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Hi Nairalanders, What could make a guy/lady walk away from a long term relationship without a single arguement talkless of a quarel.

This is just the situation a friend of mine found herself after dating the guy for over 6years. The guy simply walked away quietly after a visit to the girl 's house where he was regarded as part of the family.He would'nt pick her calls again.

What could have been responsible for this?

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@ poster

From your post , i discovered you re still very much in touch with your experiences of the past and this has largely been responsible for you feelings.
Try as much as posible to put behind you all that has happenened in the past to you in the hands of men, I beleive that is when you can find a heart to love .it might take time but just be very careful not to fall into te wrong hands .

regards

Another very immature and childish post, i tot the poster had a more reasonable point!

Sincerely speaking, Majority of ladies do not Know what they want until they see it.

Poster

Be friendly with them but pay very little attention to them, keep your complements for a latter date, always be firm with your decisions and be very confident about yourself. They will naturally get attracted to you.

regards

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Pls help,

I can no longer download files from the internet on my laptop. Anytime I try downloading a file from any site on the net, it automatically navigates the page to my document folder which shouldn't be.

Please what could be wrong here?

I lost my job in december in Intercontinental bank, shortly afterwards ,I started seeing a lady i met on facebook who i was sure was really into me but the day i told her i recently lost my job, that was the last time i heard anything from her, she never replied my messages nor picked my calls. Most ladies would rather ditch you considering the fact that you re just starting out. Real life experience!

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gee.:
@ tomiday,
i suggest you keep her as a friend and get another girl that will agree to stay with you 4ever.
i know them kinda girlz, gat one as a friend, they tend to waste ones time by playing pranks or hard to catch.
plz, look for some1 else.

Just my mind!

@poster

From your explanation, it shows this girl is not just playing you but seriously playing on your intelligence.
She told u she was having d guy as a fall back/ back up (Most ladies do this) and for a lady to have started considering that, it s just a matter of time she will shatter your mind soon cos she s trying to eat her cake and have it at the same time.
The best thing you can do is to call her and be very firm about the fact that you re not comfortable wt the guy around her.Her response should lead you to taking a stand.

Regards.

@ poster

It seems you re speaking from my mind as these facts are just te hard truth.
Moreover, a guy would never forget the lady that hardened his heart.

Poster

I once met a lady online and we started chatting, Meeting her for the first time, she started by calling me baby cos I told her I worked in a bank and subsequenly called my line very often. The last time i heard anything from her was the day i told her thatI lost my job in one of the distressed banks.She would not even pick my calls again.

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Regards.

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Guy,
Sincerely speaking ,you dont have a girl friend , you only think you have one cos it simply shows she s not missing you.
I think the best way to go about it is to sit her down and talk things over with her, let her know all you are telling us now and be very firm with her on your decision to pull out of the relationship if things do not change.

Anytime I tried downloading files from the internet on my laptop, Instead of navigating to the link address on the net,my system automatically navigates to My documents folder.What could be wrong with my system.

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Believe this

Every woman is a born flirt but the guys learn the acts!

BOTTOMLINE

LADIES PREFER GUYS THAT TELL THEM WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR (LIES,LIES,LIES)!
AND GUYS PREFER TO GIVE WHAT IT TAKES (LIES,LIES LIES)TO GET OR KEEP THEIR DREAM GIRLS!

shybee:
In a situation where a gal (Tina) has bn seeing a guy for over a year and the guy is always saying he's giving her his words and he loves her and that its the best relationship he has ever bn in and all of a sudden after a year and a half or more Tina gets a shocker that the gal (dami) he claimed his is cousin is actually his girlfriend and that they've bn going out for over four years. The so called cousin said she's not his cousin while he insists that she's his cousin. Pls wat do u think Tina should do?

After the whole problem, the guy has bn apologetic and he says he'll put things in other that he wants to be with Tina and not Dami. he keeps telling Tina to put the whole thing behind her and they should fix their relationship.

by the way, its a long distance relationship as Tina is in Lagos, The guy is in Kaduna and the Dami just left the country to the Uk but she stays at Ilorin but I feel they get to see wen she was around.
This is a guy that knows Tina's family members, friends and everyone but Tina knows nobody from the guys side and wen she talks about it to him he says he has never taken a girl home before and that the commitment he has given the relationship is by knowing people from my side. Pls is that a good excuse on his part?

please ppl i really need your candid opinion on this issues and the questions the gal should ask the guy and the next step she should take. thanks

It is quite clear that he guy was double dating ,His apologies simply means Dami was never his cousin but a girlfriend.
When a guy is not ready to introduce his girl to his immediate family,be sure he is not ready to get himself committed.
These two points are vry vital in drawing your conclusion as I would prefer not to do that for you.

Regards.

Please stop stressing the fact that the man rejected the food bla bla bla, the real issue here is that the wife caught him with another woman.He must be a f-o-o-l by acting as if nothing happened.
Sincerely speaking, when you cheat on a woman or hurt her feelings and she makes an elaborate scene because of that, that means she still loves you and probably wants you to make ammends but when she is quite aware of your adventure and she feels undisturbed (like this woman) ,I think there is fire on the mountain!

He needs to seriously beg for forgiveness from his wife !

mito:
Guys, if a girl whom you want to sleep with called you one day to tell you that you both are supposed to have a serious talk about her behavior, what will be your reaction

Mito,

Your post is not self explanatory, What is the relationnship between the girl you want to sleep with and her behaviour? Kindly elaborate!

More importantly , some guys and ladies (girls) are turning this section into a gender battle field where topics are judged based on the fact that we are guys or ladies. Some of us here really need to grow up. I wouldnt want to make reference to any thread/post as many of us here are quite aware of what I m passing across.
issues are meant to be addressed fairly and objectively not based on sentiments.

ayettymama:
its not just girls

guys are worse

they see you have money- they start makin up stories to get some

[b]they see u expensive they wanna start borrowing your stuff!![/b]but then again your right, not all women are like that!

change the women you go for!

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Yettymama, You are far from being realistic with these your points, i wonder where you get all these from.The poster has made a very viable point and observation andhis points are true cos i veexperienced so many ofthose types of girls also.

Beating your girl does not show a gentleman's attitude. tho some girls/ladies could be so frustrating at times tha you ll be tempted to think they deserve a couple of punches nevertheless the best thing to do instead of beating up a girl is to just ignore her and walk away for days ( I bet , ladies feel more guilty and devastated this way)

@ poster

There is a yoruba proverb that translates ' THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN KNEELING DOWN OR PROSTRATING FOR YOUR WIFE FOR FORGIVENESS PROVIDED THERE ISNT A THIRD EYE PRESENT AND YOU DONT STAY TOO LONG IN THAT POSITION.

@ poster


Nice shot,

I think you took this picture from the plane, I m sure going to take snap shots like this next time i board a flight from or to Lagos!

@ poster

Your epistle is simply the hard truth !

guys, Learn it and you 'll be the master!

Apply wisdom.

I will never tell the guy directly, I might only give him hints that would lead him to make his own discoveries about the girl's excapades
provided he is a close friend.