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Simpleete:
Dear All,

Taking this drastic decision has not been easy with me so far,but I will appreciate mature counsel only.

I got married to a lady and we have one issue(child),but she had a male child for her ex before I got married to her.However due to certain issues I discovered after our marriage and in our marriage I got offended and travelled out,and in the process I proposed to another lady who seems more appreciable to me and in the process of our relationship we had an issue as well.On returning from my travel I told my wife all that happened to make her aware.Right now with all I have been through with this other lady I feel very guilty abandoning her right now,but want to go into marrying her next week.Though I have made her know I had a family before,but want to start a new life with her in my new base,does the law prohibit this?

Lefty500:
Ever since Ambode left office, I've not been seeing any thread or post about LRU even autojosh that used to post them has been mute about them.

TRADEMARK:
I am in a financial distress and want any help no matter how little. I am in a mess now . I need a token of support from Nairalanders with good intentions. nothing would be too small Please.
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Polaris Bank

Crystalclara:
Good day everyone.

Please, my daughter has been itching her hair for some days. I just got to find out she has hair lice and it has been transferred to her brother. Her hair is neatly cared for so I wonder how she got in contact with this.
I was advised to use insecticide on her hair or use relaxer since it's a virgin hair.
Has anyone ever experience this?
How did you go about it.

Please I need your suggestions to get rid of this thing completely.

LolaO:
I have called countless times, sent messages on Whatsapp, no response, no replies.

My dad called, he picked, told him he’d call back, but never did.

He is not ill, neither is he dead, I know this because his mum still talks to me, and at this point I’m cutting her off.

I wish I knew what the problem is or what I did wrong, he is not a bad person, loved me while he was in Lagos, his family adores me, and mine adores him as well.

I wish I knew what I did wrong, but it is what it is.

emeijeh:
Hhhmmmmm
So she played HARD TO GET for 2 years ?!

God bless your union.

Saintabdul:
I need help with this matter. I have this friend we have known for almost 15years. We first met at the university, though we were in different departments. But our friendship continued. We are both married now and live in different states.

Sometime around December last year, I came for some business meeting in the city that my friend resides so I decided to visit them. Fortunately, it was my friend's son's birthday. The house was filled with the wife's friend and other well-wishers. I noticed that my friend's wife tries to avoid direct discussion with her husband, she would rather send the friend sister to him, so I thought maybe it was because she was busy.

Sometime in October this year, I happened to pay them a visit again. This time I was able to observe how taken back the wife was. She tries as much to avoid him. So she spends most of her time in the kitchen or the child's room. My friend was even showing me a chat between himself and his girlfriend I am not very comfortable with it, but how do I tell my friend that he is not treating his wife well.

And I have noticed that my friend has never posted his wife pics on any social media, even what apps status. But he posts pictures of other people, especially girls. I ask him why he has never posted pictures of his wife, he told me he don't like posting pictures.

How do I talk to him about this without hurting our friendship or causing an issue between him and his wife.

*Advice Needed*

Feddytune:
I was making love with my girlfriend, and in the heat of the moment she starts screaming, "segun stop segun pls".. And Segun is my best friends name. she claims its a slip of tongue and that she had no relationship whatsoever with my best friend.. But am really scared.. Do you think my girlfriend and best friend are cheating on me?

Fast Rising artiste Alo innas drops this on twitter, asking for advice from his fans and followers.. What do you think?

Mood11:
Houses built in Ikoyi/Lekki/VI axis are not for the masses

Godyke:
I totally disagree with the theory that this building collapsed as result of substandard materials. Builders and owners of buildings in Ikoyi cannot stoop so low, they are big boys. That building may have collapsed due to structural defect as result of impossible design. Part of the building decking may have been designed without pillar. I am judging from the angle from which I am seeing the picture.

Beosten:
It's sexy, but known to be masculine in my Yoruba culture.

Beosten:
Men, most of the time, bear the name Aluko. But I'm planning to name my daughter Aluko. What's your suggestion, please?

Hope777:
Please can someone recommend the best urologist in lagos. I really need help. Thanks