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bjprodint1:
It depends on d character of d other partner.some of us love calling it a quit 2 test if d other partner really loves us(we seek 4 attention).sometimes we call it a quit when we are angry(we dont really mean it),but when ur partner uses sweet words like(my queen,babymalt,sarauniya,temi,my diamond),it resets our brain and we realise dat we cant really live without our joygiver...So begging is not simping,it makes a woman feel special.

everything must be abt the lady
What abt the men, don't they deserve to be happy and being petted too.... Why must everything be abt making the lady not look cheap, not look desperate and making the ladies feel special.

How abt the men folk"

helinues:
Big Eagles.

Tuale oo

Let's see how peppering this would be to the wailers.

This must definitely purge them

this one will just open mouth and be talking rubbish.....
No content!!!
Wetin u dey talk sef
Just to impress who??

Tovard:
The most ever confused set of human beings are the ladies between the ages of 24 to 42!

They do it today and regret it tomorrow.

16-42
E go fear you how these ss3 pupils are aspiring to do this botched bum sth immediately after their waec

adeakin:
nobody say everyone bad. But can you date everyone
I have lived in uk and Canada, let me tell you what some of our women do.
1- the ones based abroad have high taste and typically live above their salary, they can rent a house that takes 80% of their salary while men will typically rent the one that takes 35% of salary. They always want holidays and trips, cooking is seen as slavery to many of them. Any man wey marry them just dey marry wahala . You will even take loans to pay for ring, wedding and honeymoon

2. The women take abroad have chances to get free funding for course like nursing and IT. They later become richer or equal to the man . Then start to rub shoulder. Later they will say i dont need a man and divorce you.

3. Some will call police when una fight or quarrel. You as the man will be asked to leave the house temporarily or permanently. Some of the benefits are paid to the women eg child benefits. Some of our 9ja women spend it alone. Some demand you take care of all bills after you will have 200 dols as saving. While she invests her own salary of like 3k to 5k dols a month in Nigeria or her siblings.

Marriage is looking like a scam these days

Yes a scam to the men fold... Nothing of benefits.

Machdix
What ever you plz take your family's promise of sponsoring your education lightly. If you don't have a firm stand of ur sef to at least sponsor your education to the half-stage don't bother.
The rule is TKE YOUR FAMILY promise of sponsorship lightly. That was how they promised me of #150k to kickstart my POS biz. Time is due now even told them I don't need up to 150k but 70k and they stated minching words.

Nigerian govt go seize this opportunity to beg more money in disguise of loan from US rep.
Just as we do wen our rich uncle comes visiting and we expect 'thanks for visiting tips from them"

Haakeem:
100naira that its value has started falling mtcheeew

started falling or already fallen
Could barely buy biscuits. Couldn't even buy me common roadside meatpie. The seller said is #300

How can one even start fasting without preying
Is it not during prayer that you make intentions known to God that today is for fasting!!!!

sarrki:
Bola Tinubu is a done deal 2023

He paid the price

He’s the most qualified for the job 2023

Before you start insulting or casting aspersions on my person

Ask what your father is as doing why he’s not even contributing to your immediate community

Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu is not the cause of your generational problem

u don start again
Small things u go start apologizing.
God no gree make e actualize for u to apologise.....

dan9ice:
I wonder how most of these girls get into event like this..

Most of them do see the red flag oo, but because of greed and belongingness, they'll use the husband for boyfriend and the boyfriend for husband

Op you no get family, where you can take you daughter to? .. All these type will use the influence of your daughter to run you local

op treasure this suggestion with all adherence.....
Return ur child to ur fam

Righteousness2:
No Pain! No Glory!

Just Imagine the Sacrifices and Pains they put themselves through for Physical Fitness and Show of Strength.

Just Imagine the Pains the Soldiers put themselves through to put smiles on the Face of their leader, a mere man.

What Pains and Sacrifices are you willing to give to Put Smile on the Face of JESUS Christ?
What are you willing to Forfeit or pass through to Ensure that you see JESUS Christ.

There is no more time Folks!
Any Baggage, Habit or Character that will hinder you from Heaven needs to be Dropped.

My blodar soar on!!

How u craftily turn many christain -unrelated threads to preaching is worth of emulsion

Life no be beans oo
Harder when you are a man
Worse when u are a man and a Nigerian....


Mehnn
Reading stuff like this makes me eye at my thinking that growing up would be a lot of fun.
I should have stayed as a kid..
I'm not ready for all these

U make decisions for ur sef and most times is not d best..

But wen u are a kid mom and dad takes decision and is aptly work out

SmartPolician:
This is a welcome development even though it is happening a little too late. I noticed yesterday that Igbos traveling home this Christmas have fully booked Air Peace flying to Enugu and Owerri from 23rd through 26th December. Guess what, the ticket is over 95k. It's sold out!

I suspect that a good number of them will be coming from overseas and would have flown directly down to Enugu instead of stopping at Lagos. Like I stated earlier, this is good news as it's better late than never. Thank you, M. Buhari.

"95k" to travel from northern to southern
And u are shinning teeth and thanking Buhari

Omo to maintain ties now sef is expensive. You said the 'eloping husband's is living penury after his deportation from Germany.
Where would he get the money for transport fares of grannies .
Babe you check the price level for distance travels these days??
Blame naija economy guy!

No wonder they fought tooth and nail to oust Bukola Daraki cos that man was a stumbling block to their evil agenda

A woman may" chose family over career cos they have no heavy tolls of contribution to the family
If not to cook , wash and keep the children happy.
But would a man enjoy his family if he provides not. Make d woman use nagging henpeck the man.

A man would chose career cos is through career that he witness love. Of he's got no career or lay lose attention to his career no love from from family.

What ayam saying sef

SmellySperm:
Hmm marriage wahala here and there. Una com dey mk us fear.

Baba God abeg mk we no fall into the hands of wrong and devilish women wen we finally wan setle down,Amen
But single life sweet abeg

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U don colonize this guy pics as meme immediately..
*****Back to the topic******

I really DNT have much to say to you. But you should know a way around your marriage problem. Is normal everyone has it.
This tym might be ur one and only trying time you could face In ur marriage and will have "happily ever after" afterwards.
Be a man and call your shots!!!!!! Make you decision

Almightyprosper:
I need reasonable people to give me some advise here on how I can deal with such a huge fiasco,
The money isn't really my problem but she cheat and she has never accepted once even though I've evidence.
Is it appropriate to help her? Or help and give her road out0 of my life cause her cheating lifestyle has caused me more trauma than everyday..
This lady knew I had accident last week for God
Men with experience I await your response

but I say make u loan me 70k with interest of 10k to be paid by December 29 u no gree.

Now u wan dash someone almost 600k cos she get orifice
For the records z better to help a loyal than a gal that will always come asking for more..

Copper Tobi¿ I guess that is his name....not so sure, made me fall in love with maths during my ss1 and ever since then every other subject became less tedious for me. Can't forget to mention I always receive the preferential treats cos I become one of the toppers in mathematics in my sets. Huncle Tobi¿ may God richly bless you every where u go

Philipmems:
Who cares? The attention your parents don't give you is what this clown comes to collect/ attract on social media. You got into Oxford because your father is rich, not because you are intelligent. Clown.

EMBITTERED FELLOW!!

chatinent:
Yes, that's because she took your ribs without your permission. You are a man!

nna m ndoo. Sorry!
These women folk have pride than the men community and you won't know cos u don't deal closely with them or you are con by frail look.......
Why are our men like this these days..
If men like u are fewer this extravagant and upper handedness given to women to the detriment of men should have burst to the minimum chart.

Men and ur like are reason why women find it fine to broke-shame men of their class(schools) while is ok for them women to think marriage and weeding wen they got nothing working for them: skills nor even 5k figure in their account.

Women now are of the line of thought that all men should just sheepish with them coz they'd got an orifice in between their legs

chatinent:
Baba, lol, forcefully doing it will bring more harm than good. Remember, rape does not become irrelevant in marriage! If it is not consensual, it is rape! You will be jailed and treated a rapist! Peace always wins. What's the use of having sth by force you no go enjoy las las? No bi juju?


In this eleventh hour, a simple “babe..baby..you are still angry? Stop snubbing me naw. Ok ok, about what happened the other time..yeah, I must say I was very angry and overreacted..but you know you really also made me angry sha.” (Try teasing...lol, of course, she will leave-me-alone you. Don't give up, throw some bubbles of Shakespeare's sonnets..don't just make it 14). “Babe..we are bigger than this naw. Okay, to show I value our peace than being right, I take the responsibility, I am sorry.” (Tease again...and tease...until the leave-me-alone becomes as weak as Nigerian’s economy...and it surely will). Every normal wife will welcome peace especially if the husband kills the pride and apologize. The problem is that many men would rather die than apologize!

Let's embrace peace.

Pride doesn't do it!

Stop waiting for the first person to come and make it up. What if the other person too have vowed not to? Take the initiative! It doesn't make you a loser! It makes you mature! No bi because of uncle conji you go remember rites. She has her rites too!

You are welcome.

every thing men! Men!
Men will woo.
Man will pet the woman
Man will make sure the woman is happy
Man must provide for his woman
Man must always cherish and praise his woman
Man must apologize whether he is wrong or right....
What do women actually do
Just being in existence and receive every good ends of everything??
And folks like you that blossom this mindset are more problem.

Take up the driving skills as a residual skills since it doesn't take up to 21days to learn driving
Them u invest more on learning digital skills..
**********Peace"********

Dizzyish:
Please I need advice, any advice.
I graduated with a 3rd class in Chemistry from three years ago (I only blame myself for that) and after I finished my NYSC a year ago I just plunged into a depressive state in regards to my mistake (my education) and my future (career) sometimes breaking down in tears when I think of things I've taken for granted in my life.

I started working on myself a few months ago and I've made some progress I proud of but every now and then it's easy to be overwhelmed with self doubt.
I made a cv without work experience along with a cover letter a few days ago and applied for a few entry level jobs like graduate intern, sales, restaurant supervisor etc via jobberman and the companies email but I'm not too sure I'll be getting any calls from them.
I didn't come here to get sympathy just an honest advice or opinion on what to do.

Can I do a pgd in chemical engineering or just chemistry or pursue a business or computer/tech course, are there jobs I can get with my degree maybe to get skills and work experience?
I deeply appreciate any advice. Thank you.

Huncle op
I have nth to say much since most elders have already submitted their advices
Mine to u is that you use That PDG money and start a side hustle first... Start from there fes

Offpoint1:
Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

I thought going by ur post u want a way out of ur "unusual trait" and here u are blowing ur trumpet how better off you are being d YOu

Mehnnnn
The kind of stuffs I read on nairaland sometimes though.
Did we let primary 6 to be posting hereon.
Not to make u op feel less but this talk is just so lame.

TheWolfen:
These gals actually like sex so much that they can stoop low to get it from a dog? Dirty gals everywhere.

but will be filled with bloated pride to ask men it.

Disgusting species of human

Is even harder to survive the school days wen you know that no one is coming through for you.
I'd have a story to tell of how I finished my edu cos of my side hustle... Downgrading though.
But mehnñn I'd got no choice.
I have to pay for handouts and I have to transport myself to and around the school environment.
Even with that my side hustle, I still have days I'm extremely broke to core.
So broke that resent @ my existence. Schooling is not for the weak in this country if you have no strong support base.

My NYSC due in bits!!!

webpower84:
Selling

Before I talk about types and qualities of domain to go for, let me share my first domain sale experience. It was on the radio, the name then was very popular; Danbaba. A radio man was bearing the name as his nickname. Well I searched for danbaba.com at a domain registrar and it was available. I quickly bought it for $9, put it up for sale and contacted the radio man if he may be interested. I adviced him to use the domain to develop a website for his comedy business, unfortunately he concluded that I want to scam him and that the name belonged to him. I never contacted him again

I went to afternic.com, a domain Marketplace and put the domain at a buy it now price of $550.

I woke up one morning, got an email from afternic that my domain have been sold for the exact price that I put it. Well I first thought that it's a scam but there's the company logo there and a link to follow to complete the transaction. I followed the link and made them know clearly that am a Nigerian living in Nigeria. Everything was finalised within 8 days after I transferred the domain to them and I was paid. It was an amazing experience and since then I no more search for any other way to make money online. More effort is what is required now. And it have been wonderful so far Now if you have a domain name, no need of approaching a Nigerian for his interest. Just go internationally. There may be interested companies ready to pay high price for that domain.

A domain you sold N50 here may be sold N500 in foreign marketplace and why is it like that? They know the value.

what's a "domain registrar"

webpower84:
Selling

Before I talk about types and qualities of domain to go for, let me share my first domain sale experience. It was on the radio, the name then was very popular; Danbaba. A radio man was bearing the name as his nickname. Well I searched for danbaba.com at a domain registrar and it was available. I quickly bought it for $9, put it up for sale and contacted the radio man if he may be interested. I adviced him to use the domain to develop a website for his comedy business, unfortunately he concluded that I want to scam him and that the name belonged to him. I never contacted him again

I went to afternic.com, a domain Marketplace and put the domain at a buy it now price of $550.

I woke up one morning, got an email from afternic that my domain have been sold for the exact price that I put it. Well I first thought that it's a scam but there's the company logo there and a link to follow to complete the transaction. I followed the link and made them know clearly that am a Nigerian living in Nigeria. Everything was finalised within 8 days after I transferred the domain to them and I was paid. It was an amazing experience and since then I no more search for any other way to make money online. More effort is what is required now. And it have been wonderful so far Now if you have a domain name, no need of approaching a Nigerian for his interest. Just go internationally. There may be interested companies ready to pay high price for that domain.

A domain you sold N50 here may be sold N500 in foreign marketplace and why is it like that? They know the value.

what is a domain market place"

Unless this is a smart format of promoting his(Jim iyke's) new realeased movie... If is not this bickering is a lousy one.

See as criticism is coming in mildly against the lady killer from page 1 to this page but if it were to be a guy now...... Na heavy cussing more from the ladies