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AbdelKabir:
so we should read only the Qur'an?

There are numerous hadith and we can't really say which one is true or not is it not better to read the true word we are sure of the quran and pray for guidance from allah.

Stop reading hadiths they will make you stray

DamiG:
why should she defend him,he joined her in her bed when she was sleeping and at one point put his Hand in her pant. why should she defend such a person,stop giving excuses for a pervert

So she was aware he kept his hand in her pant and she didn't not stand up and dash him slap make the thing commot for hin eye or remove his hands and stay stop.
Mtcheeeeew

poshestmina:
It's a shame you are a 'woman' or maybe you haven't seen the footage.Tboss was asleep when he started and when she woke up,she was telling him to stop but the pervert didn't until he was called by big brother. dude's been xtremely desperate to have Tboss all along ..Kemen should be praying he doesn't get sued with rape charges .Someone that can do this on national tv ! I fear who no know fear KEMEN.

Its a shame that you are a woman and you encourage immoral act allowing a man touch you anyhow and you keep mute is that what we ladies have reduced our selves to.
I see the likes of you and tboss always trying to play the victim when you are the brain behind everything i watched the 45 secs video on YouTube and all i saw was a guy touching a girl and she adjusted so he can continue without saying anything. J
what happened to the word STOP or NO or she can't leave and sleep on another bed if truly she wasn't consenting to the act did she tell miyonse continue when he was pressing her breast.
And don't tell me she was sleeping and she didn't know abeg which kain yeye sleep wey she open eyes turn and way dey touch her.
Maybe the video i saw was different please send me the link to the video where she said no and pushedhim away.
If not abeg don't quote me.

olasaad:
For example, I married a man when he was poor. We live in a small house. We have four kids all born to poverty. You struggle and I do so with you.

After the long hardship Allah later accept our prayers and bless our home.

The next thing my husband did is marry another wife. Do you think I will be happy? NO.

Time goes on as I have accept my faith by respecting the will of Allah.

Then now my husband new wife is pregnant for the first time. My husband buy me a car and now he wants to make it equal and bought a car for his new wife too and that is how everything now go on after.

Tell me any woman that we be happy with this.

Ma I'm a child o but don't you think its better if you leave the house with your children and dedicate your life to allah instead of avoiding ways not to make allah angry because from your illustration you are not happy and you deserve to be. Allah wants that for you and i and there's no greater reward than serving him.

mrrights:
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us using your own example. While I truly understand your concerns, there are certain things that must be put in perspective. Before Islam ever came, polygamy was the order. You know this, I know it too. Truly, you might have married your husband when he was poor,but I do not think you are rich either. And even if you are rich, you didn't marry him because of his poor status. You married him because you wanted to marry him, poor or not. While still poor, he might have married another wife still. I want to believe that, even with his poor status, he gave you according to his means, which you appreciated. The fact that he his poor doesn't mean you are not aware he could marry more than one wife. Every woman is aware their husband could toe this path, legitimately or illegitimately. It might make you uncomfortable, but it is the reality. What I think is that, you shouldn't be unhappy because your husband do something for the other person, when he didn't deny you yours. If he does his duty to you, you shouldn't be unhappy, if he does his duty to the other person. There are many husbands who does more for younger wife than the first. But yours isn't like that. It means your husband is trying to be just. Kindly make yourself happy and take your mind off what he does for the other person and Allah will bless you and your children abundantly.

Mtcheeeeew. perverts everywhere.
I must say your illustration is the dumbest thing i have ever heard so how does marrying more than one wife make you closer to allah keep deceiving yourself only a wicked msn who is not worthy of being a father will want to raise children in a polygamous home.
So you will be happy that your daughter is leaving with a man who doesn't make her happy.
The prophets actions were not the best but its justified
But all this 2 naira 50 kobo boys that think you are men need to grow up because you know better and no one has ever said anything good about polygamy.
Discipline is what makes a man not the number of wives and children that he has that will cause him to his grave.
Muslim women listen to me well run from a man who tells you to leave everything for him and make him your head and yet cannot sacrifice his sexual desires for an olosho because of you its not worth it.
You deserve to be happy allah has never denied women that so don't be suffering and smiling even if you can endure can your children grow up with the division in the house.
A man who cannot be faithful to 1 wife can never be faithful and just to 4. them go still follow ashawo so my sister run for your life the quran didn't make it compulsory for a woman to stay with a man when he wants to marry another one.
My 2 cent.

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All this your requirements dey quran so
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Senseless yeyebrities please tell her people don't become gay, its not a profession.
People are either gay or not just the way a person is male or female.
So using intimacy gadgets can never make you think of sucking breast or licking the female part
Mtcheeeeew

Eduset:
Do you need ask all girls out before they can come to visit you?

Yes sir

Dannysblog:
This is a tototally shocking video that has engulfed the
Internet, and thankfully also in the hands of of the Illinois
Department of Child Services in Chicago. In the video, the
young mum of two very young children was seen giving
oral job to a man, while her two children look on.

Thevideo, which was filmed in Chicago, is sad to watch. Thosekids should be separated from her.
see videos@ http://www.dannyblog.com.ng/2017/03/bizarre-watch-indecent-mother-giving.html?m=1

So by watching the video it makes me or you decent and better than her and we get to judge her abi.
You are silly for watching and sharing porn because of the small change you want to make

gistcabal:
Nigerians have condemned Big Brother Naija housemate, Kemen for touching fellow housemate, TBoss while she slept. The incident which was captured on tape happened while every other housemate was asleep.
Kemen could be seen looking around before putting his hand inside TBoss’ blanket to touch her. However, TBoss was not ready for all that as she immediately turned even though she was asleep.

Full details and video here> http://www.untoldvibes.com/bbnaija-nigerians-blast-kemen-caught-touching-tboss-slept-video/

cc; Lalasticlala, mynd44, ijebabe

Enough of this nonsense na sleep be that abi she adjusted to enjoy the action and she can't tell me she's drunk because tboss doesn't drink.

Which kin sleep wey i dey sleep wey man go put hand for inside my pant and i won't know and push him away or slap him.
Even if she was drunk she can't say stop abi. Rubbish

acevic:
Following the event that led to Kemen disqualification from the Big Brother Nigeria as described by their official sponsor in a press statement released online.


Do you think Kemen should have been given a fair hearing before his disqualification?
Do you think Kemen is guilty of the charges laid against him?
Do you think his actions qualify him as a sexual assaulter?
Do you think he could land a lawsuit against Payporte for character defamation?

I'm a lady and a feminist but I feel kemen is the easiest person to use as scape goat
The fact that people don't like him is enough just because he's not handsome.
Imagine if it was jon people would have hailed him.

I think kemen should sue big brother to clear his name.
Enough of this inequality i watched the video and he wasn't taking advantage of anyone Tboss was aware of what was happening and she didn't do anything about it to me thats consenting and shes an adult.
When miyonse was pressing her breast did she say anything.
Nonsense Mtcheeeeew.

eosigwe:
Mehn, God have mercy. GetHelp paid me well sha. I was lucky to join in the early days as at October. I was watching the platform carefully. My last PH was epic. It took me lots of tactics and guts to pay. I knew the end was near. I risked it. Yesterday, i cashed out successfully and said bye bye to get help. I pity those who paid me. Expect the crash from midweek of March.

For your mind now you get sence. Mtcheeeeew

Opportunity don come be that. Wetin me dey pray for
You better mind your business and lock your phone too he has given you license to cheat ni yen . Me i don become available ni yen .

Seun:
Somebody needs to adopt her. That's the only way out. The deluded parents probably won't mind giving her away to get her out of their lives.

Someone like you can.

ogawisdom:
Dnt waste ur time with TB it will give u less than 5k returns in 91days but GHW will give u 145k in 91days ie 30% monthly plus 10k registration bonus.

As I speak to you I ve 500k in GHW paying me cool 150k monthly since November 2016 without lifting a finger.
D choice is urs u can never improve financially until u start taking legitimate risks dt pays off. If u r interested mention me n we take it from there.

A lot of ppl are sitting arnd moping at GHW when it starts getting saturated dts when they will join and they will lose like they did in mmm. D time to join is nw. In three months u will break even and ve nothing to lose.

I played mmm bw July and Nov, listen to this I predicted mmm crash accurately and lost nothing. I ve already broken even on GHW already BC Feb is my 4th month on GHW already

D trick in Ponzi is to conquer greed and fear n play with what u can afford to lose. Dnt increase ur investment until u break even. Also be realistic dnt join any Ponzi dt offers more than 30% monthly it won't last up to two months na Yahoo boys dey get such ones .

I recommend GHW to everyone nw B4 it gets saturated in 6months time but I see it getting to Nov 2017

You have started with ghw abi. Please we don't need your analysis of saturation and nov 2017 sir.
Stop spreading fear where there's none.
Ghw is here to stay.thanks

ThatIgboBoy:
Someone who understands my plight here has spoken

Sorry sir but i feel you didn't create this thread to get advice but you just need someone to confirm that you did the right thing.
Bros if you love her you don't have to force her . Where you worship or your religion doesn't justify who you are.
Good girls are hard to find.
Thank you sir

Yeyebrities buying gifts for themselves and creating imaginary boyfriends.
Oshi

Seun:
Why not pick a partner based on shared values, compatible goals, and physical attraction? God stopped selecting spouses a long time ago.

Please tell them o.

bercarray:
I'm not disputing that,but when a lady abuse a man is she responsible or not?

Who doesn't abuse? We all do it and its wrong. But its not a justification for being violent.

JeffreyJamez:
Just shush with that "real man" shiii..Na so una go dey support rubbish....But if it was the other way round you won't come to preach "real women shouldn't do this or that"...Na only man dey always "real"..mchew

You don't tell me to shush you shush.i don't support rubbish. But its rubbish to beat someone whether male or female or child just because they can't defend themselves. So if you can't handle my honest don't quote me.

bercarray:
but a responsible Lady has all rights to hurt man? if she abuse the man and his family, the man should just walk away so as to earn respect, so that the lady can abuse him another time and call him a fool?

Thanks for mentioning the word responsible.
When a man beats a woman does it make him responsible?
The only reason why someone will want to beat anyone is because they feel they have the right to do so or the person is below them and that makes them a bully.
If you beat a lady because she abuse you she can also arrest you or tell her boyfriend and they will beat you well and you end up regreting it.
So sir it takes a real person to act matured.

bercarray:
you all should not judge the guy yet,the lady might av done sumtn that provoked the guy to beat her which the lady didn't mention, but the guy shouldn't av done it to the extent of bleeding, but since it was the Lady that narrated the issue, she would want to make the issue seemed like she is innocent, I'm sure if the guy say his own part, you would not judge anyhow. I just av the feeling that there is more to this issue than what is written up there. The guy might not even smoke anything but because she beat the lady, the lady will call her bad names.
But sister u nor try at all ooo, after the merciless beating na ur phone u first go carry,snap picture, put am for net for us to see that you are beaten, now that we've seen it what should we do?

So you need a reason to beat a woman abi? But if a guy does the same thing you will walk away.
Cowards everywhere.
No real man/father will raise his hands on a woman for any reason but rather be the bigger person and walk away. Respect is earned not given

Mtcheeeeew. Iranu

seangy4konji:
Awon to bi e ni were

From your post u shall know them.na where dem batter woman u sit down carry torch light.

Olobo fife.oloriburuku mention me.i come ur lane.

Na it cup of tea of it better u and ur man now. Wetin concern d world with that?sho Kanye ??ko Kanye

O dun o. Iran were o abeg hol am.
You are irrelevant oloko abere (pin). Oloshi mention me and die.
I go point torch anywhere i like omoirankinran
Who is frustrated? Your generation.
Omoale buruku. .

seangy4konji:
dem don notice u...no be me send u go do mmm and it seems ur man deh maltreat u na y u con deh frustrate,,,anyway i no find u come here,,enjoy ur weekend.

Were re o. Mmm don better life sit down there.
My man is a man not a boy fool.
I no find you come here too boy.
Happy weekend

Authoreety:
Example of a woman dat breaks her home!

Guys beware unless u wanna turn a wife beater

Example of a wife beater and bully.
I pray you don't meet someone like me cause i go break your head carry you go hospital.
I will treat you like every other bully I've met.
Omoale jatijati

seangy4konji:
u deh craze abi...how old u be deh call person children?

You sef dey mad boyyyyy...

seangy4konji:
They dont respecft their husbands any longer because one politician or bloood ritual man is knacking them outside and giving them more than the husband can offer...they enter their matrimonial home and start doing like devils...

it no concern me but before you see a woman bleaching now without a bad mouth??

you go reach hellfire.

So by beating her she will respect you. Children everywhere

Stupid woman foolish man
Wait let him kill you. If na me ehn i for arrange bottle for the man body sote nobody go recognize hin ancestors.
Mtcheeeeew
Next time he will think twice before raising his hands.

Ladies if a man starts hitting you better defend yourself
If you die you die for nothing. Be wise

Authoreety:
Point of correction,men don't "foul language"


Do u kno dat its rare for a guy squatting wt anoda guy 2 foul language his benefactor?



Then I wonder y a woman I went 2 her fadas hous wt my relations nd asked her 2 cum live wt me shld eva "foul language" me......



Madam if u dnt like my doings then pack nd disappear cos I'm d captain in my boat......




If my lady has d impetus 2 foul language me her husband, I gues ild also borow some of her impetus 2 nebuchadnezzar her!

Ho ha!


So make evribody gbadokwa anya o

Senseless post foolish poster.

whoisuche:
You call him your boyfriend not ur husband he is talking of husband that are legally married and blessed by God Almighty. Try reading and understanding.

Are you ok. Who be this one
Mtcheeeeew
No be bf go turn husband. Try reading and understand.
He said dont ever marry someone that locks his or her phone.
You wan marry you husband or wife ni no be bf /gf dem dey marry. Ode