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Ada Nri1: Helpful. A lot of nairalanders are here because they r depressed. I'm not included btw

binger: Wow girl! You maintain such equanimity when cheated on? Incredible! I guess your partner also does same when u cheat on him?

binger: @sexybash...seriously? Did u read what you just wrote? Perhaps u don give a damn if ur partner cheats on u,but a whole lot of girls do and they react in ire,which is totally normal and unquestionable.

misterme: Bro my candid advice is call off the marriage. I am telling u this from experience. People like ur lady are inherently bitter and very touchy. They are easily offended and have a knack for holding unto grudges for long. They don't forgive easily. And they take pride in this nature of theirs. For such people the cause the offense does not matter- it can be as trivial as forgetting (only once in 3 months) to call and inform her you'll be late from work or buying a N4,000 phone for ur little niece without prior information. Bro if u marry this lady be prepared to double the duration of the begging. Be prepared to spend so much of ur productive time, energy, emotions and focus on placating her so much so that u are most likely to turn out a failure in life or at least ur attainment in life will be far below ur capacity and capability. And u know what? She will be the first to blame u for the failures. U want be miserable all ur life go ahead and marry her. Mehn the emotional torture alone. Please note this, if she could go this far before marriage, be rest assured that u will have times five of this after marriage. After u have spent 5 years trying to make her happy, u will discover u are not succeeding. U will discover that the more you give the more she demands without offering much. U will discover at some point that u are so emotionally drained that u have nothing more to give (especially since you not getting much). What do u do then? Mostly likely u fight back. It may then be too late. U manage the situation for the rest of ur life especially if u are a born again like me or it ends in violence or divorce or both.

doxime: @op
first of all are you a man or a woman?

Sagamite: Don't mind the guy, he is being a real man.

I can guarantee you one thing, most likely the girl does not love him, she just loves the way he loves her. She enjoys seeing what power she has over him which she cannot get with another guy and she has reached an obsessive disorder level exercising that power.

I am almost 100% sure that when she meets an total man that shows her interests and tells her what to do, she would split for the guy and cheat on this wuss.

And even if the Wuss finds out, I can guarantee you one of two things that would happen:
Saggy baba on the contrary so many marriage issues you see today started in relationship, if i am dating a guy who currently cheats on me i should be 100% sure that it will continue sometimes in marriage, but mosttimes we tend to turn a blind eye to these issue simply because we wanna get hooked the op is desperate to settledown IMO

- She will shout on him and deny it.

- She will turn it on him and point to one lame thing and say it was his fault more partly his fault.

There would be no apologising or begging on her part. He would sit there and say he is "working it out" and he would change what she complained about, not knowing everything was written on the wall based on the established dynamics of their relationship.

Virtually all women are not capable of rationality, fairness and objectivity except their is some punishment in line if they don't do it. Simples!

That is how they are naturally built. You can't change it, it is not your fault they are like that, don't be the one to suffer for them being like that. Do what it takes to get things to your advantage.

You are not entitled to call yourself a matured man until you are aware that: A woman must always know you are willing and able to tell to fck off at any stage in the relationship if she does no follow your primary rules and edict.



You must be high on weed!

Who told you she can't have competitors because you married her? Marriage is a licence for her safety? I laugh in Egba even though I am Ijebu.

I would tell her to fck off one month after marriage.

2sexy: Baba saggy the sagalicious sagamite from sagamu....e ha! Tell them. i WOULD kick that ediot out of my life in minutes. Not until you know your worth as man, you will keep slaving yourself to some good for nothing wretch.

Who the FVCK is she? Any better than the thousands of ladies out there or is she more human than they? Op, let her know that she has rivals, not until make her know that you have got a choice to select from the array of women even beautiful than her. Create a competition outmosphere for her and let her sense(most ladies dont like this).

Too much of everything is bad. I never see wetin go make me beg woman like this oooo. I swear... when them plenty for this world pass my brothers?

Mindependent: Ahahaha never poss this is a completely different topic luv

navygrl: There is an expression in med school, those who believe in the rhythm method of birth control (counting fertile days based on a woman's menstrual cycle) are more often then not called parents. The reason for this, that method has long since been proven false.

Yes she can be pregnant. It can take some women up to 2 months along before their hormone Levels to be high enough for a pregnancy test to be positive

And yes there is a condition known as phantom pregnancy where the body reacts as if it were pregnant. Hormones change, womb expands, some women even experience labor dispute there never being a fetus.

Idowuogbo: Hahahaha! Diary of a frustrated niggah! Buy ur copy!!!!!

Idowuogbo: Lmao! Na medicated powder. Yeye man! *sprays him wiv baby perfume*

Flytefalls: A DIY test is useless at this stage even if she were pregnant. Vaginal fluid can be an indicator of fertility (google for info). Otherwise the anxiety can itself be creating symptoms. Goodluck.

chelseabmw: No one should ever date any NL girl, They are all bunch of useless lairs i will prefer to date a girl in my area,community or vicinity ....... that is what i title Face 2 face dating...... @ poster....aint referring to u or ur man....i wish u guys luck

stpat1: sexybash, na wah o . so na only idowu you go inform, you no go inform we too as per committee of friends? whether you invite us or not, we go come chop jollof rice and ponmo that day.

Vikin: Me too!

Lets know if she is?

I know a good hospital for antenatal. But i doubt she is even if she wants it!

Oahray: Amebor dnt scare away the gist o

Vikin: She wish! I said it, te guy na badt guy...him use rubber band tie the cd

Idowuogbo: olofofo! kai!

2sexy: The evidence is that simile

kitty kat: We said it! And it has happened... Thre are high chances that it could b imaginary especially if she is hoping to take in. If her period is 31st of Jan that is abt 15dys from today, how can she be preggers? What's the lenght of her cycle?

Idowuogbo: no problemo... *searching for cheap tickets to Austria*

dem go take! i'll make sure my gele is covered in Swarovski crystals dat day.... so wen d cameraman zooms in , it can sha na si won loju.I mustu to stand-out is d logo.. watch out!

Vikin:

Am here! Ay gist for us?

mynameisjade: Lols@baby dust.....
Chances are dat she is a bit late
**sprinkles thread wif baby dust**

Idowuogbo: halleyuah oooo! oga don score o!

emmm.. jokes aside, i'll reckon its her imaginary glands playing up. tell her to take anoda test next month. * sprinkles baby dust*

Idowuogbo: Awwww....u making me feel special. *whispers* pounding don start? If yes, make sure u read d book of Psalms b4 pounding. *sprinkles baby dust on her*

Idowuogbo: Amen! she bi na u go carry am?