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Thumbs up to the creator of these thread . GGMUB!
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I'm a bit anxious about this February though

ajuwarhodes:
Useless married women, did I hear a single and seriously searching single bitch say that? If u ain't useless why haven't a young man taught of paying ur bride price?

So a promiscuous married woman is better than a single woman?
Plus what has a lady not getting a man to pay her bride price got do with her worth?
Marriage is overrated! GET OVER IT!!

jamelorys:
Java is the primary language for App-making. Java is comonly used for android aaps where as c, c++ are used for ios apps.

mobile application development

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one of the reasons why you must s.ex any girl you're dating. You wouldn't really feel that much like a loser when shits like this happens .

Uncleodi:
I need a woman who can love me for me and not for my wealth.

I need a man who can truly love me and be dedicated to me.

When you want to marry, marry someone who truly loves you. That’s the most important thing in marriage.

Once you marry someone you love and someone who loves you, you will have a happy marriage

Bla bla bla!

Hogwash!

Those are some of the statements people make about love and marriage. Love is over-rated, over-blown, and over-hyped.

If indeed we want more happy marriages, we need to be debriefed and rebriefed about marriage. Love does not make a marriage succeed! Yes, I said so.

Mutual respect makes a marriage succeed. Mutual respect makes a marriage happy.

When it comes to marriage, the attitude of every married person should be: “I don’t need your love! Gather your love like rags, stuff it in a bag and fling it over the Third Mainland Bridge into the Lagos Lagoon! It means nothing to me. Absolutely nothing! Just show me respect and I show you respect.” End of discussion!

Some would ask: But you can’t respect someone you don’t love? Fa-fa-fa foul! You can. When strangers walk into the office to make enquiries or purchases and you show them first-class courtesy, respect, and warmth, is it out of love? Do you know them from Adam? When strangers stop you on the street for enquiries and directions, and you pause to attend to them, or even take them to their destinations, even though you may never meet them again in your life, is it done out of love? When did the love start?

Now, let’s look at the other side of the coin. Have you not seen a man and woman so much in love that they can barely spend a minute without each other divorce within a month or a year of marriage? What happened? Did the love die so fast? I thought we were told that love cannot die?

Have you not seen or heard of a man who loves his wife so passionately but still panel-beats her every day, and then makes love to her passionately afterwards? Is that love too? Is love violent? Have you not heard of a man kill a woman he loves because of jealousy or anger, and vice versa? Can love kill its own beneficiary? This love sef!

Now, what can you say about this? While I was at the Nsukka campus of the University of Nigeria, I lived in Zik’s Flats, Block A2, Room 206 for four years with Chimezie Otuonye (a.k.a. One Man). Were we friends? No. He had his friends and I had mine. Were we enemies? Not at all. But for one minute, we never quarrelled in those four years. How did we do it? Simple. If his friends visited him when I was having my siesta, he knew that he should take them out of the room. I did the same thing for him. We both loved to play music, but we were mindful not to play it when the other was sleeping or reading. We kept our mattresses side-by-side to form a big bed. If I washed the bed sheet this Saturday, nobody would tell him to wash the bed-sheet the next Saturday. If I mopped the floor this Saturday, nobody would tell him to mop the floor the following Saturday. It was never discussed for one day.

He smoked occasionally. I never told him for one day not to smoke in the room; and he never smoked in the room, except when we had a party in the room. We had water regularly in our hall of residence, but in the mornings when everyone was in the bathroom, the water pressure would not be strong enough to push the water to the first or second floor. So, we always filled our buckets and cans in the afternoon or evening. Whoever was in the room did that. Whoever wanted to use the water used it but always refilled the containers.

If I needed money urgently, I borrowed from him. He would not need to ask before I paid him back. He treated me the same way.

For one day, we never discussed these things. But we watched each other and also talked to the human spirit inside us and consequently treated each other with mutual respect. We treated the other the way we would like to be treated.

To ensure that we continued to live in the same room, we always returned to campus on resumption day to pay for our accommodation and get the same room. Even without GSM phones, if one of us did not return on the first day of school, the other person would pay the hostel fee for the other roommate to secure the room.

That’s not Intelligence Quotient at work but emotional intelligence.

Yet, I heard many people complain about their roommates making life miserable for them.

How can a couple that claim to love each other go to work, church, mosque, parties, or markets and show strangers and casual acquaintances respect, watch their words when they talk to them, make all efforts to be nice and courteous to these people, apologise easily, forgive easily, but when they get back to their spouse, they are rude, sarcastic, caustic, stubborn, unapologetic, contentious, etc? How can partners call each other “useless, wicked, devil, witch, beast” and other unprintable names and still claim to love each other? How can partners make every effort to hurt the other, disregard each other’s wish, take selfish decisions and actions, and still claim to love each other?

No, that is not love. Sexual love (Eros) is ephemeral and unpredictable but Agape is constant. That is the love Paul of Tarsus spoke about: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”

Therefore, the Golden Rule in life or the greatest principle of peaceful coexistence is: Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. That is the same law that makes a marriage happy and successful. If you would feel betrayed by your spouse’s unfaithfulness, don’t be unfaithful; if you hate rudeness, don’t be rude; if you love to be apologised to when wronged, apologise when you are wrong; if you love to be pampered, pamper your partner; if you love to be appreciated, appreciate your spouse. There is no magic in it. It is commonsense. But then, is it not said that commonsense is not common?

That is why a couple who had no love for each other (but no hate for each other) – who did not know each other, had no dealings with each other – could marry, treat each other with mutual respect and have a wonderful union, while a couple who had a pulsating courtship for one year could marry and have an unhappy marriage or even a bitter divorce within five years of marriage.

You can love someone who respects you. But you cannot love someone who claims to love you but shows you no respect. That is why love turns sour shortly after marriage. That is why marriages crash so fast.

Therefore, the luckiest and happiest couples are not those who are madly in love during courtship, but those who deeply respect each other and love each other during courtship and after walking down the aisle. They hardly wear each other out, neither do they easily irritate each other...

#Stolen

This is an excellent piece!. I'm adding it to my life notes . Everyone needs too ponder on it

og2711:
Its cowards like you that made the policeman in this story to have the balls that he has. If you report him just like the couple have done, he would probably be jobless by now.


"Wars are not fought only by childless men"

You are the real coward here , didn't they report to the divisional police and were told by the DPO that they deserved what they got ?

sunnshyn:
We know how these policemen 'shine' their touch directly on people's faces and eyes. Imagine the pain. Ehn?

There's so much anger within the police community, if not I see no reason why an officer of the law will be dragging innocent citizens and be punching them in the eye while his colleagues look on..even the DPO had the guts to say they(couples) deserved what they got. Imagine! Adding insult to injury..our society is such a pathetic one really.

How long do we keep quiet while this unnecessary evil continue? How long?

We've kept quiet for too long...our country shouldn't continue to be a place where 'anything goes' anymore...

Kai! See their faces! For what now?

what do you want us to do? We don't even have guns ? If we speak up they will shoot us down and we'll be history

Egbagirl:
To those saying it's the couples fault for talking bsck to the police officer: since when did talking back or being rude become crime? Even if it is a crime, isn't there a procedure to follow? Why were they not arrested?

Enough with this "it's a naija thing". Must we continue to live in fear of the people that have taken an oath to protect us. Have we suffered too long to even demand some respect and justice? Smh.

I honestly wish they could get a good lawyer to defend them so the officer gets thrown into prison.

what are you saying ? Nigeria is a lawless country and you know this fact . They were even lucky , what if the police man had shot them? The thing we're saying here is that they're uncivilized and the fact that they have a gun will channel any slight provocation towards the trigger and you know what next . You might not even be alive to tell your story .
You don't have any right in Nigeria.

Thespecialone:
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This an innovative product from Pre Order 2.0 that provides high quality phones at subsidized #LowestPriceYouCanTrust.

For starters, we have phones from the following brands, elephone and thl. With time, we will add more brands.

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hello special one
seasons greetings
please how much is jiayu g2f ?

Cool website with good layout .
But you need to work more on the pictures.
I will advise you use dull colored or black and white pics

elvis10ten:
Its a native app. Used java.

wow that's great . kudos

looks like an hybrib html5 app.
Great design and UI
what CSS /JS framework did you use?

And everything you all are writing about this man is based on what you read in the media not what you know. You might like his style but does that mean you have to make a mockery of his private life? and even his children ? Must you really say something when you have nothing good say ?
I will love to see what your lives are like in the real world maybe you are better off.

98% of guys ? what if I told you more than 65% of guys don't care about your butt size ? why do ladies like to stereotype men like this ?

bishoppapi:
I do not understand your frustration at the young man's declaration that he cannot marry a prostitute! He say 'he' cannot, he didnt say YOU cannot. So no need to attack him, if you can marry a prostitute, there are many of them out there, so go on and pick any of them. No one will attack you for that. It's your life, you decision....and man must be able to live with the consequences of his decisions.

Abi o thank you . I still don't get why all the ladies are taking this personal

I am idi amin but I use windows lol
And I work with c# & VB.net aside from the ones mentioned. In addition I hate Cms frameworks with extreme passion. I consider those who use them as lazy and quack programmers .
I have a girlfriend too
Nice article anyway .

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25-year-old Student of the Federal University of Technology Akure (FUTA), is down with cancer of the blood and needs help from well-
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The once very lively and energetic young man was diagnosed with Acute LYMPHOBASTIC
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Seyanu has been undergoing some form of PALLIATIVE TREATMENTS at Obafemi Awolowo University
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“He needs a total of # 11million for Bone Marrow Transfer & recovery in India,” his friends said.

“All we ask is for you to support the cause which ever way you can.

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You can also contribute by SMS :

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No amount is too small .
God bless you as you do so
Thank you

Freshtomato:
Biko, Let Brymo just shut up and release his own instead of pointing fingers





*yawns* I'll sleep now

guess you're one of those girls who masturbates for flavour
no wonder you're blindly defending him

holatin:
if this no enter front page, make aeroplane jam me for car wash.

lol
Aeroplane no go jam you o my brother, its not a must to be on front page. Atleast its not on front page yet & you still got here . Every other reader who is interested in this section will find their way .

Olucheye:
We can all agree that all men who you, the OP classed as hunters were once "nice" men who only got stabbed majorly because their pockets weren't deep enough to meet with the recurring expenses from the "beautiful" woman to keep up with maintaining her so called beauty. Or because he isn't handsome enough or who got dumped by ladies because a "hunter" swept her off her feet.

Beautiful women on the other hand wave off nice men on the first meet and that's where the "she's out of my league" assumption came from. As most nice men wouldn't want to waste their time knocking a door that its chances of opening is low.

The solution however is with the ladies who should know that, 8/10 of every sexy hot looking man who defies the logic of imperfection in men's physique is a hunter. Annoying part now is when ladies start screaming they've been played! More like playing with fire and whining how badly you got burnt.

LAST BULLET; Decipher a man from the words after his first approach and stop judging from a distance because he isn't hot or doesn't have beards.

I can't agree with you more on this bro
But you see ,it's the reality we are more focused on here . As for your last bullet ,most girls only come to that point of realization after they've been played by "many" .

happykidArotiba:
Yhyh, almost the same reasons why most handsome dudes find t difficult in finding Mrs right.

Really ? but I think Guys naturally tend to love the "hard woman" and not ones who cheaply gives them the attention (like the handsome ones usually get )

Hi
I use HTML5 to develop mobile apps(android, tizen &windows phone) with the help of Cordova , can i also apply?

1) The more attractive the woman, the more likely she will be approached by the kind of man who approaches attractive women. This kind of man views hunting, seducing and conquering women as sport.

2) To a hunter, a woman’s body is a commodity; he wins the game by getting her into bed. To a nice guy, a woman’s body is a sacred treasure; he wins her heart by honoring who she is as a person.

3) Hunters view women as nothing more than prey. By definition, nice guys are missing the “seducer” gene; even if they knew how to “play the game,” their conscience would never allow them to sweet-talk and manipulate a woman for their own selfish interests.
I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them.

4) Seducers are more likely to suffer from the disorder known as IAAMATT (It’s All About Me All The Time). Nice guys are more likely to be empathetic, nurturing and other-centered.

5) A woman turns to makeup and fashion to boost her self-esteem and make herself more desirable to men. Yet ironically, the more beautiful she makes herself, the better her chances of attracting the wrong type of guy.

6) The more attractive the woman, the less likely she will be approached by the kind of man who is good in relationships. Conversely, the less attractive the man, the less likely he will approach a woman who is far more attractive than he is. That said, are there nice guys who are attractive enough and/or courageous enough to ask out a beautiful woman? Certainly. But they are a rare breed.

7) The kind of man who values emotional intimacy often looks at a beautiful woman and thinks, “She’s out of my league.” That is the overwhelming reason why so many women are wondering why nobody (or at least nobody worth going out with) ever asks them out. Essentially, seducers view a woman’s beauty as an invitation; nice guys view it as a deterrent.

 When a beautiful woman gets fed up that only hunters are approaching her and decides to turn the tables by approaching a nice guy, she may be turned off by the reception she gets. In her mind, she’s just striking up a normal conversation. It doesn’t occur to her that she’s catching him off guard, and that even though he’s trying to listen to her, her words aren’t registering because his head is spinning from the fact that a beautiful woman is unexpectedly talking to him. The experience can be so foreign and disorienting that he comes across as a stammering fool. Patience here can pay off, for nice guys often have good relationship potential once the initial shock wears off.

9) Since beautiful women are only approached by hunters, they understandably think that most, if not all, men treat women the way that hunters do. Meanwhile, the nice guys sit in the back of the room and admire her from afar. Of course, identifying the nice guys isn’t that simple; a man may be quiet and reserved, but just because he doesn’t act like a seducer doesn’t mean he doesn’t aspire to be one. The wolf in sheep’s clothing is just one more obstacle on the path to finding Mr. Right.

10) When a beautiful woman repeatedly experiences the same pattern with one hunter after another, she understandably expects that pattern to continue. Frustrated, she may close herself off emotionally to all men, eliminating any chance a nice guy may have of connecting with her in a meaningful way. In this way, her fear of never finding the right guy can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

11) If a woman wants to be swept off her feet by a man who would also make a good lifetime partner, she is apt to be disappointed. The kind of charmers who are sweep-her-off-her-feeters are often the polar opposite of the kind of men who are good in relationships.

12) A nice guy is primarily relationship-oriented; he may first be attracted to a woman’s external beauty, but it is her internal beauty he values most highly. A hunter is exclusively achievement-oriented; he does not value what a woman thinks, says or feels; all that matters is that she has a woman’s body and he wants to get his hands on it. 

13) Beautiful women often confine nice guys to the Friend Zone. A nice guy’s worst nightmare is hearing those nine soul-crushing words, “But I think of you as just a friend.” Many happy couples have built relationships on the bedrock of solid friendship, so perhaps it may be wise to rethink what makes good partner material and be open to finding it from unexpected sources. Which brings up the question: Can men and women truly be friends? Yes, but only if neither of them has any romantic interest in the other. If even one of them is harboring hopes of romance, the friendship will reach critical mass sooner rather than later, at which point the friendship must either dissolve or transition into a relationship.

14) If and when a hunter decides to “retire” from hunting and get married, he chooses a woman he can possess for her beauty, not one he can build an emotionally intimate partnership with. What so many admiring men and envious women fail to see is that, throughout a woman’s entire life, her beauty can be as much a curse as it is a blessing.

15) Women who are less attractive to the type of men who only pursue attractive women are more likely to have higher-quality interactions with men. Why? Nice guys are often more comfortable asking out and authentically communicating with women who they feel are more likely to agree to go out with them.

The 15 reasons above are daunting enough but they’re based on beauty alone. What if the beautiful woman in question is also brilliant and a successful high achiever? Yep, timid nice guys would view her as even more intimidating and unapproachable. Ah, but in Mr. Right’s eyes, those qualities would make her even more perfectly beautiful. Paging Mr. Right . . . Paging Mr. Right . . .


THE FOUR-WORD SOLUTION

The solution to this dating dilemma is obvious. As a female reader so succinctly commented: “Man up, nice guys!” What she’s insinuating is that if a guy isn’t man enough to ask a woman out, he probably isn’t quality relationship material anyway. That’s not always the case, although a guy who’s intimidated by a woman’s beauty is likely to put her on a pedestal if by some chance they did start dating. Excessive doting might sound like a problem many women would be willing to endure but life on a pedestal can get old very quickly. A mature woman wants a partner who treats her as an equal; she will settle for nothing less than being authentically loved, not mindlessly worshipped. In short, a woman cures a man’s addiction to doting by acting as the anti-dote.
Demanding that nice guys man up is obvious, yes, but a tall order. In order to approach a beautiful woman, a man needs to have healthy self-esteem. The greater his autonomy, self-knowledge, and self-confidence, the greater the likelihood he will feel worthy of being with an attractive woman. In short, a nice guy has to stop dreaming and start getting after it by doing the inner work that so many guys are reluctant to do.

Ultimately, of course, to make a relationship work, both the man and the woman have to see and appreciate the inner beauty of each other’s souls as well as their own. When that day comes, external beauty will be little more than an afterthought.

Source: http://feelgoodstuffs..com/2014/07/fifteen-reasons-why-beautiful-women.html?m=1

chamboy:
If a girls likes u, it doesn't take long abeg.... if not just free d foool any girl u get for long period doesn't like u, she's just using u as a last option... if she see what's she likes she would leave ur asss

you're right

Thespecialone:
N17200

Thanks bro, do you have the white version of p6i?

Thespecialone:
N17200

Do you have the white version?

How much is elephone P6i now?

Does glasses really correct the eye Cos I discovered that my eye is going blurry each passing year. Anything I can do to correct my eye without glasses?

Any course you can graduate with and start up business on your own E. G estate management, architecture etc is the most marketable

tyconcepts:
Election dey today so movement is restricted else I for don reach there go dispatch sharply

Kk till Monday then
Eagerly expecting it

tyconcepts:
Welcome, the freshest graduate in Akure....Didn't know yesterday was the finals else I would have sent you a Oneplus One 64GB phone as a graduation present....

I rejoice with you all the way....NYSC calling after which Khaki go turn to Armani suit and jungle boots go turn to original Zara shoes

Thanks
But if you really won send am u go send am today lool

tyconcepts:
Elephone P6i dipatched to Akure for Seunoni34



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