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alexialin:
No mind her o


She can lie for Africa.. She's now my door neighbor or next compound neighbour.

Smhhhhh.
She should keep lying there.

Thank God O! I don't keep female friends or even confide in anyone my true story, how I live my life. that's how they will come online and say what not!
Claiming they know me... Ope o!
I know my next compound neighbors very well. The two houses facing my flats both sides are always mind your business kind of people, cos they are from high society families. And all we do is hi and hello.. Even on my street, it's hi and good morning, finish. What's my own with street people. Let them keep guessing..

Deceiving herself I know you.. In her dreams.
Let her keep deceiving herself..

Na she sabi. Am not saying a word! About my private life. She should take Or leave it.

lolokike:
Just go with your NYSC ID card, and xplain to them that you are TO PASS OUT same tomorrow.

i am sure they will understand aafter seeing your ID CARD, just so they can confirm the due date of your POP.

You just have to give it a try. God gatchu.

lolokike:
Just go with your NYSC ID card, and xplain to them that you are TO PASS OUT same tomorrow.

i am sure they will understand aafter seeing your ID CARD, just so they can confirm the due date of your POP.

You just have to give it a try. God gatchu.

mightyleks:
But they said come along with your certificate


Well I hope it doesn't become an issue at the end

UEK33:
Kai..i used my mtn. enugu center though..let me pray harder. plz any1 that gets an invite in his mtn line should indicate.

UEK33:
plz did u use a glo line..
Enugu centres in the house any news ?

onlyme07:
Mail or text?

Dmes:
Just got msg to come for cbt/interview Thursday by 9am.. Abuja center, Pls who else?

shimmer1:
First things first, that guy has distrusted trust settings from day 1. I mean, for crying out loud why would you have a child and not tell your present girlfriend you are probably seeing your future with, and she had to find out from a third party. What if they get married, what else will pop the bottle? He's gay?
Okay, now I think I'm even tired of hearing girls saying I offered him sex, food! So? Life is much more than that. When you were with him, what have you accomplished together? How have you helped or stood by him. Furthermore, are there anythings you've done for or with him that even if you break up with him today, he will remember you for life. I think girls should do better. Most times, some of us just like to collect and collect, thereby forgetting to give. Most times we are still the ones that lose.
Nobody should forget that a taker can never rule over a giver. No matter the circumstances(except if there are some funny means) .It is against the law of nature.

lefulefu:
some mumu men are still training random girls in schools oo with promises of marriage.some will even train from jss1 in the secondary school to final year in the univ.when the girl graduate then she will tell the man that he's too old for her.some guys dey try o.

Blackfyre:
There was a time I never cared for such talks just kept to my own beliefs, but today, foolishness has become wisdom, and stupid classifications(liberalism, conservatism, centrist) that never existed since the time of their forefathers is now taking root and stem and seen as wisdom or enlightenment.

I wonder which of their great grand fathers will they say homosexuality is not an abnormal act and won't spit to the ground but their sons and daughters think they are wiser and more enlightened.

They are all fools!

Blackfyre:
I am sure he has heard the message from how I countered you.

Both the men, women and those advising for "embracing sexuality outside marriage" are all FOOLS!.

Plus quote me anywhere, you will face the music in marriage...

Daeylar:
Yes yes yes

lefulefu:
abeg no let those guys wey dey train babes for school come for u oo

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]When you show to a girl that it’s mainly sex you want from her and you take care of her and see to her needs well. She will definitely think that’s what you want from her and will use it to her advantage.

But girls should note that in a relationship no matter how you open your legs for a man if you’re not worth his salt he won’t look at you twice.

I cater for you and don’t complain but all you offer is sex plus incessant nagging and emotional blackmail? Nothing else to the table. :

If I find a woman who has more to offer ima dump yo ass. Men got standrards too.[/color]

NightHound:
The bias in society is such that when a woman has sex, she's viewed as 'less than'; while when a man has sex, he's patted on the back. If sex were a currency, it's women who would be spending anytime they had sex? Spending their dignity in the eyes of society. Because in the end, they're the ones left morally depleted. So holding back, and giving sparingly even when in love, is just the deserved instinct.

So, even though both parties enjoy sex (maybe equally), the fallout is uneven. Once we overcome this crazy bias, and a woman isn't seen to be "shamed" or "defiled" whenever she has sex; and when people stop referring to busy vaginas as tired pool-sized pussies; then she can participate freely without being persuaded by any other incentives except for the enjoyment of the act itself.

walepackage:
I think it all stems from the societal view point of "sexual orientation".Some men see sex as an "achievement and as a smart guy".But,due to the societal expectation of the lady to be at the receiving end of been called as "cheap,slut,olosho"makes them to be "reserved or pretentious".As such,they capitalize on sex to get what they desire from men,even thou,its a mutual benefit for both.

pocohantas:
The ladies that have the sex for free, you guys call those ones cheap.

The ladies that have the sex in exchange for money or other favours, you call them olosho.

The ladies that refuse to have sex, we have countless advices given to these ones. Imploring them to stay away from relationships.

Majority of men won't stay in a relationship without sex, no matter what else the girl offers you, not like lots of you guys offer much either. Sex is like a collateral to many men. When the girl breaks up and friends ask "you fuk am?"...you can say "Yes, I fuk am".

When you guys decide among yourselves why you think sex in a relationship is a loss to the female, something to use and deride the woman. Then we can know why such females think it's a bargaining tool. You lots share the same orientation on sex in a relationship, both male and female, you fit yourselves, you deserve each other!

yeyerolling:
Cos guys use money too as bargaining chip. Sex equals money. Ns only mumu dey train gal for school

Blizzy9ja:
They know you love sex so the use what they have to get what they want...

9jayes:
Is there anything else they can offer aside sex? bunch of brainless ppl