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Good morning everyone, please I need ur help for a job, ever since I finished my nysc scheme, I have searched for jobs, only menial paying jobs I do see which can't take care of my welfare and I have a lot of responsibility on my neck. secondly am d first born of my family and my younger ones are looking up to me. I'm a graduate of Education/Political Science BSc.(Ed.). Please someone should help a brother, I don't want to die of depression and I don't want to do illegitimate business. Am ready to relocate if the job well paying and OK. All my documents and Cv are available on request.
Thanks everyone for ur understanding and support.

dontrulee:
You're a big fool @Op so you cannot control your third leg??

Beside don't believe those ladies that says no sex but agree to romance. They are the great decievers jare. She is probably having sex with another dude, you're just her back up plan. It's just plain stupidity to me. Makes me remember one funny story, I'll share it later...

She is a virgin and I confirm it rigorously.

helinues:
Chisos,and this one is a corper?

What happened for being a Corper?

Jeremani:
Na small small dem eat food wey dey hot.
With time she will give u all u want.

But are u sure the girl love u? Cos that her conditions strong pass army general own

I swear down. But I think Dis one major things that make men cheat. Kongi wan finish me

Sonnobax15:

Una too dey exaggerate Everything about sexxx . Lashing na food? . Instead of you to think of how your life after NYSC go be,you dey there dey complain about girl wey fit run leave you anytime she see say the only thing wey you get to offer her na your useless dangling third leg

Some of una wey I dey share this my prestigious masculinity with these days just dey make me dey para

No No No....dey there, infact just dey there dey plunge yourself into a state of dilemma Simply because of ordinary lashing wey girl no gree give you . The same girl wey dey try save you self . Imagine say she cor mistakenly get Belle for you now,na from that very moment you go start to dey talk dey waka for road

Kolo people

Am not new in stuff like dat, am over careful

Xilsbridalhouse:
Good girl.


You either wait or waka out of her life.

So kongi can kill me right?

talk2hb1:
Let's get some understanding right:
Relationship does not equate sex, even marriage.
You can sought for sex outside your relationship, since you agree to no sex from day one why complain now. If I agree to no sex in a relationship, I will come up with my own counter agreement too. Which might includes freedom to seeking sex outside or other 3rd party, which I might not even tell her;

I hardly cheat when I love you and am having any form of intimacy with u. But I think I will take dis ur advice..

Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

Ambrose Alli University also did something like Dis. They mobilize us and their were delaying our statement of results. If not for peaceful protest demonstrated, we wouldn't have seen our results now.

Educational system in Nigeria is obsoleted.

Gudbadguy:
Physical and sexual attraction is also important.no go dey look outside after marriage o

So Wat ur advice for me. Should I end d relationship? Please b sincere. I won't get angry or emotional. Am just confused right now

Hyerin:
You don't even love this lady yet you're jealous. You sound possessive and that's not healthy for you nor her. Anyways, that's literally your business. The solution is right before you but you're too egocentric to think outside your feelings. There's nothing more to it.

Thanks for ur advice.. Just dat I have pride because all d gals I have dated are beautiful but none have good morals like her. Secondly she doesn't stressed me financially and she still can't let me go. Am in dellimma between beauty and virtuous woman.. I am having plans to settle down after my service and in my late 20s.

Hyerin:
You should break up with her. Just tell her nicely you're no longer interested rather than leading her on. With time, she'd get over it. she also sounds like she has some sort of abandonment issues. Please tell her to see a therapist.

She doesn't have any abandonment issues. D funny thing is that like two guys I know has been asking are out but I feel jealous when she do tell me.. Seriously I am in a state of dellimma

Hyerin:
Are you handsome? This one that you're feeling ashamed of her. If you're not physically attracted to her then break up. It's evident you don't even love her and you're just in the relationship for the virginity and so-called moral attributes. She's just a placeholder to you.

I can't say am handsome but am OK with my look. I would have break up with her but I know it will be hard to see such virtue lady. Twice I threatened her with breakup during some misunderstanding, she will cry all day and threatening to kill herself. Besides she is asthmatic s .
Secondly she is too committed to her self dat don't want to give me her virginity unless marriage. Sometimes it makes d relationship bored. After dis our nysc, I think I will take a bold step and cut it off

MaXiK:
Good day Nairalanders!!

Please I need your advice. My current girlfriend has all the good characters that perfectly defines a wife material plus she's a scholar and also a virgin (not particularly concerned about this anyway but to evince how disciplined she is) but sometimes she will look attractive to me and other times she will appear unattractive and I won't feel attracted to her at all. To clarify things, this changes has nothing to do with her dress sense neither my beholding senses but real changes in her facial appearance and allurement.

To be frank and sincere, she is just greatly above average in attractiveness but she's not stable in her look, she falls far below average occasionally. Also we're both dark in complexion and I will prefer my children to be lighter than I am, if not fair.

I have been trying to look beyond her look by focusing on other quality attributes she possess but the issue about her irregular look keep on fluctuating my feelings for her.

The crux of it is that I'm in my early thirties I need serious relationship; someone to build future with and finally get married to but here I am with someone that meet up with more than seventy percent of my requirements in my ideal wife but with unstable look that is threatening my feelings for her.

I am concerned about this because of some issues we consider trivial are still crashing marriages these days....

My questions:

How important is look in marriage?
Is it me that is making issue out of trivial matters because this lady is receiving a lot of relationship advances from people far better than I am and she's turning them down to maintain her commitment to our relationship?
Is there any possibility of stability in her look in the future considering that she's still in school?

Your genuine, mature and constructive advice is highly needed.

I will appreciate ones from those who have experienced what I'm currently going through.

Am also in same shoes as well, my gf is not beautiful but am just trying to move on with her because of her moral upbrings. She is a virgin too and she promised till we get married before she will give it to me, aside from that she is caring and having wife material qualities. Both of us are Corpers (nysc).
Sometimes am feeling ashamed when I addressed her as my gf base on her look. She is not my kind of gal I want in terms of beauty but her moral attributes is closed to perfection, which makes me still keep d relationship..
I also need mature advice

Finished university at the age of 26

Fresh thigh
Average boobs
Average height
Average butt
Fine face

Another herdman has been named

maami igbagbo is one of my nigeria porn actress. Her videos also make me release uncontrollably . She sweet sha

madridguy:
Nairaland sure pass any platform for the whole world walahi. I don jam one of the richest man daughter in Nigeria for this nairaland before na religion difference make us no connect.
Naira land females just want matured mind.

How can I send direct message to someone here. I do see beautiful ladies here but I can't find d link to send them send messages

I regretted not going to parties and clubs secondly not f*cking enough gals I promise myself before I got admission ..
Just 2 gals in my four years program .

Even the seriousness in school I still struggle to graduate with 2.2

AAU NOR BE BEANS

Op can I have ur whatsapp number. Incase I have any questions concerning phone spec to ask u.

atheistandproud:
The aim of this post is that you become literate especially because one company domiciled in Nigeria has this terrible habit of using very low end specs, overcharging for it and and deliberately misinforming the public. I had this conversation with a graduate, a former neighbor of mine from almost 10 years ago in University.

He said, "shey you dey yab my phone (name withheld), them don release phone with Octa core processor. No more Mediatek. In fact, I sure say Octa core go better pass Una Snapdragon. But wait fess oh, na which company dey do Octa core?"

I had to explain to him that Octa core only depicts that there are eight cores or CPUs inside the processor. It's not a new brand or anything.

Also, lots of people as soon as they learn these things, they start trying to compare their devices to everyone else's. The aim is education, not competition. No give yourself unnecessary headache. You don buy, you don buy. Make a wiser decision next time.

Finally: The CPU runs the graphics (builds them from the game engine), the GPU displays them.

Even if the CPU is good enough to run the game engine well, a bad GPU may render the graphics poorly, slowly or even incorrectly. I once used a low end phone and when playing PUBG. I could hear everyone else moving but in my own game, the houses didn't load, the fences were not showing, I couldn't see my teammates. I hated the phone.

If the CPU is bad, then I doubt that the GPU can save it. Some GPUs are designed to take some processing load off the CPU so as to try optimize the gaming but las las, the primary responsibility of loading and running the game lies with the CPU. If the CPU cannot do it's job, them there will nothing that GPU can do.

Some CPUs also help relieve the load of rendering graphics off the GPU too. Na division of labour but the CPU is more important in gaming. The GPU is more important for the graphical output.

Thanks for ur enlightenment. I think I will give you my beautiful sister for u to marry unless u are married already.

P. S she is currently doing are nysc program now

atheistandproud:
The T880 MP2

Does GPU has effect on high graphics games..
Because I have good CPU spec and weak GPU spec (PowerVR GE8320). while a have CPU spec which is not up to my own but have good GPU spec(Mali-T880MP2). Does that mean my friend phone is than mine in gaming?

atheistandproud:
The Infinix has better specs

Thanks sir

Which of these phones is advisable to buy.

Infinix hot 7 pro or tecno spark 3 .

Which one has better GPU PowerVR GE8320 or Mali-T880MP2

Mine is 4x = 158, 177, 201, 204 ..

This is it

NwaAmaikpe:



Eucharia doesn't look like who is mourning.

She has a fierce make-up and is even posing for the cameras.

I won't be shocked to find out on the judgement day that she sacrificed that poor boy for spiritual powers.

You can never trust these endtime preachers of nowadays sha.

take 3 tablet daily

Infinix hot note, strong battery life.. Using it for a year plus now

After my graduation na to buy Laptop way go change my life