₦airaland Forum

Toke the tard

I like Ben Bruce

I know he is using his media apparatus to launder his image ahead of his desired dream to be President

And after the injustice done to his kinsman, I wouldn't mind voting a Bayelsan

Why did he apologize to unilag spoiled brats tho?

He shouldn't have in my opinion

Let them talk their mess and move on

Their only strength during the whole of Jonathan administration when they wanted to change their name to Moshood Abiola

They are idiats, only have mouth for vanity, selfie, rice and wanting to meet new aristos and sugar mummys at ben bruce party

Ben you fall my hand, never show that kinda weakness again

If you ban them from ozone cinema now for their silly social media epistle, e for better

You are their champion

After all you gave them cinema in Nigeria,

You gave them music videos

You gave them careers

You even gave them the idea to do unilag 103.1

I know you grew up in yaba and before you became a media mogul some of their binshes may have even stood u up, but now look at you, u be OG but u go dey apologize....to those crayfish

Ben please no try am again

U for give them Chinese next to Niger Palace, them go to pless umblella 2019

ungrateful yoot

Leave bubu abeg

$1 don almost equals N1

Gtb media palava

He didn't even have to

Pastor cunny cunny

All these pastors and politicians are in the same bracket for our messed up society

The church fell asleep and let these supporters of APC govern

And they are dullards

Lol

1freshdude:
Is the dollar your national currency?

Can I have whatever you're smoking

Damn

That's tough


I will have to move on though


More fishy in the sea

And I can use as excuse never to remarry

what if if you and your husband cheat together

3sums

Equality in cheating.

enygmababe:
I am amazed that you think an unfaithful HUSBAND has the option of marrying more wives.

A married man can only go ahead to marry more wives in Nigeria if the first marriage was customary or Muslim in nature. If he was married under the act in the first instance, then any subsequent marriage is bigamy which is a criminal offence for which he can be convicted by a court of law in Nigeria. A lot of women just don't know this and so do not harness it. Also if the first marriage is customary, any subsequent marriage to another woman can only be customary in nature

If my hubby tries it, sadly the woman will never be able to bear his name. In fact I know of a woman whose husband secretly went to marry another woman, she gave him and the other woman an ultimatum and they had no choice but to annul the marriage because at the time of the marriage the man was already marriage so the subsequent marriage was void ab initio.

It is sad indeed that most men would cheat and say it is meaningless, a harmless fling and that they love their wife. If they only realised that the act of lovemaking to a wife transcends the physical to the spiritual as well as the emotional trauma it could cause, am sure they would restrain themselves. A man who cheats on me cannot love me and I doubt that I have the capacity to stay with such a man and pretend to manage it. However, this post is not about the repentant adulterer but about the unrepentant philanderer.

Guys beware! The day a woman stops crying about you that day you need to start fearing for you life.

Before deciding to leave it will take some time. The first time I discover it, I will give him time to do the needful and change. This is because i know what i have invested in this family and would not want to leave for another person who did not sow to come and reap. After this period of grace, if he does not change, I may draw battle lines. By battle lines I do not mean incessant quarrels but I mean a withdrawal of cooperation.

By withdrawal of cooperation I mean that he will become the bread winner of the family in the true sense of the word. After all, he has an abundance and that is the reason why he can entice girls in numbers. He will drop the household allowance, my personal allowance and pay for everything even to the match box. If he doesn't then there will be no food in the house. He will also not get a dime from me whether as a loan or support of any kind. We might actually live as strangers in the house.

The moment I know about the affair we will start using CDs for intimacy though for the life of me I still wonder how much intimacy there will be becos I will imagine him with another woman, see them in the act in my minds eye and be repulsed. Pretending through the motions of intimacy is no mean feat but is definitely beyond my powers. Biko leave me I beg.

On philandering shamelessly in revenge ...lol. Giving myself to his friends in revenge would be stupid and I value myself too much to harm/abuse myself all in the name of revenge. However, a philandering man who refuses to change is obviously advocating for an open marriage and should get it. However, the female need not go about it abrasively just for revenge. If I were to chose that option? I would not rush it. I would only be with a man that also attracts me but which said attraction I would hitherto have suppressed because of the institution of marriage. However, if I ever get to this stage, it would me that I do not have an iota of love for my hubby anymore in which case, I can kill him...subtly. So I would be better off leaving him and filing for a divorce.

Guys always forget that a wife has blood flowing in her veins too. She sometimes sees some men and feels attraction but suppresses the feelings because of her love for her husband and the vows she took. Why can't a man do the same?

But right now, even though I pray it never happens, I keep myself busy by making the home so happy and homely that he knows how good he has it. So that when the battle lines are drawn, he knows what he is missing.

Truth be told though the questions are not easy to answer nor are the answers sacrosanct. A lot depends on how I feel when it happens. I may bloody well take a gun and blow his head off in a dark alley.

I guess it has finally dawned on me what is meant by the saying its a mans world.

Two women transitioned into the after-marriage as a result of failure to overlook the mans transgressions.

Meanwhile with the men, nothing has changed.

Society forgets, tithes will still come in very strongly. Nigerias oil money will be spent on the next light skinned boobied import. Musa is going for imports now.

So why don't women just suffer in silence? Women are amazingly strong creatures and those whom are not domesticated by men (or feel need to be sumbmissive to men) like still prevails in Arab societies etc

I mean Anita was very outspoken about her divorce and Im sure she made a pretty penny because British law firm, British court, British registered entity etc etc. Her pay day is there

But what of Caroline? LOL!

Musa looks like the Muhammad Ali of players. She will get an allowance if he is generous. The kids should be an added advantage.


BUT was it all worth it? No seriously?



oya answer na

Tolu is sharp

Igbo men compare women to dogs

Not even Boko Haram does such


Spits on Jude*


Overbearing bully

Naija

Your topic Reminds me of all my staff

I thought it was only Laura that was a loud mouth braggart in that house

Now I see Linda has just as bad a mouth

Always wanting to show off

Well its a result of being poor before

bigfather:
And if I may ask,what is immoral in being a model Do all models go NAKED Modeling is a career and you don't have to go naked to become one. God has chosen a path for Jumoke to follow and it is not in anybody's right to judge her based on her career ! So far , I have not seen any sort of immorality in all d pictures I have seen on d internet !

if you don't wear a blanket or the bear from revenant over your head, the book haram wud consida u haram

Boko Haram would have her another Chibok boo

Why I no surprise eh?

netizenbuzz:
You have not answered my question. And you seem to believe only a woman needs to be submissive. Why is respect so important to you as a person? Is it because you feel it is a form of pay back for your love and support? But then women also love and support their men, so why exactly is it important to you?

Men are submitting to the woman when they agree to love her and only her for ever and ever. I'm sure you'd like to say it's vice versa with women as you're quite the advocate.

But a man has more opportunity to be with more than one woman and never be tied down for any period of time. Paternity is way easier than maternity. A man can throw money at all his responsibilities and some women are very cool with it. More than those that are not. Ask OBO. Ask Flavour. Ask Tubaba. Ask Okoya. Ask Around.

So when a man decides to show a woman love and forsake all of his potential fringe benefits, he wants a woman to show him the respect he deserves.

Why did Esther become queen? Was it not because Vashti showed disrespect? There are thousands of Esther's walking around and sadly millions of Vashti.
The contentious women.

In this free society, there's nothing wrong if a woman wants to wear the pants in a relationship but she shouldn't cry foul anyhow. after all she is the one suited up, playing a man's game.

Not all men are unworthy of respect

Just like not all men are worthy

As a woman if you're in a relationship with a man you cannot respect, why are you there?

Money? Title? Stupidity?


Once you're in a relationship with a man you better learn how to respect him or suffer the consequences.

However men should never beat women. If my wife dares me, upon all my love and support, then I guess they're like 1000000 women looking for a man and know how to be submissive.

I support.


Let's kick the dullard out

And put common sense in

Milaitry

Try this guy

Sai baba

JingoOAU:
Running mouth like tap water

Ya mama?

Please just tell him to eat dinner in his house before they do what they did in Rivers

#80 million for dinner


Anyways I trust Ambode. No be like Fashola

PentiumPro:
You shut the gutter you call mouth.
Go ahead and show that Olowolafe is the same as Fashola. Dunces everywhere.
People just open their mouths and talk rubbish here on NL

You must be one of the side chicks

PentiumPro:
It's either you are simply naive or outrightly mischevious.
Fashola is not the kind of person that shy away from taking the right but hard decision.

Oh shut up.


I'm stating facts you're talking nonsense

Olowolafe is on board of Eko.

He owns part of Eko DISCO


He wants to make money

Olamipapa:
You don vex bah? If you want the FTC you can come and collect it. funny dude

Yes I want it. Mods do the needful

God punish am