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TheNiceGuy:
Great delusional grandeur.

It's easy for cattle to pass through needle hole than Obi winning 2023 Presidential Election.

How will it happen?

City Boy and Golden boy issa goal

Your eyes will see it...

So the economy is doing well madam minister? Or do you mean to say your economy is doing well under Buhari's government? We understand stand, before Buhari appointed you a minister, your economy was nowhere, but now,you are grooving so to you the economy is good. Like President, like minister...

Rabbit Economy things

[quote author=ahukannakate post=94825998]As a lady with family, which one is advisable to go for between 200k bank job and 90k state ministry of health job. Professional advice needed.

This is tricky. However, government job is more secured than a private job especially a bank job. If it were a federal government job it will be better but I will still go for the government job because it will give you enough time to pursue and build your career, there's work-life balance, and if you are in a state that doesn't like owing their workers, then you are good. You'll plenty of time to engage in other hustles that will bring in more income and plenty of time to take care of your home and children. Unlike the bank job where you'll work with so much pressure and tension and your job could be terminated anytime.
So these are your options. You'll have to choose between them.

Modphase:
Self hype don start.
When you compare anything to anything Ganduje with his babanriga filled with dollars will eternally be beta than all the governors in the East put together with the exception of only Obiano of Anambra who is in a class of his own.

Kindly tell us how you arrived at your conclusion.

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Thank God you have repented. God says he will forgive you of all your sins. He will because He is God and does not lie.
But let me ask, have you received Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?
That's were to start from if you have not. Just confess that you now believe that Jesus is Lord and ask him to come into your life as your Lord and Savior. Believe it he will come. And your manhood will be restored immediately.
God bless you.

B-R-E-A-K-I-N-G:

POPULAR LAGOS DR Paul Olisa Ojieh Exposes the fraud in covid 19 in Nigeria!

On March 3rd, 2020, I got a call from the Minister of Information, Alhaji Lai Mohammed. It was a 5 minutes call. The call was centred on Iris Medical Foundation Drugs and its effectiveness in treating the Corona virus. I was blunt with the minister, I told him the truth, I asked him, do you people in Abuja want the cure or you guys just want to be making billions from grants from America, WHO and other international agencies?

The truth is COVID-19 is a curable viral infection that we should not lose sleep over or fret over.

In 1985, there was a major viral out break in Tanzania. The fatality of the death ratio was 10 infections to 9 death on a daily basis. The then president, Julius Nyanrere, invited Prof Dr Paul Ojeih Snr, founder of Iris Medical Foundation who stepped into Tanzania and within 3 months the virus was contained and within 6 months, there was a cure.

That virus was treated with a phynto organic drug known as VENEDI ELIXIR. The virus was later classified as Ebola virus.

I told Nigerians on social media that our government, most especially the Minister of Health, the Presidential Task Force on COVID-19, NCDC, are reaping Nigerians off and making billions from this pandemic that never existed.

In my letter to the Minister of Information, I told him that COVID-19 is perfectly treatable and curable.

I told the minister that I will infect myself with the virus and that under 73 hours the virus will be cured. I staked my name, my reputation and credibility that Corona virus is a curable disease.

Iris Medical Foundation Drug and Pharmaceutical has an authentic cure for this virus, a cure derived, from the enzymes of plants which is pharmaceutically engineered to treat complex viral infection.

Our drug VENEDI Elixir for 18 years has been used, in the treatment of HIV viral infection, Herpes Viral infection, Syphilis, viral infections and infections that are drug resistant.

I have told the federal government to stop playing games, to stop looting our treasury all in the name of borrowing money to build isolation centres that we don’t need. They know the games they are playing.

They don’t want to listen because this COVID-19 pandemic is a money-making venture, they are putting fears in Nigerians keeping them at home and milking our economy dry.

So far our government has spent billions of Naira, money that would have been put into good use. The truth they say is bitter, and the bitter truth is Corona virus is another oil boom for some selected criminals in the government. When Madagascar launched their Herbal initiative to get a cure, I drew the attention of the minister of information and culture, who in turn informed the Minister of Health, Dr Osagie, Ehanire, who went on air and said traditional medicine will be inculcated into the fight against COVID-19.

This was never done. While foot dragging? A tiny island nation like Madagascar found a cure through herbal medicine. Then our shameless Chairman of the presidential task force on COVID-19, Boss Mustapha, said we were going to import a plane load of the Madagascar herbal cure.

Shame, to the country, shame, to the government, shame to the Minister of Health and the NCDC that have been playing games and politics and making billions off this pandemic that never existed.

I state, once again for the sake of clarity and emphasis that Corona virus is a baby virus, a virus that is perfectly curable under 72 hours with Iris medical foundation drug known as VENEDI Elixir.

I have asked the government give me 10 infected patients, let’s place them on Iris Drugs, we keep meeting with a brick wall of resistance. Why are they foot dragging? What is their fear and resistance? They play politics meanwhile people are dying, people are losing their jobs and the country is sliding into recession.

As a patriotic Nigeria, I have done my bid. I have sounded the alarm that Corona virus is a baby virus, it’s a friendly virus that is perfectly curable.

This is a virus that is very stable in clinic, a virus that does no harm to the body tissues and organs except when not treated.

In essence the virus can be within you and your body system still functions perfectly well within 72 hours or even longer.

This cannot be said of other deadly virus such as Ebola. Immediately Ebola enters your blood stream, your immune gets compromised and shutdown and within 48 hours, you start bleeding from all bodily pores, all openings and within 72 hours, you’re dead.

But with COVID-19, you don’t even know you’re infected because the virus is not a violent virus that takes over your immunity and shuts it down.

We at Iris medical foundation for over 25 years have been into drug research and cure, we understand what it means to compound drugs from plants and enzymes and synthesise it into potent cure.

Our founding MD, Professor Paul Olisa Ojeih (Professor of Medicine) is a pioneer in Alternative and Comparative Medicine and has popularised Alternative medicine and sector that China, and Indian have taking the lead on. This is one sector that our government has refused to encourage and invest in, yet a tiny island nation like Madagascar has created and perfected the cure to Corona virus.

Finally, when we say we in Iris Medical Foundation Drugs and Pharmaceutical have the cure for Corona virus, we indeed have the cure.
All we ask is, for our Leaders to stop playing Russian Roulette with our lives and avail Nigerians the cure to the virus. May God help us all.

-Dr Paul Olisa Ojeih is the Managing Director, Iris Medical Foundation Drugs and Pharmaceutical.

Iris medical foundation no 12 Ajayi Road Ogba Ikeja.

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instinct57vm:
Silla I doff my cap to you. You addressed this issue without bias and with a sound mind, only matured people are able to pull of this kind of comments. Maturity isn’t shying away from social media like a lot of ppl thinks. Once again i doff my cap to you. #respect.
Like u, I actually faulted her consistent approach and a few things coz it takes two to tangle really. However, when i heard this guy’s side of the story, likewise what u mentioned again, the hubby never loved her, even if love alone isn’t sufficient, it’s absolutely the prerequisite to anything we do in life. The guy wasn’t prepared for marriage and lack the basic skills to handle matters.
Many Thanks for ur contribution. Well appreciated!

Thanks for the commendation. We give God the glory. I really appreciate you too.

instinct57vm:
I have a female friend who got married last year October precisely.

Fast forward to March this year the Mother In Law came to stay with the couple in a bid to visit her hospital within the couple’s area for medical checkup, reason being that she stays a bit farther away in the same state.

Upon her Mother in law’s arrival, she came with my friend’s husband brother accompanied by his girlfriend who all planned staying and eventually stayed without prior notice.

My friend(the lady) is a banker and was only informed casually by her husband while she was at work on the day of their arrival. His excuse was the mother called impromptu about the visit which I don’t think is bad anyway.

These couple stay in a three bedroom apartment and only one room has bed in it. This is the room the couple sleep.

The first two days of the mother inlaw, brother and brother’s girlfriend arrival, the couple had to sleep in the living room while the mother in law and the brother in law’s girlfriend slept in the couple’s room.

As days goes by, the husband who is self employed suggested the the rest of them will handle cooking in the house due to the wife’s tight schedule as per banking job in Lagos.

Part of the consequence of their visit is that they have overthrown the kitchen and like most ladies my friend wasn’t cool with this but tried to keep her cool.

The lady(my friend) became curious and asked the husband to clarify if the mother in law and co intends to stay with them permanently. The husband subsequently flared up with the allegations that his wife doesn’t want his people around. This happened to be the third time his wife asked this question in the space of two weeks.

One thing led to the other on the third time of asking this question my friends husband beat her up and chased her out of the house while the mother stood and watched without interfering.

Efforts to reconcile has proved abortive as the husband refused to let her in again and categorically said to my friend’s dad he isn’t interested in the marriage anymore. The mother in law refused to interfere.

PS: The hubby’s mother is a separated single mother.
PS: My friend and her hubby both contributed to pay the rent
PS: The hubby’s father is not in support of all the happenings and all efforts to reach his son proved abortive since the misunderstanding. He wouldn’t answer his dad’s calls.

What are your opinions about this issue? Thank you.

Both parties have their faults.

The Man: He didn't respect his wife's privacy.
(B) He was wrong to allow his mother & a girlfriend (not even the wife) of his brother take over their matrimonial bed.
I don't know what the relationship between his mother and his wife is. (Obviously, they are not in good terms from the story told) otherwise, it should have been his wife and his mother that will share the bedroom.
(C) He should have sought his wife opinion regarding access to the kitchen and perhaps reason it out with his wife.
(D) He foolishly allowed his mother to ruin his relationship with his wife.

The Woman: The first thing I will like to ask the woman is; if it were the other way round, how would she handle it. Some women are so intolerant of their mother-in-laws.
(B) After asking her husband twice with no response, she should have dropped the matter. She failed to understand that her husband was already under pressure with a difficult situation he was struggling to manage. The reason why he buckled up after his wife asked the third time.
She should have applied wisdom. But obviously she was more concerned about getting them out than the struggles of her husband who didn't know how to handle the situation. By her actions she just played into her mother-in-law's hand and possibly validated the fact that she didn't love her or welcome her.
(C) She didn't pray...some women would have used prayer power to send them away. Many may not subscribe to this ancient principle. I know it works especially if you do it in love, not praying for their destruction but that God will handle the situation and restore peace to her home.


My thoughts: I pity both of them. they have allowed third parties to destroy their very young marriage.
It is obvious they were not knowledgeable and allowed their emotions to get the best of them.
They don't love themselves that much. If they do, both will conspire against the 'intruders'. Lovers have this way of overcoming everything and everyone to be together. "Dem nor send anybody".

Finally, I just hope the so called girlfriend is not the new wife in a family conspiracy against the wife.

I rest my case.
May God help them.

[quote author=instinct57vm post=89254089]I have a female friend who got married last year October precisely.

Fast forward to March this year the Mother In Law came to stay with the couple in a bid to visit her hospital within the couple’s area for medical checkup, reason being that she stays a bit farther away in the same state.

Upon her Mother in law’s arrival, she came with my friend’s husband brother accompanied by his girlfriend who all planned staying and eventually stayed without prior notice.

My friend(the lady) is a banker and was only informed casually by her husband while she was at work on the day of their arrival. His excuse was the mother called impromptu about the visit which I don’t think is bad anyway.

These couple stay in a three bedroom apartment and only one room has bed in it. This is the room the couple sleep.

The first two days of the mother inlaw, brother and brother’s girlfriend arrival, the couple had to sleep in the living room while the mother in law and the brother in law’s girlfriend slept in the couple’s room.

As days goes by, the husband who is self employed suggested the the rest of them will handle cooking in the house due to the wife’s tight schedule as per banking job in Lagos.

Part of the consequence of their visit is that they have overthrown the kitchen and like most ladies my friend wasn’t cool with this but tried to keep her cool.

The lady(my friend) became curious and asked the husband to clarify if the mother in law and co intends to stay with them permanently. The husband subsequently flared up with the allegations that his wife doesn’t want his people around. This happened to be the third time his wife asked this question in the space of two weeks.

One thing led to the other on the third time of asking this question my friends husband beat her up and chased her out of the house while the mother stood and watched without interfering.

Efforts to reconcile has proved abortive as the husband refused to let her in again and categorically said to my friend’s dad he isn’t interested in the marriage anymore. The mother in law refused to interfere.

PS: The hubby’s mother is a separated single mother.
PS: My friend and her hubby both contributed to pay the rent
PS: The hubby’s father is not in support of all the happenings and all efforts to reach his son proved abortive since the misunderstanding. He wouldn’t answer his dad’s calls.

What are your opinions about this issue? Thank you.



Both parties have their faults.

The Man: He didn't respect his wife's privacy.
(B) He was wrong to allow his mother & a girlfriend (not even the wife) of his brother take over their matrimonial bed.
I don't know what the relationship between his mother and his wife is. (Obviously, they are not in good terms from the story told) otherwise, it should have been his wife and his mother that will share the bedroom.
(C) He should have sought his wife opinion regarding access to the kitchen and perhaps reason it out with his wife.
(D) He foolishly allowed his mother to ruin his relationship with his wife.

The Woman: The first thing I will like to ask the woman is; if it were the other way round, how would she handle it. Some women are so intolerant of their mother-in-laws.
(B) After asking her husband twice with no response, she should have dropped the matter. She failed to understand that her husband was already under pressure with a difficult situation he was struggling to manage. The reason why he buckled up after his wife asked the third time.
She should have applied wisdom. But obviously she was more concerned about getting them out than the struggles of her husband who didn't know how to handle the situation. By her actions she just played into her mother-in-law's hand and possibly validated the fact that she didn't love her or welcome her.
(C) She didn't pray...some women would have used prayer power to send them away. Many may not subscribe to this ancient principle. I know it works especially if you do it in love, not praying for their destruction but that God will handle the situation and restore peace to her home.


My thoughts: I pity both of them. they have allowed third parties to destroy their very young marriage.
It is obvious they were not knowledgeable and allowed their emotions to get the best of them.
They don't love themselves that much. If they do, both will conspire against the 'intruders'. Lovers have this way of overcoming everything and everyone to be together. "Dem nor send anybody".

Finally, I just hope the so called girlfriend is not the new wife in a family conspiracy against the wife.

I rest my case.
May God help them.

densiks:
This outburst is a very unnecessary one from the governor.

We are in a democracy and there are legitimate means of bringing errant journalists to book if they report falsehood.

The Gov. has no patience for journalists who want to write rubbish about his state so that their palms can be greased...

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Bros, I don't have any advice to give you. But, why not celebrate your deliverance?

Covid-19: A serious threat on relationships.

As the impact of the corona virus continues otherwise known as covid-19, continues to affect our socio economic life, our relationships has also been affected in ways more than we can imagine...

Read more here.
http://raboninco.com/KHEX

valentineuwakwe:
https://punchng.com/covid-19-pay-relief-funds-to-households-through-bvn-tinubu-tells-fg/

You get sense sir! Man wey sabi!

[quote author=whizqueen post=88260129]My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today




Very reasonable and objective rejoinder.

They are throwing our citizens out of shelter but at the same time sending their doctors to come and help us in the fight against Covid-19?

Just thinking...

Even Native doctors need help.
Jesus the only help for mankind.

I'm sorry.
But Pastor Chris should be far above these baseless and unprovable conspiracy theories.[/b][/


Do you really think they are baseless?

Too sad and too bad she had to die like this. Come to think of it, she sustained the injury that led to her death while representing her country and she was abandoned. This is painful.

Viktom:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/03/apc-crisis-horse-trading-that-saved-oshiomhole/amp/

Politics is the aggregation of the interests of the ruling class not for the ruled.

It would have been wonderful if such measures as this was done every time its the other way round. But if the police have just waken up to their responsibilities, then let there be fairness in their dealings and let every Nigerian whether farmers or herdsmen be protected by the police. They should ensure that every killer be brought to justice whether farmers or herdsmen.

Awol1:
Well, Abaribe is intelligent and like the only Senator from Southeast. But I agree with Ohaneze Youth Council on this.

If any commission is established, officers of the armed forces will start lobbying for recommendation which would in turn breed a new kind of corruption all together.

Again, it tends to take control away from the president who is the chief security officer. The President should be allowed to appoint those he feels can best deliver on his security masterplan so that if they fail, we blame him for it.

What Abaribe should have put in his bill would have been to compel the President to make his security appointments in such a way that every region of the country is represented. I don't think any region of this country is in dearth of security experts.

Also, every personnel whose tenure has ended should be retired unlike this brutish exercise of presidential prerogative on our present expired service chiefs.

We can make this country work for us.

Nigeria can work.

But we must put such frameworks such that no ethnic bigot like Buhari will ever exclude any region in governance process.

Nigeria should adopt rotational democracy because of our diversity. Let's get these things enshrined in our constitution and be done with politics of survival of the fittest.

I concur

hotseat:
I'm in a secret love affair with this married woman. The issue is she's equally interested and I find her irresistible each time we meet though we haven't done the do yet. My conscience is pricking me because I know that it is not the right thing to do. I'm now fighting with my conscience because I don't know how she would react. I don't want to hurt her feelings. Should I just go ahead?

Why plannest to killeth thyself O thou son of man? What meanest thou? Can't you see she is a forbidden fruit you must not eat? Save thy self. Instead go and get your own copy now!

Dreal1247:
The Governor can never take any action of this magnitude without the approval from the President. My personal thought though.

You're on point.