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sirhot:
that's not the essence, we will still do another months later like that till we tie the knot. I'm not taking any risk.

CorGier:
Sharp guy.
I think say na only me notice am.

Benita27:
We all have personal experiences being stupid in love.
I am perfectly ok, hope you're too?.

Benita27:
Well, you're entitled to your opinion, i believe the op 100% cos 'some' guys are heartless.

Benita27:
Did you go through her previous thread about the said guy?.

Zirah:
Hahahahahahahaha. Well..l just did.

LOL SEE YOUR BIG HEAD STUBBORN GUY IS THAT WICKED DADA MAN IN YOUR VILLAGE I WILL CALL FOR YOU

QueenSuccubus:



Hahahahahha... I think I wud like to have slightly longer than 6.4 inches

Benita27:
Very good that you didn't go to his place, treating you this way is enough humiliation, he should go to hell joor!, what nonsense!.

softMarket:
guy......i tire 4 ur name!

Aniker:
Eco suave! Op is hot..

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

JoyTracy:
I like it long, could be thin, so it could be hitting my womb when we re doing, cos i have small but deep puccy.

LOL YOU HAVE A SMALL BUT DEEP PUCCY, THAT PART GOT ME ALL CRACKED UP LET ME SAY I BELIEVE YOU BUT ARE YOU SURE IS NOT DUE TO YOUR PREFERENCE THAT YOUR *CLEARS THROAT* IS DEEP, AM JUST SAYING

ujudiaz:
Most married men, chase after young ladies,or will I say 85% of married men are not faithful in their marriages! Reasons best known to them,i avoid them like a plague! But most times they don't wear their wedding bands,and they swear to heavens that they are single, just to lure single ladies! Marriage is now a sham! In most cases, these married ladies are nt aware of the monsters they marry as husband's! The blame d single ladies and forget to caution their husband's! Even tho u go and pour acid on d lady! He has a thousand and one of them, single ladies should just be careful! Men are dangerous,shekina

dacblogger:
dearie, a man that will cheat will cheat whether you do it 2 another person or not, karma has nothing to do with the cheating behavior of men...

LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

PH1stBorn:
You have said whats in my mind...this can't be her first parole

Hadez:
I hate Lousy boys like the op

Mimido2:
seriously







no I can't
he is not a good kisser

john1964:
Hi guys I know nairaland ain't the perfect Place to come asking for advice but I have no one to confide to, am this kinda person that find it hard sharing personal issues with someone I know, When I read people write about their personal love life issues I find it very funny sha..lol.. Not knowing I'll one day face mine and be forced to share it. Been dating this girl for 3 years now am in the university, 400L while she's in her 300L presently, she's always cared and loved me undoubtedly since day 1, always had back in school both financially and others too and we've always had this plan for a future together, coz I strongly believe and know our love was real. The bond we had was just so strong, suddenly I had an issue with school which brought me back though. Sadly Had to start all over from 100L it hurts me so much, though all the time have been going through this dilemma, she's always tried encouraging me and pushed me not to give up on my dream. I was almost thinking so negative when I had this school ish, thought about killing myself thinking the world was over. But this lady stood by me and never gave up on me and convinced me that killing my self wouldn't help matters (I was really a mess then, like a HUGE mess) didn't go out much, had to stay in school a whole year preparing all over again for jamb nd all that, tho still attending lectures.
Now, when I had this issue that was were my dreams started shattering, our future wasn't looking all bright anymore because now am starting all over again, when I'll be in my 100L she'll be in her 300L and on and on like that.. It really broke my heart, at some point she believes in me and tries to convince me things would be better and I'll definitely scale through, But most times there's just this little doubts that comes in, You Ladies are prone to marry early (and she's very cute) which is actually a huge A+, men have always been coming asking for her hand in marriage and she has always declined them.. But she ain't getting any younger, and has to get married someday, sadly she told me yesterday she really do love me so much and has always had my back always and supported me always and which is so true that she has just decided to give me some lil break so I can try sorting my self out and balancing my life and she has decided to agree to one of her suitors(the guy is quite close to her family/ he's financially stable too tho the guy has a lil kid sha I guess his a single dad) coz she's always told me about ppl asking for her hand in marriage, though they ain't getting married now, but at least she wants to face him, instead of pushing away all her suitors and in the future wen she graduates and am Still in school, it might not be easy for me to be financially stable easily, tho she begged me that Pls hope I wouldn't paint her as a bad person coz she really tried for me. I've just been really down since she told me this and it's really affecting me so much tho what she says is sadly the truth, Have just really built my life around her and she's just the only one I confined to in school when I have issues (coz am really this typa person who don't flows and share things easily with anyone, I kinda hv trust issues) don't really know how I'll cope when Am back to school, we leave close to each other in school, and she still really wants to be friends with me and wants to always support me too. Don't really know what to do right now I really do love her so much because she's an amazing person who has just been by my side through really hard times in school, it wont be easy starting Just as friends right now, I really do have a mild heart. Wish I could rewind the hands of the clock and correct the mistake I made that made me start all over again.. It's just really sad

Pls if I made a mistake with my typing, don't attack me.. Just really down now


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