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Fixey:
Be open minded. Consider it broken, bit don't force the call. Don't call her. Act like she just traveled. If she doesn't reconnect herself, let her go. But give it some time

Okay. Thanks, boss. I have made up my mind that if she doesn't call, I am never calling her back. I was forced to delete her contacts on my phone.

Activist001:
She doesn't like you again. Move on and get a better babe.

Thank you.

arsenal444:
Bross, after Valentine she go come back to you, trust me. Meanwhy, one new jando dey burst her head for one side na.

If this is the case, then it's her loss, because once I find out it's another guy that's taking her attention, then it's officially over between us.

I think this is the reason she's scared of telling me anything. She probably wants to test both waters and see which is deeper.

iRepNaija1:
Everything I bolded is a huge red flag. You haven't seen your fiancee since September? And she makes excuses not to see you? And you live in the same city? Second, stop involving the mother in this matter. If you marry this woman and when she "acts up," are you going to report her each time to her mother? The fact that the mother is saying you should take a break from your fiancee is another red flag. Finally, general advice, you need to exercise patience period because marriage is 100x harder than what you're experiencing now.

All that being said, you should break up with this woman. I know four years is a long time to invest in someone but she's obviously changed and is refusing to tell you why. Break up with her, cut her off entirely (do not reach out, it's for your benefit), and start dating other people and refocus on your hobbies. The ONLY reasons you would even consider talking to her again are if she apologizes AND she explains her strange behavior AND promises never to do it again. Other than those reasons, don't ever respond. She'll eventually understand this is the consequence of her changed behavior. Good luck.

Thanks, boss. I deleted her pictures and phone numbers from my phone since the last episode already. I don't want anything to tempt me from calling her, unless she makes a U-turn, just like you have said.

Good evening, Romancelanders. It's quite a lengthy read, so bear with me.

This lady and I have been dating for the past 4 years, and I am planning on making it official later this year, though Covid-19 made my finances quite complicated recently, but things are getting back in shape.

Recently, specifically over 2 weeks ago, she suddenly stopped picking my calls. Prior to that, we haven't seen each other since September last year. She always comes up with one excuses or the other every weekend whenever I tell her to come over to my place or if I want to go over to her place to see her. I always have busy schedules during the midweek, so we usually have only weekends to see each other.

I have gone to see her mother and her siblings last year. They accepted me as a prospective in-law. The mum said she queried her daughter and she told her that I was the one she would like to spend the rest of her life with, hence the mum's invitation. Her mum usually calls me from time to time, and I do talk to her, too.

Couple of days back, I had to call the mum to report her daughter to her regarding the uncharacteristic change in her daughter's behaviour, and how, despite living in the same city, we haven't seen each other in 4 months, and how she has refused picking my calls in more than 2 weeks.

She promised to talk to her and ask her what the problem was and get back to me. I waited for some couple of days, but when I didn't see the mum's call, I had to call her back. I had to ask her to give her daughter her phone so I could talk to her and ask her some salient questions regarding our relationship. She kept saying there is no problem and that I didn't offend her, and our relationship is still standing strong. I asked if she was going through some personal issues that she could share with me and we might find a solution; she said she was perfectly okay. We settled our issues right there and then, and she promised to call back the second day.

I waited for the second day and I did not see her call. I had no choice than to call her back. Ladies and gentlemen, this girl didn't pick my calls. When she eventually picked after multiple missed calls, she was talking to someone else, while my airtime was burning out. I became enraged. I had to call the mum the second day to tell her I was no longer interested in the daughter, that she was probably seeing someone else, and she didn't have the guts to tell me.

The mum swore that her daughter is not seeing someone else, as far as she knows, and that she hasn't brought anyone to meet her. The mum is a Deeper Lifer, and from my interactions with her, she doesn't condone two-timing. She promised to talk to her daughter, that maybe we should give ourselves more time, like taking a break for a couple of months.

I am not usually this patient, and never condoned negligence and disregard in my previous relationships. However, this girl had been special to me, prior to her negligence. She was quite dedicated to me during the course of our 4-year-old relationship. She was never demanding, and was contented and altruistic, too. She helped me many times in the past, financially, whenever I was broke, and I always repaid her back, too. She was a wife material, and loved by my family as well.

The questions are;

1. Do I disregard the mum's advice?

2. Do I still give this girl another chance after her blatant negligence?

Mods, you might do well by moving this piece to the front page.

Meister:
Supports both GLO 4G bands

I appreciate.

genius43:
Technically all phones support Glo 4G(Glo now have Band 3 in plenty locations) but if you are band 28 specific all phones Released last year globally by Xiaomi does.

Thanks, man. I appreciate.

House, does the Redmi note 9 or Redmi note 9 Pro support Glo 4G?

Swift reply will be appreciated, please.

Anambra State.

#8000/month.

I served back in 2017, and Willie Obiano was the governor back then.

He is still the governor at the moment, so it's safe to say the payment of the monthly allowance should still be active.

Falz ko, Fali Werepe ni.

ursullalinda:
Op use seretide inhaler .......it's a preventative inhaler.......initially she should use it morning and night.......but after like a month she can be using it once a day......with time she can go for days witout it no shaking.......She should always eat bitter kola and honey.......like one or two daily.......heard bitterkola causes low BP so be careful not to abuse it......I have not had attack for over three years now.

How much is seretide inhaler?

May we not marry an unwise partner.

The wife is unwise, and she couldn't hide it.

I am certain it's the husband that would be bearing the brunt of house rent, energy bills, food bills, clothes and other miscellaneous.

She and her father still wants him to drop an almost 2-month's salary.

They should be charged to court for fraud.

Happy birthday, cutie.

I was thinking I would see a slithering creature on the birthday cake.

The heart of a wo(man) is desperately wicked.

Mizwisdom:
Liverpool is one team you can watch with a smile on your face if you're a fan, I love my team.



You'll never work alone

Work alone bi to bawo?

He is cheating. No doubt about it.

Most cheaters are always distant and aloof to their spouse in their marriage.

Essential:
I hope u are not sleeping with her, she is only 16? what kind of offence? I smell rat. not that the father is right but your hands are not clean.

Just like your brain is not clean.

Donchukz:
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I don't know whether NAPTIP have any role to play here,if they can,let me make their phone number available to u,u can have it 07030000203

What is the role of NAPTIP, please?

Zionista:
Just google the address and contact number of Lagos State Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse Agency and report. (If you reside in Lagos)

2)Go to The State Ministry of Women Affairs and ask of the desk that handles domestic violence.

3) Walk into the Area Command of The Nigeria Police Force and ask for the Gender Desk and make your report.

4)Get in touch with the Mirabel Centre. They'll guide you accordingly.

I've have had reasons to report two families in my neighborhood and one of the cases is on while the other abuser is about to be sentenced.

Thanks a bunch.

I will try your first option before the day runs out.

SendAbroad:
But how did you know? Have you been peeping through their windows?

How did you know the daughter is voluptuous if you have not been eyeing or salivating?

SMH.

You are not really smart, are you?

Read in-between the lines.

Pavore9:
The man is a pervert, deriving sexual pleasure from inflicting pain on his naked daughter. He can never pass any psychological assessment to prove he is okay as he is living out a sexual fantasy that he covers up under the disguise of discipline!

God bless you.

ifada123:
I discipline my children with love.
But remember no discipline seems to be joyous at first. But the reward is amazing.

There is no reward in stripping a 16-year-old fully-developed girl unclad and flogging her.

It's an act of perversion!

bukatyne:
The mother is a failed mother and the father a pervert.

I would not be surprised if the father rapes the daughter.

Just curious : how come you and your neighbor know so much about them?

People's ears are on the ground.

His closest neighbours knew about his shenanigans. Moreover, his wife must have told people, too. Guess his wife is financially dependent on him, hence her lukewarmness.

ifada123:
Let me not say You are the pervert here,
You might even be exaggerating the discipline how knows.
How come you know about it if the father send the mother and the brothers away and look the door to flog her?.
Let him discipline the child before she will put him in trouble and the entire household in shame,
A discussion with some SSS1 student last week about their decline in academic performance, to my greatest surprise one of the SSS1 girls said the reason they feel relaxed might be because the teachers don't flog them again.

When you have your own daughters, lock them indoors, strip them naked, flog them mercilessly with horsewhip whenever they err.

Rubbish!

lilmax:
As far she's not killed

boys go through worse

leave them to live their lives

Jeez!

So, until she is killed, she should be left to be tortured emotionally?

Who strips her fully-matured teenage daughter naked if not a pervert?

delishpot:
Unfortunately Juju never asks for such parents when one wants to do ogu ego.

That girl must have been emotionally and psychologically demoralized.

Good evening, Fam.

I moved into this new area on Lagos Mainland some couple of months ago. However, I just noticed that my middle-aged neigbour in the next building has a penchant for stripping his quite voluptuous, 16-year-old teenage daughter naked in order to punish her whenever she offends him.

I made some enquiries from my other neighbours and I learnt that he has been engaging in this "ritual" for the past 2 years. He sends his wife - the girl's mum and his 2 other children - boys - out of the room, strips his daughter naked and starts whipping her until he is satisfied. I was shocked when I further learnt that the mother had never protested or raised an eyebrow against her husband's weird ritual, but she would rather walk out of the house quietly until whenever the husband was done with their daughter.

I want to enquire if there is any NGO that can take up such case in Lagos and environs, if reported or, better still, if there is any alternative solution to this seemingly case of perversion.

Oluwasanmi18:
Past question and answer PDF file for free....seen ur mail.........best of luck to the shortlisted.

Please, I need the past question - akinwoleawe@gmail.com

Please, someone should send me NNPC past questions at -
akinwoleawe@gmail.com

asuustrike1:
Airtel binge is N200 for 1gig and N500 for 2gig

It's #350 for 1gb, not #200.

Raydos:
If Barça beat Liverpool, call me bastard

BASTARD!

drizzypat:
no phone in the surface of this earth has any camera that Par with pixel yet.. It is simply in another world of its own

That doesn't mean the mi 8 isn't great.. It's good too

Have you seen the Huawei P30 pro camera yet?

The phone has a telescopic lens in the rear camera with 50x digital zoom.

It has been used to take HD pictures of the moon.