₦airaland Forum

2special:
Y the brides look alike abi na the makeup artist design the two of them.

PrinceOfLagos:
Yea

I posted it here last week but as usual, Helinues called on the APC moderator to delete the thread

PrinceOfLagos:
Helinues, shebi when I posted the photo of how this CNG exploded a car some days ago, you were calling on the mod to ban me . Oya, this one happened in Benin so are you gonna call on the mod to ban the OP?

Maybe when someone you know or close to you use head carry some of this evil that you support on Nairaland you will learn lessons

pocohantas:
Finance is one part, emotions is another.
Born the number you can train without turning into a mad woman.

pocohantas:
Majority of the issues here revolves around money. Thankfully I didn't see many cases of physical or emotional abuse.

If the man is walking through coal to provide for a family on a single income, he is just as frustrated. So they are definitely surviving on a tight budget in 2024. I will suggest the women talk to their husbands to at least help with dressing the kids in the morning.

Or, they can get a job and outsource some tasks.

When we emphasize on the importance of a woman having an income before or in marriage, they say it is feminism and we are deceiving young girls. But money would save you a lot of bad days and help you ignore things that would have ordinarily caused issues in your marriage.

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Except you are married to the minute percentage of Nigerian men that can shoulder all the bills and still provide you appliances and a help. This would most likely be your reality.

Finally, 2 kids is okay for 99.9% of Nigerian families. The remaining 0.1 are politicians, executives, trustfund babies, oil workers and people earning a solid 7digit income.

Let's stop repeating a cycle of parents who spend all their youth training kids until they forget the main reason they got married - COMPANIONSHIP. It is not the flex y'all think it is.

Thank you!

Klass99:
The first woman who commented to say married life is not easy just sounds naive and clueless. What did she honestly expect or think it would be like?

Didn't she grow up in a two parent household to see what parents go through and how their needs often take the back seat for the sake of their children? What am I saying sef, even a one parent household ought to teach you that.

Please what do they teach intending couples in pre-marital counselling? Because some things are basic common sense knowledge from just watching our parents or other married folks in our world and space. You can learn valuable things from simply observing others.

louken:
I tried very hard to find the humour or the message in this.

Realdeals:
They dispose off their properties to engage in menial jobs abroad, they make money, and next is to think about building houses back in Nigeria. Most of them don't want Nigeria to be better, they are often sad whenever the Naira appreciated against other foreign currencies.

PEACE2023:
You are wrong bro. My uncle gave over 2,000 southerners Job during his time because he got to the top. I am a beneficiary.
Another of his beneficiary was just appointed permanent secretary recently.
He has started giving southerners Job too.
The problem is us not the northerners.
Imagine having 30 people climb up the ladder and 7 of them are Southerners, it will still be good because 7 southerners will get Job but if among the 30 no southerner, the FG can not appoint a junior southerner when there are seniors from the north. Never.
Let me tell you.
My uncle gave people Job in many government agencies and parastatals. Some are DPOs, Controllers both in immigration and customs, some are Captains in Army, navy and Air Force. They are climbing with their set, if they remain till their pick, one of them must join the top ladder because federal character is still being used where you have personnel across the geopolitical regions.
Greed is stopping us from taking what belongs to us.

Iceberg3:
The sad thing is,good people will work and people like you will still benefit despite your drawbacks and drags

YesDaddyTill203:
Ok

In the early 90s, i got a job to work in the kitchen of a major hotel in Detroit. The hot plates kept coming out of the washing machine at a very fast pace. I couldn't keep up.
I went to lunch around 12pm and never returned. They had to mail me my check for the couple of hours that i worked there.
That's an experience that I'll never forget.

Calitoscassius:
White people has always enslaved Naigeerians and africans. I met a white british man who was born in Naigeeria, he still has his british Naigeerian ID and drivers license from 1957. He can still claim Naigeerian citizenship without scrutiny or any hassle.


At the time Naigeerians were automatically british, My grandfather travelled to and fro the UK on a ship as a british citizen before 1960. with a british citizens ID. He traded in cotton, at the time cotton was big business.


Now, in 2024 Naigeerians are considered as illegal immigrant in the UK and subjected to learn, speak and write English tests before they could get a meagre slavery visa.


The Zimbabweans can drive or exchange their Zim, drivers license in the UK without taking any tests, but Naigeerians are subjected to driving test and theory tests in the UK.

Where did Naigeeria go wrong?

VinnyBaba:
What is actually wrong with Wizkid?

As his Fan, he is disappointing me.

What Hon Obahiagbon told him is the Simple Truth.

His Behaviour is Odoriferous, nauseating and causes Higi haga in our Political milieu and Mendicus.

Usmanovic95:
To be honest the man wasn't communicating.Why communicate with such ambiguous words, Wizkid is just a musician for Godsake and not a professor of English.I won't have a problem if he blow all these grammar if he was engaging professor soyinka.

Scientists:
Please nairalanders, what should I do?

Ezennia101:
If Obi is a boy and Ada is a girl, who is AdaObi?

nairalanda1:
Regionalism won't solve any problems

It would just create several regions that are all resource dependent.

It won't guarantee industrialization or free market economics. Just regions that are mini Nigerias, dependoent on sharing money

We dropped the regions because most of them were underdeveloped spaces. Even under colonialism. More development has happended under states than regions.

Anyway, like I always say, oil or resources is not the answer. The fact you called me a leach shows that your mind is too slow to grasp my point.


Nigeria will be backwards until we do what the big boys do. Stop sharing money, start using what we have to make things the world needs.

But you want more oyel money, so that you can import and keep importing. Same for the hausas.

APCHaram:
Watch and see how all SE legislature will vote against this bill.

Even on this thread they are already opposing it.

The only time they will agree to restructuring is if the old Eastern region with the SS states as vassals is catered for.

No Ibo man will ever support restructuring because it will see to their region being exposed as the most poorest and most dependent on the FG.

kossyablaze:
If you participated in Shiloh, or the Redeemed program and you
are still supporting GMB as the right person to rule this country, I
am beginning to doubt your Christianity....Obviously God didn't
speak to you...

Gadafii:
Cap wey young boys don dey wear now.?

I have the plain black of this particular type and that of the peaker blinders, I plan to get more.

Nack am with my baggy jeans and oversized shirts, complete with analog Google 😎😎

Enter street go do omo lile come back, very classic 😂😂

gaby:
Farewell, brother...

See you on the next plane...

You didn't die but transitioned to the next....

Sometimes I see people wailing, sobbing, and all of that when people transition and I imagine the transitioned one be looking at them from the other plane and wondering what the heck is making them cry or even wondering why they aren't with him/her on the transition...

NwaAmaikpe:




Village people were probably upset with their house warming so they sent thunder.
But since I was born, till now I have gotten young, I have never heard that thunder kills. Well, lightning does.

And I only know of two instances of people getting struck by it.

The first was a couple who were electrocuted to death by lightning while making love on a metal bed in a house with faulty earth insulations.

The second instance was a lady who was struck by lightning while making up by a window during a rainstorm. The cadmium and lead in her brown powder conducted electricity from the lightning and left her with third degree burns.

She was lucky to survive, but suffers from Alopecia and can not grow any hair in her armpits or pubic region till this day because of it.

We must learn to take care of our lives and not take lots of things for granted so we don't end up blaming village people for everything.

Use qualified professionals while building your house.

It is penny-wise, pound-foolish to use Kazeem the auto electrician to wire your house because his price is cheaper.

AdanmaOretuga:
He died around 70 tho

Chimarto:
For you to be a MOSSAD, you must be a MASON from 6th degree

Lexzokomo:
I am always prompted to verify if I am human anytime I want to login to nairaland, I don't know if it is browser or general issue, I use opera browser and I don't see myself switching to some other browsers anytime soon because I am use to it, please help out if you have the solution to this problem, attached is a screenshot of the web page giving me errors while trying to login.

I don't know if this is the right section to post this, I tried posting it in some other sections but my post was declined that's why the post is here thanks

Sonnobax15:

The angel who sent me to this generation, nothing wey go stop me and am from exchanging punches for heaven

Warris diz na?