Margy:
I'm a girl too.. take it or leave it...this is the raw truth.. people usually hate to hear the truth.... aaahhh.. you can jump into the lagoon if this hurts you.

I choose to differ and the reason is this. As a girl you should know when it is safe to have sex in your cycle calendar and when it’s not safe to have sex. Many ladies don’t even know when it’s their safe period because they don’t know how to calculate it. Also if the guy pull out game is tight and he also pays attention to your cycle, it will make things much easy. From experience have had sex with my ex for close to 4years without a cd n she didn’t get pregnant.

P.S. I know some will come for my head with std stories, I did all kind of tests 4mnths after we broke up n it all came back negative.

GboyegaD:


To state other responses were not meaningful and this is what you could come up with, I guess meaningful needs a new definition.

Probably if you had taken your time to read it clearly you will see were I mentioned that only few meaningful advice were presented. Next time read carefully.

Liutay:



Most times, the Apple is still on the tree

Either way the Apple got its attributes from the tree, wether it turns out sweet or bitter, the tree plays a key role to it. That is the whole point, so twisting it is pointless.

saphireadoo:
I have been married for 9 yrs now.I earn more than my husband,

Normally I don’t comment on issues like this but I have to based on the vile comments I kept reading in the first page and the funny part of it all is that am pretty sure, more than 50 percent of those first page commenters are not married, more reason why I didn’t come across any meaningful advice only few with plenty of curses and abuses.

Op first thing first, search yourself and ask yourself this question, do i still want this marriage or do I want to leave?

If you want to leave, all fine and good. You can call him and do the needful, pack your things and leave but if you still want the marriage. Then you need to get your acts together.

Look for someone you know he respects a lot and listen to, Pour out your mind and let them know you would not want another lady in that house no matter if not you will leave the marriage. Also since he said he is interested in the child alone, meaning the child will stay with him, please op if you know you will not take that child as your own and would maltreat the child, I beg of you let the child stay with his mother.

Finally op, no marriage is perfect, some people are facing domestic abuses, cheating or lazy spouses but they will come out to dish out the advice of leave your marriage meanwhile they are trying to hold on to theirs.

Nobody in this world is perfect, so trend carefully and like I said before, if you want to leave, feel free and leave but if not, then set ground rules letting him know where you stand. Good luck

Op the only thing I can say is this.

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

faithfull18:
@OP, you better don't follow advices given here.

No two persons are the same.

What works for A will not work for B, that's the way life is designed.

Have you asked to meet in a public place and she declined?
Let's start from there.

That she isn't visiting you doesn't mean she is double-dating as most posters are insinuating here.

Are you for real, they have been dating for 3 good years and you are asking if they have hooked up in a public place. As a lady, if you are dating someone for three good years would you not make out time to visit? Someone you claim to love and why must it be in a public place.

Wow you have four kids already and your friend is still a student, that part of the story is really baffling. How old is he?

Gundel001:
Hi good day my fellow Nairalander please I will really need your experience about this issue. Please help me read to the end as it is a little bit long.

My junior brother is 14 years old and to be sincere I haven’t seen anybody as dull as him. I don’t know if it is natural but I just can’t understand why someone at that age could still be struggling with very simple arithmetic. My brother can’t write 1 – 150 correctly at 14.

He seems too dull; note he attends one of the best private school around our area, though I know you might say maybe education is not his way but even if you want to drop out from school you should know some basic things like money, time, multiplication and so on but my brother doesn’t know anything I must say, even to write his name correctly is a problem. It is making everyone unhappy lot of money is being spent on lesson teachers and other things for him still no improvement.

I am a student of one of the top federal University in Nigeria same as my other siblings even at both secondary and undergraduate level we were always above average so I can’t say his problem is genetic. I really wants to know what is the problem with him nairalanders. After I finished secondary school I once taught some pupils in primary school though there were dull ones too there but with time I could see improvement unlike my brother i always try to teach him from time to time but it kind of frustrating as he doesn’t even seems like he will ever grab anything and he doesn’t behave like he wants to learn anything.

He makes it seems as if he is not interested book or arithmetic at all …we all tried talking to him endless time to always read any time he his less busy but he never does except he is being forced.

He rarely talks, he loves to keep to himself always, he doesn’t have interest in anything unlike we the others that are die hard football fans, most times my mom will tell him to even go out to play and mingle he will not still want to go, he prefer to stay at home seating all day without reading or doing anything, even if it is to draw or play football he wont.

This matter is not making everyone happy at home we don’t even know the solution to his problem again, as in imagine having a child that is 14 years old that doesn’t know the difference between 17 and 71 it is just so bad…..

We don’t know if his case is mental or spiritual. please nairalanders I know there are child experts in the house or anybody who have experienced something like this before what do you think is the problem and possible solutions to the problem your contributions are welcome.

Please help me push this pleaseeeeee

Oga please go and watch this movie, like stars on earth. The answer you seek is in that movie, because you will understand better why he acts the way he does.

What you did is very bad, just go and beg her. The worst that can happen is for her to say no but if you have truly learnt your mistakes, I will advice you continue to apologize to her. Maybe when her heart is less heavy, she will forgive and accept you back. If you know anybody she respects, you can go through that person. Good luck

ToyBoyAaron:
I was planning on closing the thread but I promised to update so I'll.
I met her a virgin, she gave me the honor of.... She's super shy but can talk dirty. She explained that it was a compound discussion about a girl who got pregnant and left with the guys baby. Then using her as an example in the discussion it continued on WhatsApp. The talk too plenty I no fit write all. She assured me she respect her body and can't allow any guy touches her. Thanks for the whole contribution because it really calmed me down to talk to her. I'll keep it cool but time shall tell.

Bro from experience, you see that guy they always say nothing will happen with, that’s the guy something will eventually happen with. From what you posted, you obviously reacted n walked away, after which she messaged the guy and screen grab the shots n sent to you. Is a planned work, I have done something like that before most especially if you are the side guy and you don’t want to mess up the relationship. Henceforth monitor the chat with her friend and the guy and the teal truth will unveil itself.

Esanpikin:

Thanks for taking the time to reply kind sir. I am currently around ogun state, mowe to be precise. I'd hoped to meet someone in the same location as I since there is sparse movement here. If not, maybe when this lockdown is over.

i will send you a mail.

Esanpikin:
Please my people, help me. I believe someone here might just have a laptop lying down redundandantly. Even if it is not good, provided I can type with it, please help me. Thanks in anticipation

if someone decides to send you a laptop, how will you get it since there is a lockdown and no movement.

Glo4issy:
Had one crush then (handsome guy)lol,the guy made it so obvious to the point everyone around knew he liked me ,funny enough my room mate had a crush on him lol... imagine the whole thing and I never liked this boy one bit,my friend was even asking me if I did voodoo on him . One evening,I was kinda Hot I called him into the room and made OGA give me head when he wanted to slide in,that was when I realize I just bleeped up . Till date I still regret taking advantage of him

I don’t get, was it after the sex you regretted or you didn’t have it at all with him, that’s what made you to regret the whole stuff. Please clarify.

evil1:


That girl obviously likes u even before you asked her to visit you.
Oga stop wasting that girls time.
Calling everyday builds a relationship more stronger and keeps communication level in check.
There is nothing wrong dating an undergraduate butvif its marriage it's the wrong option.
But I can notice from your writeup that your a stingy guy hiding under pretence of conservation.

I swear down, is better if he had just given her the 3k for her transport alone without including hair, attachment alone is 800-1,500 that’s the least and some ladies will use two, not to talk more of making the hair. I don’t want to believe the op meant what he said.

Am only concern about the part were you said you gave her 3k for both hair(1k) and transport(2k), and she collected it. Please stick with this one cus she doesn’t have wahala.

post=86990809:
News of the Day!

2nd leg result.

Correct Scores : Bayern 1 Chelsea 5.

Haters, bookmark this post.

D result go shock una blokos like electricity

Bro forget that stupid coach will still start those same useless Barkley and mount...very annoying thing... If he is smart enough, he should try a 4132 formation and use two strikers up front.. William n Pedro on the wing, Giroud n batshuayi upfront and kante n kovacic in the middle...that's all...

Things like this won't make fp.. in other for the new generations to know what happened years back.

Nice write up..

Pettyprincess:

Aww thank you really appreciate!!

You welcome.

Back your files up In Google cloud n format the card or get a new one

what i hate the most is bleaching. i believe is low self esteem people that make use of such. be proud of your skin and take good care of it that's all.

Keshe50:


messi that miss a penalty against iceland and his team got knocked in the round 16 and could only scored one goal that is against a lowly Nigeria is the one that u said he doesn't has a poor world cup..u must be joking..messi himself knows he has a poor world cup campaign..also in the ucl..he was not the highest goal scorer..he team was knocked out by AS Roma after leading the first leg with 3 goal advantage...now tell me how did he has a good ucl campaign

Leave that guy, some people just argue football without knowing the facts behind it the moment I saw messi in his list for 2010 that's when I knew he doesn't know football.. So snijder who was the rightful winner of that year doesn't deserve it.... 2010 and 2019 fifa award clearly shows who they r rooting for and how biased fifa is.

princeade86:
Marcelo statistics

He played 23 matches out of 38. He was benched in 15 other matches. The matches he played what was his impact and how many assist the he provide? After ronaldo left he became a shadow of himself, let's argue with facts and not sentiment. I love Madrid some names on that list doesn't deserve it. What did Ramos Marcelo and modric archieve?. Compare to the likes of de bryune, silva, sterling, Roberto, and the other great players that had a fantastic season last yr. This season has started already those same boys have continued from were they stopped, meanwhile the likes of Ramos, modric and Marcelo haven't even played anything. I love Madrid but they robbed premiere league boys this year and it's very obvious. Mind you we had an all premiere league final for the first time in the history of champions league and UEFA but they get ignored doesn't that sends a message to you. FIFA hates English football take it or leave.

Miscellaneous:

Is vvd even the best player in liverpool? Baba try dey reason na... ramos, terry, Ferdinand were better than vvd na.fifa knows it will be an insult to give vvd

Yes he won the best player in Liverpool and not just Liverpool but also in premiere league PFA and UEFA so what else did any of this players you mentioned achieved all four awards if yes please who.. Let's argue with stat and not keypad.

Miscellaneous:

Is vvd even the best player in liverpool? Baba try dey reason na... ramos, terry, Ferdinand were better than vvd na.fifa knows it will be an insult to give vvd

But premiere league gave him, PFA gave him and even UEFA gave him so what are you saying. Let's argue with stat abeg.

FCBboy:
you're fvcking lowlife.

Look at the police man behind laughing

sisisioge:


Continue with your tautology o.

LOL AM JUST KIDDING HONESTLY SORRY IF THE JOKE WAS MUCH THOUGH.

sisisioge:


Followed my then bf from Lagos mainland to far away Badagry for his friends wedding. Being a foodie, it was hard for me to believe the low quality of the food served( Jollof rice be like rice mixed with a tint of palm oil). To make matters worse, there wasn't enough to go round. We weren't served. Lawd...I almost cried cos I was so hungry. Mother in-law had to be coming into the hall with the serving spoon to check which one of her friends has not been served yet.

I lost weight there and then

then bf or ex?

Chelsea winning by 4-0 argue with your keypad..blues for life..

Olamsoh:
SHE NEED ADVICE.

I met my guy since January,we started dating he promised he will never hurt me because I told him I don't want to go into a relationship due to the hrt brk I experience in my past relationship which was my first relationship in 2018,so,when I met this my guy he talk as a nice person I decided to give him a Chance, but the worsted part of his own is that he always hide his phone from me he doesn't allow me to touch his phone, but one day,he drop his phone and went into the Barth room to had his bath I took his phone and go through his chat on WhatsApp, to my greatest surprise all his chat with girls was I miss u,when are u coming, I don't have a girlfriend I love u and a girl who know me ask him if am not his girlfriend, he denied me that if is the girl that gave me to him,I was dumbfounded.

The funniest part of this matter is that he doesn't spent on me ooo but he's spending for those gals but I don't mind because I am not interested with his money because am also working all I need from was his sincerity and honest,but that day due to those chat I saw in his phone I got upset and started showing him atitude, he gave me 3k for tp I collected it and tore it in his present and he got angry and returned back home since then he haven't call me nor chat me,I want to know if there's anywhere I went wrong there so that I can know and apologize to him.

Is this low self esteem or you just want to be stupid or you didn't learn a thing or two from your previous relationship?

Am asking all of this because is obvious, he is not into you or proud of you, reason why he is still sleeping around.
on top of all of these, you still want to call him to apologise, for what if i may ask?
just move ahead, you took a bold step the moment you tore his money and walked out.
so let it stand, that way he would know you are not that kind of lady to mess with.
hope you told him about the stuffs you found out so he will be aware of stupid acts.