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Sister do you Learn punctuation mark.....?

The Man doesn't give you three days to live. He puts full stops which means... WORD RESERVED! Climatorially in this case it can be interpret as, It's Not worth Commenting .

He futher advise you to go and apologize, Stating the entirety of the sole ultimatum days He give you.......He states the foreseeable consequences.

It's not a Threat, It's an advice.

English Scholars correct me.

AGBA OOOOO

ayandee

ayandee:
consider modifying the title

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Who stole my pride?

Okay?

Or

Where do I err


That's very emotional

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koife:
Hello fam, I'm not used to writing about my personal life. I try as much as I can to keep it off social media. On this very instance I'm tired and I desperately need honest advise, I'm also ready for insult.
I met my wife and we got married less than two years after our meeting.
I must say my wife is a quiet and slow person by nature and very churchy. I won't forget to add that since I met her I've had many blessings come my way. We are blessed with a 6 month old daughter.

My main issue with my wife is that she sees home upkeep as my total responsibility, yes, I do it but she hardly contribute anything and any time I'm coonstrained fin. She would say all manner of things. My wife isn't that a smart person, she would wait for you to give her direction in the simplest of things and shys away from taking charge and ownership.

I got a 6 digit job few days after introducing as her my fiancee to my parent and I'm often at sea for three more than 6 months. I've observed my wife isn't prudent with money no matter how much passes through her hands. At some point I'll get her attention how much she has spent without knowing and then she would go " wow, I didn't know it was that much" after doing some addition.
She works with insurance firm and her pay is within 60k (Max)/monthly...with that, she still get home support from me and my sister who is in USA. Recently I gave her her usual home support money and my sis did too....her allowance and commission came too. My wife had over 95k total in less than two weeks.

I was surprised barely a week and, I asked my wife support fix the car I left with her at home with just 5k since and i was yet to be paid salary. Note, I bought this car to ease her movement at her instance oo, she suggested the car is idle and we should get someone do bolt( taxify) just to get us additional cash.I got the driver do agreement with my lawyer via my coy and travelled shortly, the car alternator shut down and wouldn't charge, it was at that instance I asked her help out and she said she had no money on her and that she was barely surviving. I was shocked and Drew her attention to how much had gone through her hands in less than two weeks. Don't get me wrong, it might not be much to some peoples financial cash flow but we are Young family and less than two years in marriage. My wife believes once money comes, it's time to solve all her outstanding problem and ive told her she needs to prioritize.

Recently when I got to nja I left 600k in her account and told her we shouldn't touch it in case of family emergency but I noticed each time we have little need at home she would pressure me go get the cash. Some how we kept touching the money till it got to 300k and I travelled again.
I've tried my best to groom her and get her financial planning life better but she would not accept she has issue. I'm considering getting her family and mine involved but I dear it would out her in bad light before my family ( trying to protect her), I I decided to bring it here since it's faceless forum for candid advise

Need I also add that I can say one thing give times to my wife and she still gets it mixed up. I've asked her to read book and expand her intellectual capacity. It was just two weeks ago I forced her go defend her post graduate project after many years of abandonement....we quarreled. I later helped her arrange the work and pacify her supervisor allows her defend without paying school fees before I left.
Pls is my wife just dull or does it have to d with her character with life and money? Pls advise me coz I'm getting sick, really sick already. I'm typing this onboard on my way to Japan. I can't even concentrate

Man God has blessed you

Please Endure with her. She might be the reason behind the regular flow of Cash into your hands. Being a churchy type as you described,,she might be engaged in Church works.

When someone vision, becomes your vision, Your mission on Earth lies in obscurity.


Listen to the holy spirit within you

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

Grace Speaking

Dude397:
Good evening everyone. To cut the long story short my mental health issues started in 2012 when I tried weed in the university. It's not genetic. I've also been in and out of psychiatric hospitals a good number of times. However I'm currently on medication and I've been able to manage the condition. I was also able to graduate and I've also done my nysc and my family is planning on opening a small business for me since job has not been forthcoming.

However my health condition has been kept secret by me and family and I'm currently dating a nice girl. Please should I tell her my secret. What caused most of my episodes was refusal to take my medication and all that but right now I'm very okay and for some few years now I've been going about my daily affairs without any issue. If I let the cat out of the bag I don't think she may stay cos the stigma of mental health issues is not a joke. Please I need your advice on how to

handle this delicate issue. Thanks

Come to Dunamis

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

She has a point, we don't worship Mary.

Adoration was the exact thing God say we should not offer anyone except HIM. Call it respect, Honour or whatsoever.

If we must honour, Honour your parents. Jesus parents are not your own.
He never gave his adoration to anyone all his life. Why would you?��

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

Do you know this Man?

He died for you to have life, don't waste that life

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

It's not advisable sir

Go and read your books

Exodora:
Small small children full here oooo.
Op must balance me my data

See dishwan ���

Vitamin17:
Make I check Wich one I go use do meme

Send it to me tooooo

Okay?!

biggie73:
Do you realize that is my girl?

For where?

Generalwoodz:
Some of these pics while I did a reverse search on Google search engine took me direct to your FB account...drop your bank and card details too.

The Honourable

Here is it

GTB
ADAMA MONDAY
0023646808

I will be happy if you add me up on Facebook sir

Niwdog:
All this igala boys

How you know?

Proudly IGALA

superCleanworks:
Your comment has shown how childish you are.
I will give you N100,000 naira if you can be brave enough to post your pictures here. Shame on you if you do not do it.

Thank you very much. God defend you in return.

He is finally Trending
Now a nairaland celebrity

World's Celebrity by God's Grace.

I overcome my own through prayer and supplication before God on tears. When it vanished and my breath and taste come to normal, I don't know.

IN SUMMARY OF TODAY'S LECTURE
TOPIC: TALENTS

✍️Talent is a Natural Gift from God that Can be acquired, Groomed, Nurtured, For the benefits of Man and the betterment of the individual person.

� CHARACTERISTICS OF TALENTS

*Talent is a natural Gift from God.

* Talent Can be acquired.

* Talent is transmissible through a Genestic process known as chromosome.

* Talent is to be nurtured and developed.

* Our Environment sometime influence our Talents.

* Talent Results from our likes and dislike.

* TALENTS is an Expression of EXCELLENCE and Mentality.

✍️BENEFITS OF TALENTS

* Talent promote an avenue for learning.

* Talent is a medium of self Expression in a satisfactory way.

* Talents promotes fame and dignity of the Talented personality.

* Talent inspired the spirit of excellence in people.

* Talent helps to earn a living.

* Talent Promote Culture and Value among Individual in the society.

* Talents helps create an Avenue for learning of new ideas and potentials.

NEXT WEEK.......
�FACTORS THAT INFLUENCE TALENTS
�HOW TO DEVELOP AND NURTURE TALENTS

CREDIT: YOUNG TALENT SEMINAR ABEJUKOLO

Very well famz, have a nice day.

Sources: WRITER

SILAS M. EL-JADUNMI
founder Young Talents Seminar
Writer
CEO AJADUNMI MOVIE PRODUCTIONS


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Mynd44
Seun

At this let this Reasonable write-up make front Page for Once.

Admins ,
Mods,
Move to front page please

Ayo081:
How will you advise this brother here?

https://www.nairaland.com/6804098/tithe-send-money-parents

I think he should divide the Money between them Sir

That's better than negligence

jesusjnr2020:
It's because he was one of them, otherwise they would detest him, because they cannot love someone who destroys the works of Satan which they do, but someone who destroys men's lives and spills innocent blood as they do.

Am beginning to lose respect for you. Why judge?