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Family › Have You Ever Text-ed Your Parent By Mistake? (photo) by saydfact(op): 10:52am On Apr 20, 2017
There are occasions when you intend texting a friend and you mistakenly send it to the wrong person; have you ever had this experience - How embarrassing was the situation ans how did you remedy it?

Please share.

see pics: culled from www.palmchatnow.com

Foreign Affairs › Re: Lord Macaulay's Address To The British Paliament On Breaking Africa by saydfact(op): 10:36am On Apr 20, 2017
Teewhy2:
Na wa oooo, which one come be the orginal
Both are fake as proven by readers
Health › Re: Symptoms Associated With Not Drinking Enough Water by saydfact(op): 10:34am On Apr 20, 2017
Teewhy2:
It is advisable that we should take minimum of 5 litres every day but most people don't even drink up to 2 litres a day. I make sure when I wake up every morning I take 1 litre before doing anything and this make me use to use the toilet easily and excrete those waste. If you can take the minimum 5 litres it help you reduce those toxic substances in the body.
Waoh.... U drink more than I can handle.. About 2.5ltr daily... . I have to improve
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 10:14am On Apr 20, 2017
chisco82:
Or better said you re trying to reddem urself and come back like the prodigal son.
Because ur post shows u 've gone far.
i think it means "today" she no wan do werin she dey do normally eg maybe she been dey fast "today" - grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 10:07am On Apr 20, 2017
chisco82:
Lol! It's depends on her bro. Beside Man pass man.
You might think you re strong enough but to her you re not what she was expecting.
Cc: pocohantas
so can POCO tell us what 'strong' is to her....
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 8:40am On Apr 20, 2017
pocohantas:
Strong man? Hmmm...
I am trying not to be corrupt today. I bind you!
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin - sm1 is about to melt ooohhh - lol
Properties › Re: Quick Question On Roof Space Utility by saydfact(m): 7:26am On Apr 20, 2017
The architect works on the client's brief... The level of client exposure is a major factor in what he requests and what u eventually design.

However, we're not a people who naturally think in that direction...
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 7:23am On Apr 20, 2017
chisco82:
Lol! I said gbam because all u said there are real. Money does n't guarantee honest relationship. @the bolded, i don't u need money, so money can not make you not to cheat. All u need is strong man down there in other not to cheat. grin grin grin
And you're not that 'strong man' - lol
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 7:22am On Apr 20, 2017
CorGier:
Initially, they all tell you they don't double date, can't cheat on their man, they want a defined relationship and all them blah blah...rubbish.
I mean, guys on here who have successfully gamed and stolen a girl from her man would understand this;
For the right guy, they all gon cheat. All them excuses are simply flimsy attempts at rationalising their hypergamous tendencies.

Girls, they just wanna have fun. Nah, not necessarily with you.
There is always an exception sha.....
Sports › Re: Anthony Martial Trolled By His Ex-wife On Snapchat After Chelsea Game by saydfact(op): 5:57pm On Apr 19, 2017
bakynes:
No be new thing for Obodo England at 16 you already living with your girlfriend in a studio apartment govt is paying part, when at 35 a Man is still living with his parents in naija.
Hilarious at 9ja... Even asking for food self.. Lol
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 5:37pm On Apr 19, 2017
Gshegg:
Ermmm, even though I don't want to believe it, there are still few nice girls out there tho..

I go like know you, sent a pm.
Chai... See toasting skills.
Cc: Aderola15
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 5:20pm On Apr 19, 2017
1bkaye:
If he loves you he will let you cheat
Tell us what no makes you cheat the most... .
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 5:17pm On Apr 19, 2017
LePrezident:
Who's Katherine?
Detective haff come ooh.. oya answer
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 5:15pm On Apr 19, 2017
Aderola15:
Loool... Slapped myself back to the right track, would have shared how that happened but ion know who's gonna be checking my posts to write epistle again. wink


But honestly, boredom is the only thing that would make me wanna think twice about my relationship and that's definitely after trying my best to provide solution to whatever problem might have gotten us to that stage.
Congrats.... Good u cld retrace ur step or avoided losing it.. .
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 5:14pm On Apr 19, 2017
pocohantas:
Nope, she was cheating with another guy.

Ask guys that have the money, most times when their girlfriends cheat...she cheats with someone way below their 'level'. As in, you'll be wondering what she saw in the guy, that's where the emotions come in.
I get now. .
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 4:51pm On Apr 19, 2017
pocohantas:
All these romance section boys, always feeling like they know women...whereas they know nothing. The babe that cheated on her guy after collecting 100k, was it for money? The guy whose girlfriend is flirting with his friend, is it because of money?

Majority of you that are quick to mention money as a reason, have no money. Guys that have the money, are very aware it goes beyond money!

Women cheat more for emotional reasons ; boredom, under-appreciation, bad sex, lack of attention, revenge...etc
TRUE TALK..... but maybe the guy she collect 100k from is the one she's cheating with not the main guy - so na still same of same...
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 4:48pm On Apr 19, 2017
Aderola15:
Mstchhhhhhhheeeeew undecided undecided undecided

Which yeye money una get sef? huh angry
which you prefer NO1 or NO2 ?

wink
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 4:46pm On Apr 19, 2017
Aderola15:
I wee nor lie but no7 got me flirting with another guy lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
How were you able to overcome it? wanna share small... grin
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 4:45pm On Apr 19, 2017
Gshegg:
bro, it's girls we're talking about here, even though they feel unappreciated, they will still stay and endure cos no. 2 is steadily available.
HMMM.. You must be a pro.... On point
Sports › Re: Anthony Martial Trolled By His Ex-wife On Snapchat After Chelsea Game by saydfact(op): 4:42pm On Apr 19, 2017
'He needs to give me things that I like': Mourinho's warning to Manchester United outcast Martial as he urges striker to learn from rookie Rashford
Rashford kpele, njoy it while it last... Mourinho always fighting with one or more players at given time T..
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2017
fernandooleku:
OP, u forgot to add;

No8. Internal bleeding in the brain

cos no matter how u satisfy a woman, that madness wey dey her lineage go still control her go outside
I'm not a doctor to know that... lol grin grin
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 4:33pm On Apr 19, 2017
Gshegg:
No. 1 and 2 is the only reason for me why women cheat,
Once you have no 2 they'll do anything for you, you can even put a leash on them like dogs, they don't mind..

And if you suck no. 1 prepare for brother Chukwudi at the boys quarters to help you out
I agree but cant rule out No6 - once they feel they're not appreciated by who they're with, they'll jump in with tells them they look out....
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 3:59pm On Apr 19, 2017
LethargiQue:
According to Number 5, all I have to do is make Katherine lose weight, and I finally get to bang her?

Her boyfriend treats her like shït and her ass soft, we made out by mistake one time, been looking to get down ever since..
Baaaaadth guy,,,..
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Blocked Me On WhatsApp Because Of This by saydfact(m): 12:58pm On Apr 19, 2017
jordanriverz

Hi. He's going to dump you anytime soon, he's only looking for an excuse, I'll advice you prepare yourself for what's to come or let him walk out as he wishes now..

Good luck
Romance › 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat by saydfact(op): 12:42pm On Apr 19, 2017


No1. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! University of Winchester Professor Eric Anderson explains. "An uncontested sexological finding is that the longer a couple is together, the less frequent and less intense their sex will be. This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do this on your own or with the help of a sex therapist.

No2. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps you in a one-down position, in similar terms, those with 'poor' partners might be tempted to cheat with 'rich' guys to satisfy their financial obligations or needs. This is very common among students but also among married as well.

No3. They're Seeking Emotional Fulfillment:
"Women have affairs when the relationship is not addressing their needs," says Susan Shapiro Barash, author of A Passion For More: Wives Reveal the Affairs That Make or Break Their Marriages. "I've rarely spoken to a woman who describes her lover as similar to her husband; rather he provides what the woman can't get in the marriage." Conventional wisdom holds that women crave emotional connection, that they lust for intimacy and stability, while men are like Tex Avery cartoon wolves, howling and hitting themselves over the head with a sledgehammer whenever a cute girl crosses their path. Men pursue sex. According to infidelity expert and The Cheat Sheet author Stephany Alexander, women cheat in the pursuit of appreciation and attention. How long can you go without receiving love and attention before you look somewhere else? Some can go for only days or weeks, and others can go for years. However, in general, women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention.

No4. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the moment, you find out your man cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated. Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the cheater ever again. When you have been cheated on, some of you may want to get revenge by making them feel the way you felt. This can lead you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem. Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion and romance in your relationship are a much better solution.

No5. Weight loss/plastic surgery:
Male attention increases quickly after a boob job, a butt implant or weight loss, and so does your self-confidence. With all this male attention, your temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-control to resist some of those male offers. Once you realize other guys want you, your desire to act on it may have you feeling euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and make your pros and cons list.

No6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don't love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don't love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love.

No7. Bored:
When the routine is the same over and over again. You are no longer on the same page. You barely have anything in common. You are feeling emotionally distant from him. You find yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize about being with someone else. You begin to feel excited (something you haven't felt in "forever"wink just thinking about it. Boredom is something that can be resolved with a little, or sometimes a moderate amount of effort. It requires both of you introducing new ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be sure of what you want.

For more information about infidelity, self-esteem, and ways to cope, I recommend reading more related article.

Sports › Re: Predict The Score & Team Going To The Semi-final by saydfact(op): 12:01pm On Apr 19, 2017
cc: lalasticlala, mynd44
Sports › Predict The Score & Team Going To The Semi-final by saydfact(op): 12:00pm On Apr 19, 2017
Football fans have your say... Barca vs Juventus

Crime › Re: Prisoner Awaiting Trial Dies In Edo Prison (Photo) by saydfact(m): 11:41am On Apr 19, 2017
If you've ever tasted this click LIKE.... grin wink

Properties › Re: Buying Or Building A House.. Which Is Better? by saydfact(m): 9:16am On Apr 19, 2017
PropertiesNaija:
The thought of buying a land and erecting your own building to your own taste is good but isn’t buying an entire house anew without going through all the preambles better? Many people have actually reached a deadlock in an attempt to take a decision on the aforementioned premise. We would be taking a critical look at the merits and demerits of both choices.
1. RISK INVOLVED IN THE CONSTRUCTION OF NEW PROJECT
A building that’s being erected can collapse in the course of its construction if adequate care is not taken. Poor workmanship can ruin a new structural piece that’s in the offing especially if you are not at liberty to personally inspect your building project due to a busy schedule. Albeit a house that’s already standing and is up for sale as at least scaled the hurdle of construction and may hopefully stand for the entire period you live in the property.

Your point here shd be the other way round - The purchased building has the higher risk, you can control quality of what you build (get profs on and ensure you buy the right materials) - but you cannot ascertain if the building you're purchasing was done with quality and right cement mix. Plus a building wont collapse overnight - it takes years.

2. ABSENCE FROM THE CONSTRUCTION SITE
However there is another angle to the above, which is the fact that you may not be privy to information as to the manner a new building that’s up for sale came to existence. That is to say in the event that a shoddy work was done on the property you acquired then you may just have lost the property before you even start to enjoy the dividends of your investment. An already built house won’t offer the luxury an on-going project offers you in terms of inspection of the work that’s been carried out. It ensures you guard against the use of sub-standard materials which basically leads to structural deformation.

since you typed this; you didnt have to type no1 above as an advantage.

3. BUILDING TO YOUR OWN TASTE
When you are constructing a fresh building you have a picture of how your house would look like. A new building project under construction offers you the opportunity of designing your house to your taste and loving every bit of it. Because a plan was arched prior to its construction you would love the house even before it formally comes to life. On the other hand, with a fresh house you can achieve little or nothing with changing or remodeling and even if you try to remodel, it will only mean extra bucks!

GBAM On Point !!!

4. POOR WORKMANSHIP
Poor workmanship from a bad contractor can make that new house you are building a
disaster. However you can spot a haphazardly built and designed house and avoid it when you want to buy one.

I TOTALLY DISAGREE - Set up blockworks with poor quality blocks, columns with 12mm instead of 16mm and above, plaster them and paint with the best paint in the market - HOW DOES THE BUYER KNOW THE BLOCKS WERE SUB-STANDARD OR THE COLUMNS ARE UNDER-REINFORCED? But when you're building, all you need is get a professional with integrity not just anyone and you're assured. THE MAN BUILDING WITH THE PURPOSE OF SELLING IS ONLY THINKING ABOUT PROFIT MOST TIMES - offcourse their are those with integrity too but EVEN LEKKI GARDENS with all the HYPE was cutting corners... and that was THE NO1 BUILDER IN LEKKI AXIS.

5. A FRESHLY BOUGHT HOUSE OFFERS VARIETIES
Fresh houses that are up for sale offers you a pool of choices. You can choose from a variety of what the market begets, in your preferred location depending on how fat your pocket is. Unlike a house you have to erect; once your building stands you are left with no choice anymore. Too bad if you made bad choices or opted for wrong options in your design and the final outcome becomes a nightmare.

lol.... THE ACTUAL CHOICE IS YOU TELLING THE ARCHITECT, "my living room shd be this or that" - i want 5 toilets, i want a study NOT you pcking from what is available ... designing gives you an uncountable choice; buying gives you limited choice from what is available.

6. APPROVAL PROBLEMS
Building in Nigeria comes with its challenges especially in recent times. Quite a number of people meet huge brick walls when seeking and getting approvals for their building projects and one of them is the town planning permits/government allocation. You may encounter problems getting approval for your building project, nonetheless an already built one is most likely approved, so you don’t need to bother yourself about the town planning authority. When it comes to this, buying a house is usually the best alternative.

WHAT TROUBLES PLS? IF THE BUILT ONE WENT AND SUCCEEDED WITH THE APPROVAL THEN YOU BUILDING WLD GO THROUGH AS WELL... this point is non-existence. pls

7. COST
Building a house afresh is most likely going to cost you less especially if well managed while buying one from an agent/real estate person will cost more because those that build also expect huge returns for their project.

Cost depends on taste.... whether building afresh or buying.... There are storey building sold for 50million and people have built bungalows for 100million

8. STRESS
The stress and pressure that comes with erecting your own house is enormous. If you are not the type that can cope with the rigours of building projects then buying an already built house is the answer. It saves you the stress of monitoring your building project the entire period…

ON POINT - STRESS IS MUCH AND NOT MANY CAN HANDLE IT.

9. PERSEVERANCE
Building a house takes a lot of time and effort. If you are someone who doesn’t like to wait or you are not a patient person; If you want to move in very fast then you need to buy rather than build.

THIS IS ALL PART OF THE STRESS MENTIONED ABOVE....

10. DEALING WITH CHEATS
It will be the loss of a cheating contractor when you decide to buy a house. There is every likelihood that a contractor will cheat you in the course of a building project. Albeit when you buy, the only person that can cheat you then is your property seller.

NO POINT - THE SELLERS ALSO CHEAT, THEY USE CHINA TILES AND TELL YOU IT'S ITALIAN; after installed you might not be able to different a quality China tile from an Italian tile..

11. AVOIDING HARASSMENT AND EMBARRASSMENT
The menace of omonile’s and area boys in the course of building could get worrisome. If you can’t handle the drama then buy a house. You would have succeeded in avoiding the harassment, intimidation and embarrassment in some cases.

OMONILE DONT EXIST EVERYWHERE - However, where they exist - they are a menace to deal with... On point.

So what do you think? Which would you say is safer and better? Buying a freshly built house from reputable real estate firms like www.naijapropertiesonline.com or acquiring your own land and building on it?

with due respect to naijapropertiesonline - Lekki Homes was reputable UNTIL - So I'll rather build and control what I build......

THANKS FOR THE ARTICLE.... NICE WRITE UP.



Source:
www.nigeriarealestatehub.com/building-buying-house-better.html/

www.naijapropertiesonline.com[/quote]
Sports › Re: Arturo Vidal & Frank Ribery's Hilarious Reaction To C.ronaldo Goals On Instagram by saydfact(op): 8:51am On Apr 19, 2017
Teewhy2:
The match was lost in the first leg.
is this a justification to what the ref did? hilarious..
Sports › Re: Arturo Vidal & Frank Ribery's Hilarious Reaction To C.ronaldo Goals On Instagram by saydfact(op): 8:31am On Apr 19, 2017
cc: lalasticlala mynd44
Sports › Arturo Vidal & Frank Ribery's Hilarious Reaction To C.ronaldo Goals On Instagram by saydfact(op): 8:30am On Apr 19, 2017
Real Madrid vs Bayern Munich had the potential to develop into one of the great European matches until Referee Viktor Kassai brandished an extremely harsh second yellow card to Vidal in the 84th minutes; Madrid however benefited massively from their man advantage and two offside goals in extra time to win 4-2 on the night and 6-3 on aggregate.
See pics below.


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