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ihedioramma: I AM EXMPLE FOR YOU. IF YOU READ BIBLE AND UNBERSTAND IT AND OBEY THE LAWS, WHAT IS SEX ? U NEED HELP BROTHER , STOP UR SIN TODAY AND U WILL BE HAPPY. IF U CANT HOLD UR SELF GET ONE WIFE ONLY AND THAT IS FOREVER.SO BECAREFUL DONT DIE IN SIN .

must you use capital letter? it will only sound as if you are shouting at the OP and not the other way round

@op the twon men are not crazy about you but you are crazy about the two men?

lord i thank you for killing that jealousy spirit in me i can and will never be jealous i know how to express my anger and the only way is to love your partner unconditionally

(1) na for naija a girls phone cost more than her house rent
(2) Na for naija girls go Get 5 boyfreind and she say she is no prostitute
(3) na for naiaja na guy guy dey talk about millons beg babe for transport to go work
(4) Na for naija na guy dey vex say im buy phone for Girl wey leave am for another man

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(1) na for naija a girls phone cost more than her house rent
(2) Na for naija girls go Get 5 boyfreind and she say she is no prostitute
(3) na for naiaja na guy guy dey talk about millons beg babe for transport to go work
(4) Na for naija na guy dey vex say im buy phone for Girl wey leave am for another man

fholarsmile: My boyfriend of almost 2yrs pinged me yesterday
That he is doesn't feel the peace to go on with the relationship
I don't even know wot to do..can I survive this?*crying*

the problem with most girls is that they make thier boyfreind feel they cant live without him? he said he wants out, then let him out if you go crying and begging that will not bring him back, you have your life to live relationship should be based on mutual trust , if you want the truth from me i will te you to LET HIM BE and he will come begging like a child

@poster you most likely begged her to marry her abi?
now you are begging for sex? the truth is before you married her you saw all these attitude which you choose to ignore,am not advising you bad oh. But i know for sure that variety is the spice of Life QED

must you type in a hurry abi you borrow the fone

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]he is my true love and good things come to those that wait[/quote]really you hot oh,do you belive he still coming back, why dont you move on? i belive you could look on the bright side of live or what do you think?

Idowuogbo: Awwwww... How cute!

yes oh the bobo shark my brain , i just to belive the guy, cant wait to se him in the next vist, i love the guy tori torun

godfadda6: I met my fiancee online, I flew to florida to meet her, we have been going strong for close to 2years now, and we are getting married in april of this year...............there is still love online. first be open, LDR's are more complex that regular dating. More demanding and all that!

n.b: before bad mouths start opening their mouths, she is not 65years old, i'm 4 years older than she is, and i'm not marrying her for paper, i have my own paper.....................

Gbamm you are on point
i in love with some one i met on nairaland, i love him and know he also does, we have issues just like regular relationship does,and am prepared to make it works even though there are issues, i have never felt so confident in relationship like this,he just make me happy anytime we talk even though we afar

does been fat refers to a woman character, anyway prefrence matters sha

chiboy11: {this is 4rm NAiraland men associations speaking.lols}

1) ALWAYS GIVE HIM SPACE.
If he doesnt call you for 2weeks that shouldnt stop you from not calling him - its a Man's world so anything he does should be swallowed hook line and sinker, after all if he doesnt marry you - na una papa house una go die put angry so manage and call him every blessed day even if he doesnt call undecided.

2) BE LOYAL.
Girls always be loyal to your man, if he beats you - wash his clothes, if he slaps you, cook for him, if he forgets your birthday - buy him a gift on his birthday - thats loyalty - during the time of your mothers they were loyal so why cant you 21st century women be angry

3) BE PATIENT.
nice quote i belive in my boyfreind
If you dont learn to be patient then you have No business being in a relationship with any man, because once we notice you aint the patient type we take to our heels, by the time 11 men run away from you in quick succession no one would tell you how to adjust

4) DONT ASK FOR THINGS YOUR FATHER CANT AFFORD.
This is the most serious of all, girls dont ask for things your father cant afford - all those ice cream, mr biggs, shawama, recharge cards, Brazilian hair, daddy yaki, perfumes, even TEDDY BEAR should never be demanded from a man, you have a father - even if hes village based, carry your list there - angry the moment you start demanding be rest assured that we are gassing out from that relationship

5) DONT NAG.
Girls the minute you start nagging we would leave you no matter what, all those complaints . . errm errm whos this girl you're using as DP, you dont use my pics as your DP but you use other girls are all nagging once you start complaining and nagging, carry your wahala to your father's house angry

6) STALK HIM.
Never you stalk a man, but we men because its a man's world we can stalk you, submit your passwords, atm pins, every other code out there but never you ask for our passwords else we would leave you undecided we can choose to even add you on facebook if we decide to so stop stalking us

7) As far as he doesnt cheat to your face, or take her calls in your presence dont complain, manage it because your NEXT might be worse

Be proud of him even if hes a Jobless 2 timing broke Bottom because hes the only one that could end up marrying you - you only attract what you get.

9) BE FAITHFUL.
Durex Rubber labelled girls as the most unfaithful in the Nigeria and its so evident around us, girls if you know you cant be faithful to that man in your life then you have no business been in a relationship, you take pictures chilling in the bathroom of different hotels, you take pics with different seat belts in different cars (ARE YOU A CAR DEALER) and you claim you want a man whos faithful - Your case dey court#angry#

10) PRAY FOR HIM.
Not necessarily applicable to Nigerian girls cos most of them this past december period are praying for a mugu that would fall into a trap for their brazilian and daddy yaki weave's and as such do not have all that time to pray for their men. Nigerian girls please have these relationship advice at the back of your heart so you can save your relationships

nice quote let the ladies stop forming jobless feminist about

Hi All

Please no Bashing and Insult


i want to ask the deeper life members in the house do they still wacth tv in their various houses? what happened to the ideology of NO TV,

am just asking cos i want to be educated Thanks.

if only muhhamad is alive till date, he will have edited so many thing he told his people , thank god that kumuyi is still alive to Open a Tv stattion and drive hummer jeep and marry second wife if only he died before now so many people will have still sheeply belived that wacthing Tv and using handset is a seen IMO

cos he is not ready yet, and i get jitters may be some day or one day he will be ready,until den fingers crossed

2sexy: I really feel sorry for you o. I dont want to say more but I know why you have decided to take this path.

Why would a man cheat if he knew that his why will not be appealing to his taste before marrying her? Where is the love, vow and oath that were sworn at church or court, as the case may be?

so why do they cheat on halle berry if beuty is everything? if a man has decided to cheat you, me, pastor, imam no body can stop it, i will only pray for God to give me a Faithful,caring, and loving husband that all i can ask for

2sexy: I think you are saying this because you feel that you have no choice. LET HIM CHEAT AND CARRY AIDS COME GIVE YOU FOR HOUSE... Did you ever thought about that?

You may want to defend it but just a few months ago, roughly 6 months ago, someone here said a woman married her uncle because of he had money. The man would beat her and cheat with other women outside but she refused to leave. Unfortunately, the man carry AIDS come give her for house.

Only someone lacking self esteem will tolerate such.

i might agree with you but not 100% as been a man your own veiw might be diffrent infact most pple see it as high headedness , that you belive that you are too much thats why you choose not to say anything ofr me i had decided that been jelous can lead you to where you never wanted to be, see that mistress that killed 4 kids is just because of jelousy and i reapeat it only low self esteem that will make you walk away from your marriage cos the man cheated

2sexy: I disagree. With good discretion, you are safe to a certain degree. It is a matter of watching and observing him carefully. Watch his words and action closely... and reason with your head and not your heart.

i reapeat as long as a my husband is responsible and hardworking cheating is an attitude and can be worked upon, it took me a long road to get to this point i can and will never be jealous that just me and no Man break that

ihedioramma: LET SOME ONE GO WITH YOU TO THERE HD,OFFICE IF U HAS NOT OPEN IT THEY WILL PAY U SOME MONEY . TRY AND SE THE MANIGER DONT LET OTHERS NO WHY U ARE THERE.

you go school so?SMBFY



@op dont play smart are you sure you did not put the maggot inside? because if they can prove that you did something funny they will sue you also just be honest with your self

@ how will you handle the second wife issue cos you seem like a very jelous person IMO

kitty kat: As for me, a cheating man is a lost cause. The day u stat cheating, is the day I leave u. I don't share and I hv long learnt that fighting doesn't work. As the saying says, there are many fishes in the water. As long as I look at myself and its not my fault, I move on. I won't even question why u cheated. I don't have spare emotions to waste on a dishonest person.

and who told you the enext man wont cheat? and then you leave and cheat again you leave and cheat again you leave haba why dont you try to work things out?

kitty kat: Sexy as much as I appreciate the humour and frankness in most of ur posts, I hv to tell u that this one is confusing. U hv a good message but too many poor arguements and points. Some point almost make the cheated party a second class citizen. You can advocate emotional control in cases of cheating but not tell the wronged party that its wrong to feel bad.

Honestly I do not understand the gospel that u r preaching here.

my girl my argument is that we should try and control our emotions i feel when your partner understand that when he cheat it does not get to you over time he will stop then you will help him stop and get your man back without the physical fighting

victorian: Her bf has jazzed her or she simply does not give a fck, if he cheats, what cud matter to her is the koko, money I guess .. But trust me , if u place a blind eye to yur bobo cheats.. Someday , u could come home to an empty house. And a freezed bank acct....then come and tell us, if one will behave like a bitten dog...smhh

remember that you are getting married to a muslim guy sha and na four wives he is entitled to so i wonder may be you will kill your self IMO

[quote author=Julieccentric]lol..that's the way some babes pout their mouth when they want to snap a pix. I wonder who they are imitating, whether na Nicki Minaj or duck![/quote
they are immitating pig

Black Peni5: Lol...Its not about me o. However a trained heart cannot experience its full emotional potentials. Kinda like a robot.

no i dont agree with you , but with a bad nairaland handle of your i dont expect anything much

[quote author=Ms_Steph]Hair nd make is so bad[/quote]this lady go like mouth action very well she look like a lady in the tramp bad make up

Black Peni5: Good point...But the heart is not a very sensible organ, only the brain is...

then train your heart

True2myself24: Umm wtf? How is a woman supposed to react then when she catches her man cheating

Kill jealousy before it kills you

Black Peni5: Moving on is not as easy as some people make it sound o...Some pretend to have moved on, others live in conscious denial.

some body don marry and you still dey doubt, if you read on of my thread i have said it i can never and would never be jelous about any one i weather past of present boy freind have come to realized that the things we worry ourselve are trivail things, to live in denial is denial it self

Eneze1: let them shine their eyes, some girls are just too desperate, how can you subject urself to this kind of treatment, SMH

dont mind them i even knew a girl that has done Abortion like 6 times though she was lucky that the guy married her sha

Monzuur: He won’t use condoms; you use the pills… why? cos he wants it natural (ovarian cancer n infertility in view )
He gets you pregnant; you have aborted like 5times….why? cos he is not ready
Becos he is tired of the natural place for copulation, he moves to your ass, cos its tighter then you begin to lick n smell ….why? cos you want to please and not loose him (SMH)
You av been wearing his engagement rings 4 close to 4yrs, he is not wearing any …why? cos he has promised u marriage (May God help u)
He wants a BJ, but he won’t do same to you…..why? cos he feels you are not so clean “there”
You dress half naked thinking you look sexy, he isn’t complaining, but he has more cloths on…..don’t be surprised when he takes a more decent gal home.
BE WISE……

Am a woman oh, girls like to lie to themselves, why would you even allow a man to sleep with you without condoms, with all the Millons federal goverment is spending on sensitization