dauntless15: I'm not good at maintaining long term relationships, majority of my relationships never survived upto a year because I would be so excited at first and give you all the attention until I get bored and run out of things to do with you, then I stop communicating and at the end it'll feel like you're dating yourself and probably end the relationship yourself.
I have been trying to change the norms but it's not working, I recently got into a new relationship and it's happening again, I really like this one but I don't think this would be enough on the long run, so those who have been in long term relationships, how did you keep the spark alive?
Wawu And what happens when you're done with the things that supposed to keep the spark alive because e go still tire you we are humans we don't have that strength 24/7. It all depends on YOU
henrybangs44: I'm a natural confident guy because our mom taught us to be hard working and earn everything through the rice process. She never allowed us take advantage of situations or people and never look down on anybody.
We are naturally good looking in our family and people always talk about how we are all fine in the house. As a result, almost 70% of conversations we have with people will end up discussing what our parents are giving us that are making us fresh and fine.
But our mom did not like people talking to us that way. She did not teach us how to react to compliments and we are very uneasy whenever this topic comes up in our discussions. I don't even see my self that good looking as people are saying.
I work hard to earn everything the right way, and I'm highly productive but anytime a colleague or team mate talks about my appearance I just lose confidence. I have left a lot of groups and teams because of this. When people start talking to me about it I just don't feel comfortable.
I have a lot of girls and I know I worked hard to get them. But they keep telling me it's just my looks that's giving me their attention without stress but I don't believe that, I believe I work hard to get them.
This is beginning to affect my work. Some people don't believe I got to where I am because of hard work. I have worked so hard and I don't want to be throwing things away simply because of this.
For the fine boys and girls in the house, pls how do you handle compliments without appearing proud and egotistical? How do you handle it without being weird?
First things first send me your picture let's see then I'll know what to say
obembet: Not everyone that ask you for help on social media really need your help, ma y of them are there to turn your joy to sorrow.
I was checking some videos on my Instagram account when a lady DM and asked for my assistant by voting her on one program she's contesting for, immediately I hear that, I remember David message that say we rise by lifting others not knowing that she have another intention. . then I ask how how to go about it.
I remember when I was much younger around 14/15 when my dad brought fishes from the pond and my mom stylishly mentioned that I should hawk some of it since there were so many and back then I was soo SHY , na so I disappear for house throughout that day till nightfall. In my mind I was like, I should now be hawking fish make I come see my crush or I'll see all the boys I was doing shakara for or even my classmates. I no fit abeg, my mama kukuma know the kind pikin wey she born
bloomstories: 25 year old Queen Sarah Akaazua A.k.A Sarahbenz has emerged as the new Face Of Tiv International 2021/2022
The event which is the 2nd anniversary was held at Sheraton Hotel Abuja and she contested alongside other contestants, after all the processes, the tasks giving to all the FOTI contestants, camping, stage performance such as the traditional dance, talent hunt and the dinner outing.
While in camp the contestants were given tasks and the winners got their awards such as Sewing machines, laptops, phones, complete make up set and cash prices which was presented in the grand finale.
The event is powered by Kano Tiv Carnival and sponsored by Gandaria LTD.
Face of Tiv International is aim at promoting the Tiv rich cultural heritage, celebration and empowerment of women who would serve as good ambassadors and role model to the younger women The event was attended by top dignitaries. The event which is said to be a classic.
Hunchogee: Just yesterday, our Ibom Air commenced commercial flight operation in Yenagoa, the Bayelsa State Capital.
I congratulate our team for making this possible and I specially thank my colleague Governor Douye Diri for giving our airline a rousing welcome…. Udom Emmanuel..
Enoch3721: abi I too day type ni, sorry ooo i just want u to understand better Y na, I was getting to enjoy this first sharing my football knowledge with some one else secondly, enlightening a opposite sex who were sometimes said could do things better than men so I want to one day take a female football fan to school ask vickyrotex las las she ran away thirdly, I love it when I hear that my other gender wants to go into football, I really, really, really love hearing it seems like u are new here right
Lol, I've been following nairaland for years now just decided to join this year.
Let me sha digest and assimilate the ones you've said biko
YinkaOlusesi16: U know 80% of relationships out there now are just for fun. nobody mean the real business, "is not my type" is just an excuse of am fed up.
I also want to believe that these men should be confident to say that this is what I want regardless. This goes to both genders though
Enoch3721: there are national teams and club teams who engage themselves in national and club competitions
National Teams: Nigeria, England, Brazil, China, Australia, Mexico, Israel e.t c who utilizes players that are citizen of their country or players who chose to defect inorder to play for the given country either by naturalization or If there is little or more traces of their citizenship
Club Teams: These are teams created, organized or founded, or maybe established by a particular body of persons or maybe an individual after fulfilling certain protocols set by FIFA and these yes include: Manchester United, Chelsea, Arsenal, Tottenham Hotspur, Manchester City, Liverpool, Barcelona, Real Madrid, Atletico Madrid, Juventus, Napoli, Inter Milan, AC Milan, Roma, Paris Saint Germain, Borrusia Dortmund, Bayern Munich.
Note: Sorry I forgot FIFA is the overall Football governing body it is an acronym that means Fédération Internationale de Football Association in English it means Federation of International football association
Lol, reading this part alone is already hurting my eyes and head, it's getting super intensive. Abeg I no do again
Hey guys So I've been thinking what does it mean when your partner (male) tells you (female) he's not the relationship type like what does that really mean but you guys are dating. Is it a one leg in one leg out shit? or you're just catching cruise? Funny thing is, you guys won't be plain at the beginning until the lady has fallen yakata. Am not trying to generalise this though but to the men that does this can you explain WHY!!
Omicron007: Examination is actually the spoiler and vibe killer in schools. But, no one can actually progress in school without writing exams.
A lot of desperation and seriousness comes with examinations. Students try to avoid carry-overs while others aim at making the highest grades possible.
I was in the examination hall one certain day. In the middle of the exam, I just went blank. I wasted more than four minutes trying to write severe. To make matters worse, the guy sitting to my right was our pastor and no matter the situation, he won't reply you during examination. He later came and met me after the exam to apologize.
Share your own experience.
As in your brain will just format every English word
jaelz: Being in a relationship is always fun but sometimes due to certain circumstances we find ourselves single, so guys what is the one thing you miss the most about being in a relationship?
For me is the pet names like baby boo, snuggle bunie, bae etc that my women always call me
Enoch3721: OK, The game's duration is 90mins(45 mins first half, then a 10mins break b4 another 45 mins second half) but due to some stoppages that include injuries or knocks, substitutions VAR checks e.t.c there will be stoppage time at the end of each half The aim of each team is to outscore their opponents and if they fail to do so they will have to settle for a draw or a tie but in cup competitions which requires a team to be knockout out of the two, they will have to go extra time which is 15mins first half and 15 mins second half, stoppage time may or may not be added on it depends on the referee's decision to add or not add and if scores remain tie it will be settled in penalty shootouts
Hmmmm, I'm getting there, thank you for a detailed explanation
Tejumola856: I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!
Are you a saddist?
My advice do yourself and the next women a favour by staying AWAY until you figure out what you actually want/feel. Don't go hurting people
Joko5560: Hi Nairalander, before anyone start raining curse or abuse me please try to hear my story and give honest opinion please. I got married some years ago because I'm madly in love with my wife as people do says no one is perfect. I have my own imperfections so is my wife but she is the hot temper type and she does get physical ( assault me even before wedding ) and I was hoping that would change after wedding at some point after wedding she was not conceiving and she started blackmailing me emotionally calling me impotent and other names she even told me about her previous pregnancy just to make things clear that I'm the one having issue.... fortunately nothing was wrong with me. I went for semen analysis she said I con the doctor for giving me a good results...later few weeks she got pregnant and we have our first son and I have been there for her every moment. I prioritize her over everything I established her got her what ever she desires... But she started making my life hell my denying me sex she will be giving different types of excuse just to avoid sex. She always complain about stress from a company she owns while she wasn't even the one cooking at home our maid cook and do majority of the house chores.. she started showing less affection towards me everything is now on her business...then I started seeing girls outside the marriage but it was only temporary fix for me because getting back home and not getting the love I'm giving her back it's hurting and I have no plans on getting another wife. If we had a fight she will be threatening me with moving out of the house or divorcing because she knows I really don't want that because of my son...I endure different types of emotional damage from her and physical assault from her threatening to kill me or herself whenever she is angry...her friend come in to the matter when she started visiting us and will be calming her and advising her to stop all her behaviour then she advised me to speak with her and find out if I did something to her that's making her behave that way towards me.. I did she didn't give me any reasonable reasons for her behaviour that she is stressed from works then as days goes by me and her friend start this friendship which makes everything hurt less for me... We talks about eachother pains then I discovered we even have a lot in common than I realized.... literally we are going through similar dilemma both been unloved by those we choose to love but she already ended her relationship with her partner... certainly most people will think I'm lusting for her but to me she is bringing me joy and happiness by just talking with her alone and I never even though about seeing her naked because she is someone I respected a lot.. we never shakes hands before or hug but whenever she is around I found peace and worry less about every other thing... Since we start talking I stop seeing other girls and she even advice me on been better husband to her friend which I did I started sleeping back in her room still trying to be more romantic and available to her... But to be honest I falling in love with her as days goes by and I have also been emotional and financial supportive of her...but we are still friends as things stand as a matter of fact we are good friends.... and my wife sees me as a possession she owned she can't bare to see me with another person yet she didn't mends her behaviour towards me even people who are close to us are calling her the husband of the house because I'm the type of man that doesn't put anything over my marriage.. family members doesn't like her due to her behaviours... Some already insulted me because of her. In short I have been dealing with all her shenanigans...now I'm getting love from unexpected place but I can't go for it because it's will be like double betrayal to her if anything happens between me and her friend...I love my son and doesn't want to lose custody of him. I love my wife but she is making my life hell and the person making everything better is her bff....now my life is a living hell... I don't know what to do please advise me
Two heads are always better than one, what's the assurance that the same won't repeat itself with her friend? As long as you both are willing to work things out, anything is possible
Sopies: It is popular notion that Nigerian ladies are money mongers and go into relationship solely for the financial gains. We are always quick to blame the ladies but I think the guys are to blame too, most guys can't even ask a lady without flaunting material things around.
Due to my financial level not been so desirable, I'm more focused on self improvement than relationships but the weight of my pocket hasn't stopped me from getting laid. Many are interested in a relationship but I turn it down so I don't get distracted. I'd rather smash and pass.
I just met a lady not up to a month ago, I didn't even ask her out but she's spent more time in my place than her apartment since we met. Most time I ask her to leave because she's disrupting my work. I don't give her nothing, she brings most things that we consume when she comes along, and yes she has a boyfriend. He even dropped her off at my place this past weekend, why would she cheat on a rich guy with a broke guy Her relationship status is not my business, I run my parole and discard her when I'm done.
The essence of this post is not to brag but to let guys know that you can get a lady without throwing money around, a lady once had argument with her boyfriend in my presence because she stood him up to come see me when I called out of the blues. She was obviously at fault but the guy man had to apologize with a credit alert.
I've gotten naturally stingy with ladies and I'd rather flex with my guys than give any dime to a lady. Even when I have I pretend not to and they end up spending theirs. Its high time guys stopped spending unnecessarily on babes abeg. Once you're confident, you can land any banny regardless of your financial status.
Firstly Please sir do not generalise all women as one because you never reach my side. Secondly, na the ones wey you dey follow naim be olodo so stop feeling like a champ.
jaybenugo: Kanayo O. Kanayo Advises Parents As He Pays Son A Surprise Visit In School (Video)
Veteran actor, Kanayo O. Kanayo, has advised parents to always pay their wards unscheduled visits in school, IGBERETV reports.
The actor gave the advice while paying his son an unscheduled visit to his school. According to Mr. Kanayo, this is to important as it would help to ''avoid stories that would make one age under 48 hours''.
Romance › Re: How Do I Keep The Spark Alive In My Relationships by SheCeo(f): 3:54pm On Feb 10, 2022
