₦airaland Forum

Midehi3:
Ok, he has achieved something

, he is in the league of them Einstein

mrvitalis:
Anambra airport just shows why it's good to have human capital development before physical infrastructure

Absolutely what obi told buhari and osibanjo in 2019 see the mess we are now

Build and develop the people. Infrastructure would form as a result of that ...but infrastructure can't build the people

You are absolutely right

afribookorg:
Elon musk knows what he's doing.

Check well,that prime minister is corrupt

Nobody is corrupt in Norway

This sh$t on front page shows how daft and unprofessional NL is

engope1:
Our culture is gradually losing its value, imagine! Twerking before a 1st class monarch in the public.

I say relaxxxxxx, we are in the 21st century

She’s probably looking for another man to enrich herself more, what happened to her previous man whom she has kids with? Divorce and boom she becomes a millionaire, it is a thriving business for smart ladies in Russia.

Some are even looking for a man to get married to and then push them to the war front hoping for them to get killed and they are entitled to the millions from government

This nor go last na

LOLLLLL

FrancescoFarino:
If there's one thing you should be thanking God for, is the fact that you had the privilege to study abroad including your exposure over the years..

You still missed the point after the long message

Ruggedniggaone:
50000 years! Another lamba, scientist go just dey yarn dust because they know that nobody is going to debunk their lies

Exactly

Cherrybae:
See how ugly both if them looks. Broke gut forming big boy.

Mtcheeeeeew

What could be the reason you are this sad?
Buhari?
Your ex?
Lack of good sex?

No content in this group again, only insult.
Everyone wants to claim superiority, ITK.
So bad

When people are running, do the opposite

Moh247:



Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

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Nokia1000 , listen and follow this advice, people will say he is stupid and talking trash but to be realistic this is the best you can do, prayers cannot solve anything, talking to her will even make matters worse. We humans want to experience to teach us lessons

Moh247:



Free papers,

Free child support weekly pay check for 16 to 18 years till the kids become adults,

Freedom to fvck whoever she wants without any hindrance from her ex husband paying child support

Top Five richest women in the world either got their wealth through their divorced husband, or late husband or from their father... Non worked for it or are self made


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Come to Russia you will see them everyday. They take it as a business.
Marry a well to do guy, have a kid and boom divorce, property shared, child support for also ever. Women are cashing out big time

sonature1:
As far as I am concerned, Wizkid is an inspiration to all the young Nigerian singers making waves around the world because he got there first.

While Tuface might have inspired him, Wizkid was a very young boy who gained international recognition. Davido, Tems, Burna Boy, etc. definitely got inspired by the success of Wizkid.

100% correct, nobody not even burna boy believes they can be this big, they look up to wizkid and see themselves doing it

Geovanni412:
These below seem to be real DMs from SBF (CEO of FTX) and Vox Media

This is the clown world we live in. It is a world of lies, deception, and manipulation.

Keep your eyes open and always question everything.

It is a dog eat dog game, watch these movies then you will understand better;
Wolf of Wall Street
The big short
Wall Street remastered
Gordon gecko

Siberia01:


Forget the FUD
Read the charts

Sorry to say but the chart is bulls*hit when there is serious FUd

myonekobosay:
ONCE AGAIN, WELCOME TO THE BULL RUN

Which bull run?

It is good to be good

I took love WIKE


Wike the wiked politician

Carcholce:
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You must have contributed to what killed him.
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You are not a man of peace

The bitch give am heart attack

Privatepart00:


Having money isn’t the only key to a successful child upbringing.
Nobody can take care of a child more than the mum that gave birth to them
Why can’t the parents take the child along ? Knowing fully well the kind of environment their house is .
The mother and the father are responsible for the death of their child .
Shifting the blame to the nanny is total no .
Money can’t replace good training of a child .
They allowed the child to do as he wish while alive .
It ended up back firing.
The rich are crying and hoping for a poor nanny to blame .

Exactly my thought, what other business those a mother of 3 years have other than taking care of her child. The blame is 70% to the mother, 20% to the father, 10% to the nannies

kbower:
Hi Nlanders

We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and
loyalty.

Some people will say with these things I have listed, that I may be asking for too much, but I can tell whoever would reason that way that it's not too much because am a responsible father/husband that have never for once strayed the family in anyway that will make me lack any of the above stated qualities a man can enjoy from a wife.

Why am I here? Ok.. After enduring so much for 11 years, we are relocating to the UK, she is the main applicant, myself and the 3 children are dependants, she traveled first, leaving myself and the 3 kids behind until she can secure accommodation b4 we leave.

I have heard about countless incidences of how SOME women treat their husbands and the POWER zoned to women in that country which makes it almost impossible for a man with a wife that gives him constant problem to be able to thrive in that country.

I just want to state three peculiar incidences that occured during her 1month stay over there that is already making me feel I have alot to face over there, though I know my God is bigger than anything, I just want people that are over there, or people that are experienced here and all over who are capable of handing a good advise for me on getting there to know how I can fare and withstand what is to come.

Based on the above from the major incidences I have experienced with her, first two weeks of being there, she had gone to check a house b4 heading to school, on her way back to school, she claimed she didn't take enough money and going back home might not be possible, I asked how she would wanna go about it
and she replied saying I will borrow money from Mr Mike, a man she just met at school on her first day of registration. I was like that's wrong, you don't form familiarity with someone you just met in another man's country, I said I will call a friend in liverpool to send you money and you could get your train ticket. She fumed, but I stood my ground and said that's how its going to be. I have asked her to collect a friends account details, since she has not opened an account yet, she said when her class finishes by 8.30pm she'll request details from her friend so the money can be sent. Fast forward to closing period, I messaged her to send me details, she ignored, I called ad she said nobody has an account that I should not worry she will sort herself, I was now like you just got to that country, u have no friends that u know too well to rely on, I am ur hubby and I opened a way for u to get money easily, yet u didn't make any effort to redeem the opportunity, omo she hung up on me then later called back that she gathered few pennies she had to get the ticket, I was now like why didn't u just say this instead of putting me on pressure over how to get money to convey u all the way from london to Luton, over an hour journey at night.

Secondly, on her next school day, she had previously told me prior to her closing hours that her data has finished and she's using schools wifi, that the moment she steps out from school to head home, she won't be having access to internet, etc WhatsApp and all of that, but importantly was to make use of GPS google map, that's what people over there use to navigate their way in order not to get lost, I was like without internet how do u intend to get to ur destination when u know how stressful it was for u getting lost the other day, now the same statement she made was, I will sort myself. I was raged and said woman I will ask my friend to buy u data so u can get home easy and safe, she said no proble, that she's leaving now, I said well since i wont be able to reach you on whats app, I will definitely call you on normal call shortly to give you the data pin to load. She said no P and hung up.

Moments later, my friend had sent me the data pin, na so I begin dey call wifey oo, over 15 missed calls she nor pick. Later she called back and said her phone was in her laptop bag and her hands were frozen so she couldnt put hands in the bag to pick the call and that she didn't even hear it ring.

The issue I posted up there are issues of not being accountable, and attitude of not showing that you don't need me when its not just about that but for security and your well being knowing fully well you are new in the country and proper guidelines needs to be taken.

Another incident happened 3rd week after her arrival, we were video chatting while she was on a train station waiting for train, next thing I noticed was a guy sitting BEHIND her, the guy boldly took a peep into her phone directly, seemingly trying to see who she was on video call with, immediately i called her attention to it, she just smiled and looked back and said silently, nawa some people for this London nor go mind their business. This very day developed a story that transitioned towards few things I will be stating.

The next sunday, I called her in the morin to say hi and all that, next thing I know she dun dey go church, she nor even discuss am with me and na wetin we dn agree on sey we fo jointly choose church wey we go dey go. After church service, she call me sey that guy wey i talk sey dey peep into her phone, sey the guy that very day asked her how long shes been there for, she said, just 3 weeks, sey how come she come take know road when him don dey 3months he nver know road, sey that same guy him coincidentally meet am for the new church wey she come so, sey the guy dey look am, she comot eye, but later the guy come meet am sey are u not the one that showed me way to where I was going. Sey as him meet the guy coincidentally for church, he fit be sey he get why, maybe for job connection or what not. I nor say anything, cos coincidences arent something new in this world. Then the next day, she call me sey that same guy needs an apartment, sey na married guy with 4 kids, but him wife and 1kid dey here, 3 dey nija them nor fit come yet until house is ready, sey him dey ask her if she can help him get someone that can reference for him to get a house, ha him my wife come dey ginger me sey make i help am talk to my friend wey help us reference if him go fit help the guy too. I come sey no problem, she sey she go call the guy now and put us on 3 way call, i sey no p, i come dey wait for call, no call come and madam nor talk again, i come ring her sey hafa u nor do the three way call again? She sey the guy dey work, him nor fit talk,sey she don give the guy my number to call me later, me come sey no p, send him number I go save am down so if he calls i go know sey na him, madam nor gree send number, I come dey wonder sey wetin dey sup sef, normally I nor spose reason ahead, but me my instict dey very strong, i come begin dey put two and two together sey maybe the guy intention was never to get help but to use style dey hit on my madam maybe na why him nor wan talk to me but wan use my madam dey take communicate.

I come ask madam some some questions on previous ish, I come find out sey small lie dey, so I tackler her sey the way she take explain to me about how him meet the guy for train station nor join, she come vex sey me i come am liar, omo as we dey talk for whatsapp, i nor blv sey my madam added this guy to the call without my consent or my knowledge, so as I dey talk, the guy dey the background, i nor even know anything and the dude himself kept quiet, na after the call finish, I see am for call details sey the guy was added to the call, infact the dude even called me directky i nor pick. Now i got very angry, come call madam sey wetin dey sup, u added this dude wey talk sey him dey work him nor fit talk to the call wey me and u dey on and u didnt even notify me, ok lets agree sey if to sey u wan tell me sey u wan add the guy for call sey i nor go gree sey maybe na why u add am without my consent, at least after u add am secretly, u are suppose to talk and sey bae, since u are accusing me wrongly.

I have added the guy to this call so he can clear me out, but she didnt, she just added the guy and the dude himself kept quiet and didnt say a word until I hung up. I got very furious and told her this is the highest level of see finish and dragging in the mud, wetin u want that guy to dey feel like now? She said shes sorry that she only wanted to clear herself, I was now like even if u wanted to clear urself, if that the best way to go about it, the person who is the subject matter is the best person u need to introduce to clear u out? Later on i just bone the matter come apologise sey make we move on, na so she come begin dey yarn plenty, sey she call the guy that my hubby said that the way we met is unreal, sey the guy sef come talk sey wow, so your husband already thinks am sleeping with you, but i cant blame u though, u know u have a big back side, so thoughts like that from him is likely not a surprise, i was hmmmm to hear that, i come tell madam sey if na true this guy talk this thing, shouldnt u already know he has corny itentions, she said well she too dey wonder cos the two times wey them meet she nor wear wetin fit show her bkside so how d guy come take know. The matter end there, next day madam still dey worry me sey shey I go still help d guy, I was like I cant even talk to him, u dun useless me already for him presence, she dey claim sey she nor do anything wrong by adding him to the call, sey the guy know of agency wey fit help me get better job if i arrive, and sey the guy talk sey if me fit connect am to my friend to reference am for house, him go link me up fr the agency. I talk sey i nor dey interested. Omo I weak. Guys I need advise on how to handle issues over there, cos me nor dey take nonsense for nija here, but for there, one needs to chill, but then should it now be sey because we dey live for country wey give woman power, make woman come use that opportunity come dey fumble?

She is your wife, already 3 kids with you and it means you both have lived together for over 5 years, give her some trust and faith. Sometimes we over reason things in a negative way due to what we read online.
Questions like “where are you, What are you doing there, why don’t you answer my calls?” are questions of insecurity and can make the other person feel threatened.
I for example have left my wife for the past 6 months and I plan to stay here after 2 years, she’s with my son. For the record I don’t trust women even 1% but I do act like a fool that doesn’t care, I don’t ask questions that way I can easily catch or see loose ends, but the moment I keep snoozing and asking irrelevant questions will make her to cover her tracks( if any). I want you to do same, ask less questions and observe more, keep your observation to yourself and give her some trust. I can tell you your wife is not cheating on you.