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Zzor:
I so hate this parrot man,he talks tooooo much and forming redpill online

weezweezweez:
sometimes?

locana5675:
Nice

McSquishi:
Ok, I’m not reading all this nonsense. You say I don’t have a point then go on to argue against each one of them. Not agreeing with my points is not the same as accusing me of not having any.

My point can be found in my original comment: Nigeria in particular really has a problem as far as men feeling women are inferior beings. It’s all throughout the culture and is a cancer to society.

You can use semantics all you want and say since Nigeria is not officially TOP 10 of rapes worldwide (despite infamously low rates of reporting) it’s a safe place.... but no country where women are sexually assaulted 1 in 4 by the age of 18 is safe and it is an epidemic. Nigeria is ranked like number 3 most dangerous countries for women in Africa and 9th most dangerous countries for women worldwide.

All the other stuff you’re saying to obfuscate and distract from the reality of gender based violence I’m not interested in.

You are throwing poverty, terrorism, and finally blatant denial at my statements to keep from admitting Nigeria has a real men problem. Nigerians are not taking time to teach men how to be moral, accountable, and responsible citizens.

People like you will write up an entire research paper just to avoid admitting to the conditions women face.

I’ll live in your fantasy with you: Nigeria is very safe for women. Men and women live as near equals in every facet of Nigerian society, in fact women have more power than men in some cases. So much female privilege. Nigeria is actually the capital of gender progression and serves as a beacon for the world in terms of gender equality. Enjoy your delusions.

McSquishi:
You’re creating arguments I didn’t make in order to avoid the point. Typical.

You dismissed the reality of the epidemic of gender based violence and sexual assault women face in Nigeria to say “men are raped too”. That is a deflection. Men are not being raped in significant numbers to the point that nearly every NGO in the world is concerned. 1 in 4 Nigerian women are sexually assaulted before they turn 18. I’ll repeat that for you.

The reason women being raped is a topic is because Nigeria ranks amongst the world highest for rapes of WOMEN not males... and the topic we are commenting under is yet another example of such violence against women and yet you tried to limit it to “one man” as if this isn’t a trend in Nigeria. Are you following now or you want to deflect again.

As far as the fact that you can name a few women who have managed success despite gender oppression in Nigeria, that is pathetic. First of all, I’m sure the number of men you can name is endless whereas you can name only a handful of women. Secondly, a a minority of women being able to beat the system of oppression women face is not evidence the system doesn’t exist. Just like in a racist system the success of a few racial minorities isn’t evidence racism doesn’t exist.

As far as whose fault it is, it is everyone in society who coddles men and treats them as if they are superior to women. It’s everyone who thinks women saying they are equal to men is offensive. It’s everyone who upholds double standards that benefit males

spiceadole:
The comment of men on social media on issues like this, especially on this platform and in this thread has proved it

abduleez1:
Bros I no know how you like your joker but Joker's laugh is intended to annoy and yet instill fear on someone.

That scene is amongst my BEST 3 scenes in the entire movie. And I'm loving Leto's spin on it this time around. It's the laughter and mockery hidden within the tone that's why I love it. And the mannerisms was on point this time. Reminds me of Ledger.

Lexusgs430:
Hin sabi fire ó........

Doraty1:
https://twitter.com/yemialadee/status/1374268591240065024?s=19[/quote]Yemi Alade need not worry about serving and retired government employees for we know how they make/made their money.

naijaudates:
Nigerian-born American fighter, Kamaru Usman has disclosed the life of his unassuming start in Nigeria prior to transferring to the us searching out a better lifestyles.

He placed out his story all through an interview with Channels tv. Usman mentioned that he used to peddle fufu whilst residing in Edo country, Nigeria, when you consider that his mom became a hustler who ventured in numerous groups.
The martial arts champion became born in Auchi, Edo country and relocated to america when he turned into 8-yr-antique.
Tap this link to read the full article https://naijaupdates.org.ng/sports/i-used-to-hawk-fufu-on-streets-kamaru-usman-ufc-fighter-shares-his-throwback-story/

McSquishi:
You said I’m generalizing which means to make a general statement, which means I was speaking generally...

You’re in denial about the fact that gender based violence affects women in majority. You’re even making a mockery of the situation by saying men are raped.

Certainly, male children are sometimes sexually abused along with female children though it is not as common... but which men are being raped to such a degree that the increase in rape cases has been so significant? 1 in 4 Nigerian girls are sexually assaulted by the time they are 18 years old. That’s an epidemic and your denial will only make that worse.

What’s really annoying is someone who grows in a very male-centered society. You see how males are favored and treated as superiors, you were raised under this. But for conversations where the harm men do is pointed out you will now be a faux feminist shouting “EQUALITY, WE ARE ALL THE SAME!”

cococandy:
Too self absorbed to understand that your need to be coddled is not a priority when it comes to others safety.

It’s not all men.
Yet all women have to be careful.
All women have to stay home after dark
All women have to dress ‘decently’ to avoid tempting you guys. Oh I meant to say “some of you guys”

It’s not all men, yet all women have to go out with a buddy to ensure their safety.
All women have to be careful whom they accept anything from lest it be considered a permission to rape them.
All women exist in a world where they are constantly conscious of their actions or inactions so that they don’t get blamed for whatever happens to them.

It’s not all men but it’s enough of you men that the rest of you who think you’re “good guys” should be concerned too. But you are not.

Instead of shifting the focus to yourself. Instead of making the conversation about pacifying your sense of guilt, you should be talking to other men. Getting involved in understanding how you can help your fellow to stop denying y’all’s image all over the world.

Not all snakes are poisonous but if I see a bunch of snakes coming my way, I’m not waiting around to see which one is going to bite me or not. Unfair to the rest of the snakes I know but self preservation usually hits first.

So instead of being upset with people talking about men’s assault on women and trying to single yourself out, reflect on how you can influence your male friends to do better.

You may never have raped someone, but someone in your group has. Someone in your group has laughed about it. Someone in your group has joked about it. Someone in your group has blamed the victim once.
You are all complicit. 100% complicit.

A discussion of women’s safety is not a place or time to make things about you.

cococandy:
it doesn’t matter if it’s not all men. There are enough men behaving this that all women have to be concerned. Focus on that. Your guilts of defensiveness is not what we are catering to right now. But the safety of women.

cococandy:
Women are disproportionately the victims.
If you cared about sexual violence against males, you wouldn’t only bring it up when women’s abuse is being discussed. You don’t care . You just use it as a distraction from an issue that you hope we stop talking about because it makes you uncomfortable

McSquishi:
“One man”

Are you going to pretend rape and sexual assault is not very common in Nigeria? Are we going to pretend violence against girls and women is also not very common in Nigeria?

So you understand I was speaking generally, right? Which admits I was not including every single man. But generally Nigeria has a big problem with how it views, treats, values girls and women. I’m sorry to say. And this “one man” is an example of what happens because of that fact.

thesicilian:
There's always the possibility that the man is innocent, and that is why hasty judgement should not be passed.