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shizzle11: Thank you bruv for re-echoing my position via the bolded.
However it seems the op is the adamant type who is content with living in denial of the truth

omotenah: Wow ain't u just so good at jumping into conclusion? I'm in denial? and u know this how?

bellong: Don't go there bro.... She is not the same as Omotenah

omotenah: I do not and I don't even need it.. I trust him and respect his privacy. I expect the same from him

omotenah: Wow ain't u just so good at jumping into conclusion? I'm in denial? and u know this how?

ileobatojo: I gave information? Alt ID? Rotfl at defaulting to lameness when you can't prove your point. Very sad. Stick to the issue at hand, which is your pain, instead of desperately trying to draw attention away from it.
Anyway, where did the OP give the impression that she was married? Please re-post it here so we can all break down your reading comprehension skills together.

ileobatojo: I firmly believe you're deliberately making up the bolded to make your point. Where did I state that my husband should divorce me if I don't give up my passwords? I deliberately used the words 'break up with me', not divorce. That's a term used for non marital relationships fyi.

If you already believed that I said I wouldn't mind divorce then why the need to threaten me with divorce like you did here again?



So, I ask you again, why are you so pained by my words?

omotenah: Wow ain't u just so good at jumping into conclusion? I'm in denial? and u know this how?

TV01: We are all ideologues - at best !. The question is, "which of us will you listen too?

@OP, I didn't respond to your post at first as my partcular ideology does not recognise a "partner" relationship. However, if in this instance your partnership is of the conjugal type, I'll say this;

You may have - and mayhaps through no fault on your part - married an insecure man. If your relationship is conjugal, this flaw is at the very least of great concern to you[/b]as how this plays out will affect the substance of your marriage. You take responsibility.

[b]Others - knowingly or unknowingly - may have given him pause for thought and prompted him to act in this manner. Or, you may have - and perhaps inadvertently - given him cause for concern The advice does not change. Seek to understand the what, when, why and how, and work for the long-term interest of your union.

It doesn't mean he is a bully and it certainly doesn't mean that "divorce" should be contemplated or is even on the cards This advice is blind to whether you "love" him or not, just the fact that you may be married to him.

If you are a wife, be wise. Taryour and Shizzle11 have spoken well. If not please ignore me .
TV

ITbomb: So you expect me to pour out my first seed in marriage into someone's mouth. That might be my first child someone is eating bro

ileobatojo: You're obviously in pain that not every woman has the tolerance for re*tarded caveman ways.

ileobatojo: You're obviously in pain that not every woman has the tolerance for re*tarded caveman ways.

jumzzy448: Op, if you guys are married, then take shizzle's advice.
What's there in giving him your password except you don't trust yourself and you feel he might find out some things.
Funniest thing is he might even have your password and will never open your accounts
Hubby has my passwords but i'm very sure that he has never for once opened my facebook or any of my accs before.
Feel free to give him abeg.

ileobatojo: The truth is the truth, whether you're in pain about it or not.

Pukkah: Continue to look down upon them. The more you look down upon them, and possibly garnish it with insult, the easier it will be for them to change and agree with your viewpoint.

Afterall, in the art of negotiation, nothing works better and faster than looking down upon those who don't agree with you.

pickabeau1: Good morning ...

shizzles question

kulyie: i have answered it na
Read my posts again and you will see the answer

kulyie: truth is always bitter but it has to be told whether it is pleasant to anybody or not

meanwhile happy new year

hope you enjoyed the holidays

texanomaly: First of all, where did you hear the bolded? smh... Are your parents Nigeria-American?

cdamsel: me?y na?bt me & mynd re friends

ileobatojo: Quite simply put, this is exactly the message being passed across! And precisely the reason why I will not give my password because I won't be able to get past this. I truly have zero tolerance for this type of rubbish. If you don't trust me and you feel the need to spy on me, please break up with me and go your way. Simple.

My opinion.

12month: thanks for the advice bro but its not like I do not have a positive attitude. I just like to barricade my mind that the worse could happen.

so many factors made me so e.g. I lost a loved one at an age and time which I never expected.

However, I am looking forward to tips from u guys on being a realist

addictiv: Waste of advise. Op will sheepishly go and ask for refund with return on interest self. It pains me when I see grown men behave and think like scallywags.

kulyie: If we get to the bottom of the issue,i will discover that it is because of preek she absconded.she don elope with mr oloko oyin.maybe the husband is not husbanding well under the sheets. The way women always take life changing decisions that will affect their kids because of this notorious preek ehen.smh

cheezypeachy: A virgin boy must be a teenager!

kesta tipsy: That is why am here to do just that, no more stealing of my works I will publish them here first so that those who steal them can run out of business, its so painful when you see someone lay claim to your work especially someone who just copied them.

cdamsel: mynd pls I need the drug, name & description pls

aventura: What if she knows nothing about nairaland. What do you say?
Sorry o

vizkiz: dis is too simple 4 a 9ja babe..
2. Ask her if she knws abt NL... If yes ask her hw she feels abt d forum buh if no explain wuh d site z all abt(dt cnt take 2mins!