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every one wants a perfect partner but no one wants to be perfect and thats why most relationship fail,
who go call first,
who go first say i love you first
who go beg first humbleness is never a sign of weakness but strenght
even in relationship where they claim to love themselves they still go around with pride, love shatter all procedures if love my man why wont i call him, why wont i beg him if i offend him, why wont kneel in front him in public, so if you want your relationship you should be willing to listen to your partner at all time, even when you are tired because that the only person that makes you happy
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warrior101: A recent example... Those days i used to be father christmas, buy drinks for crowd of friends and friends of friends and when they are going home they beg me for t. fair and i give happily. There was even a case where i gave somebody $50 because i didn't have cash... All those friends i am talking about today are richer than me today and we are not friends any more, they even try to let me know that they are better and wiser than me because when i was on i didn't invest... They will make you become the most sorrowful person filled with regret lol... Some people learn from others mistake while others like us learn by expiriences...

even down to your brothers/sisters sef, me i have learnt the hard way , i remeber one time where i told my family and freinds/ fiance that

things are not going well omo see bailing (obviously i ended the relationship)and this same set people that will come around you when

you have money as for me you will see building my empire right in your eyez i go tell you say i no get bar, Only God and your investment will

stand for you in hard times but people will not they may call you wicked, stingy ,its better i be stingy now than poor later thank you

my own strecth marks was due to excessive weight loss/gain at one time i was getting worried ,laser treatment is the best option if you have the money which cost you around 90k per session and you might need 3 or more sessions ,but for me i use doctor murad which costed me around (12K)per tube and i saw improvements even if as i dont use it religously

seunfly: See the word SEND ME CREDIT that is only when a man is lovely, good and special to all this selfish ladies. But when you do not allow them to use u to satisfy their selfish needs you are twisted.
To all the crying nigerian ladies I WILL REMAIN THE MAN U CALLED TWISTED, IF WHAT U MEAN BY LOVELY MAN IS SENDING U CREDIT LIKE MAD OR USING HIS HARD EARN MONEY TO SATISFY YOU RATHER THAN SAVING IT FOR THE FUTURE OF BOTH OF US AND OUR CHILDREN.

so i should not commend him abi? if reharge is worth the future of your children? by the grace of God recharge card is the least of my problem am only describing the frequency at which he send its and he does that at his disgression, the truth is Loving is Giving and Giving is Loving (QED)

J12: If there's a problem with my post, reveal it. Don't ask stupid questions

you check your post again and reveal it

Idowuogbo: Ejiro, how far?

my Babies god mother how you dey i miss you, 2 days abi you went for shopping in Austria

Mindependent: Divide by the circumference of yours ewoo oloshi

@ poster if you know you cant take insult dont start a thread, just because some one does not have the same view as you that means they are wrong , it only normal for people to call you names, in the end it up to you to take the advice you need and throw the rest out window
my 2 cowries

dayokanu: What happened on this thread again?

Ok Make I give una amala chop

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men am hungry i wan go eat

[quote author=fresh_dude]Chineke! No wonder the rest of us non-senders of credit have been generally called all sorts of names. Shior.[/quote]try learn from you master ( it is profitable to give than to recive) and he is a nairalander also

HARDDON: if he satisfies her materially, three tins are involved:

you've mentioned one

secondly, he's just trying to buy her into the plain of no logical return.

lastly, he meant just truly love ha.

huh? @ your last line

so what else will i want from a man he satisfies me materially, emotionally, financially and sexually wot more can i ask for?

HARDDON: and you are just lapping it all up i suppose? and not reciprocating.

you nid not contest dis,from you flow,i can infer, itz just the way iriz.

ever asked yourself whatz gono be when the recharge stops flowing?

yea i know, you give wen you are in love, that is not what really matters.
what counts is your ability to somewhat show dem you kare too. and not just be on the recieving end.

you aint a buyable commodity are you?

every woman is buyable it depends on the cash involve (quote me anywhere)
i want you to know dat i love this person beyond recharge cards if you may know call this person at least 40 minutes perday eti-airtel on i went to spend holiday with this person flying to and fro at my own cost, tell me how many naija girls do that ,the recharge card is just buy the side most times i collect it just for the fun, when you guyz generalize women i laugh so hard cos am so sure i came from another planet? i love this person because we reason at the same speed, the understanding is perfect

too bad he is coming somedays before val anyway hope to make it worthwhile

tuniski: This is unfortunate. I am just over this bigotry and fraud of religion myself. 12 yrs of loving and standing strong training d xtain lady thru university and her siblings only for her and family to come up with this nonsense of me being a moslem as if i wasnt a moslem all along. Well i have moved on, she waited to pick up a job with a bank to show this callousness of religious fraud. She has since lost the job and i always remember to pray for her as she is now in her thirties still single and now attending vigils and all manners of church activities. Love conquers all religion in this sense is a fraud!!!!!!

you sure sayu no be you use your mallam jazz hold her? take heart sha

seedord247: I hate seeing this religious sh1t everyday . .. I thank God for my family. I can even date a Ogun worshipper.

you got me laughing sha

Jewelilly: This Ȋs indeed a Gø̲̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ news. Ȋ̝̊̅̄ wish Ene Aп̥̥​ƌ̲̣̣̣̥​ Chuks happyy married life. G̶̲̥̅̊O̶̲̥̅̊D̶̲̥̅̊ will continue τ̲̅ȍ bless them n bless their marriage.

do you think that kind girl go settle for that guy

una dey complain wey my guy wey be nairalander dey send me card like say no tommorow which kind set of men naija dey breed, for common recharge card un go complian? i fear una

all4naija: Girls are naturally receptive than men. They tend to be jealous and make it a task for men to focus on them and their needs. Well, I think it depends on the guys ability to respond. Women are very elusive in many areas though. I still love many of them.

i agree with you 100% see i love my guy 100% just imagine if i add Jealousy to it (that means i go kill person ) so i just choose to ignore the rival and see that she never existed afterall am not dating the rival am dating the guy, i might sound harsho but am just speaking my mind

kitty kat: No wonder u opened that jealousy thread. Dis isn't right. Intgrity matters a lot.

kitty my e-freind does it mean that when a guy has another girl he does not have intergrity? cheating is the least of my issues like some one said you can never force a monkey to choose cherries over banana its good when men compare then they apprecaite or are you scared he might choose the other over you hell no , if my husband feels cheating on me will make me come back to my senses den i think he should HIT the freeway

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tushy101: Thanks peeps for yah advise, you know i never ever believed i would be in such shoes and still be contemplating what to do. The normal me would have left her but unfortunately she has made me fall for her so its not as easy as you guys say it, now i know love could make you do stupid things. I will try to get my mind right no matter how hard it is because that is the right thing for me to do. Since she wants to play games, i am up for it, 2 can play the game. I have come to a conclusion that there are no more good girls in this country, one should just get a baby mama and enjoy his life. Thanks for the advise and the yabs all join wink

stop it there are good girls just be a good guy to the next gurl you meet and some day a good girl will come your way
come to think of it you were only worried about the chaeating part abi if you love your self start using a condom while sexing her because AIDS no know love oh

AJJ: All you said i concur except this! If a man satisfies you materially; its not necessarily love, he is doing it because he has the money!
@Topic; Both sexes are twisted but Men are super-twisted. Faustrating set of Homo Sapien!

remember there is no loving without giving?

kimberluge: Yes..ur nt önly twisted bt confusd,greedy,selfish n most of al wicked.

i use to have the same notion until i met some special, he treats me like no any other man has ever done,

he sends me credit like mad ,i now know and belive there is love until den keep searching and never give up hope it might not come through the right route but like the calmness of the seas in the ocean you will find true inner peace your soul always quested for.

Orikinla: PERSONALLY I HAVE NEVER BOTHERED ABOUT THE PRIVATE CONVERSATIONS OF ALL MY GIRLFRIENDS.
THE LAST TIME, IN FACT IT WAS ONE GIRLFRIEND THAT REPORTED A GUY TO ME WHEN I WAS NOT EVEN BOTHERED.
I DON'T HAVE THE TIME.
I ALWAYS TELL THEM "PLAY SAFE".

DON'T IDOLIZE ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE.
DON'T IDOLIZE ANY LOVER, SPOUSE OR BOSS.

I JUST DISCOVERED THAT THE NUMBER OF A GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN DELETED FROM MY PHONE AND A RIVAL MUST HAVE DONE IT. BUT I DON'T BOTHER ABOUT SUCH DISTRACTIONS.
UNTIL YOU MARRY, EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS TEMPORARY.

guy you too much ;
D mosttimes what we bother about are what really dont matter, my guy currently has a girl but you no what? he is too loving and caring for me to bother about any other girl as long as he is not married to her, i love him too death, but i still use my head some girls even get angry when a guy dosent call? SMHFT i be woman but i dey fear women

can you blame dem? when dere ogas is busy stealing their own pension

The truth about love is that it comes and it goes, a great fascination with the times untold ,it makes you wake up at 3am ,it makes you happy even when you are sad, but note its no all about loving the right person but loving the wrong person rightly

Nnekacherry: With his present behaviour towards you, i sugest you start ignoring him, stop calling or visiting him. Even if he calls, don't pick..
If he still loves you, he will become worried and come back.. If he doesn't, just forget him and move on as if he doesn't exist..


Never give a guy the opportunity to play with your emotions..
Retain your dignity

Gbam i tip my hat for you

Samegirl: Pls I need ur advice, After some bad experience durin my childhood which change me totally, and gave me bad impression abt men I decided 2 give datin a chance, so I met dis man, he is so luvly, he is d only person dat has respected me as a lady, and dis made me hv feelings 4 him, I love him so much. Things was going fine btw us, but suddenly everytin changed, he doesn't pick my call or eve reply my call, we I confronted him, he gave me so reasons dat are nt genue, and I even found a used condom in his room, but he told me it was use by his frnd, I don't knw who to believe, I so much luv dis man, dat I can stay 4 a year without hvin anytin to do wit any man, I don't fancy any man except him. With his previous attitude, I believe he is seeing some1 else, What should I do nw? Pls help me out wit ur advise.

why do we like to ignore the obvious , is either you are willing to stay in the relationship since you love him and try to work things out or opt out

dec2: Bearing in mind that marriage is a "for better for worse.... till death do us part" mutual agreement, would you go ahead with a partner who although loves you but is a perpetual liar?

i can never go into a relationship with a perpetual liar talk more of marriage sef IMO

some times i wonder why pple worry over marraige issue,

i want to get married but i have learnt never to carry it around like its an issue, infact i dont even like to talk about it,

you meet a girl/Guy they do not even known you the next thing they are talking about is marraige, because they see that you are

financially okay and that why majority of the men you see today are lairs not because they want to but if you dont you wont get the girl. my advise to ladies is to be open to life if marraige comes yes,if it does not come so be it. what about revered sister nko, that why nigerian girls go spreading their LEGS for any guy in the name of marriage, i have never and will never be caught up in this euphoria of marraige when the time is not right, i am currently in the most happiest relationship of my life and dont want to be bothered with this marraige crazy ( i MISS YOU JAREY)
i will rather open my Legs to enjoy sex willingly than been lured to bed because of marriage saga