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Family › Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by Seahawk: 5:35am On Oct 03, 2018

bukatyne:
What is the practical difference between marriage, civil partnership and cohabiting?

I wonder too.

Maybe no rigorous divorce process when the couple wants to dissolve the partnership? No vows or rings or claims to monogamy (at least official monogamy). Wish I knew. Each to their own

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Family › Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by Seahawk: 5:33am On Oct 03, 2018

Oh how are we going to survive now that people who don’t want to get married get to have other options?

Sigh. everyone will do what they want.
Those who are appalled. On whose behalf are you appalled? If you want to get married, no one will force you to go into a civil partnership.
If you want a civil partnership, no one will force you to get married. If you want to stay single, no one will force you otherwise.

8 billion people on earth and counting. I’m sure EVERYONE will a situation that works for them.

As usual, sensationalist/alarmist thread on an issue because it doesn’t buy into the mainstream ideas of how others should live.

Crime › Re: A Lady Found Unclad And Dead In Edo State (Disturbing Photos) by Seahawk: 1:10pm On Oct 02, 2018

Akanti50:

98% Of EDO girls are ashawo ashawo ashawo and mannerless too like they were brought up in brothels.. She deserves her fate. No mercy for any girl who always think she too "open eye" like Edo girls. Even me i almost killed one Edo girl the other day.

You will not die a good death

Family › Re: Please I Need A Serious Advice Concerning A Bad Friend by Seahawk: 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2018

Apology accepted

cruchenutii:
Women are dime a dozen doesn't mean that they are worthless. Men are dime a dozen too, maybe you didn't notice that a Country with 200M+ people have so many singles Men/Women out there, you can/will always find someone else.

I apologise that It may sound derogatory, but that was not my intention. The truth is, there are plenty amazing men/women out there & you can't be stuck on someone/crying simply because they are so beautiful or handsome. There are a lot of amazing people you haven't met honestly.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:52am On Oct 02, 2018

chaarly:
Yayyy! cococandy!!!
where have you been ooo
Happy new Month

Family › Re: Please I Need A Serious Advice Concerning A Bad Friend by Seahawk: 1:30am On Oct 02, 2018*

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Family › Re: Please I Need A Serious Advice Concerning A Bad Friend by Seahawk: 1:27am On Oct 02, 2018

But he divulged it to a man and it was the man who went telling wasn’t it? Can you people post one comment without looking for a way to insult all women? Is this a disease afflicting you that you can’t help talk down on women even when unwarranted? huh

Zoharariel:
Gentlemen, this is the reason why you must never trust or divulge your secrets to any woman.

Women are naturally wired to go about talking cho, cho, cho, cho, cho, cho.

OP - With a friend like that your paddy, you do not need an enemy.

I trust you to do the right thing with wisdom. Do not alert him, just do what you gotta do. Leave that house or apartment for him & find another one. If you're in Lekki, relocate to the mainland & vice versa.

As for your big secret, just be expecting to read about it on facebook, twitter or instagram.

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Crime › Re: A Lady Found Unclad And Dead In Edo State (Disturbing Photos) by Seahawk: 1:12am On Oct 02, 2018

Maybe you’re one of the killers since you know exactly what happened.

In your small mind it could only be this or she’s definitely prostitute huh? Dumb ass

Fraust40:
She was kidnapped whilst in her father's house, strangled, sexually assaulted, killed and dumped by the road by hungry robbers/rapist who passed by the houses of other girls on their way to hers. They did it because she was the daughter of a very influential political figure in Edo State, and they sought to teach him a lesson.

This is actually what happened, right?

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 11:00pm On Oct 01, 2018

chaarly:
its a short form for your full name jagugu88li

sorry if it sounds offensive.

@Seahawk. Thanks very much bro
That bread. . . my oh my!! Epic

Hehehe @ bro. It’s coco.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 6:56pm On Oct 01, 2018

MarijuanaLORD:
Damn

can i have some

You most definitely can have some

cutiereborn:
Thanks!
That banana bread Sure looks delicious

thanks

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:42pm On Oct 01, 2018

TissuePaper:
looks delicious

thanks

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:14pm On Oct 01, 2018

TissuePaper:
Fooood... I love good food, I spend 20 thousand naira on food every week... I don't cook.. I let the professionals do the cooking, and I pay good money for it.. Don't blame me I'm just a guy that appreciates good food

Why are telling us when you didn’t share it with us? huh

Even ordinary picture you cannot share. Stingy somborri.

Next time picture.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:12pm On Oct 01, 2018

Chaarly happy birthday to your mom.
Cutiereborn happy birthday to your princess.
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Breakfast. Plain banana bread with coffee. This banana bread is a hit back to back . All the time grin

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Celebrities › Re: Davido Loved Up With Chioma In São Tomé, Central Africa (PHOTOS) by Seahawk: 1:58pm On Oct 01, 2018

Realberg:
Bills on me! Mi casa, Su casa.

funny

Celebrities › Re: Davido Loved Up With Chioma In São Tomé, Central Africa (PHOTOS) by Seahawk: 1:57pm On Oct 01, 2018

ariesbull:
In places like Owerri or Awka or Enugu ...if you bring girls ...Chioma wouldn't be considered pretty at all

But it's her luck

Make she get the ring

who asked you?

Celebrities › Re: Davido Loved Up With Chioma In São Tomé, Central Africa (PHOTOS) by Seahawk: 4:59am On Oct 01, 2018

That her purse is next on my to-buy list. kiss

Christianity Etc › Re: Surrogate Mother: What Does The Bible Say? by Seahawk: 3:58pm On Sep 30, 2018

The only thing that story of Abraham and Hagar illustrates is that married men shouldn’t sleep with anyone else but their wives. God frowns upon it and it never ends well. Check real life occurrences too. How many families are destroyed because daddy went outside to father children.

It has nothing to do with surrogacy

Family › Re: Should A Husband Tell His Wife Everything? by Seahawk: 11:32pm On Sep 29, 2018

Watch the comments turn a full 180 degrees if a woman asks whether it’s okay to keep secrets from the husband

Family › Re: Please, My Good People I Need Sewing Machine by Seahawk: 12:13am On Sep 29, 2018

Small businesses don’t always thrive at the beginning so I won’t be surprised that even if she received help to start business before, (although she says she didn’t) the business may not have been successful.

OP I don’t doubt your story (for now) but as other people have said, accept the help you’ve gotten and make something out of it. God speed

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:22pm On Sep 28, 2018

jagugu88li:
I just saw cococandy being called in one thread like that, it looked like they were challenging her. I thought to myself, just let the lady rest because you are all not ready for what she has to say.

haha.

People just love to mention coco.

She’s off duty though. Can’t be bothered right now

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 3:56pm On Sep 28, 2018

jagugu88li:
They say they have produced a flying car and we are 30 days to the first release......limitted stock. I will wait here.

************
I don't remember sharing this but it's from the archives.

that looks so yum

Family › Re: Who Comes First - Husband Or Child? by Seahawk: 5:21am On Sep 28, 2018

Always finding ever so subtle ways to justify philandering. Mtchew

Acidosis:
You want your child to be "mummy's boy", but you don't want same bonding between your husband and his mother? Isn't this satanic in.sanity?

It is the same reason many married men today find love and affection elsewhere (side chick). I think women like you are their own problem.

Marriage is between a man and a woman, simple! MOGs who are fond of imposing children on newly weds through their amebo prayer points have also contributed to these stupidity. That you're married doesn't mean you must raise children! It is not a must to "hear the cry of a baby" 9 months after your wedding. It's a man made and somewhat satanic principle; a tool used in leading many families to depression.

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Family › Re: Who Comes First - Husband Or Child? by Seahawk: 5:16am On Sep 28, 2018

missjane:
The day u make ur children number one is the day side chic appears for ur spouse.. many women make that mistake..na them know sha
It's those ones that put their children first that dictate more to the children who to marry n how to run their homes because they feel entitled.

But you know the good thing about having a great spouse? You both put the kids first. That way, it’s easier to meet the needs of the kids quicker and have time for each other.

When you’re a married woman living like a single mother because all the parenting and caring for the kids falls on you, you tend to wear out easily. You won’t even have any reserves to care for your husband. And you know what? You will still blame yourself for it because you haven’t understood that you’re not meant to do everything.

all you need is to recognize that you didn’t make those kids all on your own. Whoever made those babies with you needs to contribute as much resources as you put into caring for them all round. That way you won’t have to neglect him because the kids come first.

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Family › Re: Who Comes First - Husband Or Child? by Seahawk: 5:10am On Sep 28, 2018

It depends on the age of the kids and what the context is.

If the kids are tender and it’s a life or death situation, my husband would be disappointed if I failed our kids in order to favor him. And vice versa.

When the kids are so tender that your lack of attention can cause them their lives or significant injury, they come first.
It’s common sense.

I wouldn’t expect my husband to put my needs above the needs of our child who is totally and utterly dependent on us for survival. I would be fine if I don’t get my needs met. Our baby on the other hand won’t.

Where do you folks get off making such unnecessary comparisons undecided

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Family › Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Seahawk: 11:42pm On Sep 27, 2018

djon78:
Story. When 70 year old men are still bearing children.

A woman can have a child even the guy doesn’t penetrate. All the sperm cells need to do is get close to her vaginall orifice.
Getting a woman pregnant is not a sign of virility

Celebrities › Re: ”it’s Not By Force To Buy Designer Bags And Shoes” – Funke Akindele Advises by Seahawk: 8:35pm On Sep 27, 2018*

If you can afford it, fine.
If you can’t afford it, buy the one you can afford and don’t assume that others are living beyond their means

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 8:09pm On Sep 27, 2018

okeyben10:
yummy

pls what's d market woman name for salmon

Thanks.
I really don’t know.

Family › Re: It Seems People Prefer An Unhappy Married Woman To A Single Mother. by Seahawk: 2:20pm On Sep 27, 2018

Iykmann:
Who want to associate with a waka waka prostitute

Like a man who sleeps around right? Nobody wants to associate with those kinds of prostitutes

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Family › Re: 'A Woman That Doesn't Complain About Her Cheating Hubby, Cheats Also'- Guy Says by Seahawk: 3:50am On Sep 27, 2018*

She may not be currently cheating on him but their first child that he’s helping her raise probably belongs to her ex or her final last fling that she had shortly before the marriage.

So in her mind they are even. I think that’s even too

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Family › Re: Effects Of Divorce On A Woman..Men Take Note by Seahawk: 2:35am On Sep 27, 2018

According to studies carried out in the US. Men are stressing women more than all their children. And this is a country where men tend to help out more in the homes than in Nigeria. Imagine the stress of Nigerian wives cry

https://www.healthy-holistic-living.com/family-life-stress.html

More studies show that generally, women have been known to thrive more after divorce or the death of a spouse. When you see these women shining, people hate on them and accuse them of killing their husbands (typically in the african sytem). It’s just common sense that the thing sucking their energy away is no longer there, so they flourish.

That’s also the reason why men can hardly cope after the loss of a spouse through divorce or death. They tend to remarry as soon any woman will say yes to them. On the other hand, women tend to be more picky of subsequent spouses especially if they have young kids to worry about (concerns about sexual abuse and what not).

So shove this hogwash where the sun don’t shine

Caveat: if a woman has a good spouse and ends up loosing him, of course she will be more affected by it than if she rid herself of a bothersome, abusive and/or unfaithful spouse. So not all women do better without their spouses. But a significant number do hence it matters

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:18pm On Sep 26, 2018

Healthy dinner

Grilled salmon (seasoned with garlic, black pepper, salt and herbs) and steamed vegetables.

Squeeze Fresh lemon or lime on any seafood of your choice to enhance the flavor 100%.

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Family › Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Seahawk: 9:09pm On Sep 25, 2018*

They may not have any issues. Or they may.

But she’s 27 and he’s almost 50.

She should factor in sexual satisfaction because he will be going downhill while she’s reaching her sexual peak (women peak sexually around 40-45 years). He will be in his 60s then. People tend to overlook this important part of marriage until they are experiencing it.
I do like a guy who’s older than the wife but 10 years is my max. 18yrs is almost 20yrs older.

Otherwise any other issues they could have may be personality based and those aren’t age specific.

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