Family › Re: Woman Enjoys At An Eatery With Her Children, Maid Sits Unattended To (Photo) by Sijo01(f): 4:17pm On Mar 13, 2024 |
I've seen the video, it looks more like a skit  |
Politics › Re: Atiku, Yari, Ningi Move To Establish Mega Party Ahead Of 2027 by Sijo01(f): 1:22pm On Mar 12, 2024 |
Atiku should rest in Jesus Name |
Crime › Re: 4 Men Gang-Rape 20-Year-Old Lady In Lagos, Record Action & Post It On Facebook by Sijo01(f): 1:21pm On Mar 12, 2024 |
Look at what under 20 years old are doing! I pray the court give them 30 years sentences so they can spend the better part of their miserable lives behind bars. |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Uncovers Firearms And Drone Manufacturing Factory In Delta (Photo) by Sijo01(f): 1:05pm On Mar 12, 2024 |
Nice one but when will NA neutralize the nuisance in the North that is on the verge of knapping a full community  |
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Events › Re: Video Of Crossdressers At A Birthday Party In Calabar by Sijo01(f): 9:31am On Mar 06, 2024 |
Na wah o Why will a man dump masculinity and embrace femininity  |
Romance › Re: Meet Roberto Esquivel Cabrera, The Man With The 19 Inches (pics/video) by Sijo01(f): 10:15am On Mar 04, 2024 |
Must be an indian  |
Food › Re: Economic Hardship: Parents Shun Noodles As Prices Soar by Sijo01(f): 2:06pm On Mar 02, 2024 |
Once we exhaust the one at home now, no more 😔 |
Politics › Re: Lagosians Stage Protest Over Economic Hardship (Video) by Sijo01(f): 1:52pm On Feb 26, 2024 |
Gradually, it's spreading!
Same protest currently ongoing in Benin |
Family › Re: My 13 Years Old Has Become Terrible! I Want To Send Her Back To Nigeria by Sijo01(f): 12:35pm On Feb 24, 2024 |
Mrperfecto: I will just be brief without writing too much.
We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.
She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.
I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.
My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.
Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue? Judging by your previous thread, your wife obviously brought out the rebellious nature from your daughter. Sending her back home is not a bad idea if she was still teachable. I'll advise against it because you'll be shifting your responsibility of nurturing her to someone else who's not her parent. This is the time to be close to her, take her out, walk with her and get her to talk to you. Make her to understand that you're her best friend and that she can share her worries, fears and mistakes with you and you'll not judge her. Make her to communicate with her mother if she isn't. You and her mom should also communicate and coparent her. It's obvious she lacks motherly care and support, your wife is not mothering her at all. DON'T SEND HER HOME YET UNTIL YOU GET CLOSE TO HER AND ESTABLISH A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. |
Politics › Re: Edo: Who Has Your Vote Among These 3 Candidates? by Sijo01(f): 12:09pm On Feb 24, 2024 |
Eluuupeeee all the way |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp Now Allows Two Accounts On The Same Phone by Sijo01(f): 9:34pm On Feb 23, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: I Remain The Authentic Edo PDP Guber Candidate- Shaibu by Sijo01(f): 9:24am On Feb 23, 2024 |
naija4life247: Well done Shaibu, show that ugly Vagabond governor that you are also a bastard. Ogun kee the two of you  |
Politics › Re: Edo Primary: APC Removes Uzodinma As Chairman, Names Otu As Replacement by Sijo01(f): 7:17pm On Feb 21, 2024 |
Who expected a supreme court governor to conduct a free election primaries  |
Politics › Re: Akpabio: Protests Against Rising Cost Of Living Are Sponsored by Sijo01(f): 9:49am On Feb 21, 2024 |
Criminal sponsored by who  ? Does that mean Nigerians are not suffering or there's no high cost of living.  |
Business › Re: Naira Hits N1,825 To Dollar Despite EFCC Gun Rescue Attempt by Sijo01(f): 5:47pm On Feb 20, 2024 |
😁 🤣 🤣 🤣 Tinubu is handling the economy.
Water don pass garri |
Politics › Re: Households Adopt Extreme Coping Measures As Hunger Spreads by Sijo01(f): 8:34pm On Feb 19, 2024 |
Only if they had voted credibility as against tribal/religious sentiment |
Family › Re: Man Asks Wife To Return His Kidney Or Pay $1.5m After She Filed For Divorce by Sijo01(f): 8:32pm On Feb 19, 2024 |
Fair enough. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kidnap Corpse & Mourners In Enugu, Demand ₦50M Ransom by Sijo01(f): 6:09pm On Feb 19, 2024 |
😲 😲 😲 Kidnapped corpse. Wonder shall never end.
Shittima is handling security 😡 |
Politics › Re: Protest In Ibadan over Economic Hardship, food inflation & high cost of living by Sijo01(f): 10:35am On Feb 19, 2024*. Modified: 6:04pm On Feb 19, 2024 |
😁 🤣 🤣 🤣 The wind is blowing. It will soon ravage like a burning fire 😁 🤣 🤣 |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Sijo01(f): 1:17pm On Feb 13, 2024 |
Enskynelson: I think you may want to remove PGD Public Health from the list because it is not one of programmes in NOUN currently. Please check your mail. |
Romance › Re: Police Arrest 2 For Having Sex In Police College Church In Maiduguri (pic) by Sijo01(f): 10:18am On Feb 13, 2024 |
1k for service well rendered  |
Health › Re: See How Man Without Hands Goes About His Daily Activities Without Assistance by Sijo01(f): 9:34am On Feb 10, 2024 |
This is torture na. 😔 How does he attend to his person hygiene 😔 |
Politics › Re: Hardship: Another Protest Erupts In Niger After Arrest Of 25 People by Sijo01(f): 7:12pm On Feb 07, 2024 |
Let the protest spread like wild fire 🔥 |
Politics › Re: Hard Times Over Soon – Remi Tinubu Tells Nigerians by Sijo01(f): 2:33pm On Feb 06, 2024 |
Nigerians don't need your pet talk before you do neck like ostrich  |
Food › Re: How Much Is A Bag Of Sachet Water In Your Area? by Sijo01(f): 5:10pm On Feb 05, 2024*. Modified: 6:05pm On Feb 19, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Dangote Refinery Crude Import From US will Increase Prices Of Petroleum Products by Sijo01(f): 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2024 |
Another the more you look the less you see.
Before fuel was imported because Nigeria has no functional refineries. Now dangote refinery is here, they've changed the music to Nigeria does not have enough crude oil. |
Food › Re: How Much Is A Bag Of Sachet Water In Your Area? by Sijo01(f): 5:01pm On Feb 05, 2024 |
I have no idea o. Na boil I dey boil my water dey drink o |
Politics › Re: Enugu Rerun: Voters Beat INEC Staff For Coming With Pre-filled Result Sheets by Sijo01(f): 9:02am On Feb 04, 2024 |
Beating well deserved 👏 👏 |
Sports › Re: "In Loving Memory Of The Palancas" - Dstvnig Continues To Troll Angola by Sijo01(f): 10:51am On Feb 03, 2024 |
😁 🤣 🤣 The person behind that handle is a Valwulence somebori |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Decry Rising Cost Of Living by Sijo01(f): 10:46am On Feb 03, 2024 |
Vischy: We are teaching Peter Obi a lesson. Serious lesson o. He'll hear ween |
Politics › Re: NSA, Nuhu Ribadu Bans Camouflage For Para-Military by Sijo01(f): 1:25pm On Feb 02, 2024 |
How many times will they ban camouflage  Ban without implementing. After this initial gra gra, camouflage will be everywhere again  |