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sanb: @Op; sorry to hear about your break-up….it’s only natural for you to feel sad…..but try not to feel bad….someone better would surely come your way….

In looking for a good wife, one of the attributes should be a woman who can stand by her man and not look for the exit door when things are not going her way. Being patient is a virtue; and it appears from how you have described the situation, your ex was lacking in that area.

It should be the desire and wish of a woman to support the goals and aspirations of her partner…and one of your goals was to finish your exams; which will help you towards success; and instead of her supporting you to achieve that, she complains that you’re not spending enough time with her and rather decides to end it with you. Very sad….

Doesn't she understand that when you are preparing for some complex exams, you need all the time available to prepare and less distraction to enable you concentrate.

She just portrayed herself as someone who’ll not be able to stand by you through thick and thin…its better now that she has shown you her true colours before you marry her; hence, relieving you from any further heartaches.

Never assume that you won’t find someone better; that won’t be right; as you would definitely find someone better than her; who’ll be more loving, understanding, patient, supportive and compatible with you.

All the best and cheer up…..

. You said it all.

experimentist: babe, forget federal palace matter... Oriental hotel I dey flex now

hmmmmmm, so you don up grade be that oh?your level don change be that oh?

sexylogan: She wrote a note with my full name, phone number and address and wrote that i was responsible for anything that happened to her. She then overdosed on sleeping pills and passed out.

. Tell me you are kidding? Why on earth will she do that?
Hope she did not die ?

experimentist: no mind dat wicked guy!





So how far Sarah, wetin u talk na? I dey wait o, 1st come, first serve oh!

say wetin na? On top wetin ? Shey I resemble those babes for federal place hotel? Hahaha, oh my God!!

tosan200: I was like !what what what" she was like "stop stop stop"

what are you trying to say?

Please bring that stool for me. Man got to sit

debetmx: we have got some lovely ladies for you in 'federal palace hotel' who are looking for husband. cheers

oh lord of mercy!!!
If na me to tell this kind thing na to go find river fall inside. Lol

Jenams: Actually, the way some guys take relationship so serious amazes me. After my first hrt brk, I hardly get too serious n attached in a relationship. As long as it is not marriage, hav it at d bak of ur mind dat anytin can happen, if u do, u will nt brk down wen it occurs.
Reminds me of a guy I met in nysc camp in anambra state 2010, he even took d risk of smugglin d girl into camp in for 2nyts all because of luv. I adviced him to take tins easy wen I noticed how madly he loved dis girl. Fast forward, 4months later, he came to visit me in my PPA residence for a weekend, and wen I asked ''ogbeni how ur babe? He started cryin like a toddler. Sayin she left him for anoda bigger boy. Dnt be too sure of ur partner both male n female. DNT!

that was too bad haba the lady did not try at all.

The few have come in contact with are arrogant, they give unnecessary order as if when God was creating you they were there. But in all, that does not mean I generalize not at all.upbringing also go a long way.

Hmmmm okay am learning.

talk2davoo: u be learner? Dont tell me dat u dont know dat there exists a herbal cream dat turns a woman v*i*r*gina into a completely virgin,even it hav been advanced to the estent dat blood gushes out during intimacy just exactly as it would happen in a virgin when applied.big ladies in town collects it secretly from us to woo their lovers.WAKE UP DUDE.

oh lord of mercy , am just hearing this for the very fast time, I guess we learn every day.

byvan: @Sarah,dont mind him,let him keep sleeping away his life.Of what value is his body if it's meant for every woman's sexual gratification? No preference, no choice,just sleeping around, very pathetic .

hahhahahahaha , see as you finish the guy? I was not there oh.lol

Her breaking my heart was a plus for me, infact ,1 of her friend still spent 21-28 dec in my crib.... Bros for your mind you don become supperman habi? Don't be surprise if those ladies are all aware of you dating them, but once they bounce on you please don't come running to us.

Hahahaha. This is funny , oh boy see wetin person the read ?

[quote author=yomi_like]Mine posted the picture of her new bigger spending bf on facebook and told me she regret meetng me . She meet him just couple of ago. It hurt me cos she didn't even respect our 10 years of courtship. it hurt badly . I jus knelt down and pray God for open doors and move on.[/quote]bros you self try, 10years without ring or anything that can show you are serious about the relationship.Any lady can do that oh,so please don't blame the poor girl.

This thread is an eye opener.

homesteady: I'll like to know the church she went to! Haven't the pastor or elders or even the ushers heard about her?
Why'll they allow an unrepentant indecency-star to enter their church?

my brother that was why christ came to the earth. He did not come for those that believe or have clean heart ,but for those who are sinner's so that he can change them from the part of destruction.

Hmmmmm. Oh lord God deliver us from evil forces.

bily: I broke up with two girls cos it wasn't working out anymore.
the first one I have lost contact with but the breakup was so bad everyone saw me as the devil,had a lot of scolding from family and friends on that one.. but we eventually parted on a good note. the 2nd one is a business partner with my wife. knew her before I met my wife, also parted on a very good note. my wife is closer to her now sef than I am.
the third girl that broke up with me ended. up being my wife, I no dey give up, come and see begging

happy ending , you are the man.




O YO( oyo lo wa) hahahhahaha

Magic Bishop: I hacked into a facebook account of one her friends and posted on her wall and every single thread the b1tch commented or even liked since she joined facebook where I stated what a b1tch and hoe she is.

I like your boldness.

blackpammy: Mine went around telling all my friends that I had broken her heart and that she was going to kill herself. Twas very embarassing.

If am you I will just tell her to go ahead with the killing.



Relationship is not do or die haba. Ki lode?

Great job you are doing at op.

Anaegboka: I came across one guy who claimed to be from Cameroon with goods looking for his customer at one plaza whose name he pronounced confusedly, I grabbed his belt and told him to produced his travel documents because I am arresting him as an illegal immigrant. When I released my hands and dealt him a blow he just took off like a car with brake failure problem.

hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!badest guy ever liveth.

Hmmmmm. The decision is yours , just make sure whatever decision you take is the best .

Op where are you ?pls come and conclude what you started.

EBK2: English is a foreign language. Haha

Mr english language abeg correct me , me no go skul oh.

LivinaPatrick: Dis thread has made me to be extra careful and vigilant,my husband had a scratch one day dt looks like a claw wound,bt i was ignorant,it can't happen again,for God is still d king,i ve d power given to me by Jesus Christ,i'll show them pepper. God dey

you remain of the mark I saw two days ago even though I did not take it serious because I felt they never do me harm. This dream came the third day to my fasting and prayer which is going on in our church(MFM) till the new year.your write up has just open my eye for vigin tonight, thanks.

To the op, God bless you may the fresh oil never runs dry in your life in Jesus name

Only God can save us from such evil house. it seems lagos has this kind of houses more availiabe to good and peaceful houses.Have learnt one or two things from this thread. I do tell some of my friends who want to settle down who are in need of accomodation to always take the compound sound in and out of the entrance to do some days fasting and vigin before paying . I believe our God can never lie, if the house is a good one you will know within some days of vigin.

kazyhm: she told my frnd we re still dating, very surprise
I ask hw, wen ? , she said itz d two of us dat agree to be dating each oda
Nw it only me dat decide, she hasn't give her consent!! Dat we re still dating as far as she still love me
I av to beg oooooo

you after break up she still believe you guys are dating?

Ola def2: @op I can feel ur pain on this one but the only advice I have for u is to tell u how I deal with myn cus I've had such experience before... Just the other day my fiance call me like "baby a friend of myn just come from somewhere (like where ever) and she's with some of her boi friends so she decide to take me along to silverbird cinema with them" so I check the tym twas pass six:pm and I tell her no that I'm not cool with that kind of altitude cos I don't no that her strange friends cuz I knew all her friends I even scode her with something like... That's runs gurl altitude , I promise her same like fixing a date for me nd her to visit the cinemas instead of her creeping out late without my consent, but mind u she disagree! And she decide to go" here's what I diid.
I love her , I know it so I called her that she disobey me and accuse her of lot of things and I treaten to breakup! With her , that night was one of our biggest fight and still that same night she proof her love for me... So my dear 'op' it takes u to be real to urself sometimes, Good luck.

I love the way you handle the situation.

forkinsonlolo: she deleted me on her bbm just because I said her bestie male friend is her assistant boyfriend. and ofc I never call her since then. This is a girl I was planning to marry next year o

may be she mis understood you. And the worst part you never border about it.

staggerman: There, you have it.
Pls I used a touch screen phone to type this o.
If u see any typo, pls let me know...

. Abeg forget about mistake , all that matter is effective communication which you have done .