₦airaland Forum

crackhaus:
Do you want us to advise you on how to show emotions and not be so mechanical in public OR you just want us to tell you the things that excite us?

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I am not seeking for advice. I have mastered the act of doing things my way. The way I am wired makes it next to impossible for me to be emotional and I have no qualms about that.

alutacontinua:
Money!
plenty of it

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Good for you. Material things hardly make me tick.

eleojo23:
That is rather ironic considering your username.

How do you mean?

Over the years, people especially the femalefolk have variously accused me of not been caring. Things do not usually excite me like others; I do not normally show emotions in public; what make others excited will only elicit a shrug from me and that has led many to believe and errorneously too that I do not care but the truth is that I care and really do even when I do not show them openly. Some of the things that excite me include: exceptional intelligence, moral aesthetics, very cool music with meaning, poetry, good books and slim ladies with the right physiognomy and physique etc. What excites you people?

The South-East has some of the worst federal roads in Nigeria. That Enugu Onitsha road is in very bad shape and urgent steps should be taken to give it a facelift. The Umuahia-Ikot Ekpene road to Odukpani in Cross River and from there to Benue via Ikom are other roads that need serious attention. The government is trying but more work should be done on these and other roads across the length and breadth of Nigeria.

Why are celebs afraid of marriage? Most of them are having kids outside wedlock. Baby mama has become a new vocabulary in our language. Much as we know that our society had degenerated to an immoral depth, the majority participation in a vice does not make it a virtue because marriage is a God ordained institution and so should be honoured. I have nothing against the dem mama soldier and his beautiful daughter but let the right thing be done now and always.

nenergy:
Successful women have plenty men in their lives
*Disclaimer*
1. This piece is not in any way inferring that women need men to succeed.
2. By MEN, i am not insinuating sexual relations.
3. This piece is not a matter of FACT. It is an observation, an opinion.

A female friend recently told me that; “she’s glad she knows me”. Why? Well, it was part of her Ode in appreciation for my assistance whenever she needed it. From helping with laptop/phone issues to helping with job search and being her personal Google.

Men play vital roles in the lives of women; as fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, school mates, crushes, mugus, magas, lovers, pastors, assignment boyfriends, neighbourhood acquaintances, university degree project assistants, NYSC camp body guards, NYSC PPA pals, job search advisors/assistants etc

At every point in a woman’s life there is always a MAN willing to offer her assistance (voluntarily or with a motive). It is the major reason most girls prefer male friends/company to their other females. They can gist about E! News and Kim Kardashian with their girlfriends, but when it is time for ‘business’, they know who to approach.

Considering all of these, i am of the opinion that the more MEN in a woman’s life, the higher her chances and speed of success.
Successful women are women with plenty MEN in their lives. These MEN contribute to her success.

n.b: Before you attack me, please read my disclaimer again.

Yours Faithfully,
Nenergy
Author; The Job Seekers’ Creed™

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You can say that again. Most of the people who call me for one issue or another are ladies. Health issues, relationship, job, religion, current affairs even during job interviews and examinations. I do my bit for them and most of them do appreciate both in the short and long run... Send me your acct details, I wanna spoil you a little, I want to appreciate you etc. The womenfolk are not bad afterall.

Dirty is a subjective concept. His clothes or undies or room or his body, abi he no dey shave armpit, groin abi moustach? What one sees as dirty may not to another. If he is dirty, teach him, help him, cajole him, threaten him, beg him and love him and he will change for good.

bebe2:
I kind of see ur point.

Se-x in marriage is sacred like u said.

Most men will never touch the woman again if they find out they slept wit someone else.

Call it pride or watever u like but the fact is wat drives a woman to infidelity is totally different from wat drives a man.

We will all agree that most men think wiy their pe-nis, once the thing done stand something need to bring am down regardless of the consequences. And most times these actions have no emotional involvement.

Buutttt before woman open leg for another man, e don weigh am, calculate am, manipulate am and decide say its worth doing.

And once she try am once, she go hardly stop am. Even science says there is a certain hormone thats secreted during se-x dats imbibes the memory of the man in her for a very very long time.

So which man wants to be competing with dat??

Your sense dey dia.

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

The story of an incoming runz girl. Keep both of them and get extra 3 guys as back up cos most guys are cultists or drunks or womanizers or abusers or sane people.

I did not read everything but I must let you know that not all women will get a husband no matter how hard they package themselves cos some of them, their husbands are in jail, are Boko Haram members, have died or have no interest in marriage.

corisande:
I don't understand what you mean by scaring men away.

Are you saying I should be receptive to all males that I come across. ?

what I mean is that you should do your own part, be nice to every male even if they do not meet your mark and expectations cos the rejected stone can become the chief of stones.

The police should have shot the dogs. The owner of the dogs should be charged for attempted murder and may God help and heal the hapless and innocent boy.

corisande:
Awwwwww
Happy married life

A woman asking me in the market today if I want to cook for my hubby
I said no. family
she started praying for me,saying very soon it will be my husband and kids

I was embarrassed sha. lol

God will give you yours. hope you do not scare men away?

Happy married life. best wishes now and always.

What is her business with that? it is her life and she is free to live it as she likes. single girls never get husband finish let alone a divorcee.

Mimiko has used labour party to achieve greatness and fulfill his political dreams and has dumped them for his parent party PDP. he just played out a written PDP script.

Billyonaire: It is shamefully true. Nigerians have been infected with the beggar mentality because we usually 'dash' them money. I propose we all stop giving arms to these beggars.

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Do you give arms or alms?

If you can afford air fare, thank your God; if you have flown in an aeroplane, you are more fortunate than 96% of Nigerians; if you are employed, than your stars, if you have your business, count yourself lucky; if you have the means to help people, do so cheerfully and stop complaining cos God loves a cheerful giver.
I dont subscribe to begging though.

[quote author=sage_]I am self-thought programmer. I have met some computer science graduates with 2.1 who don't know how to write a simple "Hello, World" program. The situation is actually worst than we think.[/quote].
Self-thought or taught? Ukochukwu, na d same people

You aint seen nothing yet. Tomorrow with the help of connections and godfathers, they will man strategic positions and will start forming James Bond and Chike Obi when sound people come around to look for employment. Patience J is far more better than many 9ja graidiots

Then we shold award him the Boko prize for piss: namsense man

@gidi and afam, you two are making a mess of yourselves in public. I take exceptions to nitwits who join issues with themselves in public. Two people cannot be mad and odious at the same time. He who is wise is wise: ability to speak sparkling English or parading a degree or certificates does not make one wise.

I know the foolish among you will attack me

*Singing#I like Omotala cos people like, I like Genevive I know that she's so sweet#

Filing for bankruptcy means he is having financial difficulty. Forget about smart move. When I read his book around 6 years ago, I told my friends that the principles of his book are largely untenable in the real fiendish world.

Boys' High School Amuzu: Rusty and Culty

Foxybone: Na which kind nonsense una dey post for here... **Runs swiftly and rewinds the radio to see if President Jonathan spoke about the change in price of Una-know-na but was disappointed** So, how e carry concern me how president Jonathan go carry manage flood... Mtchwww.....

Abeg, make una free me jor... With all this front page post... Mtchwwww

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If you think flood is not affecting the price of garri, ask the man from Bayelsa cos a paint of the commodity goes for #1500.

They will rot in Kirikiri but if they have political back bone will be out be4 you say Jack Robinson. Its a pity how young people resort to crime for survival. Hardship and unemployment is not an excuse to be involved in criminal and nefarious activities, be warned.

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