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dilbert100: nice thread https://s09.flagcounter.com/mini/bL0/bg_f0f0e4/txt_f0f0e3/border_f0f0e4/flags_0/.jpghttps://s03.flagcounter.com/mini/F8d6/bg_f0f0e4/txt_f0f0e3/border_f0f0e4/flags_0/.jpg

i pity for dose wey dey find unavailable goverment job about

topsco: Whatever goes up must surely comes down.
'Oju lo nkan omo alajo to n jale'
If i was her,i would just leave them to their lust and ignorance,then continue with my life.
Life Continua...ile aye ile aye asan,ofo lori ofo.

Gbam i will be happy for her sef, thank God he came out instead of doing it behind

bendazum: I doubt if I can especially if I still feelings for her.

the person has moved on and you are still doubting SMH

ifyeky: Nothing dan to let her go but d problm is dat she is stil disturbing my fone, she says she really luvs me and dat she is going out wid my boss jz to get money and gifts frm him

den when you loose your job she will go after him cos you dont have the money to sustain her Abi, and then you will be going from church to church meeting pastors to pray for you abi, i can see you dont have any dependant ko, welcome to the job section of Nairaland in advance

tomakint: She is the love of your life, in fact, you can’t sleep without her, you think about her almost every minute, she means so much to you, and yet the unexpected happened. You caught her red-handed in bed with another man in the ‘very act’! I have heard from many people around, who have declared without considering the consequences that should they catch their wives in bed with other men, those men are as good as dead, a few declared that both the woman and the man deserved to die while a handful said they will just walk away from the union! The reasons varies: some said they can’t imagine loving that woman again the way they used to after the incidence; some said that the emotional pain of sleeping with the same woman bedded by another man is too much to handle; some said such a woman is capable of killing the husband; some declared that the spirit of suspicion and extreme jealousy will quench the spirit of love they have for the woman; and the reasons go on and on! If the same thing happen to you (of course, I forbid if for you, because it’s not funny), what would you do?

den you go to jail and she will sleep with your father and your brother and you comeback to nairalaland for Advise if only you come out alive

Valantine is the time to go for it if you love her tell her so stop keeping women as spare tyres and extra baskets

if you dont tell her so instead of keeping her let her move on with her life

if you love him tell him so and if you dont tell him and you are eating his money God will judge you and stop spreeding your eggs in many

basket in the end the basket will spoil, as single ladies let learn to be faithfull to one man cos no one is perfect

as 2013 valantine come by let us learn to speak the truth in love, it might hurt , it might make us sad but in the end , what doesnt kill you

make you stronger

([quote author=Apostle-Ukam]She dosnt want to visit,i now demanded that we meet else weir,she still turned it down.i've seen ha only twice since we started(dat was within the first wk).she rarely return calls and text mesgs.i recently asked ha to follow up my Msc admission since am nt in town and she dont seem to be doing it.moreover,is lik she is still keeping ha ex bc wen i suspected and asked,she just said we're friends,that he isnt a prob.meanwhile she told me she dosnt hav any.am thinking she is planning to double date and i cant tolerate that.hence am thinking of bidding her farewell.[/quote]Another begging brother in making,keep following her and the next six month you will come to nairaland and start asking for advice, if you think you love her(which i dont think so) why dont you go for her? go to her house tell her you want to see her then talk to her, OP i see that you manly balls has gone on errand , is either she wants you or not the Acceptance of Rejection is the cure for Heartache

^^ marriage no be by force nah

Joliecoco: Why is it that African men love to invite girls to their office that they have a crush on ? Is it because they want to impress her or show her off to their friends ? Why do guys do this ? and another stuff that bother me about African men is how they meet you two second and they are talking about marriage and being in love with you. Are u serious , It not love its infatuation. Guys , pls feel free to explain why some African men behave like this?

i call them delusional brothers,

topsco: OP,It means u're still lost in d misery of LOVE.
Do hatred exists?
Are we also in hatred delusion?
How can hatred b controlled?
Ones U know the answers to those questions above,then u will know if love exist or is just a delusion.
....IFE NI OLUWA...

True love speak the truth in the misdst of many lies, true love is loving someone in as much as he/she is not there for you, love is never comfortable i.e it takes you out of your comfort zone, true loving makes you hold on to a weak hand hoping it going to be stong, true lover never ever fade

KateSpade: If that's the way you want your relationships and marriage to go, thats fine. However, a majority of women would like a partner who is faithful to them.

do you know that faithfulness is the thing of the mind? if my husband have decided to be a faithful man i dont see which woman will make him think other wise and if he has decided to do other wise then let him face the music ,i reapeat acting jealous does not potray love, most women are jealous out of selfishness let something happensa to the man they will be the first to abandon him.

gboss4sure: Jealousy and Women knew no bounds. Even they ones you are just friends with will get jealous anytime they sees you with another babe not to talk of when you are married to them.

The truth is that most women are hyper jelous to the point where the man has no choice than to sleep with their sister, and housemaid because she feels she wants to cage him

Wizee: @op re u a girl? Den wait till u get married, den if ur hubby date other girls n bring dem home, dnt cum here n complain, bcoz i go tie u wit tick rope.

most men are scared when they know how you will react to certain issues?

True2myself24: Umm wtf? How is a woman supposed to react then when she catches her man cheating

should she go acting like a deranged Mofo?

[quote author=HÌGLΞDY_PÌGLΞDY]If I'm married to you, sexybash and I do not see any form of jealousy in your actions, then I would believe you do not love me... [/quote]they always think that way but the but funny enough am the most loving girl a man can ever find i feel with the way i love if i join jelousy i go fit kill person so what i do is i have decided to kill that ugly part

alfredo4u: una just saved my soul. God go bless all of una wey comment

i think say na only me dey suffer from depression anyway sha for me depression can sometimes be a form of reality check any thanks to all that commented

[quote author=Mr. 1234]the bolded goes contrary to what you said earlier.
You attributed cheating to a probable failure on your part.

Still working on your man needs some improtant measures, you can't sit down and say you're working on ur man.
Definitely not shouting at the other woman but there are other means as a matter of fact.


Maybe you already have a programmed mind. My only prayer is that...
i am not from Mars either and definately marry a Nigerian man so dont worry i already progrmmed my mind my own kind of madness is silence















May you not fall into the hands of NIGERIAN men.[/quote]

stop searching for love - look for posibilities - the damn thing called love seem to grow even when its not wanted !!1[/quote]love make you send you BF/GF text message and they forward it to some one they love either than you
Love is the reson why you are reading this thread

gboss4sure: Jealousy and Women knew no bounds. Even they ones you are just friends with will get jealous anytime they sees you with another babe not to talk of when you are married to them.

as for me i killed that jealousy part in me even before i started the dating game most times i dont say anything which drives the man loco, i never had to quit any relationship because of fedelity issues

victorian: It's no use fighting the other woman, there are other effective ways in tackling such type of home breakers... Going to other woman house is a no no for me... She will know how far from afar .

why dont you work on your man must you blame the other woman? make your man see the consequences and implication his actions IMO

victorian: And the husband or partner himself , will sit up and focus on us squarely... I assure you ... No be mouth, I know for sure.. Except he is not my husband.

i have had expirence where my girls ask me are you mad? and i say a man that loves me will never cheat on me and if he does that then he has his reason may be a failure from my own part and then i will improve and try to work things out , i belive in the live and let live rule i reapaet i will rather marry a harworking responsible man than to be with a lazy love dovvy man

victorian: Her bf has jazzed her or she simply does not give a fck, if he cheats, what cud matter to her is the koko, money I guess .. But trust me , if u place a blind eye to yur bobo cheats.. Someday , u could come home to an empty house. And a freezed bank acct....then come and tell us, if one will behave like a bitten dog...smhh

how has behaving like a bitten dog solved the cheating problem? the same woman which you go and fight because of your husband he will go back and kneel down and wash her pant just to win her back. so why worry yourself me i belive the man will grow into maturity and into a state of mind where he will never cheat again

patin48hrs: chîmu o. What going on here? I am not channel 190 as many are saying o.

At the above he was right, like i did say he did not collect my number. He called me via my friend.

Well i never belived you guys are stil doubting.
Am beginning to like this forum but please how do i get varified.

u be real maga

[quote author=Mr. 1234]sexybash!!! How many times did I call you?



Are you really in a relationship? Has your bf ever been caught cheating on you?

If the answers to the above questions are YES, then from what you posted above,
in my life most times i use the ignore botton and it has always worked for me















You either haven't eaten when you posted this or your boyfriend has jazzed you.








These things are only natural.[/quote]

Idowuogbo: Wtf? Guy, ur babe na Ashana. Listen, make I knack u tru stories... Most of my friends are males. But! I don't go about saving dier names wiv "my life", wetin? Dem b oxygen? Dude, marriage won't change nada! If u like go carry commercial waste put for house, after wedding,dem go update and save ur name as "Recycler".

hi babe i tried to pm you but its not going can you PM me so i can senbd you email we need to talk @ poster why do you menprefer women that will lead you to uoyr early and untimely grave?

adaptor4all: Every ailment has a prediposin factor..As 4 depression n frustration,they arise wen ur Realisation is far below ur Expectation..Always give room 4 mistakes,don't think too much f ursef,u aint supernatural..Always try 2 laff @ ursef,wud make u feel better
Go easy n steady,success comes slowly bt surely..Even bridges r built wt gaps 2 allow room 4 expansion..learn 2 accommodate n 4giv sef..wud hep u a lot
Rememba,d entire basis of Shame is nt due 2 sm personal mistakes f ours,bt cos dis humiliatn is seen by evri1..4giv ursef always..phuck haters
There can neva b anoda now,make d most outta 2day.There can neva b anoda u,so make d best outta ursef....Depression kills,kill dt Depression 2day

thanks i was at one state of mind sometimes last week, the fear of losing someone can even make you deppressed i am always scared to fail, am not perfect but every one around me see me that am perfect , as for now i will just live free and be my gaddam self

he tot me how to be not just gold digger but diamond miner, i now ask for recharge card even if i have 3k on my fone, i now pack food from my boyfreind house even if my pantry is full, he tot me on how not to date a jobless and poor man, and beliving in prospect its all a farce, as for me am now in the train of i want now or never

xtayle: She taught me to avoid any girl without a mind of her own. Anyone can turn such against u. My experience with her was that everyone's opinion about me count except her's. She did not have a mind of her own.

you could have married her nah and you guys will live in forever happy after

[quote author=el-patch]Though death snatched her away untimely,the lil time we spent together she taught me the deep thing of life.....the essence of our presence here on the surface of planet earth.[/quote] sorry feel ya pain

nollywood20: [size=18pt]That a Nigerian girl can be as dumb and evil as lying that her mother gave her N18, 000 to commit an illegal abortion.
Thanks to her, I have learned never to underestimate the LYING PROWESS of Nigerian girls of all ages. [/size]

they do nah some mother even take them to the hospital dem selves

Sagamite: I read half way and thought "this is just brilliant".

It really says everything I have already said on NL many times.

I loved this part:



Some guys think women have contrition when they break their word? As I always say "fck her concept of romance". The same girl that said "A" today, might do "B" tomorrow if it is in her best interest. They think about me, me, me, me, me.

Thank God I am a control guy according to his segmentation because:

- I like to control everything.
- I don't chase a babe who does not show interest in me or allow me me to take control. I waka pass .........maybe after a few shaggs sha if that is attainable.
- I don't spend money on women until I know them or I am sure it would go somewhere.
- If she has someone else she is keen on or appears to want someone else, I LEAVE HER THE FCK ALONE!
- I show my affection strategically and only if she has passed a set of criteria. I don't do mumu love. My name is not Mumuni.
- Calling her? Most girls complain about this about me. I am too bad at contacting. Many NL girls will testify to this.
- Trust me, if she is not giving it up to you and she is not a virgin, she is giving it up to someone else. Enjoy your life and fck fairytales.
- Never believe a word of what she says about her chastity, values or ethics. Believe what you see her do. Woman can lie to even the lie itself.
- I am proficient at saying "No". You can moan all you like.
- Let her know she is replaceable. As a man, you have the longer shelf life and the power. Use it!

This is another word of wisdom:

"chicks know how to disrespect a guy who plays with them too much".

I am afraid I suffer that sometimes because I am a naturally and perpetually jovial person. But when it happens, I fcking snap and put them in their place quick quick. They feel like if a Trailer travelling at 80 mph just hit them because "so this jovial friendly guy with a soft face can be so confrontational".

They don't have the benefit of seeing the Sagamite mix on NL (Jovial and Harsh sides of the coin) before it happens. Because I am playing and joking with you does no mean I can't tell you to fck off the next minute with complete aplomb.

i been dey vex for you small small, but this is a classic peice i must admit few women like me like the Real man, dont be suprise the lady is only marrying him because she could push him around and he his her last hope

Sagamite: I read half way and thought "this is just brilliant".

It really says everything I have already said on NL many times.

I loved this part:



Some guys think women have contrition when they break their word? As I always say "fck her concept of romance". The same girl that said "A" today, might do "B" tomorrow if it is in her best interest. They think about me, me, me, me, me.

Thank God I am a control guy according to his segmentation because:

- I like to control everything.
- I don't chase a babe who does not show interest in me or allow me me to take control. I waka pass .........maybe after a few shaggs sha if that is attainable.
- I don't spend money on women until I know them or I am sure it would go somewhere.
- If she has someone else she is keen on or appears to want someone else, I LEAVE HER THE FCK ALONE!
- I show my affection strategically and only if she has passed a set of criteria. I don't do mumu love. My name is not Mumuni.
- Calling her? Most girls complain about this about me. I am too bad at contacting. Many NL girls will testify to this.
- Trust me, if she is not giving it up to you and she is not a virgin, she is giving it up to someone else. Enjoy your life and fck fairytales.
- Never believe a word of what she says about her chastity, values or ethics. Believe what you see her do. Woman can lie to even the lie itself.
- I am proficient at saying "No". You can moan all you like.
- Let her know she is replaceable. As a man, you have the longer shelf life and the power. Use it!

This is another word of wisdom:

"chicks know how to disrespect a guy who plays with them too much".

I am afraid I suffer that sometimes because I am a naturally and perpetually jovial person. But when it happens, I fcking snap and put them in their place quick quick. They feel like if a Trailer travelling at 80 mph just hit them because "so this jovial friendly guy with a soft face can be so confrontational".

They don't have the benefit of seeing the Sagamite mix on NL (Jovial and Harsh sides of the coin) before it happens. Because I am playing and joking with you does no mean I can't tell you to fck off the next minute with complete aplomb.

i been dey vex for you but this is a classic peice