Honestly, time will tell, I've been married for more than a decade and yet to have a child, I tried everything humanly but all to no avail, I still trust God, he'll answer me one day.
See it has not been easy, aside seeing my mates and people around me have children and I don't have, it's really getting to me that, I don't have anyone to talk to or send an errand, if I don't get it my husband will and at times I'll have to go far.
What I'm saying is, not only pressure from people will make you feel you don't have but, the boredom and not having yours to send on an errand at due time, because people will make you feel you don't have a child. Not trying to convince you, it's your choice, it is well with any decisions you choos.

Klass99:
When I first felt the desire to be child free and not have children I was in my 20s. Several people told me the feeling would change or I would change my mind as time goes by.

As the years went by my desire didn't wane neither did my mind change. The desire only grew stronger and my mind more convinced that motherhood is not for me.

I have no regrets so far and right now I honestly can't see myself regretting the choice. Home ownership and companionship with a good man, matter to me more than biological children do.

quote author=binowo13 post=123769764]Hi guys, I need advise or comments from those who have collected their International Passport from NIS Abeokuta.

I did my capturing since first week of April 2023 and since then each time I track it, it shows that it's still in PRODUCTION.

Please does it take this long? One of my colleague who did hers in Sagamu same month I did mine, collected hers 3weeks after registration, I did mine in Abeokuta and it's taking this long, could it be technical issues.

Please I need advise..[/quote]

Yes it takes long, depends on the passport office, it takes 5-6 months now in Lagos. Sagamu own was fast because it's a newly passport officer, now crowd yet, you can only pay for fast tracking if you end it that badly.

What you guys fail to understand in the picture is the relationship between them, he must have prostrated when he came in, but they're playing like a father and son does. It doesn't mean he didn't respect the oba or regard him as the king.

allen113:
That second picture show say Royalty pass Royalty. No cap





MUMU you want me to notice you, I've done that oya rest don't mention me again. I'm not the cause of your frustration in life.





I dn notice you, hope your body dn sweet you? Oya rest

tete7000:
My niece's father arranged for her to be taught how to drive. After having taken some lessons, the person teaching her thought she has learnt enough and allowed her take the driver's seat and drive herself. She was actually not doing badly until when a trailer came behind her and blew its horn loud, my niece jumped out of the car and till today she didn't return to drive again.

So funny

Person mama with all the derogatory words, pls fear God

quote author=Delightsome2023 post=123027175]this woman is an ugly frustrated old foolish bastard[/quote]

The writer should pls try this, I heard a testimony of a nurse that has cough and has tried so many things, it was her own urine that cured it, she didn't even used it up to three times.



quote author=Originality007 post=122616326]trout my childhood time, dandruff is always on my head, till i got secondary school ss2, it become so embarrassing that i cant barb in Baber shop, because everywhere will full of white dust each time i finished barbing. then one day my mum brought a book is all about this local medicine book. it explain the medicinal usefulness of all this plants around us. then i was reading the book, then i saw a place where writer mention how urine can cure dandruff. if u can do it.


shave ur baby hair very, like clean barbing, with no hair, then his first urine in the morning, let him use it to rub his head very, leave it for like 20mins, b4 bathing. try it like 4 days that will b end of the dandruff.

this is not juju. just try it if u can[/quote]

God bless you, exactly what I said on IG on tundeednut page, with what you go through before getting Nigeria passport, both home and abroad you won't dare do that. Just that some fools that has never crossed Nigeria might be so stupid to do the same, without their passport being expire


quote author=gaby post=121923156]Passports wey don expire?...

Mtcheeew[/quote]

Are you sure Igbo is not on the ballot paper, what about the Attah that won at Banky w's constituency?

quote author=Karlman post=121912584]
You people are actually the wailing lots here...you are the ones crying that Igbos wants to take over Lagos when no Igbo man or woman is on the ballot papers...if that is not madness I wonder what is.[/quote]

Exactly, some people don't know that it is what they called themselves, they become, first and foremost, change your monijer from failure to something beautiful, trust in God and hope for the best.

quote author=SmileDance post=121752687]That your moniker sef won't let genuine people want to help, losing a job does not make anybody a failure. Which kine mentality be that[/quote]

God bless you for this, exactly my point, I don't care if obi wins presidential election because it was the cause of tinubu for contesting even with his health condition not given it to Osinbajo,and the cause of buhari for his naira redesign policies, fuel scarcity and all that .
My point is as a western you dare not do anyhow in the east, shouting another party's name, you won die ni, also you dare not dress anyhow or do any in any norther State.
How come west especially Lagos is different, why do they have to transfer their pooling unit to Lagos, I'm really pained over this, but I pray the will of God prevail in everything.

Yamiriflathead:

Although disappointing
Tinubu tried to hold Lagos with the figures he pulled so far. Lagos is the Capital of Southern Nigeria, so what were you expecting?
This was a fight between ibos+SS+woke yorubas against Tinubu supporters in Lagos who are mainly yorubas and maybe Hausas in Lagos.

I hope Tinubu and yorubas have learnt a bitter lesson from Lagos Elections not to befriend and feed a cub because it is homeless, hopeless, and dying. It will grow up and eat u up someday.

I'm happy yorubas can now sit down and ask qtns as to how they got everything wrong and redress it with BAT as President.

The take home from this defeat is..

Yorubas need to stop drafting non yorubas into the civil service and stop giving them prominent appointments. There are always technocrats who can always fit into any political office from the SW

Yorubas need to stop selling their lands to non yorubas in Lagos and SW

Yorubas need to stop giving out local government of origins to non yorubas in Lagos

Yorubas need to stop allowing non-yorubas contest for Elections in Lagos or SW

Yorubas need limit the numbers of voters registration of non yorubas going on in Lagos, they care so much about Lagos and don't care if their homes rot, Henceforth let them go home and vote. They can't come and dictate to you on how to govern urselves after creating an enabling environment for them to thrive.

Contain them politically, Period!

Congratulations to the incoming President of Nigeria BAT the ASIWAJU of Lagos for winning the most Free and fair Elections since our Nascent Democracy nothwitstanding

All what you guys are saying was years back and early this year, to get one now is very frustrating,with so many post that you can get it in 3-4weeks times are all lies.

quote author=pocohantas post=115012152]I got mine in a week.

Went to their office very well dressed. One officer saw me and said he has seen his wife. I said me kwa, I have seen my husband.

That was how he was carrying my file upandan.
“Capture my wife!”.

E ask for number, I give am.

Two days later I told him I want to take him for lunch. He said “haba, by 2pm? I would be working”. Of course I knew he would be working. I just wanted it to be on record that I offered. Though I knew his response before asking.

Immediately he called that my passport was out. I collected it and blocked him.

#CheersToChivalry. [/quote]

Tell her to stop the drugs and start reading a book or bible, she'll fall asleep quickly.

Benki003:
Okay I'll try and make it snappy

So am into this new relationship with this beautiful girl, everyman's dream, fun and nice to be with, but the only issues i have is that she abuses sleeping pills
So she told me that before she met me earlier this year, she's been taking the sleeping pills so as to fall asleep. but then after we started dating she stopped taking it and she's now finding it hard to fall asleep naturally without the aid of the drugs.
please guru's in the house how do we handle this situation, am willing to help her find help.



Ps: she's been taking the drug for close to a year and it has been having advert effect on her, also note that she's been to the hospital before and the doctor warned her to stop and she refused to stop then.

It's called palm kernel oil, the black oil like coconut oil, go to normal big market and ask there.

Papa85:
Please were can I get it ?

I believe is a mere threat, go to the site, he won't send you away and if he did, then take a walk

liver123:
I work in a building construction site as an engineer under this man as the main engineer. Last Saturday I went to work and on reaching site I sent him report of site. I stayed till afternoon and I was very hungry and coupled with the fact that there was no place to get something to eat at site, I decided to leave before closing time so that I can go home and eat since there is no serious work on site. He later came to site and called me and I told him that I am sorry I left because I was hungry. This morning I woke up to see his message that I should not come to the site again. I work like a labourer in that site for a salary of 50k without any other chance of getting money. See this life, the best thing is to invest in a business no matter how small and be your own boss. This I have tried for a one and half year of working with this man but how much can i save from 50k to start a business of my own leaving in this abuja that everything is expensive. This life no balance at all

Fashola was never in politics before he became the governor of Lagos state and he's my favourite among them, osibanjo too was never in politics before he became the vice president, so I see no reason why funke akindele can give it a trial as well

DrTee1:
This whole thing is becoming a charade. This is with all due respect to Ms Akindele's person.

However, a Deputy Governor candidate in one of the two major political parties, in fact the known opposition party in Lagos State - is as good as a Governor.

It isn't something that is done as an after-thought. Such role has to be filled by a person who has been in, about and around governance and who understands his/her role in delivering excellent service to the populace at the level and functionality of a State Governor.

As far as I know, BankyW fits that - if it comes to a popularity contest on the strength of fame in the entertainment industry as a leverage to tilt electoral victory in the PDP's favour - than Ms Akindele. Banky had been in the political 'trenches' for at least one cycle, and understands the dynamics of same. This 'emergency' politician in Jenifa reeks of unpreparedness in the PDP camp.

Running a small to medium-scale NGO in Lagos is a world apart from running the governance of Lagos State, the second largest economy in West Africa after Nigeria as a Country, from Alausa.

I guess you never try the egba own, from Abeokuta

Dorwadora:
Of course.... That's a cool alternative

But hope it's Iru Ekiti.... My state is prided for having the best Iru in the whole of SW .... I stand to be corrected tho

Mad oooo, you be mad maddo maddest guy walahi

quote author=chatinent post=110401655]I was coming back last week and some robbers robbed me and cleared my account on gunpoint...haven't you been noticing I have emaciated..but baby I didn't want to tell you so you wouldn't think I am dodging all these your bills even as I'll love to assist you but it's fine...God will help me. All I need is prayers.


Must we teach you everything?[/quote]

It is primary 3 book, Edet, Mr. Basset, wife but I can't remember the name of the girl, she is not Simbi. What a memory

quote author=Mercychen post=110252721]This is primary 3 Reader..it's not a novel.

Edet or Ali and simbi on Christmas day. Their father bought chicken to celebrate it.

Mehn...this takes me down memory lane and reminds me of my pry 3 teacher, Mr. Ibikunle. Very tall and grumpy old.
I remember, on one of our reading days, I just looked away for a sec and he threw a wooden duster at me and the thing hit me on the fore head. .

Modified:
Wait o. If like many claimed, this is actually Ali and simbi, how come their father is Igbo? Is Ali an igbo name? Or even simbi? That is not Mr Nwosu . I think it should be Mr Dada or something. .




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Not to block their lines alone, they shouldn't have know your location.
quote author=Localgrandpa post=109818154]Bros your phone no get blocking? Make you block anyone way dey stress you. U sef too send. Ignore them enough they'll find someone else to bug[/quote]

The best is to purchase a landed property for his younger brother, at a very secure place, it will appreciate but the time he'll need it.

deltateam:


Shares is outdated. They are worth peanuts. Their era is past.

Although I support you saying he shouldn't be in a hurry


I suggest putting his brother's portion in fixed deposit.

Amen amen amen, as I weep inside me right now, congratulations to you guys. God please answer my own prayer also.
quote author=Bola146 post=109422301] somebody shout halleluyah!!!!!!!! Congratulations sir.


Dear Lord, please remember all those weeping unto you for good children, let them conceive and put to bed this year 2022, I want to be reading celebration of twins and triplets Lord, thanks for granting their heart desires Amen. Congratulations in advance God answers prayers! We just need to be patience till it come to pass [/quote]

You didn't include hairdressing and selling of cosmetics products
quote author=otukpoyam post=109593842]Plenty. It depends on where you are located, and if there is a market for your business.

Barbing saloon,
Egg supply
POS
Okrika sales
Buy okada put for
Raw food sales
Open tailoring shop put people
Shoe making
Shoe sales
FMCG
Video game center
Football viewing center
Etc etc
[/quote]

It's because is still God that does it, even with your money and IVF, if God doesn't answer the prayer, it will still be a fruitless effort. I know of someone who has tried IVF multiple times, yet it didn't work out, my prayer is God should answer their prayers speedily.


quote author=Orissodiq post=109445464]I absolutely believe in miracle and that what God can not do doesn't exist (IVF) is a miracle on itself.
But how many of you have noticed that all these people claiming giving birth after long waiting are RICH & HAVE MORE THAN 1 KID?
So please we should stop headslaming d people that claim it's IVF. But why people always like to omitted the IVF part in their dedication? It's not bad even on a religions ground i believe so y are people seen it as a bad thing? [/quote]

I read it on Instagram, a man was videoing him while he was giving out the money, so he collect his number what that. He shared it on Instagram and people asked of his contact from him, according to him, his number was not going through at first. That was how people started collecting his account number when they contacted him.

Revolution2022:
I don't think the warders saw him.If they did he would have been arrested.Some people have been arrested at Ikeja high court for sharing gifts to inmates inside the prison van.

Meanwhile how did they donate the 300k and give to him?I still don't believe this story tho.

Bad guy na em u be
quote author=THeGamerBTL post=109373626]Congratulations Bro . The God wey do am for you make e avoid me pls [/quote]

It might not be heart problem that you have, I once add similar issue but I didn't fainted, I went to general hospital the first drug was as if it added to the pain. Then I went back that I barely talk, laugh even walk, but I was given another drug; Rabeloc 20 and gascol, didn't say you should go and buy it ooo, just telling u what I used and it went away. You need to go to general hospital so that u can meet with the specialist, then do all necessary test and scan, free your mind from worries, watch movie or comedy skits and pray and have faith. Thanks

Jackandrose:
Good day nairalanders

i've been living under the fear of having a heart problem for more than five years, but my people refused that i should go for scan probably because of fear that it might be true, and there won't be money to care/treat it..

Even me, i'm afraid to go for scan, because the moment it is comfirmed to me, i don't kno if i would be able to live with it..

i can't run nor do hard work, my pulse is always high and sometimes my breathing stop totally.. I've fainted multiple times, and i've been living under depression for so long..

Now, this symptoms is increasing on daily basis, but my people dosn't want me to go for scan.. Is like they already knows the result will turn out positive.

But what if i go for scan an the result shows that i have a heart probem, how will i be able to live with it, knowing fully very well that we don't have the money to cure it..

I don't kno what to do nairalanders, i need advice..

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Never not all ladies, I hate zeeworld with passion, Telemundo is what I like but I'm getting fed up is the movies the show this days and I'm not addicted to it. Op needs to talk to her concerning it and stop doing the stuff until she change and make sure he complains bitterly whenever he sees the house or kitchen dirty, she will adjust drastically and try to avoid him complaining Everytime.
quote author=Jidemoo post=108884810]My brother....you see that Zeeworld of a TV channel...wetin e don cause don many

I always collect remote control from my sisters whenever they switch to that channel...

Once a lady gets addicted to it...fiam,she will lose her composure[/quote]

Majority of the rich kids are spoilt brat, the rich hardly scold their children let alone beat them, right from day one. You need to see how they talk down on their teachers for scolding not beating, the parent owns the bulk of the blame.

Hathor5:


How do we know their parents didn't discipline, correct or even beat them?

You can as well make the landlord know that she's disturbing you with her noise, so you need to shout for her to know she's disturbing your sleep.

JackDaAlienz:
It started on Wednesday when I woke up around 3 am to make video call with my babe in Houston Texas after we had some argument on me cheating.
While I was waiting for her to pick up the call,I could hear my neighbor
kaboshing and speaking in tongues praying around that 3 am.
No issue, so I still call my babe again. She no pick.
I just lay back to bed, while my neighbor was still singing worship songs and praying fire fire.

I then woke up around 3:50 am my neighbor still kaboshing and i check my phone and saw my babe whatsap missed calls.
I call her she pick up first thing she cone dey para for me say which girl i dey sleep with we I no wan pick her calls. I wan talk she still dey yarn rubbish till the point u come vex. Out of anger I come shout
"What is wrong with you!!!
Why are you disturbing my life this early morning.
She replied that she know I'm with someone there. And I shout again
You be Witchhhh, You dey Monitor me
Thunder fire you there!!

I cut the call and didn't know my neighbor she heard me shouting and thought I was responding to her fire fire prayers.
Next thing I hear is this my neighbor singing in praises saying God has identified my enemies.
God has exposed them, holy ghost fire is tormenting him right now. Father expose all of them.
I feel like she is referring to me shouting at my girl thinking I was shouting because of her prayers.
Now my landlord on thursday evening told me that the woman is accusing me of being a ritualist that her prayers are affecting me at night. I explained everything to him but he still look at me one kind

My broda, how do I clear my name and save image from this kind of mess before she start spreading rumors around the street that I'm a Yahoo plus ritualist