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Where in Lagos?

Tundeobama:
1300 for more than 5 pieces.
My location is lagos, I deliver to all part of Nigeria.

I am interested

Where your shop dey??

Do you have something like these?

First, I belong to the school of thought that believes that you don't go snooping on your partner's phone.

Secondly, I belong to the school of thought that believes that any partner that cheated on you while dating, will cheat on you when you are married. Every cheater I have ever known or come across, have cheated right during when he/she was dating. Leave that relationship before you contract STDs through him. Or before one of his Bleep mates attack you on the street or go diabolical on you. It does not matter how deeply you later he him and still want him. My people said that you don't use what you use to clean your ear on your eyes.

Talk to him and he will give you plenty reasons and don't be surprise when u start blaming yourself as the cause of his inability to control his phallus. He is a public toilet. Let me shock you, his philandering didn't start when he got the Federal Appointment. He has been dicking his phallus into every damn holes he he sight his eyes on. It's just that he has been successful in masking it.. Also don't be surprised that you are not even his main babe.

If you condone it now, you will continue to condone it. And viola, you will start giving excuses for his hoeing.

Thirdly, he forgot your birthday but remembers the birthday of a 'friend'.

Red flag....

For the last time, RUN for your LIFE...

Office politics is the most dangerous to get involved in.

Make your rules or principle known to all and keep to it. Don't be seen as a weak leader. But at the same time, be gentle and accommodating. Issue warnings and query after two strikes. Make sure that your warnings are always in black and white just in case someone want to put you in trouble.
If you want to progress often, always be available. Your bosses talks good of someone who is always available and servicable(if there is a word like that).

Delegate responsibilities to your subordinates. Make sure that everyone is carried along while doing that and always be on the lookout for exceptional qualities and always reward hard work.

You will live longer, if you can navigate around office politics.

But the elephant in the room is if you understood what office politics is all about...

As for your superiors, never be seen to be in a particular camp.

And stop Talking too much.....

Don't change who you are apart from the talkative aspect of who you are. Remain friendly with those under you and go out for lunch with them. Pay attention to their demure. Ask questions when their faces are not that bright. Show concern. Ask after their families (I discovered that people feel part of you when u enquire about their families and even drop one or two naira for them to buy things like biscuit, etc for their kids).

When it come to challenges at work, even if you have the ideas on how to solve them, intentionally ask them for their opinions and of course chip in yours...

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