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delugajackson:
Nigerian nurses can be so disrespectful. They be like: "Open your Bumbum."

Me: Just like that? No drinks? No "can I get to know you? Not even "hey, hello or how are you?"

lol

Bank people o,, especially first bank costumer care

In this case is not about it being right but being right for you,,, u can’t tell people how to raise their kids,,, and because ur children don’t twerk doesn’t mean ur kids will hv a better future.. so just do what u feel is right

This makes no sense,,, Op if u hv a small breast u are beautiful,,, don’t open a thread so people would uplift ur low self esteem

dairykidd:
Lol.. Okay na. Maybe it was intended to make the viewers have conflicting perceptions sha but all the same its a good movie & i guess both main characters have each got blames tho

exactly,,, non is blameless but the lady could hv rehabilitated and took advice at the right time..maybe she won’t hv died!! Cause she benefited nothing from the relationship at end but gave so much.. I feel if Robert was with the highest faults this argument won’t exist

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dairykidd:
A lot people confuse love with being overly possessive & a lot of other emotions.. No one kills what they love. Love is love & can never be something else... Yeah he dedicated a lot of time on his project & failed to get another real job. Mind u dont forget that he tried to & was discouraged when he couldn't because of past criminal record over something he did in his much younger years. Robert is no saint but watch the movie again without sentiments. 18 years u say.. Lol he was willing to dedicate his whole life to loving her & her a lone but she ditched him to fûck her ex & was even planning on spending the rest of her life with her if Robert hadn't made it because of another lady's love, belief & dedication towards what he stood for... His passion & dreams. If he didn't blow she for forget am like 18 years was 18 minutes

okay fine,,, I guess that’s how u hv chosen to comprehend the movie,, n that’s okay,,hv a lot to say but I dontwant a back and forth arguement... Robert never loved her... that’s fact n it’s all over the movie.

Babyforever:
Sometimes you just have to fake it to boost their ego nothing more

true

Hanseel1:
Ask her these questions :if Robert didn't make it later, would she have wanted him back?

If she loved him as you claim, why did she tell him that they can never be together again when Robert went to give her the money?

Oh, she suddenly knew that she love him after he realized that Robert have made it.


Many ladies saying Melinda loved Robert and blah blah are doing so because of sentiments and emotions.

lol ,, okay so why did she put up with his lazy ass for 18years? Will u feed n house someone u hate for 18 years? Can u hv someone like that n bear for 18 years with out letting go at a point This is not sentiments but logical questions,,,

Hanseel1:
Ask her these questions :if Robert didn't make it later, would she have wanted him back?

If she loved him as you claim, why did she tell him that they can never be together again when Robert went to give her the money?

Oh, she suddenly knew that she love him after he realized that Robert have made it.


Many ladies saying Melinda loved Robert and blah blah are doing so because of sentiments and emotions.

lol ,, okay so why did she put up with his lazy ass for 18years? Will u feed n house someone u hate for 18 years?

Oluwolex2000:
By Komolafe Daniel

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A Nigerian lady simply identified as @OmowumiBright on twitter has taken to the platform to say that no man can spend his money to buy ice cream and pizza for a lady without expecting something from her in return.

In her words; “No guy on this planet will buy you coldstone of N2500 and Pizza of N4000 without asking for a reward. Just go for Ponmo sauce or fish if you don’t want them to press your breast.”

See her tweet below;

Her tweet has caused outrage especially among guys who have taken to her comment section to voice out their opinions on the matter.

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See some comments below;

@alphamale_888: Im just wondering how many different experiences it took you to get the statistics ��

So dey want to slack ur breast for pizza ?

— Mr Humble (@humble69483627) August 15, 2018

Lmao hope they didn't press your brezz �

— Ola Of Lagos (@ItsHimOlaa) August 15, 2018

These kind of things you only learn through participant observation.

— Judosh (@JudoshJudah) August 15, 2018

Source: Komolafe Daniel

lol it’s just food,,, but there is a little truth in this

dairykidd:
Why do u say that he never loved her? I believe he did love her & if u say he used her i can as well say she used him too by investing in his project in order to reap the long term rewards gonly to become mad, bitter & evil when she realised she was on the loosing end. She was the one who never loved him.. how can u want to destroy what u claim to love or to have loved with so much hate? Its a movie tho but it cuts a lot across real life.

lol people kill for love ,,, don’t even argue that!!! She was crazy n needed help !!! But she fucking loved him, 18 years of her life,,, feeding him,, he refused to get a little job, sitting home pursuing his project!!! Please no talk am abeg!!! Except no be the acrimony wey I watch!!! I believed the woman messed things for herself,,, but that doesn’t make Robert a saint

dairykidd:
Just saw the movie.. Can't help but love Tyler Perry more. Melinda was on the right track as the dream woman every struggling guy prays for but along the line her temperament got the best of her & was fuelled by her unintelligent sister who never liked Robert from day one.. She should have moved on as it was she (Melinda) who divorced him even when she knew he loved her with his soul. She fûcked up. Anyway 99% of women do the same all the time & then starts crying like "i was there for him when he had nothing, now he's made it he dumped me" when the truth of the matter is that u were there really but u weren't there when it mattered most.. In fact most ladies are dream killers.. They are never patient enough till the end, they can't endure pressure like men. And anyone saying he didn't fight for her needs their brain checked. How can u fight for someone who has given up on u totally.. He even tried to in court but she would have none of that (with her sisters help tho) The more u try to do that as a man the more u will be put down, then depression follows & if ur not strong enough u loose focus completely & die a fûcking wretch.. Women na wah sha.. Their matter too dey one kind.

he never loved her please!! He used her!!! Even if I know she indeed made some mistakes,,, I won’t neglect that fact,,,, he never loved her,,, not even a tiny bit. He stayed with her cause he had no choice,,, when he had a choice he moved on to someone else with out looking back,, he returned the money cause that’s all he saw her as,,, (someone helping him financially and not a lover)

realtalk19:
Robert had no fault.he was fair ok only that it took a long time to achieve his dream. What pained ' cookie ' was seeing her ex husband enjoying the luxuries with the lady he cheated on her with which made her react by slamming her car against his van and she lost her womb thru that. She could av walked away and moved on. She was a bitter,unforgiving and dangerously desperate.

That movie is dope

true thats what hurt her!!! I feel the beginning of her problems was when she tried killing her man cause he cheated!!! Maybe if she didn’t do that, just maybe, she wouldn’t hv lost her womb,, n Robert won’t hv to marry her out of pity. She made herself a money bank,, she was advised but never listened,, she wasn’t treating the man well either,,,is like the world wants Robert to stay in such a toxic relationship because she fit his bills,,, no one forced her,,, she got advice but refused to listen,, now he left after u divorced him n want him to run back to you!! She was mentally sick n refused help!!! But no!!! we should all blame Robert but not the lady !!!! Really?? She was aggressive n strong but very dumb!! Robert might not hv loved her, but he was willing to stay with her...

placeofallure:
There's no formula, forget all the tips they're giving you here. If you like turn sun to moon, in reality, you can't keep a man that does not want to be kept. Work on yourself and be good, a man who'll stay will stay.

lol not necessarily,,, I feel we tell this to ourselves to console ourselves.... not in all cases but most,,, when we end a relationship,, we always know there is was something we could hv done better. What’s urs is urs,,, but we can’t neglect the fact that our action n decisions shape our lives

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, there is absolutely NOTHING a woman can do to keep a man, because if a man doesnt want you, then nothing will keep him with you.....but regardless, if a woman says she loves a man then she should do ANYTHING to please that man. what men hate the most is women who are not willing to please their every demand/desire



if you are dating a criminal and want to keep him then YES

okay noted

MrBrownJay1:
if you are in love with someone, then doing anything to please that person IS exactly what to do

i feel that doing what they want u to do won’t make a man want you ,,, it reduces ur self confidence,,, men like women with strong will,,,, men hate women they can control totally .

MrBrownJay1:
if you are in love with someone, then doing anything to please that person IS exactly what to do

like committing a crime?

Topmaike007:
and also shun unwanted anger, not every word someone trows at you that deserve reply..

yeah but u do sometimes ,,Some men need strong action women,,, but not everytime,,, but do when necessary

xoxo001:
women are never satisfied, no matter what you do for a woman she will still say "what have done for me" they are just like blacks, they always feel cheated.

u think this way cause they both hv something in common,,, they both hv suffered oppression n trying to get self consciousness,,,we learn everything that’s a problem to you but good to us

Topmaike007:
at least satisfy him first so he will not go

true tho, aleast know that side . Lol

Topmaike007:
I will say you should keep away from distance relationship..
it destroy relationship

I hate it so bad,,, I feel distant relationship is punishment

MrBrownJay1:
because a woman "supposedly" in love would do ANYTHING to keep her man... and its the ones pretending to be in love who would ask what to do in such case.

okay I grab,,, but u would do anything,,, when u know exactly what to do

Barayeks:
I agree with everything said up there and it's all very valid but the comment I'm about to make is just as valid and needs to be said even if it isn't mutually exclusive.
Please let's stop Congratulating Women for taking care of a part of the bills

A woman pays the children's school fees one time when the husband couldn't for certain reasons and she suddenly becomes a "strong hardworking independent" Woman.
We should give her Coldstone ice cream for what exactly?
Please let your "praise singing" be on the same level when fathers pay too, especially considering they are the ones who regularly do so.
Stop giving women special passes

In middle management all over the world, the number of men with high blood pressure increases steadily and this is directly related to providing for their family, wife's family and extended family. Men take an unfair burden of provision and this impacts their health.
So let's stop this narrative that women are doing something exceptional when they spend money doing things expected of a parent.

#mgtow

I totally agree with her,, it’s not like it’s not a good thing for man to take up his responsiblity,,, but it’s his responsibility,,,, people shouldn’t act like he is doing the woman a Favour... that’s his kid yo

BiafranBushBoy:
Now go get a job

done that already,, thanks

Topmaike007:
but some men prefer getting it in a reliable source.
like getting it with her main chick

yup main chicks they can change when they want

MrBrownJay1:
any woman "supposedly in love" should know the answer to this question....and if they dont then i guess they are NOT in love to begin with.

why u think so ?

BiafranBushBoy:
you should be ... how old?

18 - 20 years I guess!

I think you should be majorly concerned as to how you can come outta school with good grades and get a good - and probably keep it.

Not how to keep a man! Unless you just got a job as a man keeper in a psychiatric facility.

graduated since 2014

Topmaike007:
offer him your pussy and I bet you he will not go, especially when it is not yet slack.

I think sex is nothing to men tho,,, yeah they love it,,,but it’s something that can be gotten anywhere

To me confidence goes a long way,,, to making a mark in a man’s heart,, unknowingly to him

How much can u show a man love enough to make him stay?? Guys what exactly turns u on about a woman,,,,,, please I don’t wanna hear independent or suffer with me blah blah blah here,,, ladies answer too but ladies please I don’t want nothing can keep a man blah blah blah,,,, we know all these things but I want deeper answers on what hv helped you literally