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Nice but I feel the church should steer clear of politics

80% of people making mouth online don’t have pvc. Dem plenty for my WhatsApp .
Election result go tell

Omo these old guys no really benefit from that industry atall. They came out the wrong time

Wahala wahala

Dshocker:
Men can lie 😷

lie how?

Who is winning this election ?

Like for tinubu share for Atiku

Omo

If I knew the guy’s location , I would have arranged boys make dem beat am well .
Infact I feel like punching him so hard in the face .

I’m literally boiling

Not every girl is into hookup ,
But every girl has the tendency, depends on the price and the guy man wey Dey involved .
Even married women ( na dem worst pass)

I went to one particular bank last year, I went straight to the counter to make enquiries about something relating to gagdets payments oversea. this fine busty lady at the counter told me they don’t offer the service for now , I collected her number that I’ll update her and stuff like that .


..

..
.in December 2022

We chatted for some days , I started throwing numbers as regards the deal I went to her branch for. She connected me to a guy in abj(the story long sha)
In the midst of the convo , I threw hookup parole to her.
She indirectly accepted , disguising under the eagerness to know my place .
Me wey sharp , I told her that I need to catch flight the following morning that I’ll spend the time with her overnight for one cool hotel before I depart to Lagos the following day.( which mumu flight )



We sha met, bought food at bitmore, I lodged her for one nice hotel , i fhucked shege comot for her body . I slept off and I woke up around 2am, I couldn’t find her by my side , I fear lol.
I stood up and tiptoed to rest room and discovered she’ was on call with a man whom I assumed to be her bf. She was telling him she’s been throwing up and feeling sick. The mumu self was like “ Abi make I Dey come tomorrow, shey make I call momcy “.


For that same place while making the call, she collect one round


Later we had deep conversations and she said her wedding is coming up by May( I kinda felt bad but I needed to satisfy my Konji)and she hoped to travel go Canada by next year ( this 2023).

The following day she left my place quickly , gave her money and meself check out around 10

The girl has a good job , has a caring man and family , she just choose to be a biátch.


This happened one Saturday in dec.

Especially Ibadan lion .

Who will make a better president for Nigeria at their respective age?
Like for jimmy carter share for tinubu

Sucre6:
Everything should be done in moderation, we also need daily calories for optimum performance but not too much of it, so u shouldn't make peak and milk a habit

thank you. for more than a month now I’ve stopped taking soda , juice, yoghurt and energy drinks.
I just want to be sure if tea does same damages to the body like those ones so I’ll discard it too.

Nice2023:
Don't date a broke lady.

No matter her beauty...

This advice is invaluable

Sucre6:
Freshly squeezed fruit juice is healthy and not a soda but buying and drinking the ones in packs isn't healthy, considering the preservatives and sugar contents, yoghurt too is cool, but must be taken in moderation and periodically, don't make it a habit

What of tea( peak and milo)

Omo

Wether it’s a superstition or not, it costs you nothing to adjust and adhere to the advice.

You can bypass this you know?

I wish this was real sha.
Na wetin I Dey talk be this, wey I go put 100$ wey go x1m

This car has one of the best interior

I no blame you.
Una go just open mouth call money.

On top pajero when e no be pagani.

Ok

400/unit

Beat the v.o

Ok

Brokeshaming
What have you done for me ?
See your mate
2min man

Mindlog:
What does he do in those 3 days, while "resting"?

You don’t expect someone who’s been working for 27/30 days Just to put food on the table for his family to spend quality time with kids ! Not every man has the time and chance.

I know a bike man who also works as a security at one hospital at night , how will someone like that spend quality time with the kids when he’s husling and bustling to ensure his kids and wife eat?
In such situation , it’s the responsibility of a good woman to compliment his efforts by making the kids to see his struggles and appreciate him .

No be everybody Dey get “holiday “ for work

IamMobisola:
So most mothers aren’t always busy with work and hustle that will put food on the table for the family? All the women selling stuffs in the market from 5am till 10pm, aren’t they mothers or grandmothers? Women who work at banks, hospitals, schools and so on, na play dem dey play there?😏

Primary duty of a woman in marriage is taking care of the kids and the house in general. While man’s core duty is provision of shelter , cloths , food and general wellness of the family. Women are care giver and naturally closer to kids than men.


There are exceptions to every case but doesn’t invalidate each person’s responsibility .

Moreso, not spending quality time with kids doesn’t mean you don’t deserve love and gifts too. Something must have kept you busy. 90% of time the man is working to ensure the kids have the best life.




The op did very well, infact I plan doing the same too, but I feel there should be balance when it comes to gifting our parents.

Normally mothers are more appreciated by their kids .but…..


If the father doesn’t have a car , buying the car in the family name is more fair and appropriate.

For private companies, I no sure say employee get any right o .


Wait sheybi employee na person wey dem employ and employer na person wey employ person Abi?

Mindlog:
It is not about being with a child 24/7, what is the quality of time do that child have with you as his or her father when you are at home with them?

What quality time will a man that works for 27days out of 30 days spend with his kids when he only have 3 days to rest and prepare for another month.

The fact is , we appreciate men less. And it’s totally unfair !!

Turquoiseee:
Why are you pestering him about his dad? Is it bad to buy his mother a car first? He chose to buy her a car first and you’re crying wolf. What if the dad has his own car? Or if the dad was absent in raising him? You cannot give what you do not have. Respect yourself!

and what if you’re wrong ?

Mindlog:
As a father, if you bond with your children from their babyhood...they will have secure attachment with you even as adults, that is how it works.

me and you know that this can’t be possible at all time.
Most men are always busy with work and hustle that’ll put food on the table for the family.


Don’t fathers deserve this kind of love too?😔