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YourMain:
Actually I am a Virgin. Sorry to disappoint you.

Anyways I just think there are so much other things that are interesting about me. So much other things I'd rather be proud of. My virginity isn't just one of them. It's just a meh factor. Like my eyes are brown.

Its quite ironic....

Speechless3:
Am guessing that virgins would be pissed with these almost horrible questions too

They don't need these questions, do they? maybe the 1st one, which cancels all others

dabossman:
Let's get things straight. The lady I quoted made a comment about her boobs not standing anymore because she already had a son who was 13. This is what she wrote below.

benedictac :
that is where u miss it dear. my first
son is 13, so it's not possible for mine
to still stand.


I gave simple biological reasons why that is the case with her as with any woman who has had a child before. That is not being sexist, that is simply discussing basic anatomy. I could be a gynecologist for all you know. The lady replied me without taking offence. What is your issue?

Maybe such adult discussions are beyond what your young mind can comprehend. In that case just move on. Capiche?

Observe the above.This is the last response, because i don't have time to engage in war of words with a juvenile mind

benedictac:
he is immature

Thank you madam.
What's that your name again?The lady you claim to be having a decent conversation or is it matured you called it, doesn't agree with you.So grow up and stop been a wuss,respect women, particularly mothers, even if you are older than them.I wonder how yo treat your wife.

dreamworld:
They are dirty
Low personal hygiene
They can wear one pant for a week
She might like you now. But her people are so tribalistic
They will make her to leave you or make your life so miserable .
You may not see all these now until u marry her
But if you are damn lucky ,she might have a different gene

So which tribe is to be married?

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ladyF:
sure it was

Lucky you

benedictac:
that is where u miss it dear. my first son is 13, so it's not possible for mine to still stand. but I will never be this stupid to show the public. I pity ur type

Hello madam, compliments of the season . Sorry to bother you, but I ve a question for you . Please do you find this young man's comments offensive and immature? Because he keeps defending his nonsensical and naive statements.

JudgementHammer:
Mr man I've seen ur color all d pic and d story I've seen them all. Know these;

1)The lady is not confused. She knows what she really want

2)Like u said everyone can't have same behavioral traits. What's absurd to u is highly revered by some others including kneeling

3)There are 2 kind of introverts and 2 kinds of extroverts resulting from either emotional brutality or physical brutality

4)Get more knowledge b4 u defend a case u barely know about

On the contrary, it's you who who needs better understanding. You are not married so your knowledge dwarfs in that area.You also need a better understanding of the word Nature, stop relating it to human influence.If she knows, why are we having this conversation.You ve seen my colour, am marveled. It obvious you are still a young lad, which explains your reaction to criticism.Grow up and don't take criticism personal.I know you might come up with something else, don't bother because am not going to read it, to mention aligning in a fiasco with you. Au revoir

IamMissMarvel:
Nothing at all.

But I think the 1st is

coveredchic:
One thing y'all don't get about introverts is this- they size you up, study you before letting their guard down, so people think they're boring. Nothing is further from the truth!
@op, I'll feel so blessed if I were to to be dating an introvert like myself,for rest assured, he'll never stray. All relationships require work whether introverted or extroverted. You can make it work if you really want too, nothing is impossible.

Couldn't ve said it any better

JudgementHammer:
He must be mel-phleg and perhaps u too. Well I'm not married but one thing I've noticed is that many people don't knw abt themselves and I've notiiced that introverts knw abt themselves more than the extros, perhaps bcus they have more developed brain cells.

My advice is if u can't see a psychologist, then read more abt personality temperament of d opposite sex and advice him to read abt it later too especially after u've read and understood him so well. I won't say u shd see a pastor cuz no matter how u pray it doesn't change his person except ure d extreme xtain, then d holy sprt can refine ur personality-not change it

U also need to consider d weakness of extros wch u say u like, they may not be able to give u dat very close n intimate attention u desire cus of their loud nature and they're every ladies' men. As for ur guy, u shd knw he must have had some brutality in his growing stage for him to have such a nature so do what will boost his battered psychy/ego, don't compare urself with other ladies. Funny enough, respect from a woman for him may be best defined by kneeling b4 him but he might nt be able to tell u cus u would think afterall many women don't do that in this modern age.

I disagree about a few things if not alot, there is nothing wrong with them, they don't need to see a shrink. It's not even a problem ,to mention psycho analysis . Everyone can't have same behavioral traits. The issue about kneeling down is absurd, to solve a problem that doesn't even exist.Brutality at childhood on the contrary, can even make one, very outspoken and aggressive.Indoubt? Agberos can be used as case study.I like the fact you used the word 'Nature' it has nothing to do with human interference, childhood has nothing to do with nature.
The only issue is,a confused lady,simple!
Finally:

Vikky014:
Reallyu mean sme1 can jst marry wtout evn loving d partner strange

No, what is strange is you been a novist on that

YourMain:
Some things really are. For example what if she/he was something she/he wasn't really proud of in the past. And he/she had completely changed their ways. Obviously if you didn't really love him/her you'd hear this and run. You'd let a good girl/guy go because you'd judge them on who they were in the past not who they are now.

Yeah I understand but somethings are so big you'd really have to love them to be okay with it

Nothing is hidden under the sun, it's better you let it out.A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. We think the past doesn't matter, whereas it's what shapes us to our present form.There was a write up earlier today where a man said his marriage has collapsed, it was as a result of no proper research...The past matters, which explains why we have a discipline dedicated to it, which simply goes by the name 'History'

In my opinion, marriage is about two...., it's not about the way the world sees your Union, let them call it boring.You said you love him? why do you? Do you fill happy when you are with him? You re both shy, but not to each other,I believe.The truth of the matter is you tend to ve him to yourself, unlike the opposite who easily goes astray.Introvert don't find themselves boring, it's others that do.What if you find the opposite, and he goes out every weekend with friends every spare time, returns drunk, cheats and so on due to his philandering nature.Its quite an advantage for a woman to be married to one, because you have a solid sense of security and belonging. They are the kind of marriages that's last forever because you ve something in common. Like someone mentioned, you women can really be confused, even when you ve something special

The piece is so long, but read enough, to know she is exhibiting post trauma.It could be as a result of the incident far back in school.I believe her parents are aware of her psychosis, it triggers swiftly. She is a danger to herself and everyone around her.Its unfortunate you re locked up in this.What you need to do is obvious, before it becomes a double psychotic case.

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
Thanks sir. Appreciate the advice

You re welcome . Coincidentally, i import and sell cars and know so much about them, so if you need,feel free to seek for advice.

My dear life is short,if you need it,buy it.Yes,it's going to cut of a percentage of suitors, but the good news is; it would be the insecure ones which makes a large some.If you must be modest ,then you can make it a small car and fuel efficient one too.I am actually a sucker for pretty ladies driving a good car.Lady!Enjoy your ride in 2016

marycool18:
Lai Mohammed didn't need to jump into that conclusion when Boko Haram are still perpetuating attacks, then again, he doesn't need to relocate to Sambisa forest to prove the Boko Haram issue has been dealt with. I'm just annoyed right now with all these our Leaders.
Not one of them is righteous, No Not one!

Absolutely.

creepsyme:
good for long throat babes.

I like the way you put it.

Adaure4ever:
cool and very moderate

That's good to know

Adaure4ever:
same to you, dear.

So how was Christmas for you?

ladyF:
lol there was a reason I cancelled that part

Well it didn't work for me, because I gat my eyes on you , don't mind me.Hope Christmas was fun?

daretodiffer:
I don't know o

But he must have done something now

No woman would cheat on her husband for no reason.

Is there ever a good reason....Marriage?

daretodiffer:
E pele sir

Apology accepted mademoiselle.

ladyF:
What happened to her legs tho? This is different from how her legs look in her music videos...

Guess who is here again...Merry Christmas to all nairalanders and family from [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

I love you too...

Merry Christmas to you too, miss curvy

Juliaann:
nop I'm not

Thank God , never seen ........supporting that club

grad2012:
Fine o just eating plenty rice n chicken.Am so happy nothing like Christmas,I love u Christmas so much.

Its good to know you had fun, I had to work

grad2012:
merry xmas sugar tnk u so much.

You re most welcome, miss Delectable

grad2012:
Merry xmas o am so happy but stress am Still busy cook .

Merry Christmas beautiful

Adaure4ever:
Lovely outfit

Merry Christmas adaure

That's priceless