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Brendaniel:
I have made a decision to not force any relationship to work, I have worked so much on self love that I plan telling whoever i marry in future that anyday She feels She is tired of the union She should let me know and I will let her be and would never hold anything against her because life to me shouldn't be full of problems, same reason i would let her pursue all her dreams She had before She married me as long as it doesn't affect our union negatively, At the end of the day we are all different human with different purposes in life and will meet our creator differently just as we came differently.

I don't want to believe you wrote this just coz the word came to mind and u just penned it down

How do you work on your "self love"?

From the first comment to this page, everybody is just praising the female actress for staying in her marriage...

Is this how deep d rot has being that we celebrate actress for staying in marriage. Is it not it ought to be.

My distance friend is really facing challenges over what is not closely his fault. And I really feel for him, hence I brought this issue here for inputs or suggestions.
My friend was loaned 230k by his close buddy - Let's call him Elvis(not his real name thoug,not a mutual friend either). They both had an agreement that the loan would be ripe for repayment by May.
The issue now is that the 230k loaned by Elvis was part of the mistake deposit made to Elvis's bank account(the total mistaken deposit was 1.3m).

Elvis has been traced and he has tagged my distanced friend to this scandal.
Why are they roughly manhandling them like they stole the money. Dragging them to police station and threatening with court arraignment.
What would Elvis had done? I mean he's got some free cash.

Please I'm typing this in the interest of my distance friend. I'm really feeling for that guy. What would you suggest we do about it.
N.B: that 230k loan is not ready now sef, cos d agreement with Elvis is to repay him by May.

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hollah123:
this guy is an hypocrite,he keeps attacking Buhari cos Buhari doesn't have certificate, does Nnamdi Kanu himself have certificate?

At least we know buharis military records n co,what was this guy doing b4 ipob?
or was Biafra just his hustle?
any company of his own b4 ipob?
any organisation he worked for b4 ipob?
d schools he attended n certificate?

what I realise about life is that, people's voice are always d loudest when criticizing others

Why strain your hands with typing while you could just make use of Google to answers to this ur questions.

Anything to deride a man's quest for modest course

Just as it is to say "please sorry oo" before asking polite question.

Our world is becoming f**ked up by days. The things you you think are worth holding on are now regarded as worthless. What's really happening to romance this days and marriages at large.
Now let me let me come plain.
Please guys let me understand the reason why some guys chose "mediocrity" over "decency" I had to put these two cardinal word in asterisk cos I don't know if those two have another meaning that I don not know.

1) A guy chose to get married to a chronic wh*ore . Not by deceit ,not by coercion. I mean this particular guy knows the girl is heavily involved into the who're bizness but chose to marry her anyway. Note, not when the gal has stopped d lifestyle, but was active in it and d guy has to implore her to drop d bizness and join him in matrimony. I'm just confused it makes no sense to me!
2) I know of a lady in my hood. All and sundry knows this very gal is a renowned nightwalker.
But let me shock you!

This gal has 3 kids out of wedlock. But as I'm typing this to you a guy is in her tail for marriage. As in, what's really happening to our menfolks.
3) A friend to my sister has other two sisters. Among d three sisters one has 3 kids in marriage.
A guy got involved with one of d sis that ain't got any kid. Coming to their house to visit; this said guy saw d other sis that has kids already and already was head over wheel for d other sis that already has kids.

Even took the whole feeling to d next level of proposing and making marriage advances with d lady that has kids. While jettisoning d other former gal. All advices and meaningful projections made to d guy didn't move him.
So no more juicy slot for our "good" girl.
With all this alterations in our social. Should all ladies be given an open cheque to bask in d who're life style?


I'm somewhat angry, not that I should be ooo
Cos is none of my business.
But then I'm confused, has decency assumed another meaning that I know not.

What is really happening to our world.

Low quality now attract higher bidder

Akathriel:
1.) Atiku: No way. There's nothing more dangerous than a desperate man who has nothing to lose. I know some sycophants around him must have been deceiving him with the story of Abraham Lincoln who endured a steady stream of failure & defeat before becoming the President of the "United States of Taliban" but unfortunately, this is Nigeria and not Amerika; besides - his records as the chairman of the National Council on Privatization during the Obasanjo administration has already given us a glimpse of what to expect from his Presidency.

2.) Tinubu: A bad product way worse than Atiku. A Drug dealing, blood drinking, heroine snorting traitor who won't hesitate to sell the entire Country for a measly pot of porridge. This Iragbiji bastard who exhumed, dusted, packaged & foisted the current "mistake" on us has never been remorseful for taking Nigeria 500years backward, but now aspires to be the President.

His inglorious witch of a wife: 3-term Senator.
His daughter: Iyaloja of Lagos State.
His son-in-law: Federal Rep Member.
His brother: Oando CEO (fronting for Tinubu).
His Cronies: Thieves, Corrupt Kings & Touts.
His son: Largest stakeholder in LCC and the impending Governor of Lagos State.

Is the Tinubu family the only family in Yorubaland? Even if he & his family members think they carry 20heads on their necks, we shall decapitate all of them.

Nigeria will go the way of Iraq, Afghanistan, Somalia & Syria and then burn to ashes than to have Tinubu at the helm.

For those who may not have the indepth knowledge about the ugly & stinking personality of this rotten-teeth monster, I recommend Yinka Odumakin's article:

Portrait of the Tiger Ambode Rode.

A very long but interesting read.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/neusroom.com/portrait-of-the-tiger-ambode-rode-by-yinka-odumakin/amp/

3.) Bagudu: A close associate of Gen. Sani Abacha and the kingpin of Abacha's money-laundry schemes. In other words, Bagudu was the gasoline that ran Abacha's money-laundry engines. His fingerprints are everywhere that Abacha laundered money; and to think that this same Fulani Bastard is now the elected Governor of Kebbi State is beyond disbelief.

4.) Fayemi: A Fulani stooge and a traitor to the Yoruba people. This bastard was somewhere in the UK lecturing before he was called upon to come & contest as Governor in Ekiti State.

When he was made the Minister of Mines and Steel Development, charged with the duty of resuscitating the Ajaokuta Steel Industry, he was busy giving fake press conference on monthly basis about its concession and therefore ended as a failure.

The is the same bastard who, during his first tenure as Ekiti Governor, bought 50Million Naira mattresses for he & his stupid wife at the Government House.

5.) El-Rufai: The Terrorist-in-Chief.

You think Buhari is a tribalistic, nepotistic religious fanatic? Wait till you see El-Rufai in action. El-Rufai is Buhari raised to power hundred.

Remember Dr. Obadiah Mailafia's statement that "Repentant Terrorists Named One Northern Governor As Boko Haram Commander" ? Yes! You guessed right.

http://saharareporters.com/2020/08/11/repentant-terrorists-named-one-northern-governor-boko-haram-commander-says-former-cbn

To get a clear picture of El-Rufai's callousness; in 2018, he organized a peace meeting with the King of Adara Kingdom in Southern Kaduna, and on his way back home, the King, his wife and driver were abducted by El-Rufai's mercenaries known as Bandits.

The driver was allowed to go. The Bandits raped his wife in his presence before letting her go, and after collecting a ransom of 10Million Naira - Th King was brutally murdered.

That wasn't enough.

On hearing about the killing of their King, the elders and people of Adara Kingdom staged a huge protest.

And El-Rufai had them all arrested & imprisoned for a year without facing trials.

6.) Bakare: I don't need to say much about Tunde Bakare. His "double-tongued" reputation precedes him.

He was recently subtly campaigning for Tinubu after he had condemned & shaded him in the past.

In 2006, Bakare gave a prophesy that did not come to pass by prophesying (wrongly) that “Let me tell you the truth by the spirit of God, neither OBJ, Atiku, IBB and this tall one, Buhari are part of the new. They are part of the old that is decaying. That old one is passing away. The new is emerging and these ones are not part of that new.”

And after claiming that God’s Holy Spirit told him Muhammadu Buhari was part of Nigeria’s decaying past, this same Pastor Bakare went ahead to accept to be the running mate of the Muhammadu Buhari who was "not part of the new" in 2011.

7.) Amosun: There's just little difference between Amosun & Tinubu and that's the reason they do not get along. This Bastard and his predecessor (Gbenga Daniel) turned Ijebu-Ode into the den of Cultists.

8.) Umahi: No Igbo man will rule Nigeria simply because the only Geo-Political zone that will vote for an Igbo candidate is the South East. The handwriting is on the wall.

9.) Bello: I don't have to waste my precious time & energy on this bastard. Just read the article below.

Yahaya Bello: Five Years In Office, Five Years Of Humanitarian Disaster And Waste In Kogi State By Usman Okai Austin

http://saharareporters.com/2021/01/27/yahaya-bello-five-years-office-five-years-humanitarian-disaster-and-waste-kogi-state

10.) Nwajuiba: Same as Umahi.


SOLUTION: Rather than taking 10 steps forward and 2000 steps backward and running in endless circles every four years; the dissolution & balkanization of this entity called Nigeria will be the best decision made by the citizens.

But I'm afraid it will never be achieved through speeches and peaceful resolutions but ONLY by Iron & Blood.

I wish i can give this comment a thousand likes

Everything just to chop taxpayers money..
Throw party to welcome vaccine..

This few seconds party worth might bebudgeted millions oo

I don't understand why this country has to be going like this...
We just don't face hardship
Now we live in fear..
And the most vicious of it all is how things and cost of living keep heightening

I'm d only one who noticed that...
Why is life tougher in this country

As par say I no dey eat chicken cos money no dey... Now to manage and enjoy my usual ice fish.. I have to keep like 1k fo one ice fish

This country is thrown to the dogs

This country is just giving this man every utensil to get richer by d days...
And you tell me if I'm given this broad preferential and other closed-door brown envelope given to him by FG I wouldn't be richer than him

Kidnap
Hold to ransom
Get paid!
Is that is the new Cyptocurrency..
I mean is it worked in kastina whu wouldn't it work in otuer state...
Kai!! This country I gone..
That is the new trend of cashing out now..

Naija just dey use English spice things like say no be d original things we know B4...
From our normal naija "part2" to "sequel"

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Congratulations...we the real niggarrrrs of Africa

Let me increase the volume so that our low budget ass noisy neighbors called Ghana, South Africa and Cameroon can hear it


That is my niggeeeeeee.......there will always be light and fire at the end of our weed while we puff from the other end......
And if there is no weed available...we will still puff something.....we go use Benson switch take follow up

Brize na chicken salad this guy dey chop abi na d same weed wey I know... The way he dey take describe things is like we go join the chorus oo

ThePlainTruth:
But what if they just want to use you to gain the knowledge they need on how to solve the challenges they have and then ask the contractor to leave? This new experience will be worse than the first one. They might even use the interview to gain this knowledge they need for the work without offering the contract.

Try and state something's covertly so they won't fully understand. I don't know how you gonna do it and make a mark at that. But you can do it , you are human you have ur wits.
And keep stating firmly with all conviction you would deliver if given a shot and such opportunity could be better if given a chance to prove at the field. Hence you state your terms if they hired you.

Elixirsblog:
The child would be Soooo beautiful .Both parents are attractive

you might be amazed to that the child wount even be close to the beauty it's parents bear. Not that this particular child won't be beautiful ooo. Of course it's her birth right to be
Just that I'd seen couples who look extra-attractive but their child wasn't even close....

Guy I was disappointed cos if I'm to bet I will wager that nth will bear their child's beauty. But then d child was just not lucky

Soon his tailor would be revealed... And bizness deal would be open for him..

Brilliant piece, accolades to his tailor

You lots criticizing the scenarios where the op got his observations are not fit to be engage in well-meaning conversation. The op is just trying to protray an issue in modern relationship garnered from fieldwork . Other than than saying sth meaningful or contributing you are attacking the op

If God be God ,all you lots of criminals parading yourself s leaders will never know good.
Your breath will be hard for you to draw! The food in your mouths will turn sour and bad.
Fate will always frown at your children's effort.
Your marriages will be unbearable as you have made the life an average body Nigerian unbearable.
Infact all the money you loot will never be of value to you coz you will know no peace!!

Imagine how they borrow countless records and nothing to show for it.
Fuel is now 200#
Gas as of yesterday was bought at #500/kg.
Garri is now #70/cup
Rice nko??
Imagine local things that would have been beautifully cheap.

And yet everytime we see how this usless govt never ceases to borrow to enrich their pocket and improvise the our life and our generation to come.

I'm just not happy with my country. God go judge una.... Ndi ara

Ontop prick and pvssy mata

Manly face
Manly movement
Manly body

How she is surviving in the industry I no knw!
Where her fellow counterparts use their body on full display in their video to woo favours offscreen and on screen...

Is cos the man is on the "pleading side"
Something like "will you marry me" said obi to Chioma

Pool of CUMs

Killed her over Hole wey u no fit fill up since una dey live together.

Pvssy matter has mangle your year now...
Sorry sir

What kin of advice you want, divorce, ??
Sheath your dick for the main time and when you talk sense into her it would be reasonable talk. But if you keep dangling your d**k and forming pro- adviser to her on the family issues or things that will help to better yiur family. She can't just heed to you.
She will see u as a ho!ny goat that which you always are since she tricked you into marriage with chunks of deceit.
What I'm saying sef!!?


Pls I'm particular abt how you raise fund to ,pay house rent, relocate to Lagos, pay her school fees, and pay her catering program
Are you that rich as a student or should I say a fresh graduate!!

Kzinne:
A lot of Nigerian women can learn from this great woman of God. She started from the scratch with her husband. Most Nigerian women today are after ready made men even when their own fathers are not ready made.��

Slowmair abi wetin be that em name again
Wouldn't agree with you. He would say woman knows and stick to men that would blow big.
So inference conclusion is that she stock to him cos he was a potential "successful man"
******Drops pen******

Aside from announcing our name Nigeria to the world I DNT see any socio-economic dividends this Okonjo-Iwela will add to Nigeria.
So why d fuss

Me other's family issues are just like covid19 and social distance

The babes write well

Gym is a nice work- out. Is just that you return bbk to your normal body after you observe a break in your gym routine.

This guyy would weigh150kg+ if he wen bbk to his usually eating. Gym has no permeant result.
I don't think is worth it !!

I'm not sure of much things but one thing I'm sure and can confidently bet my balls is that most pple that clicked on this thread and those that commented didn't read through this post.
Have a nice day!!

*******comes to thread******
Saw bunch of APC minions singing praises of their 30k-pay masters
*******Hissed and left thread****

oz4real83:
From my observations over the years, I don't think these male nollywood stars are paid more than N5,000/movie, their lifestyles show they live in poverty and the public is easily the place they run to when they need help unlike their female counterparts. I have never seen a female nollywood star begging the public for financial help. Something urgent needs to be done to save our male nollywood stars before they go into extinction.

not just male artists
But men as whole. Lesser office work for men!
Lesser societal regards for make folks!!
It is believed that male folks always are meant to grind their as* out for everything!!
A man's life is always a rough and tedious ride,all these are what society erected.
#SaveTheMakeFolks

Prompted to check the picture of the "beauty surgery addict" and I would say I'm was DISAPPOINTED


This one won't last!!! Cause too much alterations with nature.
Nature won't favour her either