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FamilyRe: Help, I'm Not Emotionally Attached To My Mother, Siblings And Extended Family by Shyboyk(m): 4:31pm On Sep 18, 2023
MisterBanny:
Good day everyone. This topic shouldn't be on this Section, but I really need it to gain traffic urgently reason I am doing this here. My apologies.

I am from a family of four. The eldest. I hail from Plateau state. I lost my Dad when I was 10yrs. After my dad's burial, I went to live with a paternal anty who maltreated me so badly that I almost committed Suicide. I was like a slave. You can think of all the dehumanizing treatments in life. I started High sch. No sponsor.

Same anty never paid my fees for once, yet I was like a slave to her and her children. Throughout my secondary school, there was NO session that I ever wrote complete exams for 1, 2 and 3rd Terms. I would write maybe 6papers and not write the remaining papers, I will miss the next term's exams totally and write a few papers the final term of the session due to not paying sch fees. I was so ridiculed & mocked by my classmates cos of the constant embarrassment. As a result of this, I became an introvert. I couldn't even ask questions in class or socialize with my mates. No friends. My fee was #800 at the time. A private sch. I was so determined to get education & prayed God to pls help me bear whatever I faced at that time.

During this period, my mum who is unlettered stayed back in the village with my siblings and had to remarry. I got really pissed and cried myself out when I heard about the marriage cos I had no prior knowledge about it. My mum up till now has NEVER given me anything like Money in my Life. Highest she ever gave me was 1k at once...

At a point some person's even asked me if I still had a Mum particularly whenever I tried to seek help from them.
I was undeterred, wrote my WAEC, had 4-Distinctions and 4-credits and a Pass in Geography, then wrote JAMB, scored 220 and got admission to the University. I had to Hussle to pay my fees throughout. I spent 8yrs in the University due to money constraints. My mum never showed much concern. At a point I said I would drop out and to my shock, she said I should do so if I wanted to. Thank God I done with my Degree.
During and after NYSC she would always call me almost everyday talking about money. Making demands on me. I was always sending to her cos no matter what, she's my mum.

At a point, I wasn't responding to her calls for months and never sent money again. She started telling people that I wasn't calling her or picking her calls or helping her. She also instigated my younger siblings against me and they started disrespecting me. Anyone of us who has money and gives to her at that particular period is who she will become friends with then starts reporting negative things about others to the person that is currently giving her money. Some things would be done and I will never be aware except an outsider tells me. I felt so bad about all these and I decided to stay aloof and estranged from my family. I don't call except once in a while. My mum has been calling for almost a month now but I haven't picked cos money will be involved in the conversation and I don't have now.
Pls advise me.

The last straw was when I got Mobilized for NYSC and had nothing to even use for transport to the camp. I consulted a cooperative that she belongs in to loan me some money, but did u know that after they accepted to give me the loan the next day, I went back and they started giving me excuses. I later heard from an impeccable memeber of the cooperative that it was my mum that asked them not to grant me the loan. Her reason was that I may not pay back and she didn't want the responsibility of repaying to fall back on her. Same woman that has never given me any dime. Mind you, she has money to buy the latest Wrappers but can't help me.

She attends almost all the burials in the village even when the deceased isn't related to her and likes to drink alcohol. I have talked to her about this but she wouldn't listen.
Stay away from anything or anyone that would stress u even if she is your mom stay away but not totally
PoliticsRe: Edo Deputy Governor, Shaibu, Attempts To Force His Way Into Governor's Office by Shyboyk(m): 12:27pm On Sep 18, 2023
This one no go dae see money chop …the thing don choke am … e no easy even for where e easy
RomanceRe: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Shyboyk(m): 5:08pm On Aug 15, 2023
How does one sleep with someone by mistake 😅😅 una own don too much
PoliticsRe: Lawyer Sues Emir Ibrahim Sulu-Gambari For Stopping Ilorin Isese Festival by Shyboyk(m): 5:03pm On Aug 15, 2023
EcoBrick:
https://punchng.com/lawyer-sues-emir-for-stopping-ilorin-isese-festival/
You are worshipping your own god that does not mean u have to stop others that want to worship their own gods … let everyone worship what they all believe in and if they get destroyed it won’t affect u …just do your own as long as u know it’s right let it not be because u are worshipping your own you think that others are doing the wrong thing
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Southampton (3 - 3) On 22nd April 2023 by Shyboyk(m): 9:41pm On Apr 21, 2023
Gunayo:
over cut dey worry am
E don even cut sef 3-1
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Southampton (3 - 3) On 22nd April 2023 by Shyboyk(m): 9:27pm On Apr 21, 2023
LeeSmart:
If arsenal fit do come back win dis game, 4k each for the 1st 3 persons way go quote dis post, na only dem remain 4 ticket.
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Your ticket go cut oga
FamilyRe: 'Ashawo' Can Tackle 10 Men Daily; You Have No Excuse Not To Satisfy Your Husband by Shyboyk(m): 2:35pm On Mar 09, 2023
Anything way one like make una do
CrimeRe: Housewife Poisons Her Husband To Death In Borno, Says "I Hate Marriage" by Shyboyk(m): 1:06pm On Oct 31, 2022
Amaka791:
See this one

But why is she looking this way,and her husband is looking that way?
The man looks younger than her and also fresher then her
SportsRe: Van Diyk Loses His First Premier League Game At Anfield After 4 Years by Shyboyk(m): 10:16am On Oct 30, 2022
aujile:
He chose to leave for a reason. Now if they valued him, they knew how they would have kept him
A player made his mind to leave they can’t force him to play …even if you have 5 years left in your contract and you decide to leave the club they can’t force you to stay the only thing would be your release clause…mane said he needed a new challenge that was why he left
SportsRe: Van Diyk Loses His First Premier League Game At Anfield After 4 Years by Shyboyk(m): 10:11am On Oct 30, 2022
Flier:
He only want improved contract sadly they couldn’t offer him because they don’t have regard for black players no matter how good they are and now they have to lose millions of euro because of the silly decision to let him leave
Meanwhile Bayern will probably win the Champions league while Klopp will probably be out of job
Why should they offer him contract when he still had a year left in his contract mane just wanted to leave so the club let him go he said it himself he needed a new challenge

SportsRe: Van Diyk Loses His First Premier League Game At Anfield After 4 Years by Shyboyk(m): 6:08am On Oct 30, 2022
thetech:
Liverpool is on a downward course. He sold Mane to keep Salah, now Salah can not keep them from falling. Klopp probably has lost his touch
I’m not a Liverpool fan but you guys should stop saying Liverpool sold mane the guy chose to leave
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 22nd October 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 2:42pm On Oct 22, 2022
Roseodd:
Guys please pray for me,if this game end like this,nah 5.1million I go hammer today
You won this one bro �
Spread the love ❤️ nothing is too small
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Zenith bank
PhonesRe: Best Phone I Can Get With 40k by Shyboyk(m): 5:49am On Oct 20, 2022
taofeeq137:
Dunno if you’ll be interested, I have a Samsung Galaxy S10 plus, my personal phone, I want to sell it for around 50k

The screen is cracked but it works fine, it’s been cracked for a month now
Where are you staying bro
CelebritiesRe: Bimbo's Brother Calls Out IVD For Watching & Videoing Her Burn & Infecting Her by Shyboyk(m): 9:35am On Oct 17, 2022
Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2MkrBKh_-A

Bimbo's Brother Calls Out IVD for Watching & Videoing Her Burn & Infecting Her with HIV


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CjxjdeEgmNb/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Your sister is dead and you are posting haaaaaaaa on ig that means you are not serious
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Aston Villa Vs Chelsea (0 - 2) On 16th October 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 6:05pm On Oct 16, 2022
Great100000:
O boy.....

Am I seeing another person or the same Kepa wey I know.

See world class saves.
I swear …first it was uzoho today it’s kepa seems table has turned
CrimeRe: Mob Burns Suspected Robber Alive In Aba Over Generator Set Theft by Shyboyk(m): 6:32pm On Oct 09, 2022
Metrix147:
Source: https://abntv.com.ng/news/mob-lynch-suspected-generator-thief-in-aba/
I may understand what it feels like to have something you worked for stolen but I can never support jungle justice
CrimeRe: Two Nigerians Jailed For 40 Years For Robbing Mobile Money Vendor In Ghana by Shyboyk(m): 7:16am On Oct 04, 2022
Peterobiisathie:
https://gna.org.gh/2022/10/two-nigerians-jailed-40-years-for-robbery/

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/10/two-nigerians-jailed-for-40-years-for-robbing-mobile-money-vendor-in-ghana-2.html
I noticed something in this nairaland once igbos commit a crime the are quick to post it here but these same crimes are being committed be other tribes and I don’t see those news here …me I’m not Igbo but these things are not good
CrimeRe: Charles Chukwuma Onwuemelie "Blue Cloth Bandit" Arrested In The US by Shyboyk(m): 1:41pm On Oct 03, 2022
HarlequinLekex:
They should have deported the idiot back when it was 1 or 2 b4 it reached 68 fuc king record
They can’t deport him he was born there he is their citizen
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Manchester United (6 - 3) On 2nd October 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 6:16am On Oct 03, 2022
Daniel7543:
So that una go spoil haland carrier just like una spoil Lukaku carrier abi?

Chelsea no dey appreciate their players na why first class players like haland can never move to Chelsea.
Shut up …it was his father that made him turn down Chelsea offer and also Manchester United offer

You are even talking about lukaku …tell me who bought him to limelight
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Chelsea (1 - 2) On 1st October 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 6:25am On Oct 02, 2022
Lekan239:
he should bench kovacic not Jorginho.

Who else notice kovacic isn't that useful in Chelsea midfield. All he knows how ti do best is romancing the ball and passing to nearest man with zero contribution going forward. At least gorginho is playing as a defensive midfielder
Kovacic ke please don’t say that one after kante its kovacic if you noticed he did not drive ball as he used to in that midfield because his role was changed he played as a holding midfielder that’s why he was playing rubbish that yesterday
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Chelsea (1 - 2) On 1st October 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 5:13pm On Oct 01, 2022
GeneralPula:
What a beautiful goal!

Who are these players the coach brought in when e don late? The guy that scored the 2nd goal ought to have started..
If Chelsea started Gallagher u for don hate am by now …I’m a Chelsea fan but our midfield is nothing without Kante
PoliticsRe: Supporters Eat “Agbado” At City Boy Movement Concert In Abuja (Pictures) by Shyboyk(m): 10:15pm On Sep 28, 2022
radarada:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/09/photos-supporters-eat-agbado-at-city-boy-movement-concert-in-abuja/
When the posted obi’s one million March one idiot screenshot a picture and was saying obi’s supporters are small children they most of them are not eligible to vote so let that idiot come and tell me weda these kids below are eligible to vote

Foreign AffairsRe: Queen's Burial: Joe Biden Driven In Convoy, Other World Leaders Lumped In A Bus by Shyboyk(m): 2:01pm On Sep 19, 2022
Gistsme1:
Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XGBC0XYmwbI


US President Joe Biden allowed to drive in for Queen Elizabeth II’s funeral in a convoy, while other world leaders mostly Africans were lumped into a bus


https://www.instagram.com/p/CirtDWLtlFk/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Why did you put the MOSTLY AFRICAN there
SportsRe: Cristiano : Photo Of The Day. We Don't Need Ronaldo,how True Is This? by Shyboyk(m): 10:03am On Sep 19, 2022
ominilongest:
All struggling!
How is Napoli and Dortmund that is topping their league struggling
SportsRe: Reece James Is Better Than Trent Alexander Arnold by Shyboyk(m): 7:43am On Sep 18, 2022
Citylifeboi:
It's because of how Liverpool play that's why you think he can't defend, Everyone knows they play highline making them suspectible to counter attacks, that's just their pattern
That’s the same thing Chelsea plays
SportsRe: Reece James Is Better Than Trent Alexander Arnold by Shyboyk(m): 10:47am On Sep 16, 2022
Citylifeboi:
Even the way you described TAA you know he's better, there is a reason every right back in the past 5 year or so have been used to compare with TAA from Bellerin, Walker, Cancelo, James., why did you decide to use this season stats with James as If the season has ended, bring their sats last season let's compare besides TAA has won the Premier league and Champions league which others are yet to do
Arnold is good at only attacking and crossing(assist) James on the other hand is good at attacking and defending also cross(assist) and also scoring for the fact that Arnold does not do his primary assignment(defend)well I can’t rate him over James but you see cancelo make nobody mention am that one too complete I’m a Chelsea fan I just gave u my opinion Abeg no insults
PhonesRe: Woman Dies After Her Phone Exploded While She Was Sleeping (pictures) by Shyboyk(m): 9:21pm On Sep 12, 2022
Fira09:
An Indian Twitter user has narrated how his aunty died after her phone exploded while she was sleeping.

@Mdtalk16 said his Aunty kept her phone near her face before sleeping and it killed her after it exploded.

He tweeted;


https://twitter.com/Mdtalk16/status/1568274660403605504?t=JT8gKqu_knpJyWK8u5vRyA&s=19[/quote]Similar thing killed one guy in my area he was using an iPhone and when the transformer was misbehaving the iPhone shocked him and he died that’s why I don’t like using phone when it’s connected to light
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Napoli Vs Liverpool UCL (4 - 1) On 7th September 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 1:48pm On Sep 09, 2022
mattmogan88:
Abeg shift .
No vex �

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Napoli Vs Liverpool UCL (4 - 1) On 7th September 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 11:22am On Sep 09, 2022
mattmogan88:
Manchester united don chop breakfast tire, which other breakfast are you talking about huh
Them chop another one abi dem no chop am…� Man U na team way I sabi dem no dae disappoint me
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Napoli Vs Liverpool UCL (4 - 1) On 7th September 2022 by Shyboyk(m): 8:45pm On Sep 07, 2022
ogododo:
Liverpool travel to Italy to take on Napoli on matchday 1 of the UEFA Champions League group stages and we can bring you the details of when and how to watch the match.


Liverpool will be looking to replicate last season’s run to the final when they kick start this year's campaign in Naples on Wednesday.


The Reds don’t have a good record in the Diego Armando Maradona Stadium so will be looking to improve on that but face a tough test against a team battling it out at the top of Serie A.
3 zero ….las las na everybody go chop breakfast � e remain man United
SportsRe: Chelsea Sack Thomas Tuchel by Shyboyk(m): 11:18am On Sep 07, 2022
obedience4:
Just because ziyech was a star in ajax means he go shine for England you dey compare Dutch and premiership.. Ziyech is not good enough for Chelsea dude was given opportunities last season he flopped..
The same harvert was your highest goal scorer last season the guy lead your attack when lukaku a flop could not score. Dude scored in two major finals you guys played..
Tuchel was just unlucky and the new Americans owners seems to don't understand football..
I have never seems in my life were owners take control of the recruitment department of a football club
Ziyech flopped under tuchel lukaku a world class striker also flopped harvert that was performing is now a flop so tell me what is the work of coach exactly when u can’t change pattern of play to Favour players harvert losed form and he kept using him he kept playing ziyech in a position that is not his position same with harvert woo the man ran out of ideas joor

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