach cannot work for virtually every lady ,in any case, a turn off for some ladies who will percieve it as uncultured and arrogant projection.

a man handles women differently judging from her aura and personality, u can't just jump into alpha mode when u meet a girl that is used to been treated nice to get anything done at all... some you push to warm them up before starting, that is how their eldomy make up are... some one touch you're riding high in d sky

no one is a Don in this game,whether rich or handsome etc we all have our untold stories and no one should come hear and form James Bond
RomanceRe: 10 Types Of Ladies That Are In Relationships But Still Sleep Around by samuelngbede(m): 9:56pm On Jun 06, 2020
Ralphjoe:
op is very correct, especially with number 6, infact my current girlfriend is a proponent of don't lay ur egg in one basket mindset & she also adds that a guy in a relationship does not have a right on a girl to be faithful to him & that she can give her prized possession to anyone she so desire, to make matters worst, she always says it to my face when we discuss. When i add to it that it also applies to we guys also, that we are also free to sample different girls, her mood changes. One thing i notice about this is that it is now a mantra of most girls these days.If you as a girl have this kind of mentality, then how do you expect we guys to trust you girls in marriage to be able to be faithful to us? As for me that is a complete turn-off for me from a girl i'll love to walk down the aisle with.
.I really agree with you completely...

saying that you can't be faithful to a guy when you are in a relationship means you see relationship as a game not something you should attach feelings or emotions to

that mindset get us guys to start doubting whether some girls are even capable of loving or being faithful... fidelity becomes the watch word
RomanceRe: 10 Types Of Ladies That Are In Relationships But Still Sleep Around by samuelngbede(m): 9:43pm On Jun 06, 2020
kwalakwala123:
When a lady truly loves a man, she becomes more or less a slave. He can turn her into whatever he desires, and she will willingly cooperate without any hesitations or complains. Instead of a man to go after a woman's beauty try to win her heart ♥first to avoid all this things.

Thank me later.....
.not all ladies have such heart that can be won, some ladies love are conditional no matter how much affection you shower on them.... they only love to their merit

so it's not always that love counts
RomanceRe: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by samuelngbede(m): 10:32am On Apr 21, 2020
donbachi:
just use ur seatbelt and i pray ur have airbag.
.abi ooh
RomanceRe: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by samuelngbede(m): 9:16am On Apr 21, 2020
mumu9gerian:
How many times?
Why did you in thr first place?
What changed about you?
.about 8 years ago in the uni days, there was this beautiful sexy girl in my cousin department. each time I go to hangout with my cousin me and this girl will always exchange glances, when it persisted I have to tell my cousin about her but instead he discouraged me with the excuse that she's not in my class and that she is dating one of the biggest sweet post graduate guy and also dating one of the toughest lecturer in their dept...

to my surprise alot of guys in the department hated her but secretly were crushing on her,even my own cousin too , he call her a gold digger just out of envy and for the fact that he felt she's off his reach

fast forward, one day we ran into each other off campus at shoprite, but me I am the shy type I just wave at her and about to go my way when this girl surprisingly pull off the nylon I was holding from my hand and start going through them. as a very shy person now, I was so embarrassed but she was just all over me to buy exactly what I bought for my girlfriend for her meanwhile my sister ask me to get some stuffs for her

because I was shy and I don't want to argue I was lucky to have some change on me I decided to get her those things and she even added more but wetin I go do na

na so me and this girl drive comot ohh... na so my heart just d beat like thunder I no fit talk ,she say make I on ac,
small time make I play music, na so she just d take charge for my mother car ohh

me I go soon reach my junction ohh abi she wan follow me ni as she no talk... I com ask her where she deh go ... she didn't answer me and was pretending to be listening to music, I ask again this time she just look at me and just smile then burst into laugh... she said she is following home so that my girlfriend go catch us together say I just deh fear fear my gf. I tell her I don't have a girlfriend but she just look me like I from another planet

where will I take this girl to na, family house na cast I come remember one of my church guy weh....
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And Their Low Standards by samuelngbede(m): 8:06am On Apr 20, 2020
samuelngbede:
.just imagine what someone's 9 months with exorbitant amount of cost to train has turned into
. the problem is most of them went to school but can't see anything good in doing so, rather to follow a wayward way of life
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And Their Low Standards by samuelngbede(m): 8:03am On Apr 20, 2020
Repercussion01:
I get you bro, but there are lot of ways you could have replied the man without calling him a fool.
It's not right.
.just imagine what someone's 9 months with exorbitant amount of cost to train has turned into

RomanceRe: Pls How Can I Stop My Girlfriend From Double Dating by samuelngbede(m): 8:08am On Apr 13, 2020
tilampa:
Hello house pls advice me how can I stop my girlfriend from double dating
.first of all your question is vague, you didn't give any insight into the level of the commitment in the relationship so it's hard to start pin pointing out possible causes....

not withstanding the fault could be from you or lies with her or both of you... why did I say this? because if a girl truly loves you and she agreed to go into a serious defined relationship with you with a purpose, and you did not prove her otherwise, I don't see how if you are meeting her financial needs, sexual needs, emotional needs,faithful and always been there in her company that she will cheat unless she is one of the daughters of jezebel that even if you kill yourself for her she will still cheat...

I will advise you find out what she admires in a man and work towards it. I don't mean to change yourself totally for her oooh but know that relationship is about adjustment and communication...

Good luck
RomanceRe: She Have N2.5 Million And Still Collect 4k From Me.advice Needed by samuelngbede(m): 7:48am On Apr 13, 2020
Escabado:
My girlfriend came over to my place today for Easter celebration, as she was cooking for me .I checked her phone and saw Ballance of 2.5 million naira oh my God.i just kept quiet . I searched her small bag and saw N8,500 cash and while she was going she say I should give her transport money and I gave her 4k and she collected.please my brothers does it mean girls are this heartless or what and she say she Loves me . Should I go ahead and marry her ??

@ubunja , @ilegend , @gbemi , @expert17 @mansions @nobody @everyone
.it's complicated and one cannot really jump into conclusion...

Maybe in one way or the other am just saying, you might have given her the impression either through your behavior, talk or previous set standard that you are way above her in all ways...

and that you can take care of her without blinking and perhaps you have never ask her for assistance before or you always hide things from her when things are a bit challenging...

don't think she will understand that life is not a smooth ride all the way.... know she is a woman and not a man...

I will advise next time tease her about being broke and watch her reaction closely then you alone will decide if you can continue with her
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders How Do I Insert Images On My Nairaland Posts by samuelngbede(m): 5:56am On Apr 13, 2020
emmaojez:
i love u ATTACH:

RomanceRe: Imagine Doggystyle With This Lady by samuelngbede(m): 5:47am On Apr 13, 2020
Help2020:
I have finally found someone who reasons like me.people don't seems to understand the power of their mind when it comes to sex.
.I don't totally agree with that ,every organ in the human body comes in different sizes and shapes...

just like one man's shoulder may be wider than the other man
RomanceRe: Imagine Doggystyle With This Lady by samuelngbede(m): 5:44am On Apr 13, 2020
gulfer:
I am imagining he obstacles those fat legs will pose to the romp cool shocked cool
.in as much as we all have our different experiences, we still all have our opinion of the best body that comes with the pussy
PoliticsRe: Defy Lockdown, Harvest Corpses Like US, Europe, APC Govs Forum Warns Nigerians by samuelngbede(m): 5:35am On Apr 13, 2020
xtremerules:
You know how many people hunger dey hammer? If you no get solution for that problem, Oga abeg shut up
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PoliticsRe: Defy Lockdown, Harvest Corpses Like US, Europe, APC Govs Forum Warns Nigerians by samuelngbede(m): 5:33am On Apr 13, 2020

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