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AuroraB:
You know, I doubted the story. But your assertion got me. Well, the guy should do the recharge card thingy someone suggested. Or, get the man she is with to let him in on whom she is to him.
I say this because, she'll have yet another lie if confronted without fact(s).
And this is an eye-opener to guys who feel cos she's not asking for money, means all is well. Even if she's not asking, little gifts go a long way. She's still searching for a job and she ain't broke sometimes. She be Udughan dughter ni and how come she's not gotten a job if she's born with a silver spoon
Flight my black foot

hahaha with words like this, no wonder you kept quiet...he should just let go..back then in school I was with my close pal n he had this female friend that came to meet us n was like, there is this man that want her to lure a call girl that spent the night with him over the weekend in enugu n stole his laptops,cash n the rest in the hotel...so the plan was for us to call the girl n see if we can hook up since she resides in lag, only for my friend to dial the call girl number n her name appeared on his phone, it happens to be that he knows the lady in ? and we were schooling in awka then, while the call girl stays in his area .you see how small this world is, that's y I didn't doubt it.

Berbierklaus:
What is this one typing

I was referring to see our earlier discussion about some girls acting the go getters while secretly cheating and making the guy believe they are the good girls,they don't demand from him.


Now go to the freezer,you know that upper part where we keep cold water abi,ehen,pick one very chilled bottle of water.. good,Oya open the cap,now raise the bottle to your mouth,pour the cold water directly into your throat,everything at once,ehen good boy.now drop the bottle I will refil it.

your blood dey boil

lol crazy you,,, I get you na but the ? should b wa do ladies want?

AuroraB:
Day's coming on fine, thank you.

so wa s your advice for d op, ladies r running from d thread cus a guy s d victim but if s d other way round all hell will b let loose..funny how some ladies up there r saying he is lying or the story look cooked up.

AuroraB:

you are laughing dear,us true cus fear catch me am sure d op would v checked her Dp to b sure lol..how s your day going so far

cekhoe:
I will take the bolded as a complement,adiós

you r truly a character, keep it up Chou

cekhoe:
and women who do are what?, such double standards you have there. Some men pay outrageous amounts for one night stands,such a guy will obviously have no problem spending on his gf, hope you get the drift,and stop detailing the thread,face your opinion

it goes both ways, am only speaking for the guys cus am not a trans...by the way stop speaking as if you carry fire for head is just 8:00am or do u want us to continue again..don't derail d thread

Berlynn:
ewwwwwwww I understand this situation perfectly


choi op move on God just saved you from karashika lol move on bro dont kill yourself over someone who doesn't give a fvck about you! but this is really really sad

this one you understood the op so perfectly, r u the girl lol just kidding though but you sure sound like you r d girl

Berbierklaus:
Your head correct well.

cc Schumastic.

Brings me to the question,what do men really want? confused set

sincerely I wasn't expecting this ? from you,, did you read the op topic from down to up or did you confuse the op for a female lol, madam better read it again and ask the house what do women really want?

it was stated clearly the op was doing all he can to make sure they are ckose to each other.
2.for them to get married, cus he sees a wife material in her.
3.he loves n trust her n wants to spend the rest of her life with her.

so why are you asking the ?, what do men really want when he has made it clear wa he wants..
except if am not getting the angle u r coming from then u can explain better..but if what u meant is if a guy can't provide for his girl then she can source for money outside like the op gf did, all fine n good by me, I won't complain not even for once cus if a gf is also not available then the guy can source for sex outside as well..no 1 gets cheated that way.

cekhoe:
so do I stand by mine, cos I have seen women who built their men from scratch

yeah u can, why not..all am sayings that if she ain't your fiancee or wife don't do it so u don't com bk crying, or better put, s adviceable not to do it..

Berlynn:
for real are you ganna do that? lol

yeah v done more than that, like getting d pad myself n all but all da s in d past..sincerely a lady v to really worth it before I will do all da again .

cekhoe:
heheheh,I just laugh you, if I tell you my own story, you will be sad, but the thing is moving is part of life ,so don't act like heartbreak is gender specific

madam v seen it all n my story us more or less like the op but a lil diff seven yrs no b beans but that aside, we all v our share in all this drama called love n trust..v learnt, understood more about it n moved on with my life...so you see why I stand with my opinion the other time on that thread, is base on my experience n what v learnt over the years

Nma27:
I don't agree with u Sir

in what way ma n why don't you agree with me

AuroraB:
Am I supposed to believe this Of all the houses in Abuja, your gf ended up in....warram I saying sef *moonwalksouttathread*

haven't you heard of the saying, this world is a small world

have said it n I wil continue to say it,, IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO.. Op the only problem you had was loving n trusting completely which is why you are having this emotional n psychological trauma..
don't lose your job over a lady that wasn't meant for you in the first place..
to get out of this is to confront her with the truth n hear the lies she will say n act or crocodile tears she will shed after which, you move on with your life..
just look at it this way, you both r not meant for each other n that's y u were in d kitchen at da time of d day to see things for youself n know the truth about her..next time don't love completely or trust at all...cekhoe come n see part of the reasons I said is not good for a guy to go all that far especially if she is not his fiancee or wife..

Laveda:
You're right sha.

But its not easy to break away from marriage, especially if the woman loved the husband.

exactly my point, some people think breaking out from a marriage is easy especially when kids are involve and you love your partner deeply..is not that easy, plus family pressure calling for one to stay and assuring them that all will be fine.

quite touching

hmm

cekhoe:
stop confusing your self, you swaying to and fro, let's be honest, can you presently afford a car for your fiancee?, hehehe, I don't think so, hence the reason why you are pained that a guy will even do that for a gf, and that is why you think an olosho cannot get such a guy that will give her such a gift, well runs babes in my school back then had the biggest cars, that is what I want you to know, anyway, I think you have jerked off enough on the attention I have given you, so adiós

you really have a problem ooo choi , the runs girls in your school back then did they eventually get married to their man? more reason y i said you shouldn't bring them into this argument, the ones i referred to are the ladies who have nothing more to offer than just sex to their man..as regards your ? HELL NO, not because i can't afford it but even if i can i won't except she is wife or my fiancee asides that is a no no...so stop changing the topic and accept the truth and reality..i can bet anything in this world that you will kick against your own bro getting a car for his gf who is not his fiancee or wife, even if he can afford it or not ..so just give up on this thank you

cekhoe:
like I have said before, I will repeat it to you, there are women who spend on their men out there, it's confidential because the ego of their men is at stake,the lady in that link is married, we are talk on a relationship level, I still repeat, I have seen ladies that spend on their bfs, and most ladies choose not to because it has always ended bad, and even when they do, they don't make it known because of friends and family, simple

no one is saying spending on their bf or gf is bad but going as far as getting a lady a car to me is not advisable same way getting a car for your guy is not also advisable especially if she isn't your fiance, fiancee, wife or hubby is a no no...so is not about being broke or not, is just about not doing what you might end up regretting...so pls take out the ideology that a guy who sees something wrong in this is broke cus is far from it...am glad you finally agree with me on something

cekhoe:
heheheh,can you point put where you made this point?, heheheheheh, you are such a clown ,princples kor principal ni ,and the men that have been giving their women cars have not principles abi?, come up with something else, he he he, them really talk say no who nor get money dey talk say beer dey bitter , now I see why , I don't even see why you guys are pained, did the guy complain to you?, that you can't afford to do for your gf doesn't mean another can't do it

hahahahaha you are funny i swear down n already, i took note of your moniker to watch out for more comments from you meanwhile, you keep calling figures with no fact.
on this nairaland i can say the amount of stories of guys that have gotten a car for their gf or fiance is not up to 10 and mind you the number of gf story as regards this topic is not more than 2 compared to the fiance or wife included...also do you know a naija lady got her bf a G-wagon just to apologize to him.mind you, from your first comment i will say only broke ladies will have a problem with as well just in case you think am lying read this..
https://www.nairaland.com/3251897/nigerian-lady-buys-g-wagon-man

cekhoe:
@bolded I made mine, if you wanted to have yours, you could have had it on the thread, or did I mention your name in my opinion, or are you the broke guy that has a problem with it?, next time learn to make a counter that is logical, like I already pointed out, it's the reverse

lol i can choose to drop mine anywhere i want to, its a free world n i did mine with an open mind n also to clear your mind that guys who choose not to get their girl a car are not broke but have principles they live their lives on..the reason i mentioned you was for you to get your mind from having such mentality.

cekhoe:
hehehhehehe, seems you want to become insultive, next time make your opinion on the thread, instead of having it on my mention, ,seems you don't even understand what you even typed self, Mr attention seeker, the thread has enough space, like I already bolded up there,adiós

seriously i don't know which angle you read and see things or how you understand things, but you started with the insults here..i respected your opinion but dropped mine and you picked an offence in it..learn to argue or make your points clear without any insults

misspicy:
Who the hell is Alikibi

I trust my Nigerians on twitter.
MTVbase are in for a show down.

Arrant Nonsense!

at first i thought it was diamond platnum or wa ever that guy calls himself, only for me to see alikiba n am like who the f is this..

cekhoe:
go and read my comments on this thread and get back to me, cos it seems you are only seeing things from your little myopic corner

you are the one with a myopic brain here, you made a statement and i said is only girls who have ntn else to offer to a guy than just sex that won't come across such guys and even if they do he won't go that far as getting a car...by the way having an aristo or sugar daddy doesn't count here, i mean a guy and girl in a relationship..so you go bck n read through it again, then get back to me

cekhoe:
the look around, the "responsible " ladies are the ones that get the average guys, the extremely wealthy ones go for the ones that look good on the front seat, and most of these ladies have seen it all and are well package runs girls,especially if their dads are not dangote ,hehehehehe, and when I said broke guys would have a problem with it, you should have come up with a better counter, cos oloshos in actual sense only roll with such niggas and don't do broke guys , so your counter is actually in reverse

hmmm, well it all boils down to one thing, a real guy that knows the worth of his girl will go that far and mind you if you read the post very well you will see that part she said, my fiance so the relationship has gone beyond bf and gf but about to wed things..so is not about if a guy is broke or not but is about that same thing i keep asking ladies of this generation, what can you offer your bf if aside sex, what is that worth in you that your man can boast of amongst his friends that will make him want to tie the knot with you?

MTV base should be blamed for all this, sincerely I don't know any Ali talk more of kiba but if truly he had more votes than wizkid, then he deserves it, and am sure he knows he stands no chance against wizkid in any stage home or away.

MTV base should be blamed for all this, sincerely I don't know any Ali talk more of kiba but if truly he had more votes than wizkid, then he deserves it, and am sure he knows he stands no chance against wizkid in any stage home or away.

MTV base should be blamed for all this, sincerely I don't know any Ali talk more of kiba but if truly he had more votes than wizkid, then he deserves it, and am sure he knows he stands no chance against wizkid in any stage home or away.

here we go again

hmmm, clean it up is the best thing a guy can do for his girl, and also make some water for her to bathe that's all..although you might tease her with it, just for a laugh lol

cekhoe:
,you are not making sense, next time construct words to appeal to the logical reasoning of the reader, and if I were to even reply you, high class well known oloshos are the ones nabbing rich guys, so your comment doesn't following, y'all just quote for quoting sake

isn't it funny how one thinks his or her own opinion counts but other people's own opinion should be thrown away or are irrelevant ...by the way tell me one well known high class oloshos that you know that have nabbed any rich guy..mention just one...if you say only broke guys will have a problem with this then is only OLOSHOS that will find it hard to get such guys

justvicky:
congrats girl. we are on the same boat.we are lucky we have good men.

picture or i don't believe it