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[quote author=Mynd_44]So you can't wait for the few days it will take for the period to stop? And besides I heard there are drugs a woman can take that will push the period forward.[/quote]Really? not heard that before. But that will be kicking against nature, women sef

why will the menses choose to appear on the wedding night....lol

But on a serious note, it wouldn't matter to me really cos I would have taken several bites at the cherry before the wedding day, so no biggy?

kesta tipsy: every article you see from kesta tipsy is written by me, for your info am a sex and relationship therapist... Am new here doesn't mean I didn't write this and moreover I've seen most of my articles here, copied from my wall on Facebook and posted here.. I have written over 1000 articles bothering on sex and relationship issues, articles bloggers beg to publish, now I choose to publish here myself so that nobody steals my writeup and publish here again!

I agree absolutely with you.
If you have any article/write up, pls publish or post it yourself first cos there are a lot of people here who copy and paste from blogs and other internet media without acknowledging the original authorship. Talk about intellectual theft

Idoma Likita: Comfortably!
HIV transmission has been empirically proven to be commoner in Receptive Sex i.e a woman is more likely to get it than Men because the receive the cum and all!

When i dey dabble 4 the blood of infected patients daily I never get am, e come be say na Congo go gimme am!

If latex gloves can confer immunity, so can condoms!

So Yes I can And Yes I Will (In Obama's Voice)

Lol..you have a point
But your position is because you have the opportunity to treat or attend to HIV patients before, so its easier for you compared to someone who is not in the medical proffession

chino11: 7 serving governors, uncountable Senators and government functionaries attended the occasion. Am trying to get the pictures..

Now that underlines his level of connection to the corridors of power.

Chino, you will do well to show us at least a couple of pics

Too much money...
Have been hearing the name Emeka Ofor for close to two decades. The guy sure is stinkingly rich but doesn't make a lot of noise

But some ladies are the reasons for such tragic ends that befall them. I'm not saying the actions of these men are justified but take an example from one the killers case in the link posted by coogar.

A man marries a pauper from the village, brushes her up, sponsors her to school, she gets one degree, then a second degree, she qualifies and gets a good(nursing) job, begins to make some cool money, and then after a while...





the demon in her is let loose
she becomes arrogant, rude, disrespectful, abandons all the widely duties she hitherto does simply cos she possibly now earns more than the man, overnight she becomes too big to do the dishes but will rather go clubbing etc. Suddenly the man finds himself loosing custody of his kids, and even maybe his assets to her or at least 50% of it, these losses with their attendant mental and psychological breakdown'o

Now how do you expect a man to take all these, lying down.? All he's worked hard for decades about to go down the drain. Hmmm, not that easy attall'o

Truth is, most of these men already made up their minds to go on death sentense or life imprisonment before they strike.

Eighter way, its pathetic
well, one thing I deduce is that those resident nurses are well paid

timwezzb: She no Beautiful sef

She is surely pretty. Quit hating

[quote author=tpia@]yes.

but only if you know what to look for.[/quote]Sensible

To a good extent

She will come out from that operation a better, healthier and happier person IJN....

I wish....na today? love gbakwa oku

Baby mama: Hahahaha
The picture below is exactly how a polygamist man must look IMHO
These women are doing it right
The man is their captive
He is almost about to have kwashiorkor while the women look fresh and robust
That husband dare not talk pim ,they will gang up and show him serious pepper

LWKMD

stagger: Well, what is the difference?

Even in church you see some of the girls there wearing some funny stuff. Some even try to hit on a guy who is riding a clean ride. So what is the difference between this category and those who shake their stuff in a music video for a while? Funny thing is because of the heavy makeup, you will hardly recognize anyone of them on the street thereafter. Even for those of us who are married, do you know how many rods have been in your wife's punny before you met her?

Abeg make una leave matter.

Don't mind all those girls with their hollier-than-thou attitudes.

chidyhels: Naija and their mentality, so every gal on a dance video na ashii.

Babes are making their money and you are here beafing.....go and tell kaffy that, mtchewwee

Annoying mentality I swear.
And funny thing is some women who won't call themselves ashii are those we call regular girls next door are even living worse lives than most of those video vixens

Vilicious: so reverend fathers are not sane

Don't be shallow.

We are not talking about people who by their calling are restricted from marrying. Rev fathers as you and I know are expected to be celibate

[quote author=Circle-Of-Wilis]some people must learn to undstnd tht doctors and pharmacist/nurses are not the same, though health workers doctors are meant to be the head of the medical team.

Pharmacist and nurses pls take note![/quote]Notwithstanding, those medical doctors are too selfish and demanding

Aregberascal and his deceptive stunts

jennykadry: Lmao

me too....lol
The moment I heard polygamy, I gave up. Well, the op should have expected that at some point, so no surprises really

We are watching. He has always being a barr stad bigot and terrorist

The fool keeps playing to the gallery trying to attract public sympathy by all means

He claims GEJ developed IMO and Abia states, even so, what is wrong with that. Maybe they aren't part of Nigeria

Anyways a drowning man will always cry foul....iddiatt

Both men and women are guilty of abusive r/ships.

Women receive more of the blame cos it is expected that as women, one of your your duties is to try to keep a happy home, and humility comes into play here.

More so, women are emotional beings, they tend to complain a lot when a little decision do not go their way, but a man most times will just bottle it up and let go.

Many a man suffer even more emotional trauma than women, but because women are less condoning, they cry to the high heavens and tell any one who cares to listen that they've been hurt.

A man could be less emotional cos of other challenges and factors such as work and other things to help keep the family going

ebosed: More fathers still want their daughters to get married as virgin, perherps including you.

In plain truth, I care less if my daughter marries a virgin or not. its absolutely her decision to make.

I for one won't stop her from dating or having a relationship when she comes off age, and if I can respect her right to have a boyfriend, why would I also not respect her decision to be intimate as far as she has only a date?

ebosed: On your dislike for virgins, its your choice. Being Virgin or not doesnt not make one a good wife, just as being old enough does not make one matured enough for marriage. In life, their are skills for effectiveness. To be effective in marriage a virgin or perverts must learn those critical skills from the minor to the major skills required. These skills would be added advantage to either virgins or perverts. First class or 3rd class doesn't guarantee success in life, what does are your saleable skills and competence among others. So leave virgins alone and do your thing your own way and stop condemning Virgins.

At least you agree with me that being a virgin does not necessarily make one a better or happier partner, and I'm happy you acknowledged there are other ingredients/skills required for a better marriage.

However, I have absolutely nothing against virgins, and why should I. Problem is, the virginity thing is over flogged. If you are a virgin, your business, but stop flaunting it to our faces or try to portray yourself as one who has higher moral standard than others or perceiving them as perverts

[quote author=adeola_drg]Nobody wants their wards to marry an Ijebu man. My mom shouts this everytime, u must not marry from Ijebu. Y evulz nw? What av they done?[/quote]have heard that severally to.
But why are you asking us na? you should ask your mum who warns you against it

plain stewpidity

Rship work without sex?

[size=22]HOW[/size]

Its obvious he is a very resilient and determined business man, which are one of the hallmarks of a go getter.

INNOSON, may God continue to bless the work of your hands.

We need more people like him...

oyinbogirl: curiousity killed the cat...hahhaa - but in answer - yes i have heard of it occurring. depends on the girl individually. No one is immune to temptation, and Only a rare few have no wish to try others.



^^^^
And may i ask ARE YOU SECONDHAND? smh

True.

Even if he is, it doesn't make him a better person than those who aren't. So many hypocrites

hammedkola: In Yuzedo voice, you smoking pawpaw leave ....seems you prefer 2nd hand product to new product Smh

Does being a virgin guarantee marital bliss?

will being a virgin translate to being a good wife?

Will being a virgin make a woman the best wife/mother?

If your answer to the aforementioned is no, doesn't that make you silly?

As for the answer to the bolded, YES....and for emphasis

[size=18]I DO NOT WANT TO MARRY A VIRGIN[/size]