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Nice thread

Owulufelix147:
God bless you and everything you stand for don’t mind the broke and broken OP

crack head !! How am I broken

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ityP:
So when I finally hammer, any babe I promise the world, I go fulfill that promise? Lmao. Just say you be gold digger. Like Tyrion said, “Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.”

a broke guy is filled with many promises n while an okay guy does more action

iammolise:
U clearly must be a child, probably in ur teens or u just crossed teenhood... So according to u a broke guy is a lazy person

only a fool thinks like u !! Did I see me type that ?

Benohio:
This one will just be using comma anyhow. Is this what she will teach her children? And u want to marry a rich man. Better go and look for one broke man now and marry

mtcheww

ityP:
This right here is why I was pissed at the post. If she made reference to "broke and lazy" only, I for jump pass this thread. I dey broke today, no mean say I lazy. I dey broke today, no mean say I go run leave my babe when I hammer. I dey rich today no mean say I go marry my babe. If I be playboy, whether I get money or I broke, I go chop pussy, still run leave am

u are lying to urself !! U don’t know how u would be when u make that money !! U don’t!! U can promise ur gf the world but still date someone else !! I stand my ground that u can never know a broke guy till he has some money in his pocket ,, n I don’t post for u to like it !!! U won’t be the first , but it’s the truth , deal with it

ityP:
This right here is why I was pissed at the post. If she made reference to "broke and lazy" only, I for jump pass this thread. I dey broke today, no mean say I lazy. I dey broke today, no mean say I go run leave my babe when I hammer. I dey rich today no mean say I go marry my babe. If I be playboy, whether I get money or I broke, I go chop pussy, still run leave am

it has always been broke and lazy o Mr man

PHijo:
If you want to copy, copy completely. In other climes they share all responsibilities, that includes house chores.

If women want men to "take care of them" while they [women] stay at home there is not point going to school! Nigerian women shouldn't exceed junior secondary school education if their dream in life is to be housewives.

so with my comment u believe I will be a full time housewife ? Not at all .. but my money is for me n my kids !! Not to share bills

PHijo:
You believe in unequal rights because if you believe in equal rights you wouldn't feel entitled to a man's money.

Men who work hard for their money don't toy with it, it is people who get their money through dubious means that play with it. The western world you girls try to imitate, men and women share ALL costs evenly.

If you want me to spend then you have to be LOYAL in ALL Ramifications. You will accept ALL I say because you can't eat your cake and have it!

What do I get from you in return?

okay.. so u think I don’t hv money ,, or the fact my husband will do the needful as he should ,, I wont hv something doing!! So I will take care of the home n share bills with my husband?? As a fool or a slave ? Never happening !!!

PHijo:
They don't even understand feminism they try to identify with, feminist don't allow men take charge. They have their own resources. If they settle for a man it is because of who he is and not material things he could offer.

feminism isn’t about men or women taking charge , feminism differs from one lady to another !!! And as for me,, I hv no issue with a man taking charge ,, as far he isn’t controlling n a narcissist . N yes I believe in equal right !! It’s not a competition between men n women !!! It’s a compromise that humanity comes first !!! Treat a women the way u want to be treated !!! ,,, Feminism isn’t about a woman being in charge !!! Lazy men think feminism is about us sharing bills !! Feminism is not about sharing bills !! I do not see myself sharing bills with any man in marriage !! Lie lie !! N yes I believe in equal rights!! Ask why ? Because there is already equality in marriage .

11doubledee:
I didn't want to post nothing.
Which one is "good to go",bia...
Is 15000 naira not five digits again?
Please correct me if am wrong.

if u hv 15k u hv to think about taking care of urself n making more money ,,, not women

franchasng:
Welcome sis.....

But you seem to be mistaken "broke" as "lazy".

Not all broke guys are lazy.

Also not all lazy guys are broke and I will explain.


There are guys who are currently broke because of lack of opportunity. They are trained professionals, bankers, marketers, accountants, technicians, tailors, welders, artisans, bricklayers but currently due to their location or something, they have not been able to find a job in their field to do to start earning income. This is the situation of most currently broke Nigerian guys, except the few that refused to work for certain pay out of greed while wasting their time doing internet scam, which are few in number.


Most broke guys in Nigeria are even graduates job-hunting. Some have hand work but no contract coming, some are in rarely hired skill or field.

On the other hand, there are thousands of lazy guys who are balling big, all thanks to their family connection, life's luck.....


So stop calling all broke guys "lazy" because most broke guys are not lazy, they are work in progress....they all have ambition and are working on something.

Some years ago, I was very broke even after graduating as best student in my department and 3rd best in school...and despite having some extra skills like AutoCAD, Web Design, Photoshop, CorelDraw, Data Processing and HTML coding skills back then oh! Maybe back then, people may have thought I was lazy, maybe because they didn't see me in construction sites carrying blocks and pushing wheelbarrow....so sis, don't call broke guys lazy, every guy you see out there wishes to be the next Dangote....and trust what I am telling you, Nigerian guys are the most ambitious men you can find anywhere in the world.


I have been to some countries, and I can tell you, Nigerian guys top the list of foreign immigrants and even migrants earning highest and found in all fields of life. Is it China, South Korea, Denmark, Ivory Coast, just name it.


It is just that the Nigerian environment and government is designed to kill young dreams! You need extra work, extra brain, extra luck, extra divine grace and extra smartness to make it big in Nigeria, don't blame our guys, they are not lazy......our ladies, you ladies ought to improve small....gone are the days only guys are expected to bring in the money because things have changed, ladies should also strive to be financially okay to assist their men so we all can have a better life, peace

broke n lazy together is a big issue,,, u can be broke as far u hv a job n u can atleast fed , there is a life of so much possibilities in ur future .


A guy who just graduated is looking for a job , n insists that if he doesn’t get an oil company work , or an office job, he is staying home, just imagine the foolishness ,, there r a lot of schools out there that can pay u atleast 40 to 50 k depending ,, but u refuse n rather beg from ur gf or friends, r u not dumb? Those r the kind of guys that irritate me the most ...

franchasng:
Let's be honest guy, this op (Shugalee) is absolutely correct, even though we may not like the way she is blunt and direct about the topic, but she is definitely saying the absolute truth - you can only know the true character (good & bad) of a guy when he is financially free!

This also applies to politicians and all humans, it is human trait. Buhari of 2000 - 2014 is not the same Buhari of 2015 - 2020. Buhari no longer cares about anybody's opinion because he now has the power and can afford to do whatever he wishes to do. Our governors do same in the 2nd tenure in office.


When a guy is financially broke, he cannot afford so many comfort that life offers - he barely travels because he cannot afford it or he is managing his scarce resources...he does not go on vacation to meet new people....he does not own a car which is a necessity in life, which also improves his charm as a man....he mostly cannot afford a decent housing, and so he manages almost everything, and for this, he has few friends. This will make the guy become loyal, humble and chaste (he will be forced to become a celibate because he can hardly afford to foot dating bills)....and he intentionally avoids expensive looking ladies or pretty ladies in an effort to avoid spending his scarce resources. Though some few foolish broke guys will be borrowing to deceive girls, while some resort to living fake life to lure girls to their bed.

Most broke guys date ladies below their taste, only few lucky broke guys end up getting their dream ladies as girlfriends, most end up with ladies they don't really fancy, so they just stay with the girl for curing konji, and once their financial life improves, they start going after the kind of girls they desire sadly, which makes their former girlfriend to feel betrayed.


Also, when you have more than enough money as a guy, your option of women will increase because more ladies will now see you as their dream guy, and you will automatically become admirable to more ladies of all class, and this lead most formerly broke guys into womanizing and sleeping around until they get bored of the whole cycle and start thinking of settling down, and any lady that meets their taste at that time they are retiring from multiple-dating different ladies, will obviously end up as their wife....that's how this thing works.


Money comes with lots of influence which most times bring out the beast in men - beast as in dating multiple ladies, not maltreating or physically abusing ladies.


So if you are single lady, don't date a broke guy with the sole hope of him marrying you once he gets some money, just date him for the fun of dating and because you enjoy his company, his lifestyle and how he treats you at the moment, don't date him because you want him to marry you when he becomes financially comfortable as a reward for dating him when he was broke; it doesn't always work out.


If you are a single lady in your 25yrs and above and wishing to get married soonest, please don't date broke guys, go for a guy working even if his salary is not that big, but at least he has something doing, and then make sure you too is earning some money too to support him as you guys grow together.

The sad truth is, with currently global economy, every wise man (rich or poor) wishes to marry a financially valuable lady who is working, doing business and earning some money to support him when necessary or if something happens to him in future.

Only foolish men marry jobless ladies and tell her to remain jobless as housewife without establishing her, while claiming to be rich.......it is dangerous to do today no matter how much you are worth as a man! Death can strike, what becomes the future of your kids you left



NOTE: any guy earning NGN100,000 and above in Nigeria is not broke!

NGN100,000 - 200,000 is an average income in Nigeria, and its very okay

NGN200,000 - 500,000 is very okay

NGN700,000 and above is considered a rich guy in Nigeria which is equivalent to someone earning $7000 - $10,000 monthly in US considering cost of living

even a guy earning as low as 50k isn’t broke in anyway. Broke and lazy is the issue . Not just broke.. thanks for ur understanding and ur views ,, very useful input

Honeydenz:
Very true, from experience I can boldly tell u that most well to do guys are already married. You will be rejoicing u have a rich boyfriend not knowing he has a wife and kids somewhere, so nothing for u... Just banging/spending. Even these days girls marry youth Corper with promising future even before he makes money. I have a relation who married as a Corper (male) baby girl already knew he was destined for greatness judging from d fact he's from a well-to-do home. That's the best bet, if u re waiting to date/marry a ready made guy u re just wasting ur time 90% of most cases, dude is married already.

u are only deceiving urself ,,, there r single guys out there with a source of income,, stop telling ladies to go for anything just to be married ,,, they should work on themselves fine!! But hv a right to pick a man best for them !!! Infact there r rich single guys out there!!! So stop saying what makes no single sense,,

ACE1010:
A desperate woman will be lied to. So don't market yourself to dudes not necessarily broke ones. A dude is a dude, whether broke or rich.

what do u mean I dude is a dude

pocohantas:
Shut up. Go and continue licking his ass. Make e fit send you small something again. Useless alfa male. Spits on him.



Appease people that lick asses of their fellow men for stipends? Which mumu oracle be that one?

lol this one loud

jollyjane:
You are right. It is common among Ondo state guys.

it’s common everywhere my dear

Tobadessss:
I am a medium 5-digit earner and hardworking...what category do I fall to??

good to go !!

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I'm sorry but I need to correct the bolded. ladies have nothing to offer but sex. Should you need further explanation, contact me

do explain

franchasng:
the op is know that rich guys is very bad guys, they is have too plenty girlfriends everywhere, but she are saying that is it better ladies is dating rich bad guys than is it dating broke guys forms good guys since because they is broke.


She correct, letting us talks truth

thank you , get into any relationship with ur eyes wide open

born2begreat:
What of if he has source of income but he’s not earning much��

he’s not lazy !! N he can fed for him self, why not

Xmen149:
so,.if a woman marry a man with source of income and he loose not long after they are together,she should find another man with source of income?

I wonder where you people pull this dream of a teaching from ,

Ilet me as: what keeps two people together when money has stopped flowing,or both are aged and sex no longer a priority,or no baby after years of marriage.

if you are basing your advice on dating then cool cos individuals date for purpose best known to them and type of dating agreed by both

else stop receiving young naive souls that tap knowledge from the wealth of internet

that’s a different issue ,,, u knew him when he had something. U cant trust him. The major issue is trust n character

Lighero:
Secondly Aunty there is nothing like a Rich good guy. You paint the picture that all rich men are good this is fallacious.Money only reflects the character and personality of it's holder

The truth is , u will know he’s true person n character !! If u can cope with it , good for you !! If u can’t u leave !!! Some ladies date broke guys n when he’s rich , he becomes a different character,, n they hv no choice but to remain in the rotten relationship because I suffer with am!! When ordinarily that’s not what u wanted for urself .. if u strong enough u leave the fool but with so much regret in ur heart

AkuOlisa:
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From 2010 till 2017 I was as broke as a school rat.
My girlfriend then stood by me even when people like you keep telling her to abandon me not because I did something bad, but simply because I was broke. But she stood her ground.
To day I can afford to spend 1M everyday for the next 3 years and still be ok.
As for that my girlfriend, bought a duplex, lands and cars for her, as long as I am alive she will be receiving 100k every month. The only reason we are not married is because of genotype. ( we are both As)

Being broke is just a phase.
Character is Everything.

Anybody can formulate any story on nairaland .

Lighero:
Excuse me lady, that's he is broke today doesn't mean he is not going to be rich tomorrow. Nobody is a "waste". Don't use this word ever again please. I agree some men can be Dem lazy, but nobody is a waste. Talk to the ones who can listen and they would change for the better.

he might be rich tomorrow but would he still choose u then? It’s not that he won’t be rich!! Read to understand

pocohantas:
I thought I fcked my boss to buy an SUV, suddenly my room is bedbug infested? Your bitterness will consume you and na my matter go cause am.

Fool!

lol