Christianity Etc › Re: I Will Die Soon, My Time Is Near --- Odumeje by Sholmakem(f): 6:15pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
The time baba gave you don reach . Okay oo , rest In whatever |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Just Lost My Job by Sholmakem(f): 1:11pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Sorry bro. God will surely replace Your lost with the best . Please change your name from failure biko🙏 you're blessed |
Romance › Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Sholmakem(f): 12:27pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
You're not too young my brother, but my advice to you is that you should go for the particular lady you intend to marry, use a year to study her , pray to God to reveal things you need to know about the future of the marriage. God still answers to prayers if we can be patience enough to listen to him .
Know it that if you're 24 , you're definitely going to marry below that age and which will require you to groom her to you taste to avoid unnecessary drama later .
During this process, don't promise her anything and don't let her feel how much you love her because this can make some ladies to pretend they love you because of what they want to Gain from the marriage. Just play it normaly as guys does. Remember if you love her too during this process, it will be difficult to notice anything bad in her . Don't let love fold your eyes in relationship but in marriage.
If she's a working class lady ,let her know that if you both get married that you will both be sharing your home responsibilities, it's not necessary that you should mean this o it just to know her reaction towards that as that will prepare her mind for any charlenges ahead .
Lastly; if she's not a working class, use this period to raise money for her to start any business after she's finally pass the test and that should be after marriage. So use this 24yr of your age to plan for it and get married at 25 . |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Nasty Experience With Rats by Sholmakem(f): 6:16pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Those agent of destruction . I've come to realised that the more you kill them , them more they come back with full forces and that will be tougher. Those beast ate my beautiful handbag when I paid a visit to my sister 😔 I felt I could get the particular one and strangled it . |
Health › Re: Please How Can I Handle This Infection by Sholmakem(f): 6:43pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
[quote author=Sholmakem post=121445781]God and see a doctor, they'll give you an injection and other. |
Health › Re: Please How Can I Handle This Infection by Sholmakem(f): 6:42pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
God and see a doctor, they give you injection and other. |
Politics › Re: Fayose Dumps PDP, Says Ayu Misleading Atiku by Sholmakem(f): 9:04am On Mar 03, 2023 |
I knew it 😀 very smart 🤓 guy |
Politics › Re: Endsars Will Seem Like A Rehearsal, If 2023 Election Is Rigged - Okon Lagos by Sholmakem(f): 6:51pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Let there be peace ooo . |
Politics › Re: Lagos Governor Sanwo-Olu Wins Polling Unit At Lagos Island by Sholmakem(f): 10:00pm On Feb 25, 2023 |
Eyaah congratulations to them o |
Politics › Re: Peace Accord: Tinubu Puts His Hands In His Pockets During The National Anthem by Sholmakem(f): 7:45am On Feb 23, 2023 |
Abeg leave grandpa alone .the man is tired he needs rest. |
Politics › Re: Governor Adeleke Creates Imole Youth Corps, Dissolves O-YES In Osun State by Sholmakem(f): 11:15am On Feb 16, 2023 |
I don't see that as a good move thou . He should have upgraded it . So when other governor comes in after his tenure, that one should also disband the one he created ba? Why is there no continuation in Nigeria governments? |
Travel › Re: What Are The Existing And The Potential Tourist Attraction Sites In Your State? by Sholmakem(f): 7:56am On Feb 15, 2023 |
ONDO STATE Idanre hills Ebomi lake Oke Maria Cave ashes |
Business › Re: Emefiele: No Papers To Print ₦200, ₦500, ₦1000 New Notes by Sholmakem(f): 10:05am On Feb 11, 2023 |
They should use A4 paper to print whatever o .. abi which kind wahala be this?
Some people are shouting cashless policy as if there're proper arrangements for that ... I went to a store to buy some stuffs worth of 5k last week, the lady said I should transfer 5,500 because she'll still use money to withdraw it . Same thing yesterday, I wanted to buy 1000 naira beef the guy said I should transfer 1200 naira including charges.. money wey no dey plenty . |
Family › Re: My Wife Takes More Instructions From My Mom Than Me by Sholmakem(f): 1:42pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
What can we do to please these men ? |
Business › Re: FCTA Bans POS Operators From Residential Areas by Sholmakem(f): 8:16pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Doing anything possible to make life difficult for people. Chai ! |
Business › Re: Banks Blame CBN For Scarcity Of Naira Notes by Sholmakem(f): 8:08pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
No be small thing oo. I went to queue at the ATM yesterday, before it got to my turn the machine stopped dispensing 😢 I went to use POS , my card was declined and I was debited.
Getting that money was the only solution i had to eat . My mother also tried to bail me out , she was also debited but I didn't receive any money 🙆 that's how I slept without eating anything yesterday till this evening that I asked her to send it directly to the POS guy directly .omo Zenith bank do me shege . |
TV/Movies › Re: You Can Only Watch One Actor's Movies For The Rest Of Your Life. Who Would It Be by Sholmakem(f): 9:15pm On Jan 21, 2023 |
Ruth Kadiri |
Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Marry Her? by Sholmakem(f): 10:09am On Oct 28, 2022 |
Abraham married Sarah his step sister. |
Pets › Re: Would You Hug a Snake? Meet the 10 Friendliest Snakes in the World (Photos) by Sholmakem(f): 7:06am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Which friendship is that ? Mi o je Fi iku sere �� |
Politics › Re: 2023: Atiku-Okowa Campaign Mocks Tinubu Over Empty Kano Streets by Sholmakem(f): 8:55am On Oct 24, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Candlelight Procession For Rico Swavey by Sholmakem(f): 6:21pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
RIP |
Phones › Re: British Man Traces His Missing Iphone To Nigeria A Month After It Went Missing by Sholmakem(f): 8:10pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
 Anigreat:

This is exactly how Yekini Amoda will trace his ancestral root to Iragbiji after being humiliated in presidential poll next year. |
Health › Re: What Are Your Allergies? by Sholmakem(f): 8:45pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Anything that contain sugar ,then groundnut and it's products unless I take piritine immediately . Honestly I need a solution . |
Celebrities › Re: Crossdresser, James Brown Cries As He Mourns Late Queen Of England (Pix, Video) by Sholmakem(f): 12:08pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Waiting for Bobrisky's drama too |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does Your Church Still Preach About Rapture, Restitution, Great Tribulation? by Sholmakem(f): 12:09pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Yes o . Like every Sundays sermon . I pray may God help us to prepare ourselves for him . |
Celebrities › Re: Traditional Wedding Of Mercy Chinwo. Banky W, Others Attend (Photos, Video) by Sholmakem(f): 9:09am On Aug 13, 2022 |
I'm really happy for you sist. Congratulations � |
Politics › Re: Finally Registered For PVC by Sholmakem(f): 8:56pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
ote author=LeeSantos post=115229935]I have never like any thing that has to do with national registration because
1. Even when you get their early doesn't mean one would leave there early. 2. Nigerians are not always organised, no rules( even when there is it won't be adhered to). 3. Number doesn't matter( if you grease the hands of those in charge you will bypass 100 persons and this is a problem because half of the population are planning the same thing) 4. The worst is network. There is always a network problem from international passport to NIMC to BVN to PVC. Even when you get there early you might still end up not going it 5. Standing too long under the sun is an issue for me.
I don't know who brought it close to me, but the person or group of people try for me, if not I won't carry myself to local government where there are thousands of people waiting to register.
We were not much though and even for the fact I when 10am I still left there 6pm. They started with network issue, then to no more form, distributing the form like it was expensive. The only issue now is collecting the the PVC at local government, Na to call my plug when I get there. Cuz if not I fit leave the PVC for government hand. But I will try my best to collect it and also try my best to come out and vote.
Seriously I don't have any candidate in mind. When I get to that bridge I will know how to cross it.[/quote]Congratulations oo . Please use it wisely . |
Education › Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Sholmakem(f): 11:15pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
daveyjay: Good day NLers, please I need your take on this. I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.
A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now
I offered a roof over her head.
The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed
I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy. Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook. I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
She got angry and took some money and left
That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response. I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies
The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.
On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes... I made her understand that I am her benefactor. Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...
Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.
What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.
She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...
Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??! I like that your action bro . she's an idiot . |
Travel › Re: 5 Must-See Beautiful Places In Abuja by Sholmakem(f): 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
Still nothing to compare with other countries |
Health › Re: COVID-19 Update For April 14 2021 In Nigeria by Sholmakem(f): 12:44am On Apr 15, 2021 |
Daily routine |