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dayokanu: You said you want the situation to be over

Can you tell us how you want the situation to be over?

This is just the beginning. You would go through 8months of excruciating pain and early morning sickness . and in childbirth one of the worst pain for your young body.

For the next 4-5yrs, you would have to wake up in the middle of the night to breastfeed, pack baby shyyt, wake up to baby cry, change diapers All these by yourself because the dad is nowhere.

And you would always be a huge disappointment to your family. Your dad and mom would always refer to you as a terrible child they wished was never born and you would always be a shame and someone never to be emulated to your younger ones.

Most likely all your life you would be known as an irresponsible baby momma and another addition to the statistics of failed child upbringing and most likely a disgrace to the black and Nigerian community.

With this post of yours,am expecting you have an extrmly perfect home and a perfect up-bringing,i gues?
Enough of the chiding already. Only those without sin,a perfect background,100percent perfect siblins and lifestyle should castigate her now.
The only reason you typed that hateful thing towards that child is because you'v not been caught in your own wrong doing! That makes you a saint..doesn't it?

The only person who could have stopped-and can stop all these,is the person who was crying and threatening to kill herself. Yup. Your wifey.

breathing: Who is making fun of this recipe that was handed down to me by my grandma. Take time o!

Screwface, @your last post, I'm never ever ever ever gonna go for a HIV test ever! Just can't. Just not gonna. Just never had. Just never will.

My dear,it's one of the hardest things to do o. But,one of these days, you'l just have to.
It's one of the prerequisites to getting married in my church.

breathing: Thanks Sixteen for giving me this precious chance to lecture you.

1. A gallon Groundnut oil
2. Salt to taste
3. Garlic. 10 fingers
4. Zobo seeds.

Heat the oil to right temperature, put in all the salt, pour in the zobo seeds and stir, throw in all the garlic and stir again.

Your zobo is ready!

Walahi,u no well!

Knowing your CD4 count is the next most important thing for you to do now.
Just like the Doctor in the house rightly pointed out,missing/skiping your drugs when/if the time comes is like signing a death sentence with your own hands.
My advice is,stay healthy at all cost,especially if your CD4 count is still as high as possible,encourage it to stay that way. I once checked a HIV+ carrier's CD4 and it read as high as 2,200 and my best friend who was virus free around 700. If your CD4 is in 'good shape',try live your life as normal as possible. Avoid the avoidables,WEAR condoms when you stll want to have sex and avoid all these petty sickness(malaria),cus it also affects your CD4 level.
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If only the HIV virus ain't deadly and cruel,it passes-by as one of the most intelligent thing that has ever crossed the paths of man.

I still feel like an intruder in this house,buh i'l stil comment on this Mynd issue.
Lol..fynGrl,stay outta this.
Ironically,Mynd's post didn't need to generate any counter posts from you both(Bright/Teeo)..i read through it too and i think where you both got it twisted is in the Interpretation part. You both saw it diffrently,so did evryone else here. Am not trying 2make a case for anybody here,but one of u needs to tender an appology,the other needs to accept(the appology,not that he/her opinion was faulted) and you both need to step off each other's toes!
The Mynd fellow strikes me as a passive writer/thinker..a loner sorta,someone who built a shell round his enclosure,who sometimes want to take a peep outa that hole but keeps thinking of the repercursion of his proposed action. He's an intresting fellow sha. I read thru his update and i still DON't KNOW him. That's odd.

WhiteOne: Honey, you are 7 months pregnant. There is no way you can hide that any longer!
Go to your parents! Go to him! Face reality! You are about to be a mum!
Stop crying! Tell this guy, he has to marry you! Let him call his family and let them do the induration to yours! You have to grow up very fast. I would advise you to talk to your mum very fast, she might help you to brake the “good news” to your father.
It is too late for an abortion! Do not do it! I will harm. All might work out very well. You are not the first young mum. Your parents might be shocked first, but surely will settle later.
Where are you based? Nigeria? UK? USA? Please let us know. Perhaps we can point you to an organization, which can support you.

Is this comment of your's meant for this thread?

Hmmm..Bright and Alosiby,i sure don't want to visit those houses for anything. Especially yours Bright. Haba! granpa's',ma's,steps,uncles and aunties?? Ha! Walahi natn wil make me enter there.
There was this particular house i fell in love with when i was house-hunting. It was a story-building and it was really cool,both the xterior and the little i saw of the interior design. I got the shock of my life when i wanted goin in. There,right in the center of the room was a gigantic grave side carved,not just one,but two! Ah! Oti o. Needless to say,i didn't go inside.
What's wrong in buryin the dead amongts the dead? Why bury among the living? What business do they have with us??
It's scary o,truth be told.

Dondbuzor: Hope its not gonna be a one off day thing!
Nice one, but ll make more sense if its continued(though I receive constant news headline on ma Bbm).

He does it almost everyday.

BBM: And what am i supposed to reply to this? i hope this is not the point @ which i'm expected to ask *HOW DOES THIS AFFECT THE PRICE OF THAT-WHICH-MUST-NOT-BE-MENTIONED?

This phrase/sentence is becoming stale,outdated and annoying!
Go get something better and stop spaming threads around!
Seeing you are a girl,u shd better start asking how it affect the price of a menstral pad...msthew!

donigspain: Wait a sec!
If almost everyone attests to have experienced this weird situation which we believe is more spiritual (demonic) than scientific/metaphysical, does it mean every nigerian household has got atleast one resident witch/wizard?

Lol.
Walahi all of una dey fear me!

Yes. You are callous and something is wrong with you.

Walahi Bright no look for my trouble 2day o because my day no sexy at all!..lol.
I was neva invited in2 dis particular House..u urself know. You advocated i shd be invited,but the owner of the house didn't respond. Can't jus barge in2 a place like dat nah.
Shey?

Dear Alosiby.
Sorry for barging into your house without invitation. It's a matter of urgency that I have a talk with Mama.
Dear Tm,i have some appologies to make.
I only discovered I haven't been spying on your outlet with this new Handle,despite you been the primary reason i joined this section and since i'v almost abandoned the other handle,i 'lost' sight of you.
My appologies.
To the questnss about Screwface.. You sure know me! Oh yes,you do!
Am that guy who sent you a PM,asking that you pull down a sensitive thread i once opened. Am that guy who sends mails(2) to check how you were,you replied them.
You get now?
Then..about the "woman of my dreams",i think you stole that phrase from me..lol. Walahi,u did. Thatz what i call 'Olami'.
So thatz that..sori 4 replyin late.
And am certainly not a screwed guy!

Paul Wilbur's Jerusalem Arise.
No matter where I am,who am with,or what am doing,once i hear any track from that album,am AirLifted!

Codedrock: If you becames super star, we you caught doing this in public? As for me while not.

Guy! Come back here!! What did you just type here?

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maclatunji: You're in the United States aren't you?

Exactly my thoughts. It's the same question i was goin to ask her.

Although I doubt the authenticity* of this story,i'l stil comment.
Your age automatically makes you a Child,and as such,your 28-year-old guy abused you. If am not mistaken,that crime carries a jail term.
You have two choices available to you here:
*Tell your parents first.
*Tell your boyfriend first.
Dnt ask me what they'l do cus i dnt know..and u beta tel dem fast