Jobs/Vacancies › Token!! Token!! Token!! by shawante(op): 12:02pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Everyone Here Is Just Looking At Me - Bbnaijas Angel Says As She Shares Photos by shawante(m): 7:53am On Jan 09, 2022 |
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Sports › Re: With Small Odds, You'll Win Better. Are You In ? by shawante(m): 12:57pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 12:39pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
ayobamiJR: Not all parents...for me, my kids owe me nothing. I'm not waiting for them to take care of me in my old age in any financial means..I just want them to honour me...I'd keep hustling to be financially stable at all the stages of my life. I owe them everything for bringing them into the world. I like your state of reasoning.. |
Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 9:38pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
ayobamiJR: Some parents believe that a Kid is born into the world to run their own race..I've seen worst things from my parent but I just don't let that get into my head. Rather than hating or believing that they are responsible for my lagging, I just face my problems squarely...Even though I love my parents, I've left them and being on the street as early as 16. I don't let anything get in the way of my independent life. But when they are old they'll be expecting you to take care of them and when you don't it becomes a problem.. This life sef eh |
Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:29pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Isaacpromise1: A woman who raised you up to the stage you are, probably she and the father sponsored your education along with other finances SUDDENLY turned wicked and greedy overnight? Does that even make any sense? What happened along the line? Has he tried finding out? Has he tried finding solution? Instead of crying fowl and giving the mother bad image what reasonable step has he taken to resolve the issue … No one even knows the woman side of the story but according to HIS explanation her mother is Bad and Wicked! …
like i said, “things don’t just happen, something must happen for something to happen” What in GOD,S earth would you do to your mother to warrant this kind of treatment from her.. Someone that carried you for 9 months.. I've racked my brain thoroughly and can find any reasonable reason |
Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:16pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
pansophist: You're being a gentleman to your detriment, and that is your problem. You should have told your uncle that it's only 30k out of the 500k you received, and that he should send money to you directly next time. You don't cover shame for someone that is shameless.
Secondly, stop giving her money you don't have. Let her call Jesus and complain, don't give. Remove what's on your eye first, before someone's else, even your mum. If you realise how people quickly forget the dead, you will stop living to please people. Kobe Bryant died a few years ago, his news spread globally, now how many people talk about him? Oga give yourself a brain.
Be careful about what you tolerate, because you're teaching others how to treat you. How others treat you is a mirror to your standards, and no one will treat you better than you will accept. Your mothers behaviour will not bother you if you develop the inner strength to handle troublesome individuals. If she knows you to be tough, you'll be her exemption to her dirty behaviour, while she focuses on dealing with your father full time.
I understand the cultural expectations of respecting your parents, but to respect someone and to tolerate their excess is foolishness, and your respect has no value. When people know you as a man of honour, your respect will be valued, as well as your wrath. Know when to be a gentleman, and when to be a mentally deranged tout, because that's the language weak people understand. You can't be one, without strengthening the other. Just like the taller a tree, the deeper it's roots.
For now, seek on financial independence and don't sacrifice yourself stupidly. Your intuition is always telling you what to do but many times, people look outward, instead of inward. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it, and damn the consequences. What's worse? She would stop talking to you? Well for me, that will be great.
Love is thicker than water, not blood. If her existence in your life is more of pain than happiness, then you either choose yourself or her, and if its your mum, will she choose you instead of her happiness ? Learning to live is a skill, please develop it, and most things won't even bother you. Bro you are a wise man.. I wish OP would take your advice seriously |
Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:13pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
ayobamiJR: At a time in my life, my mother wanted to keep me hostage out of love but though I was a desperate but legit hustler, she failed to understand....I developed a strong resentment towards her but it is unnecessary...See, I didn't even read your write up but please as an adult, try to understand your mum/dad, you really will miss them when they are no more...Just enjoy the moments when they are with you. When you start giving birth, you'd realise that they have made a lot of great sacrifices for you to be where you are today....Forgive and forget. Love your parents. And where is he today.. Now that he needs them most they are frustrating him. Is not better to not have parents at all than to have parents that can help you but wont |
Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:09pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Qatar2022: Oga people are naturally wicked, what are you even saying? You must nurture your plant before it grows and bear fruits for you That guy is probably high on something.. Not only has the mother not sowed she is even blocking other people from sowing and you want her to reap. You need go check up |
Family › Re: The Hatred I Have For My Mother Is Getting Worse by shawante(m): 3:02pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Isaacpromise1: As much as we don’t know her side of the story, but as per your own explanation.
You need to fix your life ASAP; and stop expecting anything from her, father or anyone else, if they assist it’s fine, if they don’t, you move on.
Don’t you think by now, your mum or your parents should be eating the fruit of their labor and not some unnecessary billing from you, it might be part of the silent issues too
Have you tried having a mother-son deep conversation with your mum too?
Like my pastor once said, “something must happen for something to happen” your mother can’t just turn that bad to you overnight, try to find out what went wrong Guy either you didn't read the write up well or you are worse than his mother. How can you expect the guy to fix his life ASAP when his mother is blocking his source of help which she will definitely benefit from when he finally makes it. I thought mothers were supposed to go extra mile in order to make sure their children succeed because their children success is also their success. We all need help in life in one way or another cuz no man is an island which is all the guy is asking for period |
Education › Incase You Didn't Know.. by shawante(op): 11:47am On Jan 07, 2022 |
You can still mine bitcoin from cryptotab on telegram though at a slower rate.. But if you can start now you can get something tangible before the year runs out Please mine through this link http:///CryptoTab_Official_Pool_Bot?start=1377354503Lest I forget.. It mines automatically so no need to click a button everyday and you can withdraw to your wallet when it gets to a certain amount |
Romance › For Those Who Don't Know... by shawante(op): 11:34am On Jan 07, 2022 |
You can still mine bitcoin from cryptotab on telegram though at a slower rate.. But if you can start now you can get something tangible before the year runs out Please mine through this link http:///CryptoTab_Official_Pool_Bot?start=1377354503Lest I forget.. It mines automatically so no need to click a button everyday and you can withdraw to your wallet when it gets to a certain amount |
Jobs/Vacancies › For Those Who Don't Know.. by shawante(op): 11:24am On Jan 07, 2022 |
You can still mine bitcoin from cryptotab on telegram though at a slower rate.. But if you can start now you can get something tangible before the year runs out Please mine through this link http:///CryptoTab_Official_Pool_Bot?start=1377354503Lest I forget.. It mines automatically so no need to click a button everyday and you can withdraw to your wallet when it gets to a certain amount |
Sports › Re: Sure Games Bookings by shawante(m): 8:23am On Jan 07, 2022 |
You dey telegram?? |
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Was Down Few Minutes Ago And We Didn't Notice by shawante(m): 7:12am On Jan 07, 2022 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Was Down Few Minutes Ago And We Didn't Notice by shawante(m): 7:12am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Totilopussylick: Wetin happened be say you could not access the platform  Says who.. So this one am doing now is not access its zenith abi |
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Was Down Few Minutes Ago And We Didn't Notice by shawante(m): 9:40pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
As una notice finish.. Wetin come happen |
Health › Re: The FG Has Introduced An Excise Duty Of N10/litre On Soft Drink. by shawante(m): 4:06pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
These people in power have no human sympathy at all.. They don't care about the suffering of the masses. All they care is about enriching themselves. But las las we go survive |
Travel › Re: Which Of This European Countries Is Best ? by shawante(m): 9:38pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Tpharell: You should also mention expensive too. Aren't they all expensive |
Family › Re: The Shocking Message My Sister Sent To Me After Sending Her #2m New Year Gift by shawante(m): 11:48am On Jan 04, 2022 |
#cruise.. |
Romance › Re: I've Been A Simp. by shawante(m): 9:36pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
Go and simp no more!!! |
Events › Re: Wizkid, Davido, Burna Boy, Tems, P-Square, Thrill Fans At DettyDecember Concerts by shawante(m): 9:21pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
slawormiir: Damnnn niggar
Nice But Nigeria brewing nor even fit organise or sponsore any concert for Benin city
Funny enough na we south south dey drink the beer well well pass Especially Edo state
If you doubt go and meet all these companies selling beer let them release the statistics
Edo state dey beat all other state hands down for the buying of these alcoholic drinks No talk this thing come south east o.. Boys dey drink for that side o Esp enugu and anambra |
Investment › Re: Looking For Help. by shawante(m): 3:54pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
If you like go dash person 50k.. Make dem use you open new year |
Travel › Re: Which Of This European Countries Is Best ? by shawante(m): 3:42pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
Try Sweden.. Scandinavian countries are nice to live in |
Celebrities › Re: Singer, Slim Joe Is Dead by shawante(m): 11:05am On Jan 03, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Singer, Slim Joe Is Dead by shawante(m): 12:14am On Jan 03, 2022 |
SyrusdeHansome: To all the so called celebs, invest when the money is coming. Stop show off on social media. Stop living fake life cos a time will come when ur health will fail u and you'll need money for surgery. I will never donate for any celeb The guy was kind of a one hit wonder.. So am not sure he made enough money from music |
Celebrities › Re: Singer, Slim Joe Is Dead by shawante(m): 12:13am On Jan 03, 2022 |
Arijude: Chai rest in peace buddy. Your song was among the first yoruba musics I sang and liked without even understanding yoruba language I swear.. I just loved the music even though I didn't understand it |
Celebrities › Re: Singer, Slim Joe Is Dead by shawante(m): 12:10am On Jan 03, 2022 |
toffyz: Eeyah I know the guy, his hit song then was "otiyanyan" Around 2010 to 2011 sha " so fun won po ti yanyan yanyan Oti yanyanyan Emi slim Joe sofunwon sofunwon pe pepper don rest I don make my money o Oya make we joli oo....."
RIP Bro! Slimjoe malajo moti hammer moti yanyan.. Bros you na O.G Loved his music wayback |
Celebrities › Re: Singer, Slim Joe Is Dead by shawante(m): 12:05am On Jan 03, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Check Out My New Year Pictures, Shey I Fine? (pics) by shawante(m): 7:32pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Dbull you never do new year giveaway o.. How e dey be na.
Anyway u dey ok |
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Celebrities › Re: I Can Never Go Broke Again - Timaya by shawante(m): 6:55pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: I mean! Mike Tyson earned more than Timaya could earn in two lifetimes and man still got broke. Am telling you |