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gabpaul:
because they have nothing to offer...LMAO..

just the way Buhari n other president before him offered you so much right Hving a good president, got nothing to do with sex!!

ChiefAzubuike:
Eunice Atuejide is the right one for the job. Nigeria needs change, put sexism aside, I believe this woman can bring about that positive change. Young, vibrant, extremely intelligent, presentable.

Would have gone for that Sowore guy but that one resemble thug. Moghalu isn't too bad either.

She needs your support. Nigeria you can.

I like Eunice but The stuff she said about not knowing about feminism? Got me off her case!!! There is no chance for her

iwriterng:
All these gender sensitive people ehn. Na so you go do reach the level of not kneeling down on your traditional wedding day. ☹️

honestly I won’t

Lonestar124:
One among them(feminist)

Sowore for 2019 no retreat, no surrender.

lol I like that guy too

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This is nice tho but why did u hv to put the lady as last??

I totally agree with her,, most of the stories written in the Old Testament r trash

MajorJeffery:
Why are nearly all self acclaimed feminists I've seen unappealing to the eyes?

self acclaimed feminist U all talk like feminism is a certificate!! It’s an ideology

ultimate77:
girlfriend, its a 2way thing. Not just men. As a matter of reality, if this happens, the both were not meant to roll. Its either for the fun or for the lessons.

I don’t agree with the last part cause this happens to married people as well

majorgr:
people don't understand that this is a sarcastic statement, what he meant was he was actually nice till he met her... in other words all men are nice till they meet that crazy lady that turns them otherwise... he was politely telling her she was crazy!!!

lol,,, there is nothing sarcastic abt this,, he said what he said!!

OgogoroFreak:
women are always good as they were in the beginning?

yes most times,, if guys don’t change,, they wont

daveP:
Sorry to ask, how do you hear from God then and how do you reach him and relate with him?

please re read the comment I quoted me on n u get ur answer

Mynd44:
True But bro, it is her body. I think it is sad that women can't just say no and men respect it so they have to come up with lies like "I have headache" some even wear sanitary pad and stain it with sauce because the man will want to see.

honestly it’s pathetic

MYND44ISANIDIOT:
Seriously You can't even write intelligently and yet you come here to talk nonsense and commit the fallacy of hasty generalization. . . "men have bad character" bla bla. Like you have actually dated all men to come to your conclusion.

Your command of English alone is enough to chase men away from your life.

I think you have a lot to worry about first than how supposedly bad the character of men are.

I take God beg u!!! No be u I follow yan, thank you! Further more,, I will write hdguvdcjhcdchyvdgjhfffvjidhivx as much as I please ,, u didn’t get me my phone or provided my data,, so either u try to understand or u move pass it,,, I am of no obligation to please u or impress u,, u are less than useless as far I am concerned. Next time when u see my comment just move on.. thanks ones more.

pocohantas:
LOL. Men also say the same thing about us. I think we just get too comfortable most times, especially when we've gotten the other party to commit. You see a perfect gentleman would become a stress inducing husband, a figure8-fashion-conscious-partner gets the ring and starts expanding in a geometric progression.

We have a poor maintenance culture, it is evident in the way we treat living and non-living things ..

lol

pocohantas:
Not just men. It is a general problem ; daily calls, gifts, never forgetting birthdays, weekly anniversaries, early morning text messages, voice notes... and then, see finish sets in .

You start reducing it all, you now remember you have a job and you're or should be busy.

The one that annoys me pass, has to be those ones that say,
"It is not about you, it's me, put the blame on me."

as in ehn!! That’s why no matter how nice u r to me at first,, dating u hv to be morally right to me first,, not just love,,, so when he fucck up I know it was a logical decision!!! Men hv this bad character,,, they ain’t as good as they were in the beginning

Takeit2017:
Dear men, is this true?

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5b8572976402d.JPG

More @: http://trendzbase..com/2018/08/see-what-ladys-boyfriend-told-her-after.html

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

very true

MissRaine69:
I will do as I please ...and there is nothing and I mean nothing you can do to stop me.
So get with the programme.

Lol am done with this shittt!!! Na u sabi!!

MNDY:
To believe in God and also be a feminist defies all logic.

defies all logic to you?? Not me. I believe in God n not the Bible I must not agree with everything written in the Bible cause it was written by humans like me n you, not God himself,, most especially the fact it was written by men

funsho75:
After reading a lot of posts and comments i realized that most Nigerians are not actually against feminism (the true feminism which preach equal opportunity for both gender)

But they are actually against most Nigeria feminist and the way they go about their quest

Guys woh do u think?

what I know is ,,, if they ain’t against feminism then things should be equal indeed,, then I doubt they would hv a problem with feminist

Amberon11:
Pls don't educate your daughters o, because feminism gave way for the girl child education. And how is feminism putting down the make gender. You people just feel threatened that women are now being woke and taking charge of their own lives.

That's a very foolish question. It's like asking why Saudi women are prohibited from moving freely when their men go anywhere they want.

exactly my dear

Unapologetic feminist ! N I love Jesus,, Jesus said love ur neighbor like yourself!!! N that’s how it is for me. Full stop,, nothing is gonna change

maxlev1:
Dear OP, I am have been in a distance relationship for over 2yrs now and our love has been growing stronger and stronger. We have even agreed to get married in a year's time or 2yrs time at most due to her education. The first thing that bonds a relationship either close or distant is LOVE. Don't let anyone deceive u against d power of true love. The truth is that when there is genuine/true love, nothing else comes first. A Professor can marry a stark illiterate because of Love. A Queen can marry a hunter because of Love. What am saying is that if u and ur bf truly loves(not a love of interest) each other, then U guys are 80% safe to keep d relationship. Other important factors that will keep u guys are regular communication, trust, commitment. I wish ur relationship d best.

thanks Biggs ,,

WORDWORLD:
"This scene is a SHINNING EXAMPLE of how STUP!DLY women can think and expect men to read minds". (Quoting a comment below on YouTube by Kerrbox perhaps you read it too)


AND YES INDEED MEN really need to major in the art and science of mind reading called PSYCHOLOGY if MEN want to be successful with WOMEN!!!

Because he needs to be able to LISTEN to and be able to UNDERSTAND what a woman is not saying.

What a woman is saying is at most times THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG, which is 30% on the surface, the remaining 70% lies beneath the surface for you to dig to discover, which is where the ADVENTURE is.

So, how?!

By taking his time to understanding the main language WOMEN use in communicating with and to MEN which is called BODY LANGUAGE. It takes working on one's insights and institutions through practicing HONEST OBSERVATION AS TO GESTURES. Honesty is the key to acquiring this skill.

Hmmm.... EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE!!!

One of the most important qualities men should strive to possess ABOVE AVERAGE is emotional intelligence. HIGHLY SENSITIVE MEN, make the best LOVERS. A high IQ-INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT, does not predispose an individual to be a good lover nor the fat size of his bank account nor huge size of his 'BANG-BANG-BIGALO'.

Emotional Intelligence, because he is always able to probe into the mood of his significant other. For WOMEN at most times do not open up, even though a CONFIDENT WOMAN.


Overall, it gives anyone who cares to master the art of mind reading a very great advantage in human affairs in general, because, BODY LANGUAGE DOESN'T LIE. Hence, you can always be calculative of people before the make their MOVES like in the game of chess.

And so, even when it is verbal, listen to the under tune and outer tones. It's not what she is saying but how she is saying it.

The same with writing, take note of the temperament with which it was written.

Fourthly, by adding up a woman's CLAIMS plus her CIRCUMSTANCIAL ATTITUDE gives at least a CLEAR POINT PERSPECTIVE, OR MULTIPLE POINTS if not an HOLISTIC VIEW, devoid of CARICATURE.

Let me illustrate better by using Shugavee,

This is a CLAIM of her's:



And then, her

CIRCUMSTANCIAL ATTITUDE:



What is the answer to this SUMMATION?!

Couple with the already mentioned CLAIM about ANTI-FEMINIST WOMEN that they are SEX STARVED and then bearing in mind her CLAIM as a FEMINIST.

So, the question is,

What is the ONLY THING that can make a woman stick to a guy?

Well according to Shugavee, who is now so DEPRESS and SCARED because her boyfriend is planning to or is already far away, OCEANS APART already told us her answer which is the Bolded below:




Now, Shugavee let me advice you as a gentleman.

I will adivce you to either ask your BF if it's okay by him to allow your EX helping you to manage that SENSATION between your thighs before he comes back so that it becomes an AGREEMENT and not INFIDELITY as to save you of sex starvation.



Or you, choose to FASTING on alternate days until he comes back.

For such a one point perspective, if not a holistic view of what she is not saying is by now VERY CLEAR.

ITS NOT ABOUT WHETHER HE IS A BROKE GUY BUT THE SEX.

All that I have quoted are your own CLAIMS, not a general claim by all women.

https://www.nairaland.com/4332439/sex-keep-woman-ladies-dont

https://www.nairaland.com/4418198/missing-ex

Which of them can you deny.

Well, am glad about is that you not living in SELF DENIAL, at least have an understanding that SEX at most times cannot keep a MAN.

"WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES" is a title of a book, a best seller written by a woman,Sherry Agrov and whose aim of writing this book is to serve as a woman's guide to winning a man's heart (not just his BABA-ISALE).


"HERE TAKE MY BODY. And I made you a cake. Please be nice. Please marry me. I WILL EVEN JACK MY BUTT UP NICE AND HIGH LIKE THEY DO IN YOGA. Its comfortable being upside down. Really, I JUST LOVE IT".

"JUST BECAUSE A MAN SLEEPS WITH YOU DOESN'T MEAN HE'S THINKING ABOUT THE FUTURE. FOR HIM TO THINK FOREVER, THERE MUST BE SOMETHING HE RESPECTS WITHIN YOU. LIKE A STRONG WIT....AND A STRONG MIND". Says Sherry Agrov.


SO, LEFT TO YOU TO FIGURE OUT, WHAT IS THAT NICHE YOU HAVE CREATED FOR YOURSELF APART FROM SEX WORTHY OF MAKING YOU HIS NUMBER ONE PRIORITY, EVEN THOUGH FAR AWAY?!




"Look at what is arising as information for what is truly happening. Don't pretend what's happening is not happening and stick your head in the sand".


WOMAN!!!

"Thinking that a man will LOVE you if you SELF-SACRIFICE and show him how much you will let him walk all over you in ordr for you to get your needs met is just DUMB". (Kelly Marceau)


"The TRUTH is ladies, a lot of you trade in your value for: WHO YOU WANT A GUY TO BE FOR YOU, the minute you get googley-eyed and enamored".

"A man's abilities, his short comings, his issues, and his emotional habits are reflecting who he is on the inside. His potential is NOT WHO HE IS. How he acts is WHO HE IS. Men are not who they are on they out-side (flashy cars, mansion, or broke ass). They're not always the package you want them to be. They're who they are on the inside and unless you can look inside, THE HOAX IS ON YOU". (Kelly Marceau)

"YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE". Says Kelly Marceau another mentor of mine.

"It is your right to want what you want. And you can own what you want, but make sure that you are coming at it for the right reasons, NOT FROM A PLACE OF INADEQUACY AND INSECURITY. COME FROM A GENUINE PLACE OF DESIRE, SEEING THIS AS A TRUE REFLECTION OF YOUR WORTH AND VALUE. Its ok to desire nice things. JUST NOT AT THE COST OF SUBSTANCE."

"When you are willing to cut yourself short to maintain the image in light of what ever issues are arising there is something fishy going on. AND THE SMELL IS GOING TO HAUNT YOUR ASS UNTIL YOU ACKNOWLEDGE THE FOULNESS OF ITS ODOUR".

"The complicatedness of relatedness comes from what's underneath the surface. The emotional landscape, for most it is a barren waste land of memory, fears, pain, trauma and things left unexamined, unhealed, when you are falling for someone's eyes, the way their mouth moves when the talk and all the things that create your perfect little fantasy world, and not paying attention to who this person is down under...IT IS NO WONDER MOST WOMEN ARE STUPIFIED when crying to me. HE'S NOT WHAT I THOUGHT HE WAS". Kelly Marceau.

ur advice isn’t useful but it’s nice u took time to go through all my threads n come up with a research about me,,,, I am staying faithful to my man n I love him cause he is amazing not just sex even if I know he is the best I miss him cause he makes me laugh n makes me feel safe... our love will stand the test of time.. thanks but no thanks

Amakababe:
Pls help me, i recently tried no sex no masturbtion for 36 days and relapsed on the 37th and since then ive been gettin fûcked en masse, like constant K. 24/7

I dont need this sexual feelings. I need to suppress them. Help me. I feel guilt after each sexual round.

it depends.. but well I can stay without sex as long as I want,, but would use my toy ones a month or two months,, body no be firewood

No responsible man will admit to such a thing,, even if he does it

Twoclans:
Data is really cheap .

Abeg make I carry my wahala dey go.

my dear I am right behind you

Ndonu101:
This news from the White House was a calculated leak designed to Wake Nigerians up against Buhari

The world is not impressed with Buhari leadership

more embarrassments to come in the near future, watch out!

exactly..

vanbonattel:
Am very very angry right now, how can people open their mouths and start insulting our president? Buharri is not lifeless! He is just BRAIN DEAD.

lol

Chubhie:
Someday, you would look back in hindsight and thank those your friends who seems to be making your life hell today for holding a mirror to you.

Welcome to your baptism of fire. Your current approach will land you faster to your doom. Don't resist this! Accept your current weakened position, embrace it wholeheartedly and redesign yourself.

Drop James hardly chase and read The Laws Of Power and The Prince to first understand the game some humans would play with you.

When Fathers have abandoned their duties, this is the fallout.

so right, been there.. I had to learn how to deal with humans,,, what I did wrong n how to make things better to make me mentally strong,, made a plan n it worked , cut people off,, started going to new places like the gym to meet new friends,,,, grew thick skin ,,, self love which helped my confidence n learning to ignore shitt