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slimthugchimee:
heres a girl i have known for a year and now, I knew her from our area at home, but then we dont use to talk, now we talk a lot on watsapp which most of the time she first chats me up, since i was very good with chatting in watsapp and always made jokes that made her laff to most of the things i said, so i taught that was the reason she always chats me up first...We were soo close that i always talk to her about my relationship problems and some problems i have and she never tells me about her, God i dont even know if she has a boyfriend, at a time she stopped chatting me up and when i do, she tends to make it slow and boring, just last week i opened my watsapp to check her and it seems she had blocked me

i was really surprised, i taught of all the things i could have said to annoy her but i couldnt think of any

i already called her but she aint picking, am not even calling again
i also have my pride


please dont mind my errors, the fone am using now has a small screen

next time, when a lady is giving you te green light don't bring up stories of your girl or ex cus they don't want to hear that, it turns them off and push them away from you..just take this as a lesson and work on it next time.

kullozone:
She even took the guy for granted... Kissed another guy just outside his house?
I don't even see the reason why I'll be asking others for advice concerning sh!ts like this.
Una go jus dey talk some kyn stories wey go dey make person vex.

as in the thing tire me, if it were somewhere else is diff but in front of my house that is the highest insult and am very sure she denied it before he made it clear to her, he saw her kiss the guy...there is no advice on this, just forgive her and call it quit, although he can still remain friends with her if he wants that..
some ladies will sacrifices all the years and lose that one guy that truly loves them for a silly fling (by playing the role of a side chick to another guy who has a stable relationship) it doesn't make sense or add up well.

sirliu:
They have to have a honest heart to heart talk. Especially about trust. It's his choice whether to forgive or not, but it isn't easy to throw away a relationship that has lasted that long.

bro when the happiness of either party is at stake here is always advisable to call it quit, rather than stay and pretend to be happy when all is not well.

VampireeM:
[size=16pt]Lol.. She must be a LEARNER! [/size]


_{thou shalt not be caught "playing"}

one cheat spotted the day he will catch you eh, your eyes will clear that day

Miztadynamix:
There is a pal of mine who has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for quite a long time now. They actually started dating back in university and this guy was her first love in regards to him also being the one she gave her virginity.

They have been so close for years even after school, NYSC and until recently. Their parents know about their relationship to the point that the girls parents do allow the guy pass the night in their home some times because they love the boy so much that they have already taken it that he is the husband of their daughter already just for them to do the proper ceremony remaining.

This is a guy that allows the Girl come to his house even without her calling so she will know that he is faithful and has nothing to hide and he really loves her. But recently, things changed when a guy dropped her off at this her boyfriends place and she didn't know he was home and was just looking through his window that day from upstairs and he sited his girlfriend kiss this guy that dropped her.

He got really mad and when she came in, the guy has to spill out everything he saw and she got confused, started crying and begging with all sort of excuse how it was a mistake and all. The guy said he doesn't want anymore and they can just still be friends but he will never date her again.

The Girl and her mum have been trying to apologize to the guy for about two months now but he doesn't want to ever date her again.

Is his action wrong that you feel he should forgive her or you support his action to just let her go and move on?

he should forgive her but dating her is a no no cus he would find it hard to trust his girl and lack of trust is not healthy for any relationship.

but that babe get mind o, choi to kiss another guy in front of your bf house , is still baffles me how some ladies think and the speed at which crocodile tears drop from their eyes is crazy

mirrakk:
tnks. We once had an issue smtym ago wn she suddnly started talkn and conversing wt her ex. And funny enough. She never mentiond it. Wn i suspected and calld her 2 it she flared up* and cald me selfish. I had 2 gv her space b4 i culd heal d wound she caused me then. nw its ds again.

am saying this from experience and that's why i said is better you let go cus your happiness is all that matters at this point. when a lady start giving attitudes that are uncalled for and you are sure you didn't do anything wrong to create the drama, then its obvious a guy is in the background, and until she do what is in her mind or come back to her senses, she will continue to misbehave.

so stop bothering your head about her, am sure you have other issues you should be addressing rather than giving yourself headache over someone who is enjoying herself and cares less about how you feel.

mirrakk:
hi everyone.
I noticed I have not come accross any thread that has dealt with sturbon people in relationship.
I just had a little issue with my girlfrnd. 2 make it as brief as possible, I noticed she has been unduely close with a guy who normally am not close with but we arnt enemies. I felt i cant dictate who she hangs out with and so i never cared talkn abt it, although deep inside i was nt comfortable with the way they had gone so close. At a point I had to force myself to get close to him to atleast knw if we could b friends. Unfortunately i discoverd we cant b more dan hey hi frnd stuff.
Now 2day i tried talkn 2 her abt it and what i heard someone say abt them both which caught my attention. I explained 2 her dat ds guy is married and dat sm1 made a reference 2 dat earlier.
She flared up saying its her life and decides how she lives it. She has been ds kind of person who is so obstinate and does nt wnt 2 listen 2 people.
Am getn fed up already. Pls how do u manage obstinate parttners.

this is hard to take, but let her go cus you will be doing your heart a big favor.
if you insist on staying, then goodluck with that but take thus advice, don't ignor the red flags and signs..goodluck

so they don't end up being deceived and used at the end cus they won't see it coming..learnt a lot this days

Papilo20:
Hello nairalander, this is the case,

This babe follow me to a hotel, even if not too long, I met her,

I pay for the room, she they she no talk, we walk together enter room ,

She started, why are you bringing me here, I want to go, this is the worst place I hate in my life, I was like,

She follows me come hotel , she no talk, but begins talk for inside room

I did not want to force her to stay
She say she wan go
I say make she go


Please what is the meaning of that action

Lady's comment appreciates too

most ladies don't like the idea of hotel when it comes to having sex, although there an exceptions. for example, if you travel far away to see them and you lodge, they might visit and have sex but in a situation where the both of you are staying in the same state, that is a no no for them to have sex with you in a hotel.
some will prefer you take them to your house or a friend's house rather than the hotel..so just make amends and take her home or to a friend's place.

Chicent:
ari m nma nwanne m nwanyi.
Anyi bu ndi owerri zone.



@schumastic i rep owerri west lga
Orogwe.

Nno nwanne mmadu....

aha, my brother from another mother, i sight you

ItsQuinn:
You know

if i don't, i wouldn't say so in the first place

this days, bridal train and grooms men are looking old abi them no wan marry

ItsQuinn:
This girl is just too stupid .....please keep on with the relationship and let him rape the hell outta your life, don't run oh! mumu

It's either she is a troll or she's just freaky and enjoys that kind of pain mix with pleasure

funny enough some girls do

AuroraB:
Nope.

ok, o well i trust your day is going fine, i can't ask or reveal some personal stuff here, i guess we would see again .

that's how the woman concluded sharp sharp, meanwhile there is a ''maybe'' in the whole drama of the baby issue.

must they make their nipples stand before they take the picture, only heaven knows what they must have imagined or thought of that moment

number three though

AuroraB:
Mbaise, Ahiazu Mbaise. Good to know I got my peeps here ooooo



Imela n'kpo ole ?

am good, so do you reside there as well?

AuroraB:
Na Nairaland Nke'a Lol Nevermind biko Which part of Imo are you from, actually?

Nekede and you?

na wa o, why is he protecting his identity? expose the pedophile old fool

did that once, just to see out it turns out n it was awesome the rest was history

Ginaz:
o.p you don't love her, you're just using her for sex. Love doesn't know culture, country,skin colour or white from black.

You're still a big baby kid, she didn't offend you yet you broke up with her cos of some internal battle you have that's unnecessary and irrelevant.

Abeg jump inside lagoon for all I care o. You even said you wanted to "have fun" with her but thank God she has more sense than you to say no.

She's my type of person, we got no time for dramatic showcase ,we move on like you're trash and we don't give a damn.

O.p you're so a kid bro, please next time, the next girl leave her too o cos maybe she didn't come from your village ooo or she didn't have your type of colour. Rubbish!

preach on girl

AuroraB:
Nairaland no get joy

they won't know cus it will b a quick peep n u take it down immediately

AuroraB:

so can i see your pic

AuroraB:
Imo State

really, i v a sis in the house

AuroraB:
Hehehehe...I'm Igbo

cool, which side?

AuroraB:
Mbanu . This kain worwor wey I worwor, nose ring will worsen it

hahaha really well no dp so i can't say meanwhile, are you igbo?

tell them

aurora where is your nose ring