₦airaland Forum

DateMynd44:
she should turn away and repent from worldly lifestyle and turn to Christ or else a worse sickness might come sooner or later and she might not live to tell the story

So the way to preach is to scare someone with predictions of illness or else?Its your kind that makes people doubt christianity. Give your life lest you die, so muslims, Hindus, Buddhists all have worse sickness coming you sick zealot.

OkCornel:
Oh, the double standards in the nature of man.

See how the xenophobes (SA Kettles) and the unrepentant tribalists (Nigerian pots) are struggling to outdo one another in proving who is blacker than whom...whereas all parties are guilty of hatred and jealousy within themselves.

One of the greatest folly I have seen in this realm of existence is how humans have allowed differences they made no conscious choice of to rip apart the very fiber of their existence. No one consciously decided to be a Yoruba, Ibo, Hausa, Fulani, Zulu e.t.c, but unfortunately, we have allowed these differences to empower us in destroying one another.

Xenophobia, Tribalism, Racism are merely outlets to express the deep rooted hatred and jealousy in man for his fellow man. Kindness or wickedness is a choice. Until we address the underlying causes of this nonsense (hatred and jealousy), we will keep reacting emotionally to the results (SA Xenophobia, Rwandan Genocide, Nigerian Civil war e.t.c) ...rather than the cause...which is tantamount to taking paracetamol to ease the pains of cancer.

So ironic how the guilty parties think they can live in harmony and unity in heaven, whereas they are at each other's throat here on earth.

Pls how can you double like or triple like a post. Xenophobia, tribalism,racism all the same. See as hausas were looting and burning vehicles on bauchi ring road in 2009 Jos crisis. I can understand the average Joe who didn't have a complete education being a bigot,but people will go to the university, get a degree and still be spewing so much hate and evil just because someone is from a particular geographical region? God will punish you tribalists joining in this frenzy of hatred. I'm sure if they had their way, they'd lynch people from different tribes too .Backward bastards

She spread her legs for that rotten old babs. She is a ho, na to dey blow phonetics dey form posh.

lawman88:
This girl seems to be depressed. She don't know what she really wants. Fucking can't give you happiness. Olosho reloaded

Wow who did this to you men?

Just flash ass and titties and put on Instagram and money will start flowing in. All these small girls with big god of men. They will now frame it as entrepreneurship. God is watching you all in 3D.

That is all majority of the youth of today are interested in. The guys drinking, partying, playing sports bet and yahoo. The girls twerking, taking selfies and pouting like ducks, spreading legs for anyone who can pay and later blessing God on social media for blessing their hustle. I really hate leaving my house every day, so many idiots everywhere. Easy money, selling cars from Europe for exorbitant prices to morons who don't even have the sense to Google the actual worth of the car and see how much profit these scum bags are reaping without actually doing much. God I fucking hate being stuck in this country.

I love eating yam! Yam is very sweet! Yam will help you buy 58cars in the USA. Oh Gawd! Why is the heart of a black man just innately greedy and self-centered? I am beginning to buy in the theory that we are descendants of Ham, who Noah cursed after the flood because he got drunk and naked. White man will steal but he will give a whole lot back.

rentAcock:
The guy's hairline is receding faster than the the Nile river. He has no friend he's looking for. This is mere publicity stunt to trend on social media. Another attention _whore on the loose.

Mayor of blogging who knows people's agenda. They actually did naming ceremony for you and your kind o. Quite unfortunate.

[quote author=Larryndelaw post=80619274]Stupid set of people and Bad headlines. She sent a representative and you are saying she led the campaign.
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All these people crying louder than the bereaved. She couldn't even have the decency to attend the event she was championing. Now a woman just needs to shout rape and everyone jumps to conclusions. You don't even get the opportunity to defend yourself. Even Potiphars wife lied against Joseph and he went to jail,he could have been killed for nothing.

dicefrost:
You carefully avoided my questions, because the answers will not sound good for the doctor. Let's pause it here

Oga lawyer,your questions have been answered. You have just refused to accept the replies. The doctor has a right to refuse care if he feels the patient has no confidence in his competency or if he feels care may result in a situation which may compromise his integrity ie being called a violator of vaginas. What if in her delirium she claims he touched her inappropriately because ab initio she was thinking along those lines. You lawyers are just full of it.

A patient who has refused an examination simply because of gender can be tagged as a troublesome one and doctors tend to avoid them. In a similar situation I would definitely ask such a patient to be attended to by a different doctor because she has a biased mindset and anything I do can be misconstrued as molestation. If you don't now do the vaginal examination and miss a diagnosis like an ectopic pregnancy,all these morons shouting patients right to choose doctor will be the first to say how useless Nigerian doctors are and are only interested in strike and private practice. Then the vulture lawyers will now be asking you JAMB question. You have a right to deny care if you feel the patient is not confident in your abilities or if you feel the patient is unreasonable beyond normal to the point of assuming every Male doctor wants to assault you or violate your vagina. Some of us actually find it revolting.

donprinyo:
I once carry one babe from club to my hotel room. I liked her companionship. Later in de night dere was no CD which I told her dat I can't have sex without it. So she volunteered to look for one. After de night, she turned to different person automatically, said dat I must pay her 15k or else she will tell de world I raped her. I tot she was joking o, remembering my good and selfless services I rendered last night. Suddenly, she started screaming o. My colleagues were around. So finally pleaded with her to give her 10k so dat she can go in peace. Since den, Fear women is my motto.

You be Brad Pitt abi? You carry girl from club no agree terms of agreement and you come knack after she go find condom for you. You are a real GOAT.

magicminister:
Like it’s so sad...

Most Nigerians were first assaulted by their parents. A lot of Nigerian parents physically, verbally and emotionally abuse their children so that child grows up with a lot of anger issues which they display to the world....

They grow up thinking it’s okay to be verbally abusive, it’s okay to hit a woman, it’s okay to fight first and dialogue later, it’s okay abuse their own and other people’s children.

Flogging your child is not discipline. Even if you must flog, it must not be anywhere but on the buttocks or the palm and it should only be done when such child does something really wrong and true child must understand why he’s being punished.

Never ever ever ever punish your child in the heat of the moment. Cool down and let it go and I guarantee you wouldn’t even want to flog the child anymore.

Like I once told my oga, we will not give birth to goat and sheep that need to be flogged to deter bad behavior. My children are not animals, screw spearing the rod. There are more effective ways of correction.

Baba probably came home to Surulere,shitta to be precise and smoked the good stuff before uttering this bullshit. What a turd!

Addiction is a mental disease. You are sick. If you're feeling sick with physical illness,where do you go? Go to Yaba psychiatric Hospital or LUTH. You need psychotherapy and maybe some medication like disulfiram that is administered to alcoholics to deter further use. Best of luck.

Gandollar:
Oh I see... focus on what? There's no rape and there's no crime here. It was just a fantastic sexual act between an adult and a curious minor which later metamorphosed into a sizzling romance before things went South

Please why is this so difficult for people to acknowledge? I am really amazed at how people are willing to believe the worst about others without thinking it through. To disvirgin an unwilling girl requires a whole lot of brute force which in the circumstances couldn't have been possible without alerting others. THERE WAS NO RAPE.

Na Buratai's July savings wey e take buy houses for Dubai be that.

Onyi22:
She still better pass ur sisters

We trust you to defend your kind. Hoes everywhere.

There are a lot of sick people on this site. Get erection for your own daughter? This is highly disturbing. This is an informal public poll and it shows all that felt what she did was wrong are screwed in the head. If your daughter can't feel safe with you, who is she meant to feel safe with?

DJInfluence:
Talab Abbas, This guy best role from back in da days.

Bros you just expose yourself. You na senior man.

God please I need this in my life. All dis 9-5 don tire me. Salary today, no salary tomorrow.

Susu888:
Chai .


We got bleeped through out this match [/b]Hardcore [b] !!

Wht kind of shitty play is this super eagles?? U guyz were fvcking scared as shit that u can't even control ball. Abi dey jazzed una?

Where the edo people dey? Thunder fire una! If i hear edo jazz this or edo jazz that again eh fvcking free kick una no fit block na to det shout bulletproof charms upandan.

I don type tire sef .... wasting my megabytes on fvcking history cuz that's wht we r now in this tournament!!!

Overhyped chickens .

Guy calm down now. Football is just a game. Teams lose all the time. We can only get better. Plus they had Riyag Mahrez. Who did we have? Troost Ekong?

Poor goalkeeping. You can't position yourself in a direct freekick like that. Shares they were far superior and we were depending on sheer luck.

Baba is old school,so the concept of statute of limitation and coercion also being rape is foreign to him. In their generation unless violent force was used to subdue the victim, then the victim was not raped and had the option of shouting. The modern definition of rape encompasses any form of manipulation including authority figures who ought to know better. That being said two things must be stated clearly. Age of consent varies worldwide and is 16 in the UK and US where it is assumed at that age you should understand the consequences of your actions. At the time the allegation occurred, age of consent in the Nigerian constitution was 11,which is ridiculous, however statutory rape allegations are just not plausible.

E don be for Asa Asika, such a mismatched couple. That's what happens when you punch out of your weight class without the required skills.

BigIyanga:
What was his occupation b4 became a politrickian?

Lawyer.

Seenyo:
17 is a minor via NIG LAWS! the Randy he goat /rapist lacks the moral etiquette to preach or even be addressed as as a pastor! I'll rather listen to Lucifer preach than that irresponsible Bleep-about!


rapist and their apologist disgust me.

Lawyer when it occurred age of consent was 11 in the constitution. Read a book

So classy and down to earth.

The sweet nectar of youth is keeping baba young. When you have plenty money and plenty young wives, you will not age, check ned nwoko out in anoda 20 yrs
;DThe sweet nectar of youth is keeping baba young. When you have plenty money and plenty young wives, you will not age, check ned nwoko out in anoda 20 yrs

But why aren't people focusing on obvious discrepancies in the story? The baby sitter story plus the Benz angle. If these are found to be untrue then the entire story falls like a pack of cards. People can be so wicked kai!

livebyday:
You get up each day and try

You try hard , no one understands how it feels, motivational.books and comments don't help infact they make you feel.worthless for not being able to be motivated by them

But you have to find that thing that evens the pain out the reduces it from a feeling of being stabbed from just a broken bone

There is not easy fix for derpession , what I found out is helping others by talking to them helped me.deal.with mine
I tried suicide twice when I was younger in my years I think I was 17

That's when depression set in and it never left .. as an adult I found ways of coping ... For me smoking helps it distracts me when ever something happens that jolts me

Like mine years ago I lost my soul mate , few months nths to our wedding

It came rushing back , I would.sit days I'm doors talking to myself

It was hard very hard at one point I couldn't go on

I even picked one of the bedrooms in my apartment then one of the guest rooms I had decided I was tired

I had quit my job i was frustrated two days before I decided to end it someone comes visiting and tells the the most tragic tale... He had lost a child and needed somewhere to stay his marriage was shaky

He never knew I was planning to end my life but that visit that day and the coming days we spent made me shift my perspective

I realized that no matter how broken we feel deep down it we heal eventually.

Depression is a life long battle , it has nothing to do with financial status or material possessions that was never my issue

It's like a fever that sometimes can be triggered

What you need to understand is that people prone to depression have it like a birth mark. And it can be triggered

Mine was growing up in an abusive home , dysfunctional as imaginable , so that probably screed something deep.inside me that caused me to have life long PTSD in which makes me prone to depression

But I am handing it and I am aware of it and not ashamed to talk about it because it just might help someone

So if there's anyone reading this don't feel ashamed or messed up or insane there's nothing wrong with you .. you are just prone to depression which is a manageable condition

Just own it , understand it , no pastor or imam can fix it or pray it away .. you just have to deal with it

Depressed people internalize things , they feel things deeper than the average person

Learn to focus that energy one something else

Sometimes changing house , neighborhood, or even start can help.

Learn to do things differently to cope with your depression

Spend time.amd connect with people who make you happy .. if talking about politics takes your mind.off the pain then.please do it , if walking for hours helps.tjen please do it. Mine is smoking cigarettes , and it's helped me.for years

Just find that thing which helps.you cope , apart from smoking my dogs help.too , and sometimes video games

Just find what helps you stay afloat , and know it is a life long struggle but you have to own it , don't let it own you or then you will.loose the fight like this gentle man.here

Apologies for the long post

Cheers

Excellent write up. You indeed know what depression is and when your life doesn't look like it is worth living. My friend and mentor took her own life despite being too of her game. A paediatric surgeon. It haunts me till today. She was far from poor, had kids ,still wasn't enough.

Can you pay my bills?The only question most girls wey no be career women ask. I feel really sorry for the critical mass of young women today whose entire hope in life is to hitch a rich husband or aristo who will be spending on her. Anyways they perform a useful social service ie reduction of conji for those who can afford it and are into patronizing hookers. If you are one of them you are nothing but a hooker, simply put.Then you want Godfearing with bum shorts on social media?