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Martinez39s:
Women don't settle for less, why is he settling for less? Is this the best he can do? Heartbeat ko, heartburn ni

dumahi:
This post has again revealed how WICKED most Nigerians are. Someone had the gut to expose himself so much because he is in dire need of help but not a single compassion from many commenters here.

As for you OP, my first advise to you is to STOP cursing yourself. For instance, your moniker alone is self-curse. Again, the title of this thread is self-curse.

I understand you are a very HONEST person due to your Catholic (I bet) background. It makes you to have very honest attitude but you are now honest TO A FAULT if it now leads you to a negative self-image which is very clear from your post.

Know this: Negative self-image is not a virtue. For instance, it's not genuine humility. It is the function of subconscious ingratitude towards your Creator who made you so fearfully and wonderfully! It doesn't lead to repentance rather, it reinforces bad habits SINCE YOU THINK YOU ARE WORTHLESS ("after all, worthless things should be treated dishonorably" is how your subconscious puts it to you CONSTANTLY.

So, what should you do about this situation?
1. Start NOW to change your self-communication from negative to positive. See how: In your privacy, always tell yourself "I am a handiwork of the Most High. Therefore, I am great. I am honorable. I am grateful to my Maker for making me so great" and more like this. As you are doing this, DON'T STRUGGLE WITH YOUR BAD HABITS. Instead, they will go away by themselves. Think of what happens to a drowning person: if he struggles with the water, he gets drowned finally. But if he lets go and relaxes, he gets saved. So, don't struggle with your bad habits. For instance, if that girl comes and you find yourself sucking her as usual, don't worry about it. BUT DON'T BE OBSESSING ON SUCH THOUGHTS. Instead, spend your thoughts on being grateful for how great you are (which is NOT EVEN A LIE, judging from your writing ability). As your self-honor increases, YOU WILL NATURALLY STOP THOSE BAD HABITS. But, be warned: they are going to ease off on their own as you continuously impregnate yourself with POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS.
2. Don't listen to Devil's voices telling you how useless you are via other people (like your boss or colleagues or Nairalanders or Facebookers talking down on you.
3. I will introduce you to an audio that will help you to IMMEDIATELY start transforming your finances by transforming your mindset. You will see that EVERYTHING about you actually depends on your mindset. Let me get the link (I'll be right back).

ogbu80:
Are you sure this man is Yoruba? Have never seen any yoruba fighting for a just cause

Jephson67:
yeah, but in this day and age, if you know what you are doing, you wont take a job of 500k a month. well i am talking for myself

DREAMZZZ:
I blame Afonja people for this

Liposure:
Tems is my next rated. I don't care what anybody says

Sunisonflex39:
So sitting on a chair is now a crime?
Those people pay the legislators with their tax

Nkwobi042:
You're free to give your sister out to your grandfather bro.No qualms.

Nkwobi042:


This northern girls are seriously suffering.
And to think he will expose his akpa amu to this child gives me the chills.....like wtf!

O boy!I want cry.I just can't imagine this if it to be my niece.
This dirrty old man drilling this child is just too disgusting to imagine.

This region like f'ck sotee, even their livestocks are becoming victims.

CalliDora1:
Never! Blindness is not hereditary. So it won't affect them. I stand to be corrected though.

chris51:
But 6 Sims?
I doubt the integrity

Etinosa1234:
Series
Band of brothers
Money heist
Merlin.
24(planning to rewatch it .. watched it when I was very young)
Avatar (aang and Korea)

Movies
Saving Private Ryan
My way
Enemies at the gate
Hacksaw Ridge
Fury
Valkyrie
Schindler's list(This one is abt the persecution of Jews in Holland. I nearly cried at the ending but I'm a man of Steel)


If u know the type of films I mentioned, u would understand the genre of films I love most

Simplyleo:
Which flag is on the cap?

E be like say na dem

emerich:
How is a fairly used 2013 Hyundai Elantra a brand new car biko nu?

Emyzoloye5:
Afonja miscreants again !!!!!!

Skull minning

rape

organ harvesters

bunch of Savage barbarians!!!!

Tookool:
Yaya Toure family too fine

Toscarel:
CRY ME A RIVER

tiamiyukunle69:
Yes sir. You can. Or you send to yourself and then transfer from your bank to the recipient's account

tiamiyukunle69:
Lols.....of cos that is why it's called verification. They are only being wary of scammers

Neddstark:
Jobs where you have to do virtually nothing but earn big

1. Artiste manager of a superstar
2. Football agent
3. Political appointee
etc

Minjim:
19 year old is no longer a teenager, she us a lady.
But no woman deserve this .