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immanuelsize:
@op jokanem, young man, i have questions for you, do you practice other things in the bible? Why must you preach about gambling? Don't you see other things to preach? Better mind the type of preaching and comparison you making with the bible. Na your dey carry bible for head yet, never practice it.
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admin, seun, just close this thread. It doesn't worth discussing.

Gamble addict spotted

That’s life. The moment the benefit stops coming, women mostly dust their shoes and they will justify this with anything

@hatrick01, See bro. Let me open your eyes to something you might not understand.

Sometimes as a man , when you hit certain amount of money , something inside of you will start to massage your ego that you’ve arrived . That time, it’ll be hard to adhere to advice especially if you’re doing better financially than the Person admonishing you ,


Now don’t fall for it, it’s your ego and mind playing a trick on you .
@24, you’ might have the ‘money’ ; perhaps you have couple of millions in your acct and that biz that brings in money ‘looks promising’ , but I tell you , no matter how you want to defend or argue against it, you’re not ready EMOTIONALLY for it.

In reality a man attains adulthood at 25, and by 30, you’ve fully grown both in physical and emotional maturity.


I know your fear, you don’t want to lose that girl right?
No problem , if you’ve vetted her beyond every reasonable doubt ( don’t expect perfection from her anyway ), you can start living together for couple of years before you finally put a ring in that finger.

The reason for the above is, during that time, you’ll be tested physically, financially, emotionally, mentality and psychologically. you both will know the real person behind that fine face and fine yansh .
Through this, nobody will tell you cos you’ll have concluded if it worth it or not.


What to look out for before marrying a woman
1. Kindness and forgiving. A woman with this quality is the best gift you can give your children. This kind of woman will find it hard to hurt u no matter the pain you cause her( I’m not saying you should be a bad man to her )
2.submission and support. Again you’ll hit your go faster with this kind of woman
3. Physical compatibility, as much as people might want to deny this, it’s very important .
4. Her history and
Also look into her family , MOST ESPECIALLY HER MOTHER..


All these don’t guarantee successful marriage, but doing those things place you edge over others and you have high chances of success.






Before I forget, if possible , have more than two source of Income

Itohanmiwa:
ADADOWN has been making me smile lately. made over 70$ profit. Give it a try on binance

Na when I buy am e go go down.

Adonike:
Competition no bad Sha..
But if e no be Twitter, e no go ever be Twitter!

A lot of Apps be like Nairaland but e d site still dey stand tall!

lol Dey there. E be like u no no mark , him go pursue everyone comot twitter .

uchwar1:
Nothing for u

since you’re for me, I Dey ok with that

Who is the president-elect, like tinubu share for Peter obi,
Let’s see the poll

I’m ashamed to say this ,
But I like this guy

Anyway, financially, nairaland is the greatest blessing to me. Met lots of friends and trade partners on here

Banilla:
I noticed that too. He didn't graduate?

Nairaland could have been Africa's number one forum... There are a few foreigners here... But this is a toxic space. Not only tribalism, misogyny too.

Lala isn't a mod anymore?

lol you’re making it seem like nairaland is the worst space on tribalism and misogyny . Go to Twitter

Like mother like daughter

Ceo of abike collections Abi?

ican2020:
Op pele, don’t kill your self because of Igbos and Tinubu might have heard you loud and clear

Many threads comes up here daily to paint Igbos as wicked, evil and anything negative that’s okay but if Igbos are these bad why not do the needful and let them go

I am not from SE but given the opportunity I will personally prefer for Igbos to have their own country than for Supreme Court to declare PO as the winner of 2023 presidential election

Some Nigerians from some zones are filled with unjustified hatred for these people, remembering one video that I watched of a top politician speaking of his hate for Igbos I only shook my head and said God save Igbos

Just let them be for Christ sake

Every tribe is guilty of this , stop making it seem like all yoruba hate igbos and vice versa ..


These two tribes have been living together peaceful for so long until this foolish policy of divide and rule .
Funnily enough , the top tiers of the two tribes wine and dine together , na dem lowest of the lowest Dey fight themselves.




But personally like you’ve said, If I were in the right position , I would simply grant them Biafra . Like what’s hard in it self it’s not as if that will stop the interrelationship between us.

karnap:
best comments I have ever received on nairaland this year..
Thank you very much this will go a long way...

But I will like to know if its okay to use your first capital of around 3m to get married... Just to use around 1.5m

I might not be in the best position to advice you as I’m not yet married, but verily I say unto, you’ll be making the greatest decision of your life if you should marry with half of your savings ,



I know some will defend it that it worked for them, but for every person it worked for, there are 1000s regretting it.
Invest in business first then use the gain for marriage,
Besides , if you’re “due” to marry , do cheap marriage first , you can always do “ túnmigbé”

NijaDueprocess:
Mine is 7 room selfcontain bungalow, started on 14th January, 2023. Borehole, Roofing, plumbing and electrical piping, and plaster done. Cost 7m so far

how much does the borehole cost you?

jagaban002:
I bought the land half plot at 4m ajah 2018 and fence it round with gate with about 700k dec 2018 and keep hustling .
I started the project of house June 2021, I have 10m ready and I supervise it my self with the help of my brother when am not available.

Out of the 10m I did foundation , you know Lagos is water land so the foundation takes like 2.5m with Germany floor all solid materials bought myself and setting of blocks don't take much till linted and finally decking , that consume like 4m because, plumber , electrician, carpenter, and welder will work .

That's one of the stage that takes much money cus I bought only iron like 1.5m .

After that stage you will set blocks base on your plans mine is 4bedroom , 2 palours , 4bedrooms , kitchen, store, dinny and all duplex need .
After setting of blocks u will so another linted and if you like you can include paraphet that may cost u nothing less than 500k or more .

The to the roofing another spending .
Since I used Gerald, carpenter will buy a lot of wood and it's must be hard wood cus gelrad is heavy and base on the square meter , mine is around 283 , all I spend for roofing was around 3m . So I spent like 11.5m to 12m to roofing , what I spent not someone's project .

I thought it's almost done but house nah long things ooooo.
Let me just note all once not to stress una with my English .
I rest and continue Jan 2022

Casement window 1.3m
All house pop around 1m
Plastering chop material 2m
Electricals like 2m
Plumbling takes money like electrical , like 2m
Only where I put water thank is 500k cus it must he very tall since it's duplex .
Kitchen cabinet and others 1m
Screeding and painting =1.5
Tiles= 1.7 or more
Doors = more than 1m

I can't even list all cus they no dey finish house once , have moved in October 2022 so I wish this can help a lil

wish you can attach pic.
And remove it. I won’t quote it.
I like your break down

Winters23:
Again I will say it one more time!

The obsession to "build" house and be called landlord or home owner is one of the major reasons many Nigerians are stagnant in life.

You toil for 10yrs and finally make your first 10 to 100million naira and the first thing that tops your agenda is to start building a house. Then you Bury all the money in the ground reverting to square 1.

That money is supposed to be your capital, you're supposed to put it back to wherever you got it from for profit or you can reinvest it somewhere else.

Then when your profit grows big you can upgrade your cars and maybe start building a house.

I currently own duplexes across 3 states mostly in Lagos and my home state, I didn't achieve that with my first breakthrough, I did it after lots of reinvestment.

If you want to go far in life, follow this simple logic, don't let the standards set by society control your money.

you’re 100% on point but then it depends on the age one hit “big money”

If the person in question is young and single , he has nothing to do with building house first he should inevest more in himself and biz but if he’s above 40 with kids and wife, please building house is extremely important.

4 weeks

Failure2019:
Nigeria don brainwash your cerebrum so tey you think say plumbing na poor man's job

so in your village plumbers make 80m in a week?

Even a senator doesn’t make that in a week. Arindin.

LikeAking:
Naso we see d market..

Man don big pass the age of crying..

I still believe he go go higher next week..

Don't ask me why..

Even stop loss they fail at times..

For now shine ya eyes for the market..

That’s because better cane(loss) never touch you

Sanwolu looks good at his age abeg .
He looks very healthy and manly .

But sheybi dem talk say if btc Dey dip , usdt Dey high ni ?
E be like crypto don confuse comfusion too

Ok12345:
Mk sol just go $5

You’re very very wicked I don mark your face

BigDawsNet:
Me I'm not telling you that you will make 500m in 2years... I said you will make average of $142,376/yr as Software Engineer and $103,000/yr as a UI/Ux designer...

Tech is our Oil here...

Can I pm u. ?

Femmyfamous4u:
I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

give her Spanish fly

stillme231:
him dey work as plumber or sell plumbing things lol.. 80k peer week,. Footballer money ..

even if him Dey sell plumber thing e no fit Dey gain 80k pounds per week bro . Abi no be pounds wey dem Dey spend in the uk ?? I no get

BigDawsNet:
Things work out differently for people abroad...

Let me say... maybe people who make so much money in just 2 years abroad are destined to shine overseas... it's not like other won't make it... but the grace will be different...

So grace matter
Then we have people running jobs that are not legit.. it may work for them presently.. but the day dey got arrested... they lost everything...

My advice... just ignore and focus on your own success story..

Try and learn Tech pls... easiest way to make it large in overseas

bro , if you can prove to me that learning Tech will earn me such amount of money in two years, then I will start learning tomorrow. I’m ready to learn and pay if you don’t mind .



500m is not a small money ke.

CaptainFM1:
Many are into shady deals. I'm in obodo oyinbo too and I've been travelling since 2003...., no be so money dey for tree as many always claim esp. with their fake life on social media. If you ask them what job they are doing, they will not give you any satisfactory answer. Scammers everywhere!

Bro I just weak!
Imagine someone up there saying a plumber makes 80k pounds per week in Strasbourg . That’s 80 m naira weekly oo

ednut1:
Only people with low self esteem can be oppressed. 250m is definitely not doing legit stuff lol

care to explain bro? I see you’re well experienced nairalander as regards life over sea

Failure2019:
Trade day pay big time abroad


My guy way be plumber for Strasbourg day cash out £80,000 per week

With this your post, I can bet my life that you have never touched 1000 pounds ( equavalent in naira ) before for you to say a plumber will net 80k pounds in a week!

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