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Politics / Re: 26 Rivers State House Of Assembly Members Who Defected To APC Have Lost by Sandok(m): 8:55am On Dec 30, 2023
How would that one be possible, let see how it will does....


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Romance / Re: Few Weeks To Wedding....text Message Discovered. by Sandok(m): 8:46am On Dec 30, 2023
This is not enough to call off the wedding, anybody can say anything online...my advice is for him is to find out what actually led to that before jump to conclusion....
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Pls I Need Ur Orientation On How To Manage A Female Boss At Work by Sandok(m): 12:03pm On Nov 25, 2023
Listen to her correction, do it the way she want you to do it, don't talk while she's talking.
Celebrities / Re: Descushiel Apologizes For Forgetting Her Lyrics While Singing National Anthem by Sandok(m): 5:18pm On Oct 31, 2023
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Politics / Re: Tinubu Has Intervened In Fubara, Wike Rift - PDP Govs Forum Chair, Mohammed by Sandok(m): 5:11pm On Oct 31, 2023
Wike the giant of Nigeria....

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Egypt Warned Israel Days Before Hamas Attacked – US Lawmaker, Michael Mccaul by Sandok(m): 11:50am On Oct 12, 2023
Let's pray for them

Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Sandok(m): 11:23pm On Aug 24, 2023
I think your wife has disease which you are not aware of, some women are like that, they dnt usually have feeling for sex due to Severe pain they go through during sex.



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I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
Career / Re: I Need Your Advice On Whether To Relocate To Canada Or Start Poultry Farm by Sandok(m): 3:15pm On Jul 06, 2023
My friend, go to Canada and start better life there.
Politics / Re: Ban: Twitter Meets Conditions by Sandok(m): 1:31pm On Jan 04, 2022
Me I no talk oooo.........
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Politics / Re: Anambra Election: Public Holiday Begins, Police Impose Lockdown by Sandok(m): 7:22am On Nov 04, 2021
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Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Celebrates Her 37th Birthday With Stunning Photos by Sandok(m): 7:09pm On Nov 03, 2021
Nice one.....

Properties / Re: Ikoyi Building Collapse: Sanwo-Olu Orders Indefinite Suspension Of Gbolahan Oki by Sandok(m): 7:34pm On Nov 02, 2021
Quick respond, let those involve should face d drum n dance to the tune....
Politics / Re: 2023: "It's Time For Southeast To Produce President", Igbo Leaders Insist by Sandok(m): 1:00pm On Jan 06, 2021
Southeast governors .... hope u will not betray ur people at the end...one...most other region had established their security outfit where is ur own... d more u stick to ur decision d better for u....
Politics / Re: Presidency, CBN, NASS, Back Lagos Recovery Effort As Sanwo-olu Unveils Team by Sandok(m): 7:58am On Nov 17, 2020
Lagos..... Fifth largest economy in Africa, is Lagos a country, why much attention always set on Lagos than any other state? These destruction of government property of a thing, does it only happened in Lagos? Well all said and done Continue ur good work, Gov. @jidesanwoolu.
Celebrities / Re: Chacha Eke And Austin Faani's Marriage Crashes by Sandok(m): 3:35pm On Oct 03, 2020
Please be patient....things will get better very soon... No perfect marriage on earth.....
Celebrities / Re: Davido: “I Love Wizkid And I Know He Loves Me Too” (Video) by Sandok(m): 3:04pm On Oct 03, 2020
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Politics / Re: Court Affirms Deregistration Of 74 Parties By INEC by Sandok(m): 3:09pm On Jun 11, 2020
Better, its time we should stop wasting money unnecessarily.... kudos to INEC
Health / Re: 241 New COVID-19 Cases, 117 Discharged And 15 Deaths On June 2 - (3916 Tested) by Sandok(m): 5:21pm On Jun 03, 2020
Finally two cases have been awarded to Kogi state.....it's well with us...
Career / Re: Chevron To Sack 6,750 Staff by Sandok(m): 6:20am On May 31, 2020
I pray others will not follow suit....
Career / Re: Chevron To Sack 6,750 Staff by Sandok(m): 6:19am On May 31, 2020
I pray another's will not follow suit....
Politics / Re: Zamfara To Osun: Planned Deportation Of Northern Youths Unlawful by Sandok(m): 5:14pm On Apr 30, 2020
They should keep quiet right and allow Northern people to import coronavirus into their state....
Health / Re: Remdesivir Proves Effective Against Coronavirus In US Study by Sandok(m): 6:47am On Apr 30, 2020
To God be the glory.....
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Rivers Sends 150 Non-Indigene Vagrants To Their Home States by Sandok(m): 9:32pm On Apr 29, 2020
I think we need to apply wisdom before sending non indigenes to their various states, because other state may follow suit.... God heal our land����
Romance / Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Sandok(m): 5:06pm On Feb 24, 2020
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Romance / Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Sandok(m): 5:03pm On Feb 24, 2020
Sandok.....love is not by force now...break relationship is better than break marriage.....
Politics / Re: Photos From The Boko Haram Attack Of Garkida, Gombi LGA, Adamawa State by Sandok(m): 5:54pm On Feb 23, 2020
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IgbereTV captured more photos from the Boko Haram attack in Garkida Community in Gombi Local Government Area of Adamawa State on 21st February, 2020.

According to IgbereTV reports, the attack left several were houses burnt, which includes those of prominent sons of Garkida, Gen. Paul Tarfa (rtd) among others. Market places, EYN, Living Faith and Anglican churches were also burnt.

A rural health center was also destroyed; 2 ambulances belonging to the rural center were also burnt while another 2 were taken by the insurgents.

A police station and a barrack were burnt. Two soldiers were reported killed.

See photos below.

http://igberetvnews.com/1340176/photos-boko-haram-attack-garkida-gombi-lga-adamawa-state/
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Politics / Re: Photos From The Boko Haram Attack Of Garkida, Gombi LGA, Adamawa State by Sandok(m): 5:53pm On Feb 23, 2020
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EBMedia:
IgbereTV captured more photos from the Boko Haram attack in Garkida Community in Gombi Local Government Area of Adamawa State on 21st February, 2020.

According to IgbereTV reports, the attack left several were houses burnt, which includes those of prominent sons of Garkida, Gen. Paul Tarfa (rtd) among others. Market places, EYN, Living Faith and Anglican churches were also burnt.

A rural health center was also destroyed; 2 ambulances belonging to the rural center were also burnt while another 2 were taken by the insurgents.

A police station and a barrack were burnt. Two soldiers were reported killed.

See photos below.

http://igberetvnews.com/1340176/photos-boko-haram-attack-garkida-gombi-lga-adamawa-state/

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