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sholatech:
Sanusi is all noise. The only praise I have for him is that he's one of our pioneer sound risk managers in the Nigerian Banking sector. But as CBN governor, soludo is miles ahead. CBN governors always consider the ripple effect on the economy before making major banking reform decisions. I put it to anyone that what Eratus and Ibru were accused of applies to most if not ALL executives in Nigeria at that period, whether Elumelu, Ovia, Tayo/Fola Adeola,Aig/herbert wigwe etc etc. They owned and still own most of their bank branches and HO buildings, they acquired posh cars and properties world wide and gave out huge loans and contracts to family and friends etc. Soludo expanded and enhanced the discount window available to the banks having liquidity issues and opened up some cushioning effects to make them meet their capital adequacy.
In USA, I remembered the execs faced the congress and eventually were made to cut their excesses, removed perks and bonuses. I had meetings in some of the saved banks with Sanusi's men at the Helm of affairs and I saw their newly acquired luxurious rides. Which costs were they saving? And how many of them could salvage the banks?
Sanusi's media men and himself are always quick to repudiate attacks or insinuations about him but to my knowledge, he is yet to disclaim the allegations that Bukola Saraki got him the CBN Job, he wrote off saraki's indebtedness to Intercontinental bank, restored SGBN license, put his man Lai Alabi at the Helm of Intercontinental bank etc etc.
Anyway, I don't see his term renewed, and I foresee AIG taking over,

Spot on !
You spoke my mind !
God bless you!

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Finecat:
@jp phillips

That was bunch of nonsense you just regurgitated, Soludo was the worst thing to ever happened to Nigerian banking systems. In a sane system, Soludo will be in prison for high financial crime and ponzi scheme. Starting from his crooked recapitalization to allowing politicians to access banking loans to buy elections, everything was fraudulent! Soludo was a voodoo economist on steroids. Sanusi is by no means a saint but if he hadn't taken steps he took, millions of depositors would have lost their life savings and much more. Soludo made crooks like Akingbola, Ibru etc. a Hero. Soludo was so inept, it was terrible! Many politicians and crooks burrowed money without collateral under Soludo's watch. Banks were reporting fake and crooked profit to the public and sending it to the CBN without Soludo asking questions. When the whole world and bigger western banks began making adjustment for recession, Soludo was busy telling Nigerians that the recession will not affect Nigeria, imagine that? The guy was a goat! I am not a fan of Sanusi but atleast we get a trace of reality from his administration. The problem with Nigerian banking system is that it is saturated with clowns and obnoxious individuals. GET A GRIP!

Your arguement is strictly on point
I lost my job in Intercontinental bank in 2009 december but glory be to God ,I will never condemn Sanusi for doing what he did . HE DID WHAT WAS NECESSARY AT TO SAVE DEPOSITORS MONEY AT THAT TIME. I am an employer of labour today and doing fine.

Idowuogbo:
Nicki u sure aggressive mann jeeez,gals wiv class don't sumo like dis na every comment u get reply for chill out damnnnn, tbh am disappointed in u  I read an earlier comment and u said he jus gave u more money dat in al tells me u are wot MONEY HUNGRY!!indeed.I cant beliv u dint digest other aspects of your relationship that we have underlined, all dat seems to freak u is paper gal is dat all u want in a man like are u for real!.U nid need to seriously go and evaluate urself properly like d old sayin "Money is d root of all evil",now I will advise u not 2 reply me wiv insults if u like yourself am bin calm wiv u which is highly unusual for BADOSKY.Mehn see as babes dey shame 9ja gals cheiiiiii

@ idowuogbo

You get sense no be small

You are one of those very few ladies here wey dey see clearly!

RIP , Sunday Bada.

I can still remember him winning a Silver medal for Nigeria at the Sydney 2000 Olympics in the 4 X 400 relays

RIP Bro!

Nairaboi:
just as the post reads, its always funny that no girl ever tells u that her first s.exual encounter happened willingly, they always have one story of visiting a guy and him taking advantage of them, or they were violated. Why does it always have to be such tales?

Chei,

@ poster, You just brought up a topic i ve also been wondering about for sometimes. Good observation. I guess it s just all part of the attempt to save face or something.

Pat.Ogidi:
Questions similar to this come often these days, “My husband has been ‘downsized’
and now he mostly lies around the house doing nothing. Every time I ask him if he sent
out more resumes or looked for a job, he gets angry and we wind up in a fight.

What can I do to help him?”

http://talkaboutladies.com/what-wives-can-do-for-husbands-who-have-lost-their-jobs

@ poster

So many ladies do not realise that the most important thing to a man is his EGO (That is just the way God has created him) . Nothing deflates the Ego of a married Man than realizing the fact that he might not be able to perform his basic duty(ies) of providing for his family as he has always been able to do before. This is exactly the case with your husband.
The bolded part of your statement could mean two things:
1. You might be asking him in a way that reminds him of how he can no longer provide for the family, I guess this is why you end up quarreling.
2. You might also be genuinely interested in ensuring he gets another job.

The very first thing to do in such a situation is to Encourage and support him wherever and however possible.
Secondly, offer to assist him, not just by asking him where he has submitted his CV but by making copies of his CV and offering to help submit them wherever you can also.
Lastly, You are his helper, this is when he needs your help most, When you help , never try to rub it in his face. (Some wives/ladies do that and a lot of men know this) either through your words or actions.

Kind regards.

TAILODUL:
I m married wt issues and as much as possible I try to play my role: provide for the family, send d kids to sch and at least make d family comfortable wt my reasonable income.
But, my wife is very unappreciative of all my sacrifices, nags so much,  and gets me upsets always. In fact she had d audacity to tell me that I am not capable to be a man : insulting my person and[b] I told her that she is a bastard[/b] if she remained in my house wtout looking 4 her match[b] after slapping her 2ce[/b] (for the 1st time ever) I feel fed up of the whole thing

@ poster
From what you've written , I can clearly see the signs of a frustrated man and a frustrated wife. You need to ask yourself this question " Was she like this before you married her and even at the early parts of your marriage. If not you definitely need to find out where things went wrong. There must have come a time when your wife got frustrated, might even be a long time ago, It is her own frustration that is being transferred to you. I wouldn't want to major on the bolded part of your write up because they are clearly statements made under the influence of anger. I hope you can try this: Give her the very much attention,listening hear and time she needs and deserve. Her response and reaction should show you where the problem lies or might even be the solution.

Best regards.

vivicatee:
@michelin89 , FANKS DEARIE, U R THE ONLY ONE DAT COMPLETELY UNDERSTANDS WAT AM SAYING, THIS IS MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP I'LL AVE DAT I WONT AVE DAT GOOSE PIMPLES KINDA FEELING, HE'S A LOVEABLE PERSON AND LOVES ME SO MUCH[b] BUT AVE BEEN HURT SO MUCH IN THE PAST DAT AM WORRIED IF I EVEN AVE THE HEART TO LOVE ANYONE AGAIN[/b]

@ poster

I percieve the bolded is the major reason why you dont want to open up your heart to him.
As long as you know he cares about you, Please give him a chance. Beleive me, this is something that can work with time. most ladies have a heart to love with time especially when the guy in question proves to be kind and nice.
With the description of him you gave here, he seems to be that Mr Nice most ladies dont naturally or instantly get attracted to but you need to give a chance.

Kind regards

Boyloaf:
a girl sent me dis msg after i told her i dnt hav enuf cash to send for her ''I never knew u wer this
wicked,aldo life is al about try n error.
I wont disturb u again,jst kno dat d world is a
smal place u might need my help 2morrow
how will u feel i turn u down.u've used me 2
satisfy your intimate urge, its not your fault n i dont blame u
4 it. take care nd bware of strange numbrs
dont pick cos its harmful''. I deleted all her contact after dis bullcrap! Jeeeez!

Are u serious? Lol

This is just a typical example of what we've been saying.
It is only girls who have nothing meaningful to contribute in a relationship asides intimacy that have this kind of mindset.
I wonder when some of them would come to realize the fact that equating intimacy to monetary or material demand is simply prostitution .

Avalani:
Why do you keep liking the wrong guys? Before I try to answer that, let me first just say that you will not get any worthwile answer from a lady. That is because they don't know any better than you; you are all in the same boat; you were all wired and programmed by the same cultural software. Useful answers will probably come from the male folks. Why? Because they are the only ones 'outside the box' in this case. Besides, the males that reply this post, the exception being personal friends, will be quite objective since they don't know you and have no reason to mislead you just to get into your pants.

Now that all that has being said. The answer to your question is simple. Girls, precisely "good girls" like bad guys. It is a proven law with few exceptions, so if you happen to be a good girl, get ready to battle your natural instincts towards a guy.
Good girls like bad guys. Girls find good guys boring. I happen to be a bit of a good guy myself and I've gotta admit I find myself a tad boring. Like the comedian Chris Rock said, good relationships are boring, only the bad ones are exciting. And after hanging out with a couple of bad guys, a good girl becomes unattractive to the right guy, and this is because, unlike bad guys, good guys are quite picky and probably less forgiving because of their moral principles.

Finally, and this applies to all sexes, the heart is misleading. the heart wants what the heart wants. Mind you, the heart doesn't necessarily want what you want. The head is more reliable but no one listens to it enough, if we did, we'd all be wise. And that is why we are all chasing and loving someone who is chasing and loving someone else. And if only we could stop chasing and look back, we will find the one who loves us trying to catch our attention. You might  say: "but I dont love him". Well the truth is, love as we know it does not exist. it is mere science fiction. So what is real? Friendship. And that takes hard work, unlike your "true love". And anything worth having is hard to get.

@ poster

This is one of the very few objective replies you can ever get on this topic.
@ Avalani, well said

25omega:
poster

just because a woman is in a relationship doesn't mean she can't be friends with you. you already asked her out and she said no so you being with other women should not be her concern.
i understand her jealousy though because sometimes people are in relationships but they meet someone else who they like and can't have. If i were you i would keep her as a friend and date around if she gets jealous dont mention it and just let her be. Things will eventually work itself out.

The above bolded is really her concern now.
Whenever she sees any other girl around me, she fells so uncomfortable, she is already getting jealous, there are times i feel like asking her some questions but something tells me to allow the whole situation play out naturally.

Thanks guys!

Hello  Nairalanders,

I need your honest opinion on this.

How would you react to a lady you once asked out some weeks back, She politely declined claiming she already has a boyfriend which to a reasonable extent , I know of.  Right from the time I met her till now, she has been so clingy, always willing to be around (no strings attached). She comes over to my work place a lot of time (though a private work place).
Is it really advisable I put her off my mind which simply means i need to seriously reduce the time we spend together. I know this might not go down well with her but I will be glad to do that if I can ascertain if her claim of being in a relationship is real. Moreover she hasn't been very comfortable with other ladies around me and she is just an expert in avoiding questions. I really want to keep a safe distance from her , Is this really the right decision?

lovemoi:
I will not say this is cruel, cos i agree with him, i am a woman and some 9ja women just don't have self worth or self respect at all. Most new generation 9ja babes are just too much, they over do it and they really disgrace themselves. They are money hungry and act as if they will not exist or live without meeting the guy. Its quite embarrassing with so many things i see around me, one thing is for sure, most of these girls were not born like that, they just adopted the silly classless , non cultured lifestyle from folks around them. I saw some comments about men complaining about women all the time, not saying men are perfect or dont misbehave, but we are different, we are the homemakers and the pillar of any home, now if we are money hungry then just go ahead and sell yourself short. bottomline is to respect ourselves, with or without blackberries we will live, most guys want a friend and someone who will challenge him, why cant we be that?? it's just embarrassing. it is well.

God bless you real good!

Ladies with very clear and objective minds like yours are rare, Addressing issues rather than personalities.
I hope you can give your fellow nairaland females some lectures.

@ poster

You said it all, Couldn't have been more well said !

Kolababa:
Is he excusing himself from one of the elite
This guy is just unrepentant!!!!

Yes, elites have their own share of the blame but the lion share of it should go to him who forcefully truncated a democracy and gave opportunity to the likes of IBB and Abacha to further corrupt the elites.

Your Reply
was there no crruption during Shagari's reime?
What there no corruption in the first republic? Although very minimal. Go and read "WHY WE STRUCK", insight of the first military coup.
Now Abacha and IBB are no more in government,
has the corruption stopped?
The fact is those civilian you are talking about they truncated are also the appologists of the military. Some of them served in the military regime. Majority of those who ruled with Abacha and IBB are the ones holding political offices now. Nothing has changed.
My advice to you Buhari haters is that if you want to be a well informed person, dont look at the messanger, rather look at the message. If our political elites should for onece see themselve as the bane of Nigeria development, then it better for us.
re the ones holding political offices now. Nothing has changed.
My advice to you Buhari haters is that if you want to be a well informed person, dont look at the messanger, rather look at the message. If our political elites should for onece see themselve as the bane of Nigeria development, then it better for us.

@ Kolabala

You points here are quite based on faulty premises.

If Buhari had not overthrown a democratically elected government 28 years ago, Imagine the improvement we would have recorded in our democracy by now.
Yes, the Shagari led politicians were corrupt but democracy improves over time. What we should have learnt as a nation in 1983, we started learning in 1999 due to his selfish act. Awolowo said it over and over that the worst democracy is better than the best military regime. I strongly agree with this.
I voted goodluck in the last election, and even in his so called incompetence, i will still vote him anyday ahead of a desperate and self centred buhari.
Buhari can never claim he is not part of the Elites he is referring to so let him just keep quiet and heal his wounds. we are tired of his generation!

@ Poster

I would admit there is virtually nothing wrong in spending money on a woman you love. It is dignifying and shows you actually care about her.

Conversely, the major point that needed to be addressed is this:

It is the norm of the day( at least in Nigeria) for some ladies to see the guy they date as the quickest means out of the economic hardship (even the working class).

Some (just to be modest) ladies quantify the love their guy has for them by the size of the material things they can get from him.

In some other instances, the gateway to dating a guy is to size up what he is worth and make an upfront demand before kick starting the relationship.

Now Listen!

Some ladies are not just referred to as  gold diggers for asking for modest gifts. They try as much as possible transfer the responsibilities of their fathers to the BF and vice versa.
They also request for things the guy himself can never afford to get for himself.
They judge the viability of the relationship based on the money and material things they get from it.
Imagine hearing a lady say:  He is my boyfriend, he says he loves me,I need some money for my upkeep (N50K), I know he can afford it, but he has refused to give me, that means he doesn't love me and i don't think this relationship can continue"(uncoordinated and logically false premises).

I had to put this out straight to the point.

Just the truth!

@ poster

The gospel truth about this topic is that:

There are still numerous good guys around

The major problem is that these are the type of guys you ladies naturally don't get attracted to.

Most ladies naturally get attracted to the fun loving, party freak,not too serious minded guys who often do not fall within the circle of the good guys.

maclatunji:
You have to understand that without Wenger's frugal policy. Arsenal would have gone bankrupt by now looking for some maverick billionaire to bail the club out.

Arsenal will get-out of this barren spell it is just a matter of time. I want to buy Arsenal shares is anybody selling?

Good point

It s so amazing that very few people know this and even arsenal fans still do not realise how much the debt incured from the construction of the emirate stadium has really constrained Wenger from spending much on buying players.

2buff:
I believe your current mind is just a product of your environment (the ghetto) as you very often show.
I'm also not talking about those guys that walk up to a girl they met today or yesterday and start dropping the L word. I dey talk about correct guy, not tonzo

Look, A woman who has better things to do with her time than wasting another person's time is a woman that actually has goals for her own life and thus, understands how time works.
They are the type of women who don't see the sense in wasting time gathering with their girlfriends to gossip and bicker like 13 yr olds over what person A did to person B  or "what that b!tch Jessica did last week".
And if a guy comes along, with a reputable background as determined by her own research and she likes what she sees, it can essentially take as little as 2-3 weeks for things to progress respectfully (I'm not talking about bedmatics here). If she didn't feel him, she would let him know bluntly and they would bid each other fairwell.

This has nothing to do with one person or the other being "desperate". It's just simple time efficiency, a concept that exceeds the minds of many-a-woman.

You Just said  my mind

I wonder why most ladies on this thread have gotten this discussion from another direction!

Mrs.Chima:
Oh my goodness!  

I wouldn't necessarily say that some girls play hard to get.  It call not being EASY and taking your time before getting into poo.  Boys these days want things to be done FAST, FAST, and FAST and WILL call the girl a ho if she give it out easy.  

A real grown woman will tell you if she is interested or not.  Maybe she want to take things slowly and not jump into things quickly that is ALLOWED.  

For those who talking that bullshit about they do not have the time to chase haven't met the right one.  Trust and believe, if a man wants a woman he will pursue her even if it take TIME.

U surely must be living in the 70s!

@ poster

I think your list is incomplete without Mutiu Adepoju
IMO opinion, I think Haruna Lukman should be on the list (The only Nigerian player to ever feature in all FIFA graded competitions U-17, U -20 as well as the Mundial).

Whats your asking price ?
Is the place still available for use as well?
Why are you selling?

Expecting your reply.