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stpat1: Of course I never said I didn't want to fall in love, I just want kids with or without marriage. PREFERABLY without marriage sha. but all the same I WANT MY KID(S) THIS YEAR

Idowuogbo: i trust spat1, he don samar dat ting like persin wey dey carve wood.

Mindependent: Hahahahaha how so?

Mindependent: Was that supposed to be a reply that helps me?!?! And I can never fall into the old age/desperation category I have guys at my beck n call

kitty kat: What of when u give unconditionally and the object of ur love doesn't return it?

Melmo: Yeah I. Gonna ask him to take them down.

Truckpusher: I wouldn't be surprised if you hug him because I'm dead sure that folks like you would always interfere in your brother's marriage ....my question is can't peeps just let couples be on their own ?..and if they want to sink let them sink after all both of them will live with their mistakes.

donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.

Chrisbenogor: Yo,

Personally I think marriage should be a strategic partnership, based on mutual trust, a solid foundation , two characters that compliment each other and love if you can afford it.
In today's world it is financially suicidal not to consider the economics of that partnership, study it's potential like any business venture before delving into it. Today's society is a lot more complex than I marry the next girl with big nyanch and booobi or ohhhhhhh he iS so cute tall , dark and handsome. The most important part of any structure is its foundations , ain't nothing wrong with marrying for comfort.

debrief08: Sadly even men these days marry for comfort.
Come and see them everywhere in Abuja, claiming to be "business men and contractors" yet them no get kobo.

They will target bankers and working ladies, daughters of Governors and Ministers, You meet them after 2 or 3 dates they start asking for loans.

Let everyone be careful, everybody be productive and respect themselves.
So many gold diggers men and women around. A younger friend married one like that he will steal her jewelry and sell, even sold their wedding ring. Twice she got him a job, The first he said was beneath him, the second he said didn't fit into his dreams.
He would disappear for months and reappear again. Once the rent was due she refused to pay he left for months when he came back she had moved, he called her she met him at the Police Station with his friends place with his load and divorce papers, she believed in him, believed they could build a life together but stealing is another thing.
He loved driving her car picking up ladies, bringing them home, they will eat and leave he plates and pots for her to come and wash.

I believe in growing and building together but make sure it is someone who has focus not an aimless contractor.
They are all over the place in Abuja.

My dear friend almost married one like that, everyday stories, its either the man he gave money for cement died or the foreman had an accident and their money got lost, poor lady was about to take a bank loan having spent her savings bailing him out of different stories when I called her.
The same man who is always in trouble and "Unlucky" with investments always has money to buy beer every evening.

Idowuogbo: Loolz... Ante-natal ke? Spat1 wia shakabula nau... Abi he no wear? * gathers d association of aprokos* time to pick color o!

HawtMummie: Hello Hebrew Women! I'm a Newbie here. Hmmmmm. Five years on, still ttc. I did d scan, Hormonal profile, HSG. All is normal and good except d HSG where it was discovered my left fallopian tube isn't patent. My doc says I can still conceive so he placed me on metformin and Parlodel. No result yet. Dh's analysis showed 70% dead cells so he's been on boosting drugs. My headache is that he still smokes and that makes me want to hack him down smetimes. Yet he promises to stop, I need your prayers ooooo. I avnt tried Clomid cos my doc didn't prescribe it . Shld I? Cos I feel if Dh's boosted well, it will happen. My ovulation is normal according to d tests.

utumunta: Good! The administration of Sen Bala Mohammed has made FCT resident to earnestly yearn for El rufai. Abuja is now a shadow of what it used to be.

2sexy: In that case, it either my guy stpat1 or Mr. C0ck.

2sexy: True talk... double confirmation I never doubted as soon as Vikin stepped in. The lady na undercover cop.

At the family section, she made one man run for his life. did guy was claiming holier than thou, calling another woman ashawo, and that he is happily married.

The man actually broke the ice by snooping around on the lady's profile t unearth some facts. Vikin stepped in to beat him at his own game, unearth what seem to be worse than what he called someone else.

The man who claimed to be happily married was at one time looking for a girlfriend on Nairaland even dropped his BB pin. see it here===> https://www.nairaland.com/1128639/mother-inlaw/5#13355711 You read the thread from page 0--10

Vikin, i no like wetin u do that man o . You com give our team mate red card like that.
na only STPAT 1 dey live for PHC they say good things come for those who wait,those who laff last laff the most until den fingers crossed

The guy run and never commented thereafter . But me no gree for the women there. It was a tug of war and an interesting the debate. I think that thread has been my most favourite because I met new friends. It was fun all the way, so much than I have ever experienced at the romance section

Vikin: What's the latest?
As STpak1 enter this thread, the thread just die naturally...sexybash, I hope he didn't threaten you. Keep speaking your mind am sure he listens.

Stpak1, come and finish what you have started jor, or you guys have taken it offline.

Lets know o!

kitty kat: Sexybash, have u missed ur period?

Idowuogbo: Vikin!!!!!! Lmfao!!! U don Jasi mehn... Spat1 don do d okoro ojoro.

stpat1: Vikin, I'll recommend you set up ur own version of Cheaters program in Nigeria or ur own Jerry springler or Jenny Jones show.

You can make some money off your hubby u know. Now gett off my back before I change my mind Vikin, I'll recommend you set up ur own version of Cheaters program in Nigeria or ur own Jerry springler or Jenny Jones show.

You can make some money off your hubby u know. Now gett off my back before I change my mind