Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:58pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
ShawtCake: wait! Do you work with Jamb? Pls stop mentioning me o.. We are entitled to our opinions. And you don't think that we are also entitled to question any opinion? Don't be afraid of what the truth has got to offer. This is a chauvinistic male world. Cut down on what traditions and culture tells you. Cut down on what religions with Gods who are too imperfect to be worshipped or praised tell you. Question the orientation you were given. Question everything. Once you do, you'd see the truth. |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:48pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
ShawtCake: The same set of people that goes around saying; men are scum.. Bla Bla Bla.. Are the pathetic Ddick worshippers! How does being a dick worshipper stop one from being feminist? What do you even understand by feminism? Why call cry babies and girls whose knowledge of feminism is equal but opposite to yours, feminists? Does a man loving the va'gina makes him less a free man? |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:45pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
ShawtCake: Boy! Feminism is bullshit! I totally believe men and women are unique entities and no one can take the role of the other.. Well, women try to take up manly roles but it's all nonsense! Having to even try in the first place, makes it invalid! So is feminism asking men to take manly roles and what does it even mean? What should define any role? Culture or commonsense? Why should a stupid man be the head of the house? Why should a wife who is a bad cook but with a chef as husband be in charge of cooking? |
Politics › Re: On June 12 with Elders On Nairaland by Sapiosexuality(op): 10:41pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
Still no valid reason that election is called the best in Nigeria. I'm still here waiting. |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:37pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
ShawtCake: I'm not a fan of feminism! That's probably because you don't understand it. If you do and shed off those ingrained mental prisons culture leaves around, you'd know better. |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:33pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
Sanchez01: There are certain opinions that are regarded as dangerous, particularly when you force it on others, as seen in the video where she soundly bullied Hillary Clinton into changing her bio.
Chimamanda seems to come from an oppressive home. I guess it defines her angst concerning men and having difficulties in understanding niceties. Sounds like Bullshit to me. What is wrong with being angry about the male chauvinism in this wicked world? How did a simply plea for clarification amount to bullying? How does questioning the illogical glorification of men showcase a child from an oppressive home? Honestly, if there is anyone who is oppressed, intellectually, morally and mentally, I think it is the majority of Nigerians who have bought into the matriarchal narrative. Once you free yourself from that, and understand what love ought do, you'd see with her eyes. |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:28pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
Is it that people are naturally dumb or they are beneath the field of learning? Why is such a simple statement be a source of confusion?
Simple. Feminism is about equal rights based on anatomic and physiological functions and not the glorification of any particular gender.
Some persons speak about confusion but I think they are the confused ones. Hers is the finest show of feminism you can find out there.
Others say she is a feminist but married because she needs man and you wonder if it is cotton wool that exists there for grey matter. Isn't equity to bane of feminism?
Here comes this big headed dude talking as though she asked anyone to stop opening doors for their partner. She's simply saying that whatever is good should be well spread.
No gender deserves exclusive right to any source of happiness that can be gotten by both genders. No gender is more important than the other. Why are people refusing to think?
Think. Open your minds. There is no divine providence behind making men head of any house. A dunce shouldn't lead anyone until he has learned to lead himself. |
Romance › Re: This Is What Happens When You Die, According To A Bunch Of People Who Died by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:07am On Jun 07, 2018 |
givan: I believe when I die, I would be free. I would be good.
Lalasticlala seun, what's your believe? I think so too but you can never tell. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Isn't The Currently Trending HR Outsourcing System A Subtle Mode Of Slavery? by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:08pm On Jun 06, 2018 |
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Properties › Re: Who Is Using MTN Mobile Electricity? by Sapiosexuality(op): 3:31pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
idu1: Na people wey never see am before na dem dey talk say e no good.
We are using it and it's very OK. How many hours e dey last? How many things una dey on? How much e dey cost per month? |
Politics › Buhari: How Democracy Gave Nigeria Cancer by Sapiosexuality(op): 11:53am On Jun 05, 2018*. Modified: 12:32pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Sapiosexuality: Democracy is an imperfect system but…it works. In democratic system, the aspirations and wills of the majority is foisted on the minority who may be weak, sounder, healthier and more suited to decide what happens in a country. The people with the right tools to decide what is right may be few in number while the number of people with zero iota of what constitutes good governance in large numbers. In that number, they scream, they gyrate and shout down thoughts that could cause damage to their evident ignorance. They join their poor forces and impose on their republic, leaders without tools to lead or the means to understand how to understand leadership.
A foolish majority is a threat to the growth of any state and wherever they abound the country is bound to suffer. They are vocal and the odour of their words suffocates the few people on the other side. Today’s Nigeria is a perfect specimen to look at. Prior to the election of the grandmaster of failures, President Muhammadu Buhari, it was evident to a few that he was not in a position to understand what to offer. It was evident he was not a good manager of people and resources. He was a religious fanatic and a tribal supremacist and nothing was hidden…but that is for those who knew they had to know to decide. It was not hidden to those who know that before taking any decision they need understand the nature of the cases involved. To the majority, who are afraid to read or reason, it was hidden.
While the nature of the man was evident for all to see but just like Galilee Galileo’s telescope, only a few dared look into what was common knowledge. The majority, due to the poor education their sorry minds received from the propaganda mills of the politicians, saw anything contrary to the masters food as dog shit and wouldn’t dare torture their minds if on gazing it sticks. It was very evident that the man had nothing working for him up there where reasoning happens but members of his team joined hands and heads with him and were able to work out something with the poor informed masses and his Loki self.
They simply sold the majority what they wanted to hear, what they needed to hear and promised ‘the people’ what they knew they couldn’t do for them. They bought it all and we are here today. If the people were well informed a man unworthy to be the Chairman of a Local Government wouldn’t be President. If they were many in the know, then Democracy would have saved us. If the majority of Nigerian Voters were smart enough to vote, if every adult that voted that day had the intelligence required to determine who leads a state, if every one of them hadn’t allowed sentiments to rule over their reasoning, if the people that voted actually had the interest of the people at heart, the level of blood flowing in the land today wouldn’t be this thick. As the Nile supplied Egypt Irrigation, the blood of Nigerians is now the reason Nigeria is still alive. Today a kakistocrat wished Happy Democracy Day.
The point is, democracy only works where ‘the people’ understand the nature and implications of the choices before them. Nigerians suffer and will keep suffering until they become smarter. For those who are down and doing nothing about it, democracy is a scourge. An ignorant weak man can easily be bought by a corrupt politician and he suffers consequences. An ignorant and weak people were bought in large numbers and after we spoke of ‘the people’ with their intelligence in sight, we mourn daily. What a shame! What Buhari got us is even worse than cancer because while cancer kills but noncommunicable, hate, pain, torture and other vices in his resume, kill and are communicable.
Every opinion isn’t golden and shouldn’t be treated as such. There are bad opinions and choices and we are victims of a very bad choice. We are the product of the effects of democracy on a dull population without the intelligence of discernment. It is time to test the intelligence of our voters. They have plagued us with so much illness, continuing will lead to our doom. We need to test the people before they are issued voter cards. Only then will democracy be government of the people. Old age should not be the only criteria for voting, intelligence should come first. I hope our disease doesn’t go malignant in 2019. God help us. God? That’s what the typical Nigerian will say after electing a misfit. http://www.mortalpoet.com/may-29-how-democracy-gave-nigeria-cancer/ |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:11pm On Jun 04, 2018 |
mrstanley1: Yes I did, want to know who else got the message too. Thank you. Okay. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 6:27pm On Jun 04, 2018 |
mrstanley1: Who got an interview message for tomorrow from them today? Please I need more info about them. Thank you. You got an interview, asking whoever got an interview invite a question, or asking me? |
Properties › Re: Who Is Using MTN Mobile Electricity? by Sapiosexuality(op): 10:02am On Jun 04, 2018 |
Verdict: It's not good enough. |
Politics › Re: What Is This Arabic Sign Doing On Our Bank Notes And Coat Of Arms (pic)? Rubbish by Sapiosexuality(m): 3:17pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
peteregwu: Is that your blog site? if it is, it's cool. I like it! Yes, thank you. |
Politics › Re: What Is This Arabic Sign Doing On Our Bank Notes And Coat Of Arms (pic)? Rubbish by Sapiosexuality(m): 2:20pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
That bold statement on the Army’s badge is simply suggesting to us the most important people around. Do you still wonder why some persons around act like they own Nigeria? So many other languages could have been used. What’s so special about the Ajami? You may not like it to be interpreted that way but that’s what symbols do. With such favoritism and pampering of the ego of a few, how then do we expect them to act and be treated the same way? It becomes difficult for their ‘property’ to have it hard on them. It becomes difficult to prioritise Nigerian lives over the lives of some tribe(s). http://www.mortalpoet.com/arabic-symbols-nigerian-army-naira/ |
Properties › Re: Who Is Using MTN Mobile Electricity? by Sapiosexuality(op): 2:08pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
Moghalu4Pres: Never heard of it. It's called MTN Mobile Electricity. Just updated the thread. |
Properties › Re: Who Is Using MTN Mobile Electricity? by Sapiosexuality(op): 1:31pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
Cutehector: Just use your money and buy better inverter. How much is one now? How long does it last or does it depend on capacity? How much load does it carry? What about maintenance? How exactly does it work? If you have an idea on the MTN power source, how would you compare both? Which is better all round? Thank you. |
Properties › Re: Who Is Using MTN Mobile Electricity? by Sapiosexuality(op): 1:24pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
Mods I need your help here, please. Mynd44, Lalasticlala, Seun, Dominique. |
Properties › Who Is Using MTN Mobile Electricity? by Sapiosexuality(op): 11:45am On Jun 03, 2018*. Modified: 2:06pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
Please who have an idea how this MTN mobile electricity works? Is it really a good alternative to NEPA? The amount, the monthly costs, the hours per day and every other info about it. You can also recommend any better alternative. Thanks. |
Career › Re: How Much Do Entry Level Lab Technologist In Fed Unis Earn? by Sapiosexuality(op): 8:50pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Kolping: In the Nigerian culture, the proper thing would be to say "Thank you"...
Kolping: http://www.nsiwc.gov.ng/Docs/pdf/CONTSS%20II_2009.pdf I already downloaded that weeks back, read it but it wasn't worth it or well defined. What's the meaning of the chart? What do you understand by it? |
Career › Re: How Much Do Entry Level Lab Technologist In Fed Unis Earn? by Sapiosexuality(op): 7:59pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
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Sports › Re: England Vs Nigeria Friendly - 2 - 1 (Full-Time) by Sapiosexuality(m): 5:55pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
But what's Joel Obi doing in this team? |
Education › Re: I Survived Boarding School In Nigeria! A Thread For All Boarders In Nigeria. by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:10pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
milanseedorf: Dorm teaches you how to survive in Nigeria at a very young age. Kids that lived in dorm are more sharp, adventurous, rugged, smart etc than those that didnt. It's not a bed of roses but if other kids can survive there, why can't your own kids That's true but it messes your head up. It creates a false version of how people ought to behave and it encourages you to master how to respond to these false created version of how people ought behave. When I left, I found it hard to forgive the seniors who flogged and tortured me that my friends back in that school(who suffered more) called me petty. Four years after I still couldn't forgive them. Wickedness at that young age broke me. I don't think it makes you better than kids in day school. It only makes you better in a society that has concluded that stealing and wickedness is going to be its forte. In the two years I spent in day school, I learned maths better than the 4 years I spend in boarding house. I was happier. I had more freedom. My day school was against teachers or anyone flogging the students and this helped me mentally. I could go home knowing there is no punishment waiting for me because one boy refused to sweep his corner. |
Education › Re: I Survived Boarding School In Nigeria! A Thread For All Boarders In Nigeria. by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:01pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
Still remember the first thing someone, a senior, said to me on my first night. Lol. I was scared to my marrows. I can't forget that.
Senior: What is Your Name?
Me: My name is ....
Senior: Ha-ha, you are in the Jungle, you never know. You never know!
Lolol. My dying tears was alive again. Smh. |
Education › Re: I Survived Boarding School In Nigeria! A Thread For All Boarders In Nigeria. by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:52pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
calmG: As in eh..both of us have same opinion about boarding schools(government ones especially)... I remember telling my dad I don't want to go back cos the suffering was much...he told me its not suffering its discipline...I just wish he understood Discipline? Lol. There is no discipline there. I was in one of these Force schools and the wickedness was too much to handle. I'm not sure I missed anything when I left. I also did same but they refused but for the day a pastor(is it my dad's friend) came to my dad's store and told them to take me out of that school. I was lucky. Lol. The restrooms left a particular bad odour in my nose that even after I left it took months to expel. No matter how organized a boarding house is, none of my kids will go there. |
Education › Re: I Survived Boarding School In Nigeria! A Thread For All Boarders In Nigeria. by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:28pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
None of my kids will go close to a boarding school. I almost died there. Lol. That wasn't funny though. Started crying from Day 1 to the end of SS1 when I left the horrible place. My mind was never there and I hated almost everything.
Fell sick every Monday from the poor diet, the unhealthy environment and the floggings. None of my kids will near that place. Hated the place from Day 1 till the last day. From my JSS 3-SS1 I can't recall a month I didn't fall sick at least three times.
Parents should stop taking Kids to boarding houses. It creates barriers and stripes one of powers to train the child how they deem fit. It offers you experiences to work a good life but at that age, deciding for yourself is very difficult.
Always had a unique persona there. Was very quiet some senior boys believed I could poison there water or food if they message me and I loved it. Lol. Never liked it from day 1. Didn't like it after I left. I don't like it now and I'm not sure I will like it. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:18pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
MrOpp: Hello NLers, i have been an active reader on NL as a guest for a long time, i have just been offered a job in Port Harcourt, thanks to NL job section. I presently reside in Uyo, AKS. Please, any NLer living in Woji Port Harcourt or its environs who can assist a brother share his accommodation temporary should help me. I am male, 29yrs and married. I can be reach via 09081603112.
Kindly treat this as an emergency .
Thanks. If you don't find any, locate the NYSC family House of your church or churches and explain to them. A month or less should do. |
Career › Re: How Much Do Entry Level Lab Technologist In Fed Unis Earn? by Sapiosexuality(op): 6:38am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Kolping: If you want to know the salaries earned by academic and non-academic staff of universities, you will find them on the website of The National Salaries, Incomes & Wages Commission (NSIWC) - CONSOLIDATED TERTIARY INSTITUTIONS SALARY STRUCTURE II (CONTISS II) 2009 for non-academic staff http://www.nsiwc.gov.ng/Policy_docs.php
I posted 2 images from the CONTISS II document in my comments above. Those are the real figures (annually) from the Federal Government. It is that amount that will be stated in your employment letter for a particular level/grade and for subsequent promotions. Not there. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:57pm On May 31, 2018 |
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Career › Re: How Much Do Entry Level Lab Technologist In Fed Unis Earn? by Sapiosexuality(op): 7:47pm On May 31, 2018 |
Tessyy1701: Lol, that's what they use to call d school. I mean Unilorin Okay. No wahala. |
Career › Re: How Much Do Entry Level Lab Technologist In Fed Unis Earn? by Sapiosexuality(op): 7:03pm On May 31, 2018 |
Tessyy1701: better by far university Better By Far University? |